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that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. Rachel Cruz, number one best-selling author, host of The Rachel Cruz Show, co-host of Smart Money Happy Hour, two big hits on the Ramsey Networks, and my daughter, she's my co-host today. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Tasha's with us in Louisville, Kentucky. Hey, Tasha, how are you? Hi, good afternoon. Thank you for taking my call. Sure, what's up?
I just had a question. I do suffer from a little financial PTSD from the past, and my husband and I have both worked through that. We do not have any credit card debt. We own our own homes. We both work. We have no car payments. Sounds like a good disease to me.
It actually is, and that's why this next part is the problem. My husband finally has got his 25 years in. He desires to work two more years before retirement, but he has started a new side job, and it has done very well. But with that, he has blown through a...
amount of our savings, and now he wants to blow into our retirement. And I don't know if I'm being selfish because of the past trauma of the credit card debt, et cetera, that we had. Okay, so I'm a little bit confused. There's two competing sentences here. He's doing extremely well.
But he's blown through a substantial part of our savings. Those two things don't go together. So is he doing well or is he blown through the savings? Which is it? He's doing both. He currently works a full-time job. I know, I heard that. But the side gig, how much savings has he used up? How much money? Well, with the FEMA equipment, about $140,000. The what equipment?
FEMA? FEMA, yes. What's he doing? Like in North Carolina, like the cleanup for the flooding disaster areas. So like North Carolina, Kentucky, those places. You could clean up flooding cheaper than $140,000 in equipment. What did he buy? $150,000.
He bought excavators, backhoes, pressure washer equipment, that sort of thing, to kind of, I guess, just to work with the damage to clear everything up. And you're in Louisville? Yes. And he's in North Carolina? No, no, no. He goes to the places that are flooded with catastrophic events, and he's done that for a couple of years. So how much money has he made since he's done really well?
About $150,000, roughly. Okay, so he's not doing really well. He's broke even. Well, with his regular job that he does. No, honey, I don't care about his regular job. When you open a business and you spend $140,000 to make $150,000, that's not doing well. Right. That's breaking even. Well, that's kind of the point that he and I have been going back and forth about. Yeah, that's approaching a hobby. And he's also...
Well, that to me is kind of how I envision it. But he's also now wanting to add to his collection of things to me that he just, like, admires. No, we're not making money.
Even if you've got $2 million in your retirement, I still would not do that. As a business owner who coaches 10,000 business owners, I tell people to add to equipment only when you're getting an ROI. He's not getting an ROI yet. He's not getting a rate of return yet. Right. How old are you guys?
He is 48 and I'm 43. And we both have federal jobs that are very good. But the side job is kind of where it's thrown everything off because we had like everything that we have paid for the side job is what we want to call it has came out of our savings. So here's the way I would do it if I were him, not you. Okay. If I were him...
If you used $140,000 of your savings to start a business, I would not buy more equipment until I put that $140,000 back in savings. Okay. And then I would pay cash for, out of the business only, any other equipment. Okay.
See, that right there is where, because we do have about $89,000 in savings, and then the two pieces of equipment that he's wanting would completely wipe that out. No, absolutely not. And I am a saver. It's not going to do with that. It's got to do with that's bad business practice. It's a bad way to run a business. How long has he had this open? When you're losing a quarter of a watermelon, you don't get a bigger truck.
He's had this open since last June. So it's been a year. So I support you wanting to be in business, honey.
And I want you to be successful in business. The definition of success in business is making money, profit. And so far you've made $10,000 profit. When you put the $140,000 back in savings, whatever money you make on this side business, if you want to put it all back into equipment, that's fine. But we're not taking any more out of savings. I'm not okay with that. Because it's bad business practice.
Okay. He's falling into the shinier thing. If I get more and more piece of equipment, I'll be able to make a profit. And no, you need to learn how to make a profit with $140,000 worth of equipment you got. When you can start making money with that, then take that money and buy some more equipment. And Tasha, I hope you're hearing this, that this is regardless, this is not you having a traumatic financial event and it's causing this angst amongst you. Like this is just kind of common sense, right? So separate the two, even if you never had any level of anxiety
like moments, nightmarish stuff with money and you always were great, this would still be stupid, right? It's not the difference in a spender and a saver. Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's not a personality thing. It's not a history thing. It's just a stupid thing. Just don't do it. How do I explain apart from it being a stupid financial decision? Well, businesses are supposed to be profitable, honey.
And when the business is profitable, meaning you put the $140,000 back in our savings, then if that business continues to make money, we can buy equipment out of the money it makes. It's called at the speed of cash. Yeah, we grow this business, a side business, at the speed that it produces cash. Not out of savings that you're dipping into retirement at your age. Because what you're doing is you're masking over the fact that this so far is a failure.
Well, the issue that I'm having with him as far as understanding that, because I do know that that is not a smart business decision to be pretty much, like you said, just making $10,000 in a year from that, is that he has worked so long. He's like, well, I have X amount in retirement. Well, we still have to be able to live after retirement. Do you want some wine with that cheese? Yes.
Exactly. Seriously, call the Wambulance. I work so hard. We all work hard. Well, we managed to pay in three years almost $91,000 in credit card debt off. That's right. That's how you're supposed to do it. Listen, I think he probably has a business that will work, but he needs to prove it. He needs to slow down. He needs to prove it. Right. You can't buy enough equipment to make something successful. You have to make it successful and then buy the equipment.
That's just bull crap. And people do this stuff all the time in business and they go broke. And it's just not wise. Please. You know, you guys got to keep having the fight. And it's not because you're damaged goods with PTSD or something. That's not the... Rachel's right about that. Rachel's dead on. This is bad business practice. Simple. Regardless of how we got to this point, it's a bad business practice.
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Mike's in Atlanta. Hey, Mike, welcome to The Ramsey Show. Hey, thank you guys for taking my call. Sure. So I'm going to be straightforward with my question. Me and my wife, we have $70,000 in debt, and I'm not so sure if we should file bankruptcy right now. How many thousand dollars in debt?
All right, $70,000. Oh, $70,000. Okay, on what? Yes, so the breakdown is $50,000 on a car repo, $10,000 in credit card, $5,000 on medical, and $5,000 in another car loan. Okay. What do you guys make? What's your household income? All right, so my household income is $72,000 yearly, and I take home pay $6,000 a month. Your wife works? Yes, me and my wife work.
Okay. What do you do? We're both bankers. You're bankers? Yes. Okay. Because you're not making much money. No, we're not at all. We're not making much money at all. So we're looking in the next few months to get a promotion so we can bump it up for at least $80,000 each. Yeah. Okay. Each? So $160,000?
Yes, in a few months from now, but we're not so sure yet. So it might take right around like about a year. Okay. Well, the good news is that I caught— Just on top of all that, we do have to replace a transmission on the car that we have right now, and it's worth $4,000 that they're charging us. Okay. Well, you're scared and you're overwhelmed.
and you're behind on bills, but you're not bankrupt mathematically, okay? Mm-hmm. Because you can settle. Number one, you're not paying anything on the car repo today, right?
No, we're not. So as a matter of fact, all these debts, it's because I recently got married with my wife, and she carried all these debts into our marriage, but I knew from the beginning. So I'm just trying to... Oh, so these are all old debts? Yes. They're all behind. That's all from her. Okay. Yeah, they're all behind. Well, old debts can be settled for pennies on the dollar. Mm-hmm. That's what I heard from you. Okay. And so, and a car repo of $50,000 probably means that's not the actual deficit that
That probably means that was the total loan on the car. Exactly. Okay, so then they sold the car for something, and the difference is what you technically owe, not the total. Okay. And then you can settle that for somewhere around a quarter on the dollar. Okay. So let's pretend that they sold that car for $20,000. Okay.
Okay. At the repo lot, because it probably was a $30,000 or $35,000 car. Does that sound right? Yes. I'm guessing, but I'm probably not that far off. So they sold it for $20,000. She owed $50,000, so now she owes $30,000. Uh-huh. You don't owe anything, because you didn't sign for this car. No, I did not. Okay. So that's where the fun comes in. This is where it gets cute. So you're going to make the phone call.
when you're ready but not now and say what's the deficit and they're going to say 30,000 and you're going to start laughing when they say that and say well you know my y'all you've got to my wife and she makes 25,000 a year you're not going to get paid dude I'm in the banking business and you're not going to get your money so I tell you what we can do though I will put some money towards this because I've married her and um you know I'll I'll give you guys 6,000 bucks
Oh. So offer them 15 cents on the dollar and plan to settle around 25 cents on the dollar. Okay. But you've got to have that money scraped together from living on nothing and piling up cash. And that's your big one, by the way. Right. That's the big one. Uh-huh. So what we're going to do is do a debt snowball but do a different kind. Normally the debt snowball is you pay minimum payments on everything but the little one in attack, the little one in that order, right? Right.
Okay, yes. But these are all bad debts, so we're not paying on them now. So we're not going to do that. Instead, we're going to list them smallest to largest, and we're going to settle the smallest one first. Or just pay it, one of the two. If you've got a little $200 medical bill, don't screw around with it. Just pay it. That's $5,000. And the cars, are you guys current on the car, Mike, the $5,000? Yes. Oh, yeah, you need to get that paid off. Yeah. Yeah, get that paid off and then start clearing those medical bills. Then clear the credit card and then call the repo people.
Okay. But the repo people aren't going to do anything. Uh-huh. They're the slowest on the planet, the dumbest on the planet. Okay. So they're not even aggressive.
