The Best Advice We’ve Ever Received (Best Of)
2025/6/1
We Can Do Hard Things
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Abby
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Amanda
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Glennon
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Sara Bareilles
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Tina Yellen
Amanda: 我从Justina Blakeney那里学到，自我主权意味着做让自己感觉更好的决定，并且这些决定是出于自己的权威，而不是外界强加的。这些决定是为了整个领域的利益，包括个人、家庭、生态系统和事业。作为自己领域的领导者，对自己有益的，对他人也有益，即使他们不明白。重要的是通过榜样作用，让别人明白他们也需要做对自己有益的事情。我认为，如果我们为自己服务，我们的孩子会通过观察我们的行为，开始为自己服务。与自我主权的人相处感到自由和信任，因为你知道他们的真实意图。
Glennon: 我认为不能既是主权的，又不对自己拥有主权；真正的自我主权是将智慧和效率应用于自己。自我主权不是自私，而是为了更好地服务于整个领域。从不适合你的关系中解脱时，也会给对方解放。
Deep Dive
This chapter explores the concept of self-sovereignty, using Justina Blakeney's philosophy as an example. It emphasizes the importance of prioritizing one's own needs and well-being, not as selfishness, but as a necessary act for personal growth and positive influence on others. The idea of "for the good of the realm" is introduced as a way to reframe self-care.
- Self-sovereignty is about making decisions that serve your own well-being, not as selfish acts, but as acts of self-authority.
- Prioritizing yourself empowers others to do the same.
- The concept of "for the good of the realm" reframes self-care as a beneficial act for everyone involved.
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