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Nir Eyal on How to Win Back Your Time and Attention | EP 586

2025/3/18
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专注于行为科学和生产力提升的投资者、作家和讲师。
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John R. Miles: 本期节目探讨了如何掌控注意力,以及在日益喧嚣的世界中如何夺回时间和注意力。我们与Nir Eyal探讨了如何掌控导致分心的内在触发因素,区分牵引和分心,以及如何利用科学策略来建立激光般的专注力并夺回你的时间。 如果你的时间总是在通知、电子邮件和无尽的任务清单中模糊地流逝,本期节目将为你提供掌控局势、设计更有意图的生活并变得真正不受干扰的工具。 Nir Eyal: 我对人类行为,特别是分心和科技的兴趣,可能源于我童年的肥胖和情绪化饮食经历。大多数分心源于内在触发因素——例如无聊、孤独和焦虑等情绪状态,而非外在触发因素。所有动机最终都源于逃避不适的愿望。因此,时间管理实质上是痛苦管理。 想要培养不受干扰的孩子,最好的方法是成为不受干扰的父母。我们需要理解为什么孩子们过度使用科技,以及如何帮助他们形成与科技的健康关系。我们需要在现实世界中给予孩子们胜任感、自主性和归属感,否则他们会在网上寻找这些心理营养。 无聊是分心的一个触发因素,但我们也需要学会舒适地面对无聊,因为它对个人成长和自我反省至关重要。负面偏见会影响我们的专注力,因为它让我们更关注事情的不好之处,而不是好之处。我们需要识别导致分心的前置情绪,并重新解读这些情绪,将负面偏见转化为积极的动力。 将我们的价值观转化为时间,意味着要将时间分配给我们想要成为的人所做的事情上。时间盒技术可以帮助我们有效地管理时间,在转换点之间设置明确的界限,可以帮助我们避免分心。克服分心的方法是提前计划,即运用预见性思维。

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This introductory chapter sets the stage by highlighting the scarcity of focused attention in our information-rich world. It introduces Nir Eyal, the episode's guest, and his expertise in behavior design and the psychology of focus. The chapter emphasizes the importance of mastering internal triggers to reclaim control over our time and attention.
  • Information abundance vs. attention scarcity
  • Nir Eyal's expertise in behavior design and focus
  • Importance of mastering internal triggers

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In this episode of Passion Struck, John welcomes Nir Eyal, a behavioral designer and author known for his insights into human behavior and technology's impact on our lives. Eyal shares his journey into understanding distraction, rooted in his childhood experiences with obesity and emotional eating. He emphasizes that the real challenge today is not the abundance of information but the ability to focus our attention and turn that information into wisdom.

Eyal discusses the concept of becoming "indistractable)," highlighting that most distractions stem from internal triggers—emotional states like boredom, loneliness, and anxiety—rather than external ones. He argues that understanding these internal triggers is crucial for managing our attention and breaking free from distractions.

Full Shownotes here: https://passionstruck.com/nir-eyal-how-to-win-back-your-time-and-attention/)

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Mastering Internal Triggers: Recognizing the emotional discomfort that leads to distraction is essential for regaining control over our time and attention.
  • The Importance of Curiosity-Driven Learning: Eyal advocates for teaching children to be autodidacts, emphasizing the need for skills that will remain relevant in an ever-changing world.
  • Turning Values into Time: Eyal explains that to align our lives with our values, we must intentionally allocate time for activities that reflect who we want to become, rather than allowing distractions to dictate our schedules.
  • Creating Healthy Relationships with Technology: Eyal suggests that parents can help their children manage technology use by modeling indistractable behavior themselves and providing opportunities for free play and social interaction.
  • Reimagining Boredom and Negativity Bias: Eyal encourages listeners to embrace boredom as a catalyst for personal growth and to be aware of the negativity bias that can lead to compulsive media consumption.

For more information on Nir Eyal: https://www.nirandfar.com/)

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