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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Period. Aloha kakahiaka, naimbagna aldaw, and good morning to everybody. As you can see in the stool today, we don't have Miss K, but we have... Princess May. And a plus one. Yes. Would you like to introduce her? Yes. We have Miss Alele Rosalita...
She is two months old. She's two months old. How old? When does she turn two months? Or three months? Every 31st.
Oh yeah, all your kids are born on the 31st. I know, crazy. Princess, can you speak? I don't know why you're speaking all so demure. Like, when have you spoken like this? Well, because... Girl, she up. You can talk your regular voice, girl. I don't know why you're trying to be demure. Because people are going to be like, oh my God, she's talking too loud in the mic. Girl, they don't have anything to say about you anyways, regardless.
So, Princess May, how has your first two months of being a newly mother again for the fourth time been? It's good. I feel like I already got the motherhood thing. But it's just, she makes it really easy for me too because she's very chill. Yeah, all of them. I feel like her and Toffee has got to be like the chillest one ever. Yeah.
And still chill. I feel like Tophie, I have still yet to hear Tophie cry. I feel like I always say that, but I'm like, I have never heard Tophie cry, genuinely. Even her, I feel like I haven't heard her cry out loud. I've heard her whimper if she's not being rocked. Because she likes being carried and things like that. I guess we'll just start off with fertility of the day. Miss Princess May, do you have any tips for us? Of course. There's your cry. There's your cry, baby.
She wants to stare at the light. She wants to be like moving. Before you do fertility, cue the intro. Bratman to Earth, Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we are back. Miss Princess May, what is your first fertility of the day? My fertility tip of the day or my advice is...
Get a routine down for your newborn. That was your tip last time. I feel like you heard that, yeah. You said that already.
Oh, can I share my routine then? Yeah, maybe share your routine. Because I think you said that get your routine down, like done, like as your fertility before. So would you like to tell us your routine? Maybe they can, maybe they need an example. Yeah, okay. Let's just say for breastfeeding, my routine is like every two, three hours, I feed her. And then like in between, when she's sleeping, that's when I get to do things, you know. But by the time like...
By that time you get a routine down, like, that's when you start doing routine of your house and then start doing yourself. Like, your skincare, taking a bath. I know it's, like, I know it's, like, easier said than done. But it really is, it really is about routine. And, like, my routine is she wakes up around 5.
She wakes up around 4. That's early. Yeah, she wakes... She sleeps throughout the whole night, though. If I go to sleep at 8, then I have, like, a good sleep, you know? But I do still kind of, like, wake up every 2-3 hours. But she's usually up, like, around 4. Like, just... She's not, like, crying or anything. But I notice that she's up and she's, like, you know, just looking around. She's like, this is nice. And then after that, she goes back to sleep and...
And I wake up around 7 or 8 to feed. And then she goes back to sleep. And then that's when I make breakfast. Or I do my face. I mean, my skincare, my hair care, whatever, whatever. Go downstairs and then make breakfast. Clean the house, whatever I need to do. Come back, feed the baby again. Put her in her rocking chair. And if I need to do other things, yeah, I do.
I feel like you're on an airplane mode now where you're just like, you're kind of just doing it automatically. Yes, yes, yes. She's just doing it on the go. Yeah. Wait, so the last time you were here, she was still in your stomach. This is the first time the world or the world of the baddest radio is seeing Miss Adele. So I think it's only fair that we go all the way back to
January 31st Or December Oh my god No she's a New Year's Day baby Yeah New Year's Eve Oh yeah New Year's Eve She was born December 31st What time? Oh my gosh I forgot It was like Princess Princess in the morning right?
Yes. So December 31st in the morning? Yes. So like 7 a.m., 5 a.m.? Yeah. Yes, I think so. Period. I forgot. Oh my gosh. Girl, it's only been three months. I know. I feel like all your kids' birth is probably all like mixing up into one birth in your head. Like, oh my god. It's so crazy because like every single time like when all the kids are with me or...