They're just, you know, the credit card people are aggressive. They'll at least call you names and your mother names and other stuff. But the repo people, they're just like a slug. So unless it's one of those tote-the-note lots, and then they're super aggressive. But that's probably not what this is. So anyway, yeah, you settle it for – so here's the thing. So if we settle the car for $7,000 or $8,000, we settle the credit cards for $5,000, we pay the others. It's $20,000, and you're out of debt. Right.
Yes, and I do have to replace the transmission of the car now. That's fine. Go ahead and take care of it. Go ahead and get the car fixed, yeah. And shop around. That's not a dealer quote, is it? No, no, it's not. A good local mechanic, right? Yes, I got like a quote from like two mechanics. What kind of car is that? It was a Ford Fusion. It has 200,000 miles on it. I don't even know if it's worth it. It might not be, but don't put a new transmission in it. Put a rebuilt in it. They're half the price.
Okay. Or have them buy one from the salvage yard out of an erect Ford Fusion and put a used one in that's not even rebuilt, and that's even cheaper. You might get that for $500,000 to $1,000. Mike, do you all have any cash? Yeah, we do. I would say probably $3,000, $4,000. Yeah, I think you can get this transmission fixed for less than that. Yeah. Yeah, get a used one from a salvage yard. Get your local mechanic to put it in because this car isn't worth spending much on.
Okay. And let's get it up and running, and then you guys roll up your sleeves and take side gigs and push, push, push for these promotions. And then you just got to plow through about $20,000 of this with a system, and you take care of food, shelter, clothing, transportation, get on a budget, and the two of you are living on a budget. You're not going out to eat. You're not going on vacation. You're broke and almost bankrupt. We're not talking about those things. So we're cleaning up this mess, okay? You can do this. Mm-hmm.
I just want to be able to in the future be like you guys. I've been watching Rachel, you, Dave, and everything. It's just like down the road, like maybe 10 years from now, not living this fear and being scared all the time. You'll get there faster than 10 years, Mike. Yeah, it's 10 months. You'll do this. How long have you guys been married?
A few months? Probably, no, like four months, four to five. Okay, yeah. So you're newlyweds. You're figuring this out. So she comes in the house and opens up a suitcase full of bricks.
She was carrying the bricks around. They're dating. It wasn't a surprise. He knew they were there. He married her with the bricks. She told him they were there. Yeah. But they're heavy. They are heavy. They're still heavy. She's worth it. She's worth it. Help her clean it up. That's fine. She told the truth. You knew what you were getting into. You signed up. This is your dowry. Get after it. Yeah. And Mike, I think this is too, you know, we find with couples in general, but I think especially newlyweds, like this first season of marriage, they're,
This is a huge mountain for you guys to climb together. And what this will do from being unified going forward, like you guys are doing one of the scariest things. I mean, you called and asked if you guys were going to file for bankruptcy. Like that's how at the bottom you feel.
And you guys climbing out of this together is going to sustain something really beautiful. I mean, seriously, there's so much about suffering. And when you do that together and you kind of hit that bottom, what is planted out of that and the character qualities and what you guys will go through? It's just, it is amazing. So honestly, if there's a flip side of it, you can see this as a gift if you choose to look at it that way. And you guys go on this journey together because I think it's going to be fantastic. Yeah, I mean...
You knew all this was there. You married her and you said, this is what I want to do. You're a stud, man. You got a big backbone. You can do this. You signed up for it on purpose. And that tells me you got the stuff right there. A guy that's a wuss would have run. Yeah, and your incomes. I know you mentioned the raises. You got to get them up. You got to get them up. I mean, both of you guys making 70 together. I'm like, as bankers, you guys can do better. You can do better. So push through. And if not, then...
It's going to be side hustles at night, but that'll be worth it, you know, is to get out of this as quickly as possible. Hey, hang on. Christian's going to pick up. We're going to get you signed up for every dollar premium and get you into Financial Peace University and make sure you get those budgets going and that you follow the exact steps on pushing through this that we just outlined. And if you do that, you can get through this. I know you can. Thank you.
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Jan is in Portland, Oregon. Hey, Jan, welcome to the Ramsey Show.
Well, hello there, Jay. My question is whether or not it would be a wise move to get solar panels. And the reason that we're considering it, we've been solicited heavily in the past and currently as well, but our local utility company has recently had an 18% increase, and then it's projected to be like a 4% increase each. Okay, can you do a 100% replacement of your power? No.
No. No. What percentage can you do? 98%. Oh, you can replace 98% of your power usage with solar? Yes. Okay, so what's the break-even period on it? About seven years. No, I wouldn't do it. No, that's too long? Yes.
It's too long. So if we add more panels, it would be more expensive. Would that change anything? It would up the percentage. If you can get it to where you, whatever you're buying, whatever percentage it is that you're buying, if you can get it to break even and you pay cash for them and you can get to break even in three to five years, I would consider it. And the reason is solar panels are technology. I endorse solar panel companies in several cities. Okay.
I don't think Portland, Oregon is one of them that I remember. But the – so I'm not against solar. Don't misunderstand. But there's two things that the solar people do that are wrong that you should not do. One is they want you to finance it, and the savings is going to pay the payment for you. Well, bull crap. Don't do that, okay? That puts a lien on your house, and now you've got this stuff attached to your house. You can't sell your house. You're screwed up. No, pay cash for it or don't do it, number one. Number two, solar panels –
have been, how old are you? 70. Yeah, I'm 64. So this has been a subject that's been around for 40 years. Agreed? Yes. Yeah. And guess what? During that 40 years, the efficiency and effectiveness of the technology on the solar panels has gone way up. The solar panels of today versus the solar panels of even five years ago are like a five-year-old computer or a five-year-old cell phone.
Okay. So seven years from now, your solar panels are going to be a flip phone. Oh, okay. The technology is going to be completely outdated and performing at 10 or 20% of what the new ones are. I'm making that number up. But all technology and everything is advancing. Solar panels are technology. They're advancing.
And they're an alternative energy source, so everybody's trying to help them advance. Everybody's doing their R&D because there's tax credits everywhere. The government will give you – the state will give you money back. The federal government will give you money back, all this stuff. Everybody's trying to push this out there, and so there's all kinds of money flying around this to make them better. So they're going to get better than they are today, and they are today better than they were yesterday.
So don't buy a computer that goes, I break even on the computer in seven years. Buy a computer, you break even on it in three years. Don't buy a cell phone that you don't plan to throw away in about three years. So in the meantime, at this age, you know, we still have a pretty exorbitant utility bill. Yeah, but this doesn't solve it.
Because? Because you're paying enough money to break even in seven years. You're paying seven times as much as your utility bill today in order to install these stinking things. Oh, okay. I see. Your money's already out of your pocket times seven. Do you guys have the money for it, Jan, if you wanted to? Could you write a check for it?
Yes. Okay. Good. Okay. So, yeah, I would keep working with the different companies until they look at it, and maybe your electricity has to go up even further before it makes sense, or the solar panel's got to increase in efficiency before it makes sense. But there might be a 50% percent or a 68% percentage that breaks even in three to five years. I would do that in your case. Oh, okay.
Okay, but in the meantime, just kind of put up and shut up with these increases. Well, there's nothing you can do about them. And we're super frugal. I mean, we're not wasteful with our utility. No, which makes you super mad at these people for doing this. Kind of, yeah.
And it's kind of like one of those things, okay, well, I'll show them. I'll just get solar panels, you know, but evidently maybe that's not. Well, you know, I don't want to show them by cutting off my finger. You know, no, that's. No, no. No, that's not. No. Yeah, so maybe you price things around, Jan. I mean, honestly, and if you can get the numbers to work with a company to that five-year break even. Or maybe they come down on their price because they're paying cash up front. Yeah. Yeah.
Oh, well, that's a good idea for because, yeah, we have we've gotten lots of bids and we did decide to go to with a company that. Oh, they're very enthusiastic in their sales.
Sure, yes. And most of them want you to finance because I think that's where they make the money, but we weren't interested in it. But it still sounds like we either, if it did increase the production, that still is not really a positive. I don't care what the number is as long as you get your money back in three to five years.
Yeah. Okay. And Jan, with your utilities raising year after year, it may fast forward that. You know, if you look up and you guys are paying a ton for utilities more and more, that increase can show back into that three to five year timeline too. Oh, I see. Because... If they go up 18% next year, it's going to make it faster. Okay. Faster in... I'm sorry. I'm not trying to be dense. You're not. Explain that.
You're doing good. You did great. Well, in order to get to the three to five year break even, making sure that, yeah, you get your investments worth. That means if your utilities continue to raise year after year, they're more expensive, which means if the solar panels stay at the same price,
then it's going to offset it sooner. Exactly. I don't know if I'm saying that right. Your break-even analysis changes. It's not a linear math problem. It's a math problem on a curve. Yeah. And it just changes it. Absolutely. You're right. It's a good question, though. Yeah, that's a great question. And I'm proud of you for doing cash because that is one thing. We will get people that have solar panels to their homes and it's a loan. And they're stuck. And it's this whole thing, yes, when they're trying to sell, which is so frustrating. And they're stuck.
There we go. All right. Open phones at 888-825-5225. Cameron is in Dallas. Hey, Cameron, how are you?
I am better than I deserve. Dave, thank you, Dave and Rachel for taking my call. Sure. Well, my wife and I, we've been dreaming about upgrading our home for something a little bigger, maybe a little more functional. And here's my question. Would it be stupid for us to tap into the Roth principle that we've contributed over several years to buy a better house in cash without the burden of another mortgage so that we can keep enjoying that baby step seven freedom that you're always talking about?
