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How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

2025/5/17
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This chapter explores the complexities of narcissism, clarifying that it's a diagnosable condition with a spectrum of traits. It challenges the idea that only formally diagnosed individuals are narcissists and emphasizes that the term often serves as validation for survivors.
  • Narcissism is a diagnosable condition, but diagnosis is rare due to narcissists' inherent denial and lack of self-awareness.
  • The DSM lists nine traits, with five or more indicating narcissistic personality disorder, but the reality is more nuanced.
  • The term 'narcissist' helps survivors understand that the abuse isn't their fault.

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Trauma therapist (and survivor of marriage to a narcissist) Caroline Strawson joins us to discuss: how to know if someone’s really a narcissist; how to know if you’re more likely to get into a relationship with a narcissist (and avoid it); strategies for parallel parenting with a narcissist; how the brain and body respond to narcissists; and how to rebuild after ending a relationship with a narcissist. 

CW: Abusive relationships, self harm

For more related episodes, check out: ⁠Episode 170 The Most Radical Way to Heal: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Becky Kennedy⁠), ⁠Episode 169 Why We Love the Way We Love: Attachment Styles with Dr. Becky Kennedy⁠), and ⁠Episode 142 Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie⁠)

About Caroline: 

Caroline Strawson is a Trauma Therapist and Coach specializing in helping others heal from the trauma and shame of narcissistic abuse. She hosts the Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast and is the #1 best selling author of Divorce Became My Superpower. Having been married to a covert narcissist herself, Caroline was in debt, lost her family home, and was at rock bottom with PTSD, depression, anxiety, and self-harm. Caroline integrates Internal Family Systems, Somatic Experiencing, Brainspotting and breath work with positive psychology, to help others move from post traumatic stress to post traumatic growth.

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