Dr. Benjamin Hardy Explains How to Flip Your Thinking and Scale Faster | #Success - Ep. 48
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This is the Russell Brunson Show. What's up, everybody? Welcome back to the show. Today, we are in Cancun, Mexico, and I'm here with a very special guest, the author of a brand new book called The Science of Scaling and a whole bunch of other really cool books like The Gap and the Gain, Who Become Your Future Self Now, Who Not How, Will Power's Out the Way. Which ones did I miss? I missed like three. No, no, no. That's all right. 10x. 10x. These are 2x. Yeah.

I got the important ones. But he's got a brand new book here. So he actually came to Mexico for our Mastermind in Paradise and spent the last like four or five hours speaking to our audience about this. And then I thought before he passes out, we should do a quick podcast with him and share some of these things with you guys. And so his name is Dr. Benjamin Hardy. I'm super glad to have you here. So thanks for coming to my podcast.

that I can do with you all, dude. Seriously, you're one of the best, man. So happy to do it. Every time I'm here with you, it's a marathon. It's like, cool. I don't know how you have the energy and like the stamina. We're at day one right now. I know, but I know. It's like, yeah, it's like I'm toast, but you're doing this for like the rest of the week. You have way more stamina than I have. It's awesome. Well, it's funny because I even look back 10 years ago. Like I used to do events. We'd go till midnight every night. And now I'm like one night we do that. The rest of the night I gotta go to bed a little earlier. So it's fun though. Okay, so there's so many things we talk about.

Part of me was like, we should talk about every book and the framework of all of them because they're all so good. But instead, I want to go into science of scaling. But before we go into it, I want to talk about one of your earlier frameworks. It's in the appendix here, but you talked about it in

10X was the first place that... No, this is actually the first place it actually showed up. So, like, I actually formalized it. I know I taught it here. I came here. I came here two years ago, and your people got the first ever copy of 10X. Yeah. But that model wasn't in that book, and I actually created it after I wrote 10X, but before I was here with you two years ago. Oh, I didn't realize that. Yeah, so this is the first place it's formally written. Oh, so we've known for years here in the ClickFunnels world that everyone else is...

Okay, this is really fascinating. So those who are listening to the audio and can't see it, I'll talk about the framework, what it looks like, and I'll have you describe it. So there's three circles. One that says past, one that says present, one that says future. And there's an arrow going from past to present and present to future. So talk about what this is and then...

explain, yeah, explain this part of the framework. It's so cool. Yeah, so this is, so one of the core aspects of all psychology is how we frame time. So think about how you think about your past. Think about hard events you've gone through. Think about yourself as a wrestler, right? So we have so many things about our past and those things can be really dominant in shaping who we are

And so the linear model of time is where you let your past determine your present. And that word determine is like a strong word, like determine. I know that you're like being definite, but when you're determined by something that's outside of you, then you completely lose your agency.

And so this model of time where you let the past shape the present and then you let the present to shape the future, although it's the common way we're taught to approach time, psychologically, it's just inaccurate. Like psychologically, although we default to it. Yeah, almost everyone does. Yeah, it's the default mode, letting the past determine us. You can see it in companies where they let their past performance shape their goals, right? We did a million last year, let's go for 2 million this year because of that. But yeah, I guess the important insight here is that

psychologically, it's the opposite. Psychologically, the future is what shapes our present, and it's what shapes our goals. Our goals are what shape who we are in the present. Our goals shape how we filter and make choices in the present, and then it's us in the present that determines the meaning of our past. But this model isn't the default. This model requires far more agency. You have to actually think about a future and then use that future to filter what you do and what you don't do, and also you have to look back on the past, even mistakes or problems, and rather than

saying, oh, why did this, why is this shaping me? It's like, oh, what can I shape this into? What can I learn from this? And so this is just a more accurate model of time. And one of their final pieces is that both of these things co-occur in the now. They co-occur. So like the past, how you frame your past and your future shape who you're being in the present. Yeah.

But the key insight is that the future weighs way more than the past. The future is really what's driving your presence. That's the key. So before we go too deep on the business side, I want a practical application for people because we see this a lot of times when someone's got trauma or something happens early in their life. So this past event is now framing their... It's driving them. Yeah. So we walk through just that direction and then reverse it back the other way for someone who, let's say, yeah, some trauma happened as a young kid.