The other way is not by the house. Yeah, that's true, too. That's true. You've got options here. That's true. No, I wouldn't cash out my Roth. The Roth's growing tax-free. You don't have anything else on the planet doing that. No. That's true. No, I don't want to lose the power of that thing. That's going to be so much stinking tax-free money in a few years, and you're not 59 1⁄2, right? No, no, no. I'm 36. I thought so. Yeah, okay. What's your household income?
$71,000. Okay. And what's the move up going to cost? I've got a paid off house that's $250,000 and we'd be looking to move into a $450,000. Okay. So you need $200,000. How much do you have non-roth to put towards that? $2,000.
Well, I'd sell the house for $250,000. No, I'm saying you need the other $200,000. My mother was recently widowed, and she wants to move in with us. She'd be bringing $100,000, and if I pulled out my principal from my Roth, that'd be another $100,000. Okay. And I'm assuming she does not have $200,000. No, no, no, no. She was recently foreclosed on. She won't be buying anything anytime soon. Well, you could go to $350,000.
Yeah, yeah. I can't tell you to do that. I wouldn't do it. And I don't tell people to do stuff I wouldn't do. I get the time-sensitive pressure now. Mom's homeless and has $100,000. And that's different than I want to wait three years. Waiting three years, she's got a problem. And if your wife wants her to move in...
And you want her to move in. She takes her $100K in rents for six months to a year, and you guys build up more savings. You know? I mean... Yeah. I'm not going to tell you to cash out a Roth, because I personally wouldn't do it. I would either not move, or I would find some other way to skin the cat.
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Yeah, these are great weekends. We actually have a couple in the lobby. They've been to three. They're our Money and Marriage alums. It's an event that so many people repeat. We end up selling like 60% of it at the event for the next event because people always want to come back. So Dr. John Deloney and myself, and we have fun, y'all. It's a fun weekend. You guys are – it's like stand-up comedy almost in there. It's that. And we get real. We cut down to it, like to the real stuff. And so it's not your typical marriage conference. I'll say that much.
It's good. Not with you two. Samantha's in Fort Worth. Hey, Samantha. Hi. Hi. How can we help? I was laid off from my job yesterday. Oh, Samantha. I'm sorry. What were you making? I'm sorry. What were you making? $70,000. Man. What happened? $70,000.
You're so upset. They had a massive lay-in. A massive lay-in. I was there 12 years. A massive lay-in. Oh, my gosh. No warning, huh? No warning. What severance did they offer you? I want to hug you. What severance did they offer you? I'm getting about $40,000. Awesome! What were you doing? I was a billing specialist. Cool! Cool!
Dave's trying to cheer you up. No, this is the truth. Listen. Hey, listen. Here's what happens, okay? Once you get through crying, and crying's normal. I don't blame you for that. It's scary. Okay? But once you get through crying, go get you a $70,000 job by Friday, and this nets you $40,000. You get a signing bonus, kid. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Hey, man, listen. There are people all over Fort Worth, Texas, looking for help right now.
What industry was it in, Samantha? She was a billing specialist. Well, billing, but like for what? Energy. Okay. You could do billing in anything, huh? Once you know how to do it, you know how to do it, right? Yes. Samantha, I'm curious, are your tears, is it from, are you scared? Are you hurt? Where's the main emotion coming from?
I'm really hurt. I'm hurt, but then also, too, I was in school, and I was due to graduate with my business administration degree in December of 2026. So now they were paying for it. So now I don't have the money to finish school. Oh, they were paying. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. We're not done. Okay? I'm sorry, one more time? What happens when you get a job making $90,000, you put $40,000 in your pocket, and the new job pays for your education? Okay.
Then I'd be very happy. Yeah, me too. And appreciative. Me too. See, this is what's going to happen. All right. So we don't have to assume that you're not going back to school. Let's assume you are continuing school. Let's assume the next place is paying for it. And the next place is paying you more than you used to make. And you're going to put this 40K severance in your pocket. I think this is a net net positive.
You just hadn't found that place yet, but you hadn't started looking yet because you're still pissed off and hurt and crying. And I don't blame you. It takes a minute to get over that. That's okay. But you get about 48 hours of that, and then let's go find a job. Okay. You can do this. You can do this. Yeah. Listen, that company does not have a soul. Their letting you go had nothing to do with you. You're not worth less than you were six weeks ago. You're worth more than you were six weeks ago, $40,000 more.
You follow me? Yes. They were paying you $70,000, and they're a horrible company. That tells me that someone else will probably pay you more because good companies don't treat people like this and piss on them. Yeah, and sometimes, Samantha, we do find that if you're in something for so long—
that you have no idea what else is out there. And so you may, your new position, your new job, it may be, it's going to feel new, which change is always a little scary, right? You're going to have to learn some new stuff here or there. Like I get that. That can be uncomfortable, but it actually could be so much better. So much of a better even environment, the people, all of it, like the whole thing could be an upgrade. What were you, why were you getting your business, your BA degree, your business administration degree? What were you wanting to do?
So my plan was just to use it to try to get into, honestly, I wanted to get into the accounting department. Oh, so you want to go into accounting. Well, this is a good time. You've almost completed your business administration degree. That makes you qualified to move into the accounting department at the next place and make $80,000.
And tell them you want to, and part of the negotiation is they need to pay for you to finish your degree. Most places have some kind of education supplement nowadays, if they're of any size. Okay. We pay for people to go to class at Ramsey, because it turns out we like smart people around here, and the ones that go to class, you know, it makes them smarter, so hello. Are you married, Samantha? No, I'm single. Okay. Okay. Do you have any money saved? Well, I have a phone. I have just the $6,000.
Is that your fully funded emergency fund? No, I was working on it. That's the thing. Okay, but you're debt free? You're debt free and you got $6,000 and they're sending you $40,000 more. Correct. This is so awesome. I bought my mortgage. This is so awesome. You're going to look back a year from now and go, the best thing that ever happened to me in my life is when those twerps fired me. I'm dead serious, girl. But you need to get your head around that idea instead of like the world's going to fall apart because these twerps fired me.
Because the world's not going to fall apart unless you deem it. Because you have upside potential here. This is God saying, I wanted you to move into accounting faster than you were going to anyway. And now you got kicked out of the nest, so fly, little eagle. That feel good? You can do this.
It does. I just needed to hear it. If you weren't scared, you wouldn't be normal. But scared's not a bad thing. And you're valuable out in the marketplace, Samantha. What you were making and 12 years somewhere. Yeah. So you have the experience, all of it. You're going to be fine. You're going to be fine. If you were...
and you work somewhere for six months and you're like, all right, we got to start over, right? That feels a little different. You might be a barista then, but not now. Yeah, you're established. You're good, Samantha. And this gives you so much buffer. And you've put yourself in a position where you have no payments, but your mortgage is
So you're good. It's not like you have a $700 car payment and credit cards and student loans and all of that that could eat into that 40. You have buffer. You have time. You are good. You are good. The fear comes from a couple of things. One is you have to reset, reframe your mind and say, I'm going this is going to turn out good.
And the fear comes from the sudden surprise and the chance that it might not turn out good. It's like rejection. Yeah. Yeah. The suddenness of this is what is part of what got you. You know, you've had no time to process it. So I'm not picking on you for being upset, but I am telling you, you got 48 hours of this crying stuff and then it's time to get with it.
Suck it up, girl. No, I'm serious. You need to go. You need to go. Listen, I'm telling you, fly, little eagle. Fly. Fly, girl. Go get you 80,000 bucks and you call me back laughing.
I want to hear from you, okay? We're going to give you Ken Coleman's stuff. Find the work you were wired to do. Take that assessment and make sure you're on track with this thing. And I'm going to send you his book, Paycheck to Purpose. And I'm going to send you his book, Proximity Principle. And I want you to go to KenColeman.com and download all of those job search ideas and how to put together a resume and how to work the proximity principle and go get you a job. And I want you neck deep.
eight hours a day pounding the pavement not just filling out applications but running down leads and going and getting a job by monday monday say monday dave monday dave you got this you got this i know you can do it i'm not blaming you for being scared and i'm not blaming you for being mad i would be both if i were you right now but the faster you get the other side of this the more of this money you get to put in your pocket yeah that's true and the more this turns into a positive story
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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. Rachel Cruz, number one best-selling author, Ramsey personality, co-host of the Smart Money Happy Hour, and my daughter is my co-host today. Mackenzie is in Chicago. Hi, Mackenzie. Welcome to the Ramsey Show. Hi, Gary.
What's up? Well, I'm calling because I'm kind of in a unique situation. My husband and I have been married for two years. We're both college graduates. We are currently, I want to say, about $40,000 in debt. I apologize. I don't have exact numbers because of the situation we're in. Hey, Mackenzie, are you on speakerphone?
No, ma'am. Okay. Speak directly into your phone then as you're breaking up. I'm sorry. Yeah. No, I'm speaking right into my phone. Can you hear me? Yes. Okay. Thank you. Okay. Well, the situation is I've been trying to broach the subject of our finances with my husband. Yeah.
Oh my gosh.
Yeah. I am currently trying to find a job, but I suffer from seizures. I need a cane. I'm 43 years old, but I need a cane to get around, and it's hard. So my husband does work full-time, and I'm filing for disability to try and help offset the bills. But...