Like all four of them. All four of them. They're with me. I just like... I always mix up their names. Or I'd be asking Cleo, wait, how old is Ezekiel? Or when's his birthday? Or like, oh, wait. Now you see why mom doesn't even... I feel like at one point, I had to quite ask myself if my mom even knew my name. Because she would just say every other name but mine. I was JR for so long. And she'd call me Mai too. And I'm like, I...
Anyways, so now you see why mom gets like all her kids confused. Because like even with all your kids, they're all so close of age. They're probably like all the same kids in your head. Yeah, I'm like, wait. So going back to December 31st, how was your delivery like? Because I feel like I've talked about it here, but I want you to talk about your delivery. Because I literally mentioned how easy it was for her, but I need y'all to actually know from her mouth.
So I went in around 11. I just want to say shout out to Catherine because she took care of Do it Sophie when I went when I went to go deliver this cute little baby when I was in labor. So I went around like 11. I started to feel contractions. And then it was really bad. Like, oh, my God, the worst contractions I've ever felt like from all of the kids.
Really? She was the worst one? Well, my contractions was not the worst. I know, I know. But like, she was the worst one? She's not even the biggest one. Well, she was coming in hot, girl. Because I went from 2 to 4. 4 to 6. 6 to 10. And I didn't... So, okay. She was coming. Yeah, she was coming. So I was only at 2. So I got a membrane sweep the day before. That day, actually. I got a membrane...
membrane sweep that day around in the morning what is a membrane sweep do they stick something in your no they the doc your ob like sweeps her like she like on the outside no she goes in your vagina and then she like and she makes it what
Yeah. I didn't know that was a thing. Oh my god. Now he's sleeping. Well not your whole hand. I think she just goes like that. With her little finger. But she's just like. Oh I see. It's also so funny that like. When Cleo was born. Like.
We had to make sure everything was safe for her. Really? Like she had like a net over her always. Her hands were always covered. Her hair was always had oil because my mom. And then now the more kids she has, the more we're like, we just be flinging them around. Like no one was allowed to kiss, hug, touch Cleo. Like she's like, carry her.
Anyways. Anyways. So yeah, I went in around 11 at night. And then after that, I had asked for... Epidural? No, I had asked for fentanyl. What is that? Fentanyl. Fentanyl.
Like the drug to calm me down and I don't feel it. Oh, shit. Yeah, like medical fentanyl. Obviously, bitch. You're not like, can you get me some weed? My dealer's actually on his way up right now. You're like, can you load me a bong right now? Yeah, they're like, oh, do you want a fentanyl? And I was like, yeah. Well, yes. Was that your first time? I had one first.
Well, I think I had a morphine for new toffee. But this time, they didn't have the morphine. So I was like, okay, I'll just take the fentanyl. Bitch, you're like, I'll have anything you're having. You have. Just please, I'm in pain. Just put it in me. So she gave me a half shot. I went to sleep. Really? I went to sleep. I was so, like, dizzy. And then I woke up and I felt the contraction. Because it only, I think it's only half an hour or like an hour.
And then I woke up and then they felt they touched me and I was already at 4CM. But then their, their, what is that thing again? The epidural person. What did they call them? MD? No. Did you say MD? MD, I don't know. Bitch, I don't know. I don't even know what an epidural is. The epidural is like goes in your... Oh, anesthesiologist. Yes, that one. The anesthesiologist. Okay.
She knows. The anesthesiologist. Yeah. Them. They were... I was... They only do it upstairs where they usually do it. I was still downstairs because they're waiting for me to... Oh, yes. I remember this part. For like a certain number for my... Oh, my God. I can't even speak, bitch. Because you're not... You're trying to remember at the same time as you're saying it. So, and then...
So I had asked for another one, another fentanyl. So they gave it to me and then while... And then the... What's his name again? Anesthesiologist. Yeah.
Girl, hurry up. I'm like, I'm so tired. I hate you. Your delivery was like shorter than this story. Honestly, princess. I'm trying to explain to them. We're already halfway the episode. You haven't given birth yet. Oh my God. So when they gave me the fentanyl, I was like so drowsy. I was so drowsy. The anesthesiologist...
Girl, you tried your best. Go. Yeah, he came in and I was like, okay, you need to get up. But I'm like... You're like, bitch, I'm high. I'm like, what do I do? I was so scared. I guess I was rocking myself. And he's like, you need to sit up.