Yeah. So I think it's common when something negative happens or a mistake happens, you fail in some way or you make a mistake to think that it's the thing that's causing you in the present. It's leading me to be this way. And then you put all of the agency to it. In psychology, they call it locus of control. So it's the location of control.

And so rather than putting the location of control outside of you, you realize, and there's research on this that says you have to have an internal locus of control in order to reframe a trauma. That means in the present, I know that my past and how I frame it is actually up to me. And so I have to actively, not passively, actively reframe.

look at it and give it new meaning. So usually with a trauma, what it means is that it has, you've defined it as negative value, like negative value, meaning it would have been better if it didn't happen. Because now that it happened, you know, I'm worse off. Maybe I lost my leg, right? Or like maybe I lost a sibling or maybe my business failed. So you're saying this is negative and it's negatively impacting my present and future. And so the only way to change it is to actually look at it and give it positive value.

like a constructive value, like, yeah, it was rough, but because of that, I now know X, Y, and Z, or because of that, I can now do X, Y, and Z, but you have to give that value. That's part of reframing is giving it value and then also getting to a point where you're grateful for it. That's a really hard one where you can say, you know, for me, I'm grateful my parents got divorced when I was 11, right? I'm grateful that, you know,

X, Y, and Z happened because now I can do this. Right. And so now I'm, I'm happening to the past. It's not happening to me, but also it's in my mind. Like how it is a great quote that says the past is never dead. It's not even past because I'm carrying around my past, whatever I, whatever one I decide to have. And so by giving it value, now my present, my future are better. Is it like in therapy, like psychology, like how long does it take someone to actually learn how to do the means of fast? It take a long time. Is it repetition? Like what's the,

What's the secret? Because you see people all the time who default back to it. Like, well, I can't do it because I was raised here. This happened in my life or whatever it might be. I think one, so I don't know if there's like an exact amount of time, but one thing that really helps is...

distinguishing your current self from your past self. So saying, how am I different from my past self? What are the things in my past self said yes to that I would say no to? Or what are some of their tendencies that have kind of outgrown? So for me, as an example, like when I was first in a PhD program, I was actually like very sloppy in my thinking and also in my work. And my advisor would kind of like call me out on it. Like I would tell her I was going to get her a draft and I would get her like a really bad draft, which is okay. But like she would say like,

don't send until to me until you've actually read it like don't just like write it and send it like actually rewrite and i it took me like a year to like finally like start listening and like actually like read it again and then like catch the 50 000 typos and then send it to her and so you know it's very helpful to look at how you've outgrown your past self right and one of the worst things you can do is say i'm still the same person i was in the past because truth is you're not and so some people are like this is who i am this is who i've always been it's like

no, you aren't. Let's take some time to actually look at how have you evolved? How have you changed? How are you different from your past self? And the more you get better at doing that, even, even a week ago, I might say, you know, this is what I did a week ago, but now I know better and I don't have to do it that way anymore. And so you, you start to just, you, you want to utilize your past, but also you want to separate yourself from who you were so that you can have the freedom to be different. Yeah. So cool. So, but you know, it's,

It takes time. You can get better at doing it quicker and catching the lessons quicker if you choose to. I mean, it's kind of painful to choose the lessons because you have to look at it and say, oh, I could do it differently. But you don't have to be mad at your past self. There's no value in being angry at your past self. Just learning from it.

building value in it being thankful for it and then just being different yeah being better it happens all the time i don't think it's a one-time thing right because it's like constant in in your childhood also your business last week what'd you do what's happening tonight you know yesterday whatever it's like all the it's always looking back because anything that's happening you can you can attach the wrong meaning and then it can derail you for years if you're not careful about it when we live in a cancel culture as you know where people love to jump on someone's mistake right and it's like and i think it's far

far more like valuable to be empathetic towards someone's past self. Like why, why do I need to like really try to like hammer someone because of a decision that their past self made, especially if they've already like learned the lesson, like why do we need to take them down because of their past? I mean, obviously certain things it's good to acknowledge and look at and stuff like that. But like my dad was a drug addict, you know? And so like, I could continue to be angry at my dad because of his choices when I was a teenager, but

he's not that guy anymore. Like, why do I need to go back and keep pointing out his past? Like that's, I think that's one of the things I heard with marriage is like, don't like, don't, don't go and point things out, you know, about your spouse and like the mistakes they made in the past. Cause like that just like, it recreates it. It shows that you haven't let it go. So I think we can even do this with other people too. And, and I, I prefer if someone makes a mistake, of course, it's good to have an opinion of it, to learn from it, but I need to just destroy someone because of, of what they did in the past. Yeah.