Since I do not work, my husband has kind of taken full control of our finances. I'm unaware of where our money goes, and the one thing I know is we're working through baby step two. We have our $1,000 emergency budget. Mackenzie, with the car accident, was there a brain injury? Yes, sir. Okay. Okay.
So he's taking full control as a service to you because you're not as able to do this? Is that what you're saying? I have the mental capacity to understand our budget and finances. What's the nature of the brain injury then? It causes seizures. Oh, that's it.
Yes. It causes seizures. I do have a subtle intellectual deficit, but I did graduate after I was able to hold a job and do, um, uh,
Sorry, I have some intellectual deficits, but it's not so bad that I don't know what's going on. I'm coherent. Okay. Obviously, we're having a conversation. We knew you were coherent. But I was trying to figure out the motivation of him taking full control of the finances.
Actually, it's because he's the only one making money. I have a side business. I work at a farmer's market every weekend, and that brings in some money, but it's not a lot. Gotcha. So what is the way we can serve you today, hon?
Well, I'm trying to broach the subject. During the car accident, I was off a lot of medical bills. I paid off a lot of them, but about six months ago, my husband stopped paying for any and all of my debts completely.
He is only paying off his debts. And I'm trying to broach that conversation. But whenever I try to, it's a, well, we don't have enough money. And...
I don't know. I just, I'm concerned. I want some advice of, like, I don't understand why he's not wanting to pay my debt.
Okay, how much is your medical debt? Okay. And are the student loans his?
They're both of ours. I have $10,000. He has $15,000. And he's working on his $15,000 is what you're saying with money that he's making? Yes. And the car payment that came, he got the car before we were married. Okay. So I'm confused. So when you say, why are you paying yours instead of mine since we're both married, what does he say? Well, it's like we don't have enough money. You have enough money. It's just a matter of what the order is.
Yeah. You don't have enough money to pay all of them. You've only got enough money to pay a few, but instead of... Why is he paying his instead of yours? That's what I'm trying to figure out. No, he's not. There's something else going on. And, um...
I mean, you're due an answer to that question. There's nothing wrong with you asking that question. I'm asking that question. If I were in your shoes, I would want to know why. Because it sounds like he's planning an exit to me. That's what it sounds like to me, too. And that's where I'm really scared. Because I'll be truthful. If I try to be as little of...
No, that isn't how this marriage thing works. It's for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, and that includes car accidents. So it's not my wife needs to be less of a burden to me, to be worthy to be married to me. That's bull crap. Thank you. Okay.
But the reason I'm saying this is because the only... Besides the medical bills, the only expense I have is I'm currently going through service dog trip school. And I'm... We're trying to pay that off. And thankfully, it's not that much. We're subsidized with some grants and stuff. But if I don't get... If we don't pay this off, it's not like we're... It's not exactly a debt. It's more...
Yeah, honey, I think you have a marriage problem, okay? Yeah. And I think the two of you need to sit down with a marriage counselor. Okay. Because I can't tell what's going on between the traumatic brain injury, the other issues, the seizures, the other things issued with the car wreck, and then his behavior is...
In the context that the information that you've got, that you brought to us, we can't understand why he's doing this. I don't see a logical reason for it. There may be an explanation, but I don't know what it is. And I think it's fair with what all you've been through. And even if you hadn't been through that, it's fair for you to get an answer to the question. Well, yeah, for sure. Especially if you guys were dealing with money one way.
Sounds like this accident happened and stuff started shuffling and then suddenly he's kind of turned the course. So that's what I would want to get to the bottom of, Mackenzie. I think I want to go see a marriage counselor. Yeah. And if he won't go, go without him. And I think you need to get some advice that's more in-depth than a couple of goobs on the radio. Yeah.
And so that's, you know, because I think I can't tell what's going on here for sure. I don't like the signals. I can tell you that. And I don't like I don't like the information I have, but I can't tell what's going on. And.
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Wow. What happened? What's she facing?
Yeah, well, we don't really know yet. This is our second baby. We had her in April, and she's just had a good number of health issues since birth. So we're doing genetic testing, neurology, the whole nine yards, and we've been barely managing with our HSA, but that's depleted now.
and we were in the ER two times this last week, so that has wiped out our emergency fund. No, no, no, no, no, no. If you have an HSA, ER is 100% covered. Oh, then maybe it's the FSA, whatever money. So you have health insurance, right? Yes. Most health insurance 100% covers emergency rent.
Oh, this was not covered. Why? I have no idea, but we paid $1,500 for the two visits, and we just put it on a credit card. Why? You submitted your...
Your insurance at the front, when you walked into the ER and they didn't accept it? Yes. No, they accepted it. We have a high deductible health care plan, so we haven't met our deductible for the year. You haven't hit it yet. Yeah, but ER is usually not involved in the deductible. It's usually 100%.
Well, we saw the pay. The registration came around, and they collected our money. Okay. You need to get on the insurance side of this, and that's because you've got – it sounds like you've got an ongoing process here, that this is going to be a – A road to walk. Yeah, you've got a journey ahead of you. Agreed? Agreed. Yeah, and so you're probably going to burn through deductible, and you're going to become an expert on what insurance covers.
Yeah. And that means you're not going to be shelling out $1,500 every 30 minutes here. So because insurance is going to, once you burn through your deductible and you hit your stop loss, 100% of it's going to be covered. Okay. That sounds good. Our deductible is $14,000. Okay. And so we have about $10,000 to hit that. What's your stop loss?
I'm not too sure what that means. Okay, what that means is after you, and while you're hitting your deductible, what is the co-pay, 80-20? Yeah, 80-20. Okay, the 20 coming out of your pocket will only go so far, and after that, they cover 100%. That's what stop loss is. Okay. Maximum out of pocket is what stop loss is.
Okay. And so you need to find out what your max out-of-pocket is. So right now we know you've got $10,000 more. That's for sure. And then you've got some more on copay beyond that. That's for sure. And I think you need to go back and revisit with your HR people and find out, or whoever's managing this health insurance, why an ER stay was not covered 100% because they almost always are.
Okay.
versus the people that actually fight it and stay on top of it because there usually is money laying there. And again, if they screw it up and bill you wrong, most people don't have the perseverance to stay with it, to be calling the insurance and bugging them. So really press into that and really, really get an answer because it could save you guys a lot for sure. What I'm trying to help with is this. Here's the visual. You've got this health challenges with a tiny baby.
And so that just puts your heart in a blender every day. Yes. And it feels like, number two, that there's no end to the checks I'm going to write because of my love for this little baby, that these checks are going to be a million dollars before I'm through. The first one is true. The baby has health challenges, and that puts your heart in a blender.
Everybody who's got babies who's ever had one sick knows how you feel. Not exactly how you feel, but we've all had our breath taken away, and you get your breath taken away about every 45 minutes right now. Okay? Yeah. But that one is true. The second one, that this is going to bankrupt you and you're going to be a million dollars in debt, is not true.
And so what I want to do is get these. You have two burdens on you, both of which are overwhelming. I want to take the second one and quantify it and get it off of you. Here's what it's going to sound like. You're going to call them and deal with the ER thing. Like I've told you three times already because I'm a little pissed right now about this. OK, number two, not at you, but at them. OK, number two, you're going to quantify what your out of pocket is on the deductible side.
Number three, you're going to learn your copay after the deductible is met probably is 80-20. Most of the time it is. Okay? Because you're in a high deductible HSA plan. The other thing, when you have a high deductible like this, usually you have a low stop loss or maximum out-of-pocket number. I'm going to guess...
I'm guessing, based on my expertise and having seen a thousand of these things, that your maximum out-of-pocket is probably $20,000, including the deductible. Okay. Okay? It might be $30,000. It's not $100,000. Yeah. Okay? So you are not facing a million. You're facing $20,000, maybe $30,000. Okay.
And that's nothing compared to number one, which is dealing with the baby. Yeah, yeah. So I want to relieve you of the financial stress that's added to this so you can focus your emotional energy in the right place and your prayers in the right place, which is on the baby. But you've got to do business well, as Rachel said, with this insurance company and make sure they're paying every stinking dime. Mm-hmm.
Okay, definitely. I haven't even, I mean, we just got back last night from the latest AR visit. Well, it's easy to assume that the medical bills are going to be endless and they're going to be a million dollars in bankruptcies. Yeah. It's easy to assume, and they're simply not. Okay. They're simply not. Am I pausing baby steps now? Yes, everything. Okay. You're in the middle of a storm. Pause everything. Pile up cash. Okay. Yeah, take care of baby, take care of you.
Okay. I need $20,000 or $30,000. And they're putting it on a credit card right now. Would you just have a medical bill, though? Have them bill you. Yeah, I wouldn't do the credit card because I just think of the high interest rate and dealing with credit card companies. I'd rather just have the... Yeah, have them bill you. They didn't give you that option. They didn't give you that option. How do you want to pay for this? Yeah. We just said, okay, here's the card. How I want to pay for it is you're going to bill me because I just gave you the insurance card. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. Okay.
Okay. Wow. But it's okay. And if you can't do that, get your boss in here. And if he can't do it, get his boss in here. Dave's about to fly to Phoenix. I'm serious, Mama Bear. Go in there. I'm serious, Mama Bear. They're messing with your baby here. Go for the throat. Yeah. This is bull crap. These people start treating your baby like it's a dadgum widget on the end of a conveyor belt. And this medical industry versus the medical arts is driving me nuts.
So how quick can we manage you and get you out of here? Kiss my butt. Take care of this kid and send me a bill. This is crazy. I'm serious. This is the world you're getting ready to live in. You're a patient advocate now. And that means you are demanding service from a medical profession that's forgotten how to give it.
Yeah. I'll find my voice. I have it. Yeah, there you go. That's the one I'm looking for. That's the one I'm looking for. And what I'm trying to do is get the burden off of you of the worry of a million dollars along with the worry of we may have five years of surgeries. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So here's the thing. We've had at Ramsey on our plan, we've had kids that spent a million dollars worth of stay in NICU and the plan paid it.
And it's a standard insurance plan. It's not because Ramsey's some kind of angel or something. It's just a dadgum insurance policy. And the insurance policy wrote the check.
And it's happened more than once. I got a young crew around here. We have a lot of babies. 67 born in one year. Oh, man, I'm so sorry, though. That's just, oh, from mom to mom, that just is so scary. So scary. But you guys have this. You really do. You're going to be okay. You call us back. We'll fight with you. We love you. We'll help you any way we can.
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My husband and I have been married for 21 years, and we had weathered financial struggles, including a past bankruptcy. I had a solid nursing career that allowed him to pursue real estate full time. And in 2021, we had a strong year. We owed $82,000 in taxes for the year, and the money was available in his business account. I trusted him to handle everything, but I recently discovered he never paid the IRS.
Instead, he used the money on business expenses in a failed side venture without telling me. Our CPA tried contacting him for months and eventually filed our taxes without signatures in early 2023 to avoid penalties. My husband also hid IRS notices from me. I found out recently when I signed for a certificate letter stating that the IRS intends to levy our home for $150,000. I feel blindsided and betrayed. My question is,
Should I buy him out using a second mortgage to cover the IRS or sell the home and walk away? Gosh, Alice. Buy him. Oh, she's divorcing him. I don't know why you would buy him out. Buy him out. Buy him out means you're divorcing. I guess. I don't know what that means. You don't buy out somebody you're married to. Bail him out. Do I bail him out? Maybe just pay for it. I don't know. You can bail out your husband. Do you use a second mortgage or do you sell the house?
Is that all the penalties? But $82,000, and I'm confused, but they filed, the CPA filed their taxes without signatures? Yeah, that's weird. That's illegal. Okay. That's a good way for the CPA to end up in jail. Let's see. I mean, almost all filings are done electronically, but the CPA that one of ours does it requires us to sign a document allowing him to file it electronically, even though I'm not technically filing the tax return.
Okay, I can't tell what's going on. This is a bunch of gobbledygook. What I can tell is that if you have an $82,000 tax bill for one year, that means you made $400,000 or $300,000. So if you're staying together and you're going to marriage counseling to try to regain trust and stop this ridiculous behavior of deception,
If you're going to do that, then you've got this household income, your nursing plus his 300K that he didn't pay taxes on if he makes 300K next year and doesn't blow it all in a side venture and we have a game plan, we could clean this up real quick. That's, I guess, one direction. The other direction is you're getting a divorce and you're selling the house. Yeah. No, I would not bail him out. I would bail us out if we are staying together.
But if we choose to, you know, no, I'm not going to leave you with a an unreliable, unresponsive ex-husband to pay off his taxes as she said we owed. So I'm wondering if it's part of hers. She's nursing. They're withholding on her. We don't know what's going on here. I'm going to guess and say this is all the whole tax bills regarding him.
And so the lien on your house is regarding him. So you need to do two things. Number one, if you're seeking a divorce, you're probably going to be selling the house. Number two, you're not responsible for the taxes in the event you get a divorce. You would file under what's called the innocent spouse provision, which is you didn't, you were not aware of these taxes. You are not aware of the business activities that created these taxes. And so the IRS does not hold you liable, even if it was married filing jointly.
And so it's called the innocent spouse provision, and you would need a tax attorney or a great CPA that knows how to work that. And that removes the IRS from you. Now, if it is a lien on a house that has both of your names on it and the house is sold, they can only take the $150 out of his portion then if they have approved you for innocent spouse provision, and they should. It sounds like you qualify for that.
So but all of this only works only happens if you're divorcing. If you're staying together in violence and spouse provision to keep them from coming after your income, which would probably be a good idea. But then the two of you have got to reestablish some footing on trust and betrayal and lies and deception and then put all of our income in one pile to clean up the mess that he made.
and that would include the $150,000 lien being removed from the house. Very few times does the IRS get around. It takes them about five years to actually sell a house, to force the sale of the house. Very unusual for them to do that quickly. They'll pop a lien on there in a heartbeat, but to actually force the sale of the house to satisfy the tax lien, it takes them forever, and they're just not very competent.
At that at that part, that level of collections, they'll get there eventually if you do nothing. And by the way, they'll turn the hundred and fifty into four hundred before they get there in penalties and interest. So you stay together, get it cleaned up as quickly as possible. If you're not if you're not staying together, see a CPA about innocent spouse provision. Talk to your attorney, your divorce attorney about that. And then we're selling the house.
And you're going to get your portion of the house clear. His portion has $150,000 lien on it. I don't know how much value there is in this house. We don't have enough information. What a mess. Sorry, Alice. So it pops into my head that Tom Stanley, who wrote the book Millionaire Next Door in 1992, he's passed away in a car wreck.
But he was an inspiration to a lot of us in this space, showing that people become millionaires starting from nothing. We followed up with that 40 years later with a or 30 years later with the Ramsey study of millionaires, the largest study. We studied 10 times more people than he did.
mainly not because we didn't like his study, but just because we wanted to. It was a PR stunt because people criticized the size of his study. So we ended up studying 10,167 millionaires and where money comes from. He wrote another book later called The Millionaire Mind where he studied billionaires. And he found 39 correlating people.
statistics or correlating life demographics and character qualities and so forth among these billionaires that he studied. And then he ranked them in order of most occurring among the study group to least occurring among the study group. The number one occurring thing among the billionaires that he studied, they were all self-made, meaning they started with nothing and became billionaires, thousand million. This is way more than a million. Thousand million is a billion. Okay.
Number one correlating the most occurring item, value, whatever, inside of this study was they had fanatical levels of integrity. There is a high correlation between fanatical levels of integrity and the ability to build wealth. That's the point of that story. That would be the other end of the spectrum from the man in this email. Mm-hmm.
lying to his wife, trying to get out of taxes. Yeah. Yeah. And not returning the CPA's call, all these kinds of things, whatever. And so duck and hide, lay in the ditch, duck into the shadows, try to move the shell, hope the P won't be there next time, run the scheme, run the scam, trying to find a shortcut, trying to find a get-rich-quick thing. I'm making good money in real estate, but I still got a side hustle that's screwing up. I find some way to burn money.
That's the opposite end of the number one most occurring thing called integrity. So until he, the good news is integrity is a decision. He can just decide to be a man of integrity starting today. But if he doesn't, you've got issues, sister. You've got issues. Yeah, you're trying to drag a tired donkey across the finish line.
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Hey, Dave. Hey, Rachel. How are y'all doing today? I'm doing pretty well. Can't complain. Cool. How can we help? So I wanted to get your guys' opinion on bonds. I'm just starting to... I feel like I've just dipped my toe into stocks and things like that. But I've looked into oil and gas bonds, and I don't know if that's a good route. I have about...
$500 in my HSA that I want to use to invest in that. I have more money to invest, but I'm just asking specifically, I guess, about that and then any other advice you have on just stocks and trading in general. Okay. I don't buy bonds. The bond market in general is almost as volatile as the stock market and doesn't return as well.
So it's pitched in the financial world as being safer than the stock market, but the actual data says it's not much safer. The volatility in the bond market comes from shifting interest rates, and so I have avoided bonds. I don't own a single bond, and I've got millions of dollars in the market. I don't own any single stocks because I don't like risk. I own mutual funds.
A mutual fund is 90 to 200 different stocks. My HSA is in mutual funds because I've never actually used it. I bought the HSA the very first year that George W. Bush put that program out, and I filled it completely full every year ever since, and I've never touched it. Whatever medical we've had has been very minor, and I've just paid it out of my pocket, and that basically has become a yet another retirement account that is growing tax-free.
for medical use and above 65, which will happen in September, I can pull it out with only paying taxes on it, no penalties, as if it were a retirement account. So I'm going to continue to fund that, and I'm not even going to pull it out at 65. But anyway, so all of that to say, I invest in mutual funds. So if I put...
I don't know, $100,000 into the market, 0% in single stocks, 0% in bonds, 100% in a type of growth stock mutual fund of some kind or another. And that's going to be 90 to 200 stocks in there. And so I've not bet. The volatility from single stocks comes from the lack of diversification.
Meaning that if you put $100,000 in one company, whatever that company does causes you to take your breath away, positively or negatively. And so it's a lot more risk. But if you're instead of being in one company, you're in two, then if one company goes crazy, the other one's sitting there, you got less risk. If you're in 200...
You've way limited the risk, and the only risk you're riding is just the risk of the general stock market as a whole then and not simply betting the farm on one particular company based on your golfing buddy's hunch, which is how most people play single stocks. And so I don't trade stocks on a daily basis. I don't trade mutual funds on a daily basis. I have the buy and hold tortoise.
Yeah, and I think that's the hard message for...
I want to say maybe the younger you are, the harder it is to be like, okay, this isn't exciting. You know what I mean? Like there's crypto, there's all these things happening and it's like, Ooh, I could make a return there and do this thing. There's like this like game to it. And when there's not really a temptation to be a player. Yeah. Well, when there's not a game to it and you just kind of just keep investing and that's it. Like there's just not that much excitement around it. Usually you're going to end up. If you're investing, you're doing it wrong.
