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Alison Fragale on How You Master the Science of Status for Success EP 506

2024/9/12
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John R. Miles: 本期节目探讨了提升职场地位的策略，强调自信和能力的重要性，以及亲和力在人际关系中的作用。成功的关键在于平衡自信、能力和亲和力，展现出令人喜爱和强悍的一面，从而获得他人的尊重和重视。 Alison Fragale: 本书的核心观点是地位的科学，即他人对你的尊重和评价。这取决于两个维度：令人喜爱（温暖）和强悍（自信）。人们尊重自信且有能力的人，也尊重热情、乐于助人的人。因此，要成为一个令人喜爱且强悍的人，需要在工作中展现能力，同时保持亲和力。在与他人互动中，要善于展现自身价值，并积极帮助他人解决问题，从而提升自身地位。女性在职场中往往面临能力与受欢迎程度之间的矛盾，需要有意识地平衡两者，避免因为追求能力而牺牲受欢迎程度，反之亦然。要克服“冒名顶替者综合征”、“害怕追求地位”、“没有时间”、“认为性别不重要”以及“不在乎他人看法”等限制性思维模式。在职业发展中，要善于掌控自身叙事，并积极寻求他人支持，从而提升自身地位。 John R. Miles: 节目中还探讨了如何通过个人品牌建设来提升职场地位，并以Michelle Obama、Oprah 和 Mel Robbins 等成功女性为例，说明了掌控自身叙事和获得他人积极评价的重要性。同时，节目还强调了在职业发展中，要善于利用自身地位帮助他人，并为社会做出贡献。

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Alison Fragale discusses the profound influence of her PhD advisor, Margaret Anne Neal, on her career trajectory. Neal's guidance not only introduced Fragale to the concept of status but also instilled in her the importance of networking and adding value to others. This combination of research and lived experience shaped Fragale's understanding of how status influences respect and professional success.
  • Margaret Anne Neal's mentorship shaped Alison Fragale's research path.
  • Neal emphasized building networks and adding value to others.
  • Fragale's work combines research experience with lived experience under Neal's guidance.

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In this episode of Passion Struck, we delve into the groundbreaking insights of behavioral scientist Alison Fragale, author of Likeable Badass). Fragale reveals how women can elevate their workplace status and secure career success by mastering the delicate balance of warmth and assertiveness. Drawing from decades of research, she offers practical strategies and actionable advice to help women navigate office politics, earn recognition, and achieve a fulfilling career. Discover how to transform perceptions, negotiate effectively, and rise to the top with Fragale’s proven playbook for professional advancement.

**Full show notes and resources:  **https://passionstruck.com/alison-fragale-master-science-status-for-success/)

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In this episode, you will learn:

  • Mastering the science of status: Understand how blending assertiveness and warmth can lead to greater respect and influence in the workplace.
  • Balancing likability and capability: Cultivate both traits to gain value and respect from peers and leaders.
  • Unlocking potential through intentionality: John R. Miles shares the mission of Passion Struck in helping individuals realize their potential with purpose and direction.
  • Managing dual careers: Alison shares strategies on developing remote work arrangements and managing career-family balance before it became mainstream.
  • Key themes from “Likeable Badass”: Grasp the difference between status and power and how they impact career advancement.
  • Overcoming the competence-likability bind: Use specific strategies to showcase competence without sacrificing likability.
  • Tackling limiting mindsets: Address the five limiting beliefs that hinder the journey to becoming a likable badass.

**Connect with Alison Fragale: **https://alisonfragale.com/)

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