- Cool. So the framework, sorry, I told you this earlier, who are listening, the first version of framework, there's an arrow going from past to present, present to future. And then the second version of framework, the arrow's going back where you have your future self defines your present and your present then adds meaning or attaches meanings to the past. Is that right? - Yeah. - I got it right? Cool. - Yeah, so psychologically, the future is what shapes the present and the present is what shapes the past. - Yeah.

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Terms and conditions apply only on LinkedIn ads. So focus more so on the future. All right. So in that frame now, Science of Scaling is your new book. Walk us through like the core framework. I know we don't have enough time to read the whole book to everybody, but like just conceptually, because it is kind of based off that as the foundation. Yeah. So the core framework of this book is what we call the scaling framework. It's three levels, frame, floor, focus. And basically your frame, which is everything we've been talking about, your frame is what you see in the present.

So it's like, it's everything you see, it's everything you're focusing on, it's everything you're thinking about. All of these things are in your frame. And you've heard the quote, you don't see the world as it is, you see the world as you are.

So none of us see the same thing, right? We're all seeing the world subjectively through our own lens or our own frame. But the really big thing, which we've already been talking about is, and this is like rooted in a lot of just really good thought and research is the core element of our frame is our goals. So like as people, we have goals, we're thinking about our future and the goals that we have for our future is what shapes what we see in the present.

And so there's infinite pathways we could take, there's infinite information, but what determines what we see as signal and what we see as noise, it's our goals.

And so it's really our future that shapes our frame or our pathways that we're looking for and that we're striving for. And then basically the idea is, is with this framework is, is when you actually start to pursue impossible goals, goals that you don't know how to achieve. Like you could call it a 10 X goal, whatever you make the goal much bigger and you, or you make it shorter, right? A lot of people I've worked with, they have like a 10, 20 year goal. And I just say, that's not a good enough modeling of the future to impact the present enough. So like I see the past and the future as tools for shaping the present.

And especially the future. And so if someone has a 20 year goal or a 10 year goal, I just say, what would happen if you move the timeline to two years, right? Now, all of a sudden the pathways that they were on start to become noise. They have to start finding better paths because their 20 year path isn't going to get them to the goal in two. And so when you raise the frame, whether it's in scale or timeline, shorter timeline, you

Then that takes your floor up. Your floor is what is the dividing line between what you say yes and no to. So everything below the floor is noise. Everything below the floor is a contradiction to the goal. And we spend a lot of time below the floor, right? Whenever we're below the floor, we're saying yes to things that we know are holding us back. And we're creating complexity and confusion for ourselves and for other people. And so having the higher frame or the higher goal forces you to raise your floor and strip out.

most of what you're doing because most of what you're doing can't reach the higher goal and then it forces you to find and focus on the most efficient and the most effective paths and so that's frame floor focus yeah first time i ever talked about any of those things by red text is these are in 2x i remember it's one of the things that like clicked for me i can't remember if you said this or it was in i can't remember exactly where maybe you said in the event maybe it was in the book but

When you're in a group or something, you ask them like, who here knows like ways to double or triple your business? Like everyone's hands went up. You're like, who knows how to like 100 extra business? And like nobody's hands went up. It's like, you

you know, there's a million ways you could double your business, but there's only like probably one that you could actually do the big one. Right. So it's like, if you know, you're going after the one, it's like, it cuts out all the noise, all the complexity. Cause none of the other things will actually get you to where you're trying to get to. Right. Yeah. I mean, it's a simplifier. I mean, that's really why you want to use it as a tool. Like a lot of people say, why should I go for an impossible goal? I'm probably not going to be able to hit it. That's going to create all sorts of stress. Now I'm going to feel like a loser. I'm like, it's just a tool. The future is a tool, right? Even timelines are a tool. So it's like a

A 10 year timeline isn't an effective tool. Move that timeline to 12 to 24 months. Now it's going to force you to really rethink your present. It's going to really force you to start looking at all the things you're doing and start letting go of a lot of it because a lot of it can't get you there in two years and it's going to force you to find a much better path. And so that's part of the beauty of going for massive goals is that there's just naturally far less pathways to get there. Like you said, you can, there's 20 paths to 2X, right? But there's might be one or two to 10.

And so it forces you to filter a lot more aggressively and find those pathways, find those partners. And you couldn't find those without having the goal to do it. You know, I mean, I know you, you know, you love like the idea of, you know, changing your thinking and even choosing what you want. It's like if you haven't defined the goal, you're not gonna be able to filter and find it. And so moving the goal up higher just creates a much better filter for the present. It's like, well, all this stuff can't get me there. So what can, and once you start looking for it, you'll find it. Yeah. Yeah.

Where do you find the most resistance when entrepreneurs hear this and they're like, I know my resistance. I'm curious if it's similar to other people. I want to hear your resistance. So I'll tell you what's funny is like, I was just telling Myron who's my, he's one of your friends and stuff. He's a great friend of mine too. I said,

I said it's interesting the further and further I go down this path the more resistance I'm getting yeah which I actually don't take as a bad sign yeah to be honest with you um but the main resistances are you know why would I set a goal you know such a high goal or short timeline if I don't think I can hit it right they think that they have to believe in the goal first um and I just say it's a tool it's a tool for making decisions in the present for being a lot more honest yourself so

One of the resistances is that people think they have to fully believe they can hit the goal before they start using it to filter their choices. From my opinion, it's okay if you're not sure if you can hit the goal. That's not what it's there for. As you start making progress towards the goal, you might build that belief, that commitment, that conviction. Another one is just, you know, naturally the idea of raising the floor and simplifying. Like that thing, it's really hard for people to let go of things. We get very attached to our current path, our current model, our current

audience, whatever it is. And so a lot of times people would rather just stay on the wave they're on versus leverage it into the next wave. And so people have a hard time letting go of their current path or their current plan or their current system.

right and maybe for good reason it might be paying the bills or like you might have a huge team or you might have a lot of responsibility and so going for a 10x often requires you to remodel that simplify it so that it can grow a lot faster and that means disappointing people letting people down maybe putting yourself in a little bit of uncertainty because a lot of your income is over here but it's obviously below the floor and it's not going to scale and it's kind of a dead-end path and so

And so people who don't know the plan and path yet have a hard time letting go of their current plan. Yeah. So, okay. So they know the path becomes easier. Because I agree with my thing is the same thing. It's like I have team, I have existing things, stuff that we do that I love that maybe not be as profitable, but I enjoy, I get value from it, but it's not, you know, and so maybe that's the thing is just not clarity enough on what that goal is to be able to feel comfortable shifting. I don't know if you know who, Rob,

robert gay is bob gay he created you talking about capital yeah yeah so that was his biggest concern is it's very i think one of the hardest things is choosing the right goal you know like actually choosing a goal and being willing to let go of other goals to go get it like that's very difficult for people um because sometimes we we think we can like scale 50 goals right and so it's very hard to face that you

you probably can't do it all. And so actually deciding what should I optimize for is a tough thing to do. It's very hard. So with Science of Scaling book and scaling.com and the business, can I ask what your big goal is right now for that business? For the business specifically? Yeah. And I think that it's really good for a business to have a goal. A business is different than a family. And so the business has a goal and that goal shapes its process. It shapes its team. It shapes what we do.

So scaling.com, the goal is to have 5,000 members in the program, all scaling 10X within two and a half years.

So by the end of 2027. And so, you know, that's effectively like $130, $140 million in revenue. What's the price point of each member? It's $2,000 a month. Oh, gotcha. On autopilot. Yeah, just $2,000 a month. The price might go up, but it's just a single concept. And $2,000 a month for membership. And in order to get in, we have a very high filter. Like you have to be fully committed to like...

actually applying the framework and going for an impossible goal and using that to scale and so you have to essentially be committed to 10xing in a few years and even mature companies that come in doing tens of millions even hundreds of millions um some of them are like i don't know if i can 10x again it's like well then you're out well we turn people away you fund your money yeah because we want everyone in the program to be scaling like you know i've been a part of a lot of programs

even programs with you where, you know, there's different purposes for the program. It could be networking, it could be connection, it could be just improving your thinking. But, you know, in those groups, and they're all essentially business groups, what I found was, is that only a few people were actually like massively growing. Whereas the majority of people, although they're growing, they're growing linearly, they were on that linear path of letting the past shape the present shape the future. And so their growth was more stagnant. And so

you know even writing the three books with dan just being in that environment being aware of it like the majority of people even in that program aren't actually 10xing and so i just i just wanted to like really look at it and say what if we just made that the requirement from the beginning like if if you're not interested in that you should just go somewhere else yeah so that's that's just kind of what we filter for so we want 5 000 people to be 10xing and scaling in the next two or three years that's cool and then reverse engineering that then you got to figure out the team the process all the rest stuff

Yeah, with the extreme urgent goal, it forces you to find really clean paths. And you can't do a thousand things. There's a lot of things I can't do, right? The floor represents what you say no to. Strategy represents what you say no to. Even Steve Jobs said focus is what you say no to. So we have to say no to a lot of things. And we just have a focused, disciplined path. Yeah, that's cool. Another thing, so obviously you wrote a book called Who Not the How, which is something I've quoted a lot in our trainings and stuff like that.

And our people, I think my community buys into that concept. But one thing you start saying today that I hadn't heard you say before was not like finding the right who's, you start talking about super who's. What's the difference between a normal who and a super who? I was like, that's amazing. Cause it gave me a new framework. Cause before it was like, oh, I see the who versus like,

know the type of who matters yeah there's different levels of who's so there's a concept obviously the 80 20 principle right that 20 of inputs create 80 or more of outputs really one of the so i read the book the 80 20 individual by richard kosh he wrote the 80 20 principle when i read that book i realized that you know he talks about he doesn't talk about the power law but other people talk about the power law meaning like the very few create almost all the results

And so I started just digging into that concept that we're all like one proper who away from a 10X or 100X. And so the more and more I dug into that, the more I just started finding, you know, Bill Gates talked about how like a really good code writer is not worth, you know, 10X. It's actually worth 10,000X, the average code writer. Like there's certain people that create code that like literally changes the game, right? And so there's certain individuals that can create code.

not just 10X the results of the average who, but like literally 10,000X. But you won't find those if your goal doesn't require them. Because like to the idea of who not how, like the super who is the pathway.

And usually they're a pathway to a few things. One could be like really good distribution, right? Like a who could literally get you the distribution you need to a goal. Or they just bring such new capability that because they're there, they like, they raise the floor, they transform the system. And so these are just who's that change the game and they almost make the impossible goal inevitable. And you really don't need,

20 of these super who's like you might need like one or two to 10 X or 100 extra company, you know I'm obviously the more the merrier. Yeah, but it's just the idea that they

they are what make the goal possible and you can't really get there without them and they do they do shift your role they shift your focus like you know not that you change your role entirely but you know it's like chess um like when two pieces are together their skill their ability is is different than when they're apart right and so like in basketball like recently and i wrote about it in the book like one of the so the warriors who have steph curry

they were really plateaued. Like their ceiling was just like maxed out. And so they knew that they needed another superstar to compliment Steph. And so they traded one of their like marquee players, Andrew Wiggins, they traded him to the Heat for a guy named Jimmy Butler.

And Jimmy Butler being like a rock star who like, he's like a, like a freaking amazing chess piece that when you bring him into the same team as, as Steph, it unlocked Steph in ways that were just incredible because he created so much space. Like so in basketball, because he's so good, like down below the, the, like the basket, uh,

All of a sudden people would swarm him and all of a sudden Steph was way more open, right? Than he'd ever been. Like he was way more open than he was used to being. So these kind of who's not only do they transform like your capability, but they also bring out the best in like you. And so these are the types of who's you want. Interesting. I was like in the business too. Like if you wanted,

if you want to play it, like you have to be a super who in and of yourself. You do. You know what I mean? Because like people always ask me, well, how do you, how do you recruit the right people? And that at us, like, well, you've got to be the standard initially, right? If you're building a business, like you've got to be the initial standard. You got to be a super who that does whatever your role is. It can be anything. Like, you know, I've seen, I've seen really good accountants who, who became the super who and then built a team and they built a huge company. I've seen really good, you know, entrepreneurs, really good. Like, but I think,

Step number one, I think for a lot of people is like they got to become the super who like I just did an interview with the teenagers over here and they asked me what the number one thing to tell me about, you know, as a teenager, what would you say? I was like, you should become obsessed. Like pick one little, like don't try to become obsessed with everything. Find one part of the business, become obsessed with it. And then like from there you can attract everybody else you need. But if you're just like dabbling, you're not going to inspire people to come and go on a mission with you, you know? Yeah. Well, I mean, you know,

you know, not to make you uncomfortable, but think about how you've changed the game in marketing, right? Like you not only changed, like, you know, you as a super who, like you got so deep in marketing and then you invent, you know, you clarified and invented the model of funnels, right? And, and obviously your technology made that possible for,

hundreds of thousands of companies, right? To scale and to actually apply marketing in a simple frame, right? I mean, even, you know, when I read your book, I remember reading dot com secrets in 2016. When did it come out? 2015. Okay, so I read it in 2015 or 16.

By the way, Ben Hardy read my book. That's pretty cool. Sorry. I read it in Alaska on a fishing trip with my grandfather, on a fishing trip with my father-in-law. And I was reading dot com secrets and it showed me exactly what I was doing wrong. Right. And so like what you've done as a super who is you've changed the game and made marketing easier for everyone. Right. And so like that's that's extreme leverage. But I remember reading that and I was just starting as a blogger and growing my blog and I was sending people to my website. Right.

And my website was like multifaceted. There was 50 things and you taught me about the landing page. And so like literally I start, what happened was, and I wouldn't be the professional author if I hadn't read that book. I would have found probably another pathway. But like, it was like, I read that. I'm like, okay, I'm never sending people to my website again. I'm only sending them to a landing page. And all of a sudden, bang, like my blogs, like, and the value of those blogs, because I got email subscribers, 10X, and it was what enabled me to become a professional writer. So like,

I love what you're saying and it takes extreme capability to become a super who. You actually have to become so good at what you do that it does change maybe the whole game like you did for marketing or it changes at least the game of that business, right? And it makes the impossible happen. - Yeah, okay, one last question for you. It's actually going back five minutes to the interview. So when I first met you, you were the number one blogger on Medium, right?

like the number one dude on the platform and then and then you just just you you shut it down and then you like blowing up youtube and then you shut it down and i want to talk about this because a lot of times me specifically i get really good at something and like it's my thing and like i'm gonna die holding on to this thing and both times you built big distribution channels you like literally just shut them down i don't have to do with the with the book but i would like to explain that because i think it'll give people some understanding of like

maybe with different way to look at like the things that they love so much, maybe are holding back. Maybe this is selfishly for me to- - I think it's great. So Dr. Richard Rommelt, he wrote a good book called "Good Strategy, Bad Strategy." And he said that good strategy is surprising because of how rare it is. And most people don't expect you to have a good strategy because they don't have a good one themselves. Like it's just a really good book on strategy. But again, back to the idea of strategy is about choosing a path, not 20 paths, right? And that's really hard to do. So strategy is really about making a choice.

And when it came to Medium, all goals are means, not ends. And so for me, Medium was a means to growing my email list and becoming a professional author. Once I became a professional author, the future was like, how do I actually write hopefully game-changing books in business and in psychology? And if I continue to just focus on Medium just because I had it,

Like I would have never gone deep on this. Right. And so I would have been stuck on that last wave. That wave served a phenomenal purpose and gave me the opportunity to like really focus on this new 10X, which was writing different books and obviously, you know, unique pathways, writing the books with Dan. That was unexpected. My publisher at the time was very excited.

upset that I was wanting to write those three books with Dan, but I saw that as like a really good book or a really good pathway and partnership for going deep on what I wanted to learn. Um, and then to the idea of YouTube, like YouTube, although it's a good path, like it gives distribution, it gives eyeballs. Um, it's a clunky path for our goal, right? If I had 10 years to do it, I could go grow a YouTube channel. But if I have two, um,

YouTube would take way too much time, too much bandwidth. It's not high enough leverage for what we're trying to accomplish with our goal, right? As we're scaling that company, it's not an efficient enough path. And so like the book is a much more efficient path for the kind of people we're looking for. Also the kind of people we're looking for are more likely to read a book or listen to an audio book than watch YouTube. Like, you know, YouTube is a great platform, but

it was one that I realized was a distraction from me focusing on a better path. And then we all have reasons for, for certain goals. You know, like I'm, I actually used to like walk around Italy and stuff and people would recognize me because of my YouTube channel. Whereas like this, like people don't always recognize faces. No, no, exactly. But sometimes our, sometimes we are, we optimize it for vanity metrics. Right. And so for me, it was,

One of the core concepts of healing, psychology, spirituality growth is this concept of letting go. Dr. David Hawkins wrote a book called Letting Go. But the longer it takes you to let go of something, obviously the more attached you are to it and that's stopping you. And so getting really good at letting go and stripping things out and letting go of even goals or vanity metrics or things that you really valued, not that you have to let it all go, but at a certain point, it's stopping you from the next path.

And so just being aware that like, okay, this thing served its purpose, but now it's like, it actually is costing me a much bigger opportunity or a much bigger future. That's really hard. And so it's a skill to be able to say,

this is now kind of a dead end or this has reached its plateau. I squeezed the majority of the juice out as I can. There's probably much more efficient and better pathways, which are going to require me to jump into a new role. So it's just being willing to let go of even something that's really great and that's working. Most people won't do that. I mean, that's very difficult work, but I think it's required for innovation. If you think about Apple and things like that, like

they had to eventually let go of the ipod right and like other things and so you know most of their products are are new concepts or new models right and so you know you can only ride certain things so far yeah interesting well i'm hoping that everyone as they read this book they pick a goal and then do what i'm going to do which is what you've done which is go through the process and figure out like what are the things you got to cut to be able to focus to actually achieve them it's awesome and it's difficult it's funny somebody asked me after your talk like so what's your goal right now and i was like

it's interesting i'm like well my major goal i had i accomplished i think that's part of why i've been like you wandering a little bit huge it's just like what's the next thing i gotta figure that out so i'm excited to kind of re-look at it through this lens and then re-rebuild everything based on that so anyway i'm excited i'm excited for you man i mean whenever you have a goal russell watching that world we'll see what happens you know it's awesome i mean victor franco i'll end with this is you know and i i started with this in my talk to your other group but

You know, Frankel knew, and he wrote Man's Search for Meaning, The Concentration Camps. He knew that in order to have meaning in your life, you have to have a goal. And in order to overcome awful situations, circumstances, or just deal with challenge, you have to have a goal. And so humans need a goal. And so even if you've achieved huge goals, you have to have a goal.

You need a future. Our psychology and our meaning, but also just our mental health is based on striving toward a future. Once you stop having a future to strive for, your mental health starts to go downhill. You start to become confused. And so having a goal that gives you direction and purpose is essential, not only for better decisions, but it's also just essential.

essential for like operating effectively. So, yeah. So we all need a goal as much as some people don't want one. Might as well do a huge one. As long as we shoot for them, go for a big one. Well, because it'll strip out bad paths. It'll force you to find the most powerful paths in Super Hoos. But it's, it's no harder to do the bigger goal. It's just requires more letting go and better execution.

filtering and a willingness to go find those better paths. Yeah. Awesome, man. I appreciate you. Thank you. Where can people get your book? Is it live yet? When's it actually going live? So they can actually get it for free, literally free, scaling.com forward slash audio book. Ooh, the best version, the audio book version. Yeah. I mean, obviously you can go get it on Amazon, but we give away the audio book. Our publisher gave us permission to give the audio book away. So, um, but yeah, I mean, obviously you can go to Amazon and

and get it if that's the preference or audible you know so yeah awesome thanks man thanks for being here in mexico thanks for the time appreciate you and letting me come man seriously anything anything you're up to i'm super interested in it okay i appreciate it man all right