And it's kind of depressing. I mean, seriously, it is a little bit like... Yeah, if your broke friends are impressed with your investing, you're probably doing it wrong. Yeah. Because it's always some broke guy that runs up to me and goes, I know this guy that put $10 million in Bitcoin. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, I bet you do. I bet you don't, too. I bet you're full of crap. And seriously, people just come up with this stuff. They pull it out of their ear, people that aren't really doing it. Well, and...
There are so many trends and so many things that kind of come and go. And so it is the longevity of what you're putting your money into as well, which means it's been around for so long that no one really talks about it because it's that boring. It's not new and exciting. Don't you wish you bought a single family house on East Ridge Drive in Antioch, Texas?
Tennessee, a suburb of Nashville in 1978 that I sold a guy when I was 18 years old, got my real estate license. I sold one of my high school buddies a house for $42,250. This is why we hate the boomers. Do you know what that house is worth now? This is why we're so mad at y'all. You know what that house is worth right now? Yeah. Don't you wish. But see, that's what you want to... That's who you want to be. No one ever told you that this was going to be...
You know, that you're going to make a million dollars in 20 minutes. But in 40 years, you did make a million dollars because that's what that house is worth now. Yeah. Yeah. So by the way, it's an old house now.
So it's a really old house. It's still worth a lot, though. It's an antique. But, yeah. But, I mean, that's just a cute little brick house. Nothing fancy. Okay. So for Joseph, so you're saying mutual funds. But something else that I feel like people are talking more and more about is like Vanguard index funds, like more the S&P and all of that, too. That's been talked about for a while. Vanguard was started by John Bogle.
Because he discovered that some 60% of the mutual funds do not outperform the Standard & Poor's Index. And he said, if I just put it in the index, I beat six out of ten times. I beat the average mutual fund out there.
And people that follow that, that is literally passive investing. People that follow that, we call them bogleheads. They call themselves bogleheads. And he started Vanguard, the whole Vanguard company on that basis. And it's very successful. And I invest in the S&P some. I park money there like when I'm piling up cash to get ready to do the next real estate deal. When I make some money at Ramsey and I'm just putting it somewhere for a year or whatever until I get enough to do the next deal.
And I'll park it over there. But in my retirement accounts, I can find mutual funds that outperform the S&P. And I have consistently for 30 years outperformed the S&P. And it's really not rocket science. But there's only 40% of them. So you just got to look and go, does this thing outperform the S&P? It's right there in the dead gum prospectus. It shows up on the website. It shows up when you're sitting with your financial advisor. And that's within your HSA, 401k, Roth, like all the...
All the just standard retirement investing. So, Joseph, 15% of your income, be putting in all of that. And then if you max all that out one day because you have a high income, then, you know, there's other things. It's the shortest distance to a million dollars. It's the shortest distance to wealthy.
It's not bonds. It's not single stocks. It's not day trading. It's not crypto. There's no data that says it is. The only data says 401k, Roth IRA, loaded with good growth stock mutual funds, and get your house paid off. That's what all the wealth building data says for the first $1 to $5 million worth of net worth.
And the people that have one to ten million dollar net worth that we studied in the millionaire study, that's what we found over and over and over again. We did not find them playing trends. We did not find them playing fads. They were not gold bugs. They were not Bitcoin boys, Bitcoin bros. They were not any of that. They were just like they're the tortoise, the boring, steady tortoise.
Every month the money comes out of my check into the 401k and I got a match. And then they call us at 58 and they're like, well, we're looking to retire. How much is in the 401k? And we're like, $800,492. You know what I mean? And then our Roth has this and you're like, holy crap. There you are. Well done. And they call the show every day and every weekend they have for 30 years.
So that's the end of that speech, Joseph. Thanks for letting me step up onto the old Apple box and just give it a yell. This is The Ramsey Show. Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work,
that they love and create actual amazing relationships. Open phones here at 888-825-5225. Donovan is with us in West Palm Beach, Florida. Hi, Donovan. How are you? I'm doing well. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up?
Hey, so I really appreciate you guys taking my call. And I am calling because I am currently 22. I just turned 22 and I have a real estate business that from the time I started in about three and a half years ago was doing really well. We were bringing in lots of money and everything was going great up until about this year.
where revenue dropped off significantly. Wait a minute. What kind of real estate business? You're a real estate broker? No, residential investment, like fix and flip. You fix and flip, and you're 22 years old. And your revenues have been going up consistently for three and a half years. Well, until this year. Okay. Why did they slow down this year?
So where I am, the market really slowed down a lot and we were going from bringing in about a million to a million three every month from all the deals to now bringing in like three to four hundred thousand per month. And I'm struggling to keep up with paying all the expenses like servicing the loans, paying the team, paying the
the subcontractors that are doing work on the house. Thankfully, I've never missed payroll or anything like that. And I've never been late on my loans. However, I definitely feel the struggle. And in a few more months of this, you know, the reserves are going to be completely wiped out. This is like Dave 30 years ago. I feel like you just described a little bit what you used to do. That's why I actually called you guys because I heard Dave went through a similar situation. So you own how much real estate?
So right now, I did the math yesterday, just over $15 million. And it's all for sale? It's not all for sale. Some properties are still under renovations, but some are for sale already. Okay, $15 million in property doesn't generate $100 million or doesn't generate a million dollars profit a month.
Yes, but we did about 80 houses last year, and that's not in just straight revenue from selling the houses. That's just gross what we brought in, what comes into the bank account. So that's not profit, that's gross. Correct. So you're just churning money. Yes, correct. So $12 million in total churn.
Yes, the houses are taking much longer to sell. The budgets are getting overspent. What's your baseline overhead running you a month?
So as far as overhead, like paying my office staff and marketing and everything, we're about $50,000 to $60,000 a month depending on the month. However, with paying all the subcontractors and servicing the loans I have on the property, we're about $650,000. Yeah, you've discovered the downside of debt in doing this. Yeah, I can picture it.
Hmm. Well, you're going to do two things to survive because you're also not as profitable as you thought you were. Once you started actually net, net, net actual taxable income for all these dollars that you're spending is not, it's not been worth it because you're leveraged to your freaking eyeballs. So, um, yeah. Are you married? Uh, no. Good. Okay. Um,
Well, I mean, there's three levers to pull to survive. One is you get your volume moving again. And no kidding, you already knew that. And two is you start dropping some prices on these properties to move them quickly to increase the velocity of the turn because your turn velocity is what's killing you.
And so and so and that's a function of price right now. And so you're going to start having some you're going to put some stuff on sale and you're going to pick which ones I'm you know, which ones I've got the most margin in that I can take them or which ones I can move that are price sensitive neighborhoods that I can move quickly and get out of and start turning these out. And as your subcontractors are finishing, you're going to start trimming that by 30 or 40 percent.
until you get you're going to build your volume up more carefully next time but you're going to get this thing down to half a volume of what it was and make it profitable and then move towards a debt-free process and start doing these flips with debt-free do a fourth as many and do them debt-free and you've got a sustainable business the business you have is not sustainable it's going to come down around your ears before it's over
And you're just starting to see the cracks in the armor right now in the theories that you're running off of. You're doing tremendous volume. What the volume are doing is very impressive for a 22-year-old. I mean, if you're telling me the truth on these numbers and your story is the truth, and I don't have any reason to believe it's not, it's very impressive what you've done. But you did well.
ignore the risk that you were taking with the leverage. But the amount of work you've been doing and generating is very impressive. You're turning 80 freaking houses a year. I mean, that's... Yeah, thank you. I appreciate that. And if you can do that, instead do 30 with zero debt, you've got a sustainable business, move a little slower, and you've got something that no matter what the economy does, it doesn't take you out.
One little bump. I mean, the Fed does an interest rate adjustment half a point up, and they did not do that today, or an eighth of a point up today. And if that had happened today instead of them keeping it even today, you'd be in an even bigger mess than you are. You understand, right? Yeah.
Yes, yeah, definitely. Thank God it's continuing to trend at least a little bit down, and as long as those rates trend down a little bit, you're going to be there. I'm surprised West Palm Beach has dropped 70% in your volume. I'm really shocked that the market slowed down that far there. It's not slowed down that much many places.
Not year over year. Where we are, we are a bit north. Yeah, but not year over year. I mean, year over year, that volume drop is 70% drop year over year because 24 was not that much different than 25. Now, if you said over 20...
Yeah, if you said it was a 70% drop over the year 2020, yeah, or 21, you know, where people were coming out and the volume was huge and the prices were increasing. So anyway, get your volume up, lower your prices, start shedding subs as you finish these jobs, and quit carrying the burden of all of them.
You may have to shed some office staff. I was going to say the office side. The office staff. You may have to get that down. But you've got to get this nut where you can keep it cracked every month, whether it's overhead nut or variable expenses associated with the deals. And then that'll get you out. But everything's on sale starting today. You've got to have a sale. Because that's going to get your velocity back up. And maybe you can turn the corner before it crashes down around your head. I hope you can.
because what you've done is impressive it's just sad you did it the way you did it so it's gonna come hit you in the face but the work you're doing is amazing
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I'm well, Dave. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? So my ex-husband and I accumulated a significant amount of tax debt. We are divorced. Our
A couple years ago, a federal tax lien was placed on the home. The home has now been sold. I do not live in that home, but I was under the impression upon research on the IRS website that a federal tax lien, if it's placed on a home at the closing, the amount that is owed should be taken out that is owed to the IRS at the closing. Otherwise, the title is not clear.
