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Katherine Morgan Schafler on Control, Perfectionism, and Letting Go | EP 572

2025/2/13
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John R. Miles: 我认为完美主义不应被视为需要修正的缺陷,而是一种可以被利用的优势。通过理解不同类型的完美主义,我们可以更好地认识自己,并改善我们的人际关系。拥抱完美主义可以帮助我们停止追求表面的控制,并开始拥有真正的力量。 Katherine Morgan Schafler: 我认为完美主义既有建设性也有破坏性。重要的是要理解完美主义的力量,并将其转化为适应性的行为方式。我们应该专注于发挥自己的优势,并寻求帮助来弥补我们的弱点。同时,我也强调语言在性别表现期望中的作用,以及女性在追求权力时可能面临的挑战。

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Have you ever felt that your pursuit of excellence leaves you more stressed than satisfied? What if perfectionism isn’t a flaw to be fixed but a strength to be harnessed?

In episode 572, John sits down with Katherine Morgan Schafler, psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power. Katherine’s groundbreaking approach challenges everything we think we know about perfectionism, showing us that it isn’t something we need to eliminate—but rather, something we can transform into a tool for personal and professional growth.

They explore the five types of perfectionists—Classic, Intense, Parisian, Messy, and Procrastinator—and how understanding your type can unlock self-awareness, resilience, and healthier relationships. Katherine reveals how perfectionism intersects with belonging, self-worth, and the universal need to matter, as well as why it can be both a motivator and a barrier in our pursuit of fulfillment.

Full shownotes can be found here:  https://passionstruck.com/katherine-morgan-schafler-on-perfectionism/)

Key takeaways:

    1. The Three Dimensions of a Good Life
    1. How Novelty and Exploration Lead to Fulfillment
    1. The Global Village Paradox and Social Media's Impact
    1. Happiness vs. Meaning vs. Psychological Richness
    1. Why Regret Comes from Inaction
    1. The Role of Negative Emotions in a Rich Life
    1. How to Cultivate Psychological Richness

Connect with Katherine Morgan Schafler: https://www.katherinemorganschafler.com/)

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**Next on Passion Struck:**In the next episode of Passion Struck, John sits down with Katherine Morgan Schaffler, a renowned psychotherapist and author of The Perfectionist Guide to Losing Control, a Path to Peace and Power. Katherine challenges the conventional view of perfectionism, suggesting that it can be harnessed as a personal superpower rather than a flaw. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that could transform your relationship with perfectionism.

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