Yeah. You're yelling at me. I'm like, bro, I'm in San Antonio. Anyways, so he gave it to me. And then after that, they put me in the upstairs. And then I'm in the delivery room now. I don't feel shit, bitch. That's why I was making all those videos.
I was making all those TikToks. I was like, you know, I was just chilling, calling everybody. And people didn't even know you were high as fuck in those videos, girl. No, I just didn't feel anything. But I wasn't feeling anything. And my water didn't break yet. And then I fell asleep. I slept for like a good two hours.
And then I, then they always, they kept asking me, if you feel it in your butt, like if you feel any like pressure on your butt, like in your butt area, like let us know. That's probably the baby like pushing down or like, you know, whatever, whatever. So I've been feeling it, but then I was asleep. So I was like, just kind of ignoring it. And then after that, I was like, oh, I feel something in my butt. Like, I feel like it's coming out. And then I was like,
And then I touched myself. Like I touched and then I felt the head.
I felt the head and I was like... I felt it and then I was like, oh, I kept calling my nurse and then... You're like, is that her hair or mine? I called the nurse and then the nurse came and then I was already at 10pm. She was ready to come out. And she literally came out. Before the doctor was there, right? Yes, before the... Well, the doctor came in and then she was like...
Hold on. Because somebody else is in the other room. Giving birth. Giving birth. That she needed to... The baby was already almost out, I guess. And then so when she came back in, that's when they were like, they kept calling her because my alile was already like this dangling on my fucking vagina. Oh, in that video, right? Yes. Yes.
Yes. Oh, period. She was already halfway out when the doctor came. Damn. So she was like juggling. What was she going to do? If the doctor was in there, was somebody going to catch her?
Huh? So was somebody going to catch her? Yeah, the nurses. There was like all the nurses there. But then if I... They told me not to push. Like, don't push it. Like, but then if it... But if you can't control, like not pushing, just let it go. And I was like, I'm not even pushing anymore. It was just sliding down. And then that's when the doctor came and then she had no gloves, nothing because the baby...
because our lay was just going down oh my god that's crazy it is the video is playing in my mind right now she was like I need to see 2025 that's what she wanted yeah I really wish I could show you guys the video but
I made Tony make, I made Tony record it. So interesting to see. I was like grossed out, but I was like, wait, this is a human birth. Like I've never seen one live or that explicit, honestly. Like I've seen diagrams on like Twitter, like human birth, but I don't think I've ever seen it.
Like that. And I was like, whoa. I thought it was so beautiful. I woke up to the video. And I was like, I was really amazed. I just wanted a picture of the baby. She sent me the whole video of the birth. And then how was her first week? Because you came home right away. Because I feel like most of the time. People stay. People stay for a bit. Why did you come home right away? I feel like you came home on the first. I did.
That's crazy. I did, right, Kat? Yeah, I think we came home on the first. Because we were at Brett's all day. Me and Tophie and Kaleo. I came home that day. Because nothing. I just wanted to be home. You were like, I have nothing to do here. Yeah, I just wanted to be home. And I felt like I needed to start, you know, the routine. The routine. Especially new Tophie. Because like, it's not just going to be me and...
Aulele is going to be me and my little two-year-old. What has been the most different from Aulele's first semester of life compared to all your kids? I guess not to compare them like that, but yeah. Has she been easier? Yes.
Alele has been the easiest for me because like I said, I got the routine down. All of the mistakes that I've done in the past, I've already corrected them and stuff like that. You learned. I've learned. So let's address the elephant in the room, really. How does it feel to have a child not look like you finally? Oh my God.
I feel like this is the only one where I'm like, I don't see princess really that much. I guess like our hair. Yeah, she has a lot of hair. And her dad has a bald. Has a bald. Has a bald. That's how Ezekiel would say. I guess we... I mean, we have the same nose. She does not have my lashes because these are not my lashes. These are really long lashes. She do. She got like...
Her face shape I think is very Tony. Her nose is mine. Everything else is Tony's. She looks so much like Toffee. Really? Toffee looks like me though. Toffee looks like Tony. No, Tony. