Chris Voss learned the importance of hard work, integrity, and problem-solving from his father, who was a blue-collar entrepreneur in Iowa. His father emphasized that no task was beneath him and encouraged Chris to figure things out on his own, which laid the foundation for his negotiation skills and career in law enforcement.
After initially pursuing a career with the Kansas City Police Department, Chris Voss was encouraged by his father to aim for federal law enforcement. He applied to the FBI during a hiring push and was accepted, leveraging his four-year degree in industrial administration from Iowa State University to meet the Bureau's requirements.
After re-injuring his knee during a tryout for the FBI's Hostage Rescue Team, Chris Voss decided to pursue hostage negotiation. Despite initial rejection, he took the advice of a negotiation team leader to volunteer on a suicide hotline, which demonstrated his initiative and eventually led to his acceptance onto the negotiation team.
Chris Voss was inspired to write 'Never Split the Difference' after years of accumulating material and insights from his career. He collaborated with co-writer Tal Raz, who challenged and refined his ideas, ensuring the book was both informative and accessible. The book became a bestseller and a cornerstone of modern negotiation techniques.
After the release of 'Never Split the Difference,' Chris Voss was invited to speak at the Chicago Ideas conference, where he connected with influential figures. This led to an introduction to Masterclass, which recognized the value of his expertise and invited him to create a course on negotiation, further expanding his reach and impact.
Chris Voss's negotiation philosophy centers on empathy, active listening, and understanding the counterpart's perspective. He emphasizes the importance of building trust and creating a collaborative environment where both parties feel heard and valued, rather than resorting to adversarial tactics or splitting the difference.
Chris Voss identifies red flags such as phrases like 'win-win deal' or 'great opportunity,' which often indicate someone trying to exploit the situation. He also looks for patterns of behavior that suggest inauthenticity or manipulation, using these cues to navigate negotiations more effectively.
The Chris Voss AI, developed in partnership with Masterclass, serves as a negotiation assistant, providing users with insights and strategies based on Voss's expertise. It is fed with exclusive case studies, emails, and internal communications to offer high-quality, nuanced advice, helping users achieve better outcomes in their negotiations.
Legendary negotiator Chris Voss takes us on an extraordinary journey, sharing his transformation from a small-town Iowa native to the esteemed head of the FBI's international kidnapping negotiation team. Throughout our conversation, Chris reflects on the pivotal lessons in hard work and integrity imparted by his father that shaped his path in law enforcement, eventually leading him to Harvard Law School and Georgetown University. As the CEO of the Black Swan Group, Chris offers insights into his influential work and the surprising inspirations behind his bestselling book, "Never Split the Difference."
We engage in a profound dialogue on the importance of self-responsibility and perseverance, especially amidst modern challenges of a victimhood culture. Chris reveals the meticulous process behind writing his book, emphasizing the power of collaboration and strategic decision-making in achieving international success. We explore the unexpected opportunities that arose from his book release, including his prestigious involvement with Masterclass, highlighting the relentless hustle and serendipitous moments that paved the way.
The episode rounds out with a captivating exploration of mastering client relationships, drawing from Chris's negotiation techniques to transform real estate coaching strategies alongside Steve Shaw. With a focus on trust and elite customer experience, we discuss the art of building genuine connections and becoming a trusted advisor. Join us for another engaging episode of Escaping the Drift, as we reflect on valuable insights and invite you to connect with our community for more enriching content.
**CHAPTERS **
(00:00) - From Small Town to FBI Negotiator
(13:56) - Success Through Self-Responsibility and Perseverance
(22:10) - Opportunities Seized
(31:56) - Mastering Client Relationships in Real Estate
(47:20) - Building Trust and Elite Customer Experience
(01:00:27) - Connecting With the Audience
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