That did not happen. My ex-husband was aware of the lien. The closing attorney was aware of the lien. And they both walked away, and it did not get settled. And so I don't know if I have a leg to stand on. I don't know what to do here. The funds were dispersed to who? To my ex-husband. Because he then owned the house out of the divorce. Because he got that house out of the divorce, yes.
The lien is on both of you? Apparently right now I've had many, many, many conversations with the IRS, and I can't – the lien is on him, I think. But, you know, the notice of federal tax lien that we got in the mail, I have a copy of it. You know, it has both of our liens. What was the lien from? Who didn't pay taxes? Well, you know, it was both of us combined. I know. Both of you didn't pay taxes?
Correct. I mean, because it was large, it was a large amount owed and we just couldn't, we just couldn't do it. Were you self-employed, both of you or what? How did you not pay your taxes? Well, at one, at one point through these many years, he was self-employed and he failed to do the, the obligatory, you know, quarterly taxes. And so that did not help matters. And then, well, but I mean, so how much is the tax lien?
We owe about $65,000. Okay, and how much of that was on his income that he produced? That I am unsure of. That I do not know. Why? I mean, you should have a theory. Were you working a salary job?
Yes. Were you not having taxes withheld on your salary job? Of course. Yes, I was, and I even had additional taxes taken out. Okay, so he was working a business and was not filing his quarterlies and not filing taxes or not paying his taxes on his business. That's where this came from, right? Well, some of the years, not all of them. Some of the years, I'm not sure why we owed so much, to be honest with you, Dave. But we were on a payment plan for a while then.
Then, you know, we got divorced. The payment plan, we stopped paying on financial stress. Now I've looked into getting on another payment plan and that payment plan is going to be way too much a month to afford. But the IRS is not trying to collect from you.
The IRS is not trying to collect from me. I mean, I do have my own personal debt from last year. No, I'm talking about on this particular lien amount. No. They don't even act like you're there.
I'm assuming no. But then when I go onto the IRS website, it does talk about a lien. But then when I call them... A lien is not... If your husband, if they're chasing your husband, they would have put a lien against anything that had his name on it. This house used to also have your name on it. But that doesn't mean you're liable for the taxes necessarily. Were y'all doing married filing jointly? Yes. Okay. Okay.
Well, that's the only reason it would have your name on it. You probably could escape using innocent spouse provision. You need some tax advice from a pro that can get into this instead of you talking to the IRS because, I mean, you're talking to a kid in a cubicle at the IRS. Exactly, exactly. And a different one every time you call. Oh, yeah, and it takes hours each time. Yeah, so no, I'm not doing that anymore. You need to hire somebody. What do you make now? Money-wise? Yeah.
Oh, I make a very decent living. What do you make now? I make $105,000. Okay, good. So you make enough to call, jump online at RamseySolutions.com and click on ELP for taxes, endorse local provider for taxes. Find the person we endorse for taxes in Tallahassee, Florida. Go sit down with them and tell them the story and tell them to get to the bottom of it and give them $500 and they'll do it. Okay. That's what you've got to do. I don't know. I can't tell what happened with this house. I've done a bazillion things.
real estate transactions that had IRS liens on them and 100% of them got paid because the title's simply not clear. Well, that's what I was wondering. I'm like, who... I don't know how this happened. If it was purposeful, accidental, sloppy, was it like... How did that not happen? The buyer would have needed a title insurance policy. Right, if they went... Yeah, yeah. Especially if they got a mortgage. They would have been required to get a title insurance policy. You can't get title insurance on something with an IRS lien on it. And so that's what's weird here. So something...
I think your ex-husband's feeding you a line of bull crap is what I think. What do you think? You think he paid it and he's lying to her? No, I don't know what happened. But what she described would be... So hard to pull off. It would be just ludicrous for the closing attorney...
to allow a seller to sign a warranty deed or a special warranty deed, knowing there's an IRS lien against this house, knowing the title is not clear. That would just be so messed up. I just can't believe it happens. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, that's not, there's no way to get around this and it turned out good for everybody. A title insurance company is going to come down there. You know, they're not going to allow it. So I just, something different is happening than what she thinks is happening. That's what I can't tell.
So anyway, get somebody to help you get to the bottom of it, Mary. It's possible that they're simply not after you and it's not your problem. And that's my hope. That's what I hope you find when you get to the bottom of it. Roy is in Iowa. Hi, Roy. Welcome to the Ramsey Show. Hi, Roy. Hi, Mr. Ramsey. Thank you so much for it. Yeah. Can you hear me? Sure. What's up?
Pretty good, pretty good. Thank you for answering my phone call, Mr. Ramsey. I have a question. I have a trucking company I've been running for the past one year.
So I started with one heavy-duty truck and then added a couple more trucks as well. So, you know, everything was good, but there were a lot of hiccups and all that good stuff. So, you know, just a couple of months ago, one of my trucks burned down. You know, the driver just sent me a video. The truck was set on fire and all that good stuff. You know, it was very horrible, terrible.
But, you know, the reason I'm calling is because I'm most of the time stressed out about this business. Not because a lot of people complain about the market. I am not complaining about the market. You know, I'm very satisfied with whatever the rates are being provided. I mean, there are enough to feed the stomachs, pay the bills and, you know, keep the show running. But what I'm concerned about is.
the breakdowns of the trucks in this industry. I mean, they can cost you a lot of money, sometimes 20 grand, 30 grand, even go worse. So what you need to do when you close the books each month and you determine what your profits are, you need to start having a line item in your monthly budget that sets aside money for future repairs. So a percentage of your profits, a large percentage of your profits at your stage of business,
20-30% of your profits before you take it home to eat. Quit acting like you made that much money because you haven't yet until you paid for the repairs. So if you make $10,000 a month, I want you to set $3,000 aside or $4,000 aside or whatever 30% or 40% is for repairs. And I want you to build a repair war chest.
And it's called retained earnings in business. And so build up your emergency fund inside your business. But you do that by setting a set percentage of your profits each month as if it was an expense because it is a future expense and you're just setting the money back for it.
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Hi, how are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? So to get to the point, I'm kind of calling in just to see if it's possible for me to become a stay-at-home mom. There are some other factors outside of that that will affect it. And I'm pretty ignorant when it comes to a lot of this stuff just because all I've ever known is to work. But it's seeming to cost me more going into work than it is to not.
Um, one of my children is going to be potentially going in for brain surgery within the next month. And she's going to have to need one of her parents home, obviously after for the care, um,
And I'm really stressing out about it because, um, I get paid biweekly and I just brought home a $500 paycheck, um, a biweekly paycheck. And it went to pretty much nothing because everything is so expensive nowadays. Um, and my fiance is switching jobs at the end of the month to make us more money. And I'm just wondering if it would at all be possible because we do have two vehicle loans. That's about the only debt that we have. Um,
together. We are not married. Other than he does owe some, I think, $3,000 to the government. But that's been on my mind lately, just more because of the surgery that is upcoming. And I just need to know where to go at this point with the plan of everything and the plan of action. Okay. What does he make, hon? He makes $25 an hour where he is currently. That will be increasing. You're in New York City?
Well, we are actually quite a bit upstate from New York City. Oh, okay. I didn't think you're in Manhattan on $25 an hour. Oh, no. Okay. No. I currently make $20.50 an hour, but I work per diem. What does he do? He's a welder. And how old is he? He's 24 as well as mine. Why is he only making $25 as a welder? It should be $50. That's...
Yeah, I'm not sure about that either. I had questioned that, but I guess it's something to do with a union. Well, leave the union and go be a freelance welder and make $50. Right. I'm dead serious. That's what I had said, too. So you guys are 24. You have a brand-new baby. How old is your baby that's having surgery? She just turned one. I have two older kids as well. Okay. All with him? No. Okay. Is she his? Yes. Okay. Okay.
All right. Well, I'm going to help you with the money question, and then I'm going to give you some advice that you didn't ask for from just an old guy that loves you, okay? Okay. It's irresponsible for him and you to not be married when you have a child facing a brain surgery. I understand. Get married this weekend. You, my darling, are extremely vulnerable right now. Right.
And Rachel and I have taken calls from people over and over where something like this happens and the guy jets. Okay. And I'm not accusing your guy of that. Okay. Right. But I want to protect you and this child because, and I want him to prove he's going to be there and I want him to put a ring on it this weekend. Right. Okay. That's going to help you. That's the old guy advice. Okay. Okay. And then I want him to get a better job.
Okay. The answer to the question is, can you stay at home? Well, for the short term, you don't have a choice. You're going to be at home. Right. And y'all are going to have to figure it out. He may have to work three jobs. You may have to work some side gigs when he's at home. Sell these cars so you don't have payments every month. Yeah. You may have to sell some cars and get rid of these car payments. Right.
Okay. But, you know, you're going to have to do some stuff because the care of this child is number one. Agreed? Correct. Yes. So the answer to your question overall mathematically, can I stay at home with the kids, like a permanent decision, is yes, as soon as you can live on his income. Right. That's the math, isn't it?
So we've got to do a budget based on his income, meaning that we can pay our rent, we can eat, we can do lights and pay car payments or get rid of the car payments. We have to create a life that is within his income, and then you can stay at home mathematically without creating a mess. Okay. As a permanent decision. As a short-term decision, you're going to be at home. Right. Because you've got to take care of a brain surgery situation.
