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Being Kind to Yourself

2023/9/4
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Shankar Vedantam: 本期节目探讨了自我批评与自我同情的区别,以及自我同情对个人幸福感和人际关系的积极影响。节目中采访了心理学教授Kristin Neff,她分享了自己在克服自我批评、学习自我同情的过程中,以及如何将自我同情应用于生活和人际关系中的经验。 Kristin Neff: 节目中,Neff教授详细阐述了自我同情的三个核心要素:自我仁慈、正念和共同的人性。她指出,自我批评虽然在短期内可能起到激励作用,但长期来看会对心理健康造成负面影响,导致焦虑、抑郁等问题。而自我同情则能帮助人们更好地应对压力和挑战,提升幸福感和生活满意度。Neff教授还分享了自我同情练习的方法,例如自我同情中断法,以及如何与内在批评家成为朋友。 Kristin Neff: Neff教授结合自身经历,讲述了她在处理一段失败的感情时,如何通过学习自我同情来克服羞愧和自我批评。她强调,自我同情并不意味着逃避责任,而是接纳自身的不完美,并从中吸取教训。自我同情能够让人们更好地承担责任,并更有可能向他人道歉。此外,自我同情还能改善人际关系,因为拥有更多的情感资源可以给予他人更多关爱。

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How often do you say something negative to yourself that you'd never utter to someone else? Self-criticism can often feel like a way to hold ourselves accountable. But psychologist Kristin Neff) says there’s a better path to personal growth: self-compassion. In a favorite conversation from 2021, Kristin remembers the painful moment when she learned to show herself self-compassion, and shares how being kind to ourselves can improve our wellbeing and relationships with others. 

*Do you know someone who needs a reminder to be kind to themselves? Please share this episode with them! And if you have follow-up questions for Kristin Neff, please record a voice memo and send it to [email protected]. Use the subject line "self-compassion" in your email. Thanks! *