I just took two weeks off of work because the other issue that we had been dealing with was about two months ago, my daughter was also assaulted at daycare. So we had to find a different daycare provider and then we lost the second one. So I do have, as of right now, two weeks off of work until somebody else can start and that's
Mainly what's been freaking me out a little bit is trying to make the decision of whether or not just to stay home because I drive a Tahoe and I work 45 minutes away from my house. So between gas and childcare. What do you owe on the two cars? Well, we have a van and we have a Tahoe. The Tahoe is about $25,000 because I rolled over from a vehicle that I had to trade in. And he owes about $13,000 on the van. Yeah, the Tahoe's killing y'all.
Yeah. So we've got to get it sold and we've got to get that debt paid off. And that's going to involve income coming from one or both of you. And then that's going to enable you to fit your life within his income. And his income has to come up for that to happen. That's what I think the math is going to tell you. What do you do for a living?
I work in a medical laboratory at a hospital, but I only work three days a week as of right now. Okay. I was wondering if there's, you know, a way that you guys tag team this where he works all day, comes home.
tags you in possibly and you go do a shift or two right and maybe right maybe twice a week or something like if you you guys can tag team each other just to bring in some income for this time um to get this stuff paid off that because if you don't have any car payments you can fit your life within his income a lot quicker and the way you get there is create extra income on the short term right and that that's the surgery date has it been set hayley
It has not yet. She has an MRI this Friday morning. So you'll know more information probably after that? Yes. Okay. Yep. Well, the primary thing I want out of the whole discussion is for the baby to be taken care of. And the secondary thing is to take care of the short-term baby.
time that you're off work. And then the third thing is to answer the question of what must be true that's not true today for us to be able to live on his income. And that would probably be getting rid of the Tahoe debt, getting rid of his car debt, getting his income up. That's probably when you sit down to do your budget what you're going to figure out. Because I don't know that you're going to do this on $25 an hour from one person. Yeah, I know. I don't know that, and have three kids.
I just don't know that you're going to be able to do it. You're probably not breaking even on daycare and Tahoe payments, so I agree with you on that, with you working three days a week. So you're probably not losing much by losing that job if you lose the Tahoe payment by getting it sold and or, you know, even if you have to finance the difference as a standalone personal loan. Yeah. And that to cover the upside down amount. Yeah, but I would really talk to him, Haley, and look at some options because this is a – I mean, it's a pretty –
vital situation you guys are in. I mean, like we were saying, you don't have a choice after she comes home from surgery. Yeah, you have to be there to take care of her. So there's choices that we all have to make in a situation like this that we don't want. So even if he wants to stay where he is, he may not have a choice. He may have to leave the union and go figure out something else. Make more money. As a welder, he can make more than $25,000 for sure.
I'm so sorry, though. It's a lot. Wow. You had a lot on you, kiddo.
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Andrew Tobias said, you want 21% interest risk-free? Pay off your credit card. Work. Danielle is in Salt Lake City. Hey, Danielle, what's up? Hey, good. How are you? Better than I deserve. How can we help?
Hey, so my husband and I, to keep it short and sweet, we applied for this program. It's basically a rent-to-own program sponsored by the state. It is a 15-year term, and we cannot buy the home until the end of that term. But essentially, all of our rent payments would go towards equity on that home.
Um, my holdup is that we'll be basically renting for 15 years and, um, we are only in baby step two right now. So we don't have an emergency fund, but our debt is only like $6,000. So not a ton. Okay. I think your holdup was, um, was, you know, a good, was a good analysis. I would not do this. No, no, not under any circumstances would I do this.
I would get out of debt. I'd build an emergency fund. I'd start saving for a down payment on a house. No, I would not rent for 15 years on purpose.
Yeah, so much changes, Danielle, in 15 years, if you think about it. Life, I mean, it's just crazy. Think about 15 years ago for you, right? I mean, just it is, and to be locked into something. If you never close on it, 100% of the money went to rent. I mean, our rent payment right now would be the exact same. If you never close on it, 100% of it went to rent. I'll give you 100% chance you never close on it.
You're not going to stay there 15 years. Too much happens in life. Crap, the roof on the thing will be 15 years old. The dishwasher will be 15 years old. Stuff's going to start breaking left and right. That's if it's brand new when you move in it. Daniel, why did you guys... It is a brand new home. Why did y'all decide this and not just have a mortgage and build equity on your own? And why are you guys using this program?
Well, we were building a savings account and trying to save up money, but we had a baby. So all of our emergency funds went to paying that down, and we're still kind of working on that. Good. I love it. So you get that last $6,000 cleared, you build the emergency fund, and then you go buy and you start saving for a house. How old are you? I'm 23, and my husband's 24. Yeah.
Please don't do this. Well, the thing is we can get out of the rent program. We're not signing for 15 years. Don't sign up. Don't sign anything else. Just don't do it at all. Please don't do it. It's not good. It's not good for you. You called NASS. I'm going to tell you the truth. How do I visualize 33-year-old Danielle in her best life? It's not 10 years into a 15-year rent program. I can tell you that.
You could be so much better off, Danielle. Yeah, you'll be so much better off at 33. Yes. I mean, seriously, think about it. It's going to take you guys a couple of years. Don't rush into a house. You guys are fine. You got time. Rent, get yourself in a position and then actually start building money for you. Like as you guys start, when you finally buy a house for you guys. If you buy a house in four years, that's 11 years sooner than the plan you're talking about. And people are paying off their homes in seven to nine years using this program. So you could have a paid off house.
Completely yours. Before you would even be buying this other one. Yes, yes. No, no, no, no, no, no. There's a reason these programs exist, Danielle. It's because people are not in good financial situations to buy houses. So don't buy a house. It's you guys. Don't do it. You're not ready yet. I think all the lights are flashing. You've got plenty of time to do this. Please, please don't do it.
Please don't do it. Your instinct when you the wisest thing you said is the thing that's bothering me is I'm going to be renting the whole time. And that really, really, really means a lot. It should be bothering you. And this may not be the case, but I'm going to say it out loud because I see it. Salt Lake City, it's kind of become like a small little L.A., the amount of lifestyle and life.
And keeping up out of that city is pretty unbelievable. So, like, I don't know if there's any level of comparison, Danielle, of what you're living in. Is everyone's like just doing really well around you? I don't know. But I see more and more of that. Really? Coming out of Salt Lake. Yes. I have no idea. Yes. I should get out more. Joseph is in Columbia, South Carolina. Hey, Joseph, what's up? Hey, how's it going? Better than I deserve. How can I help?
Yeah, I'm trying to decide if it would be a good idea to sell my paid-off truck to help pay off some debts and start a good savings. How much is the truck worth? I've gotten one estimate, and it was for $21,000. And what do you make a year? I don't know. What do you sell that? You broke up. I'm sorry. You make what a year?
47,000. 47,000. Okay. Yeah, your phone's messing up. 47,000 and you have a $20,000 truck. Okay. Are you single? I have a girlfriend. Okay. You're single. How old are you? 22. Okay. Single or married are the two options, okay? He's in a relationship, though. You're 22. Yeah, you're dating someone. That's cool. And you have a $20,000 truck that's paid for. How much debt have you got?
I have $4,200 to the IRS and $2,000 on a credit card before I heard about you. Okay. How did you get behind with the IRS at 22 years old? So last year I took a job as a contractor, so I was basically self-employed and just taxes is how I have that debt. Yeah. Are you now? No, no. I changed jobs, so now I'm on a W-2. So if you ever were a contractor again, you know how to handle it so that doesn't happen again, right?
Yes. Lesson learned. Good. Okay. Good. So both of these are lessons learned. Okay. So $6,200, $47,000. Do you like the truck?
I do. I really like it, but I'm just trying to think long-term what would be better for me. I appreciate the maturity of that statement, but for $6,000, I would not sell a $20,000 truck that I like when I am making $47,000. I would rather work three or four weekends and some overtime and live on beans and rice and not see the inside of a restaurant and my date be throwing Frisbee for a while and let's get these $6,000 knocked out real, real fast. I'd rather do that than sell my truck.
Okay. Because I like my truck, too, by the way. I'm not selling it. So I drove it today. Yeah, yeah. Definitely something I wasn't really ecstatic to do, but I was just thinking, you know, maybe. Yeah, things to sell. I would rather you get control of your budget and tighten it up. And that's a lesson that will help you anyway in case this dating relationship gets more serious.
And that's a lesson that'll help you become a millionaire by the time you're 30 and all those kinds of things. Yeah, versus like a sweeping, just I'll sell one thing and just fix everything, fix the issue. Yeah. Where there's something about. I do think you've learned both your lessons on these two things. I'm not worried about that part of it. But I love the idea of you gutting this out by getting, by pinching your dollars and making them scream. Yeah. And then that gets you, that also has the benefit of letting you keep a really nice truck.
And I'm pretty cool with all that. But, you know, she's going to have to put up with you being a cheapskate for a month or two while you knock this out.
And that's probably a pretty good relationship test anyway. To see if she sticks around. Yeah. If Jason calls back and says he's single, then we know we messed that one up for you, Joseph. Well, it wouldn't be the first time I messed it up for somebody. I'm pretty good at that. Yeah. But no, it's a good thought, though, because people sometimes ask on a larger scale, should I sell my house?
to get out of, you know, $40,000 of debt and all of that. And so not usually. Yeah, not usually. Usually you're better off to work your way out of it unless there's some other reason to sell the house, other reason to sell the truck. I hate the truck. Well, it's a stupid thing anyway, but no, he likes his truck. And so I'm pretty good with that. Pretty good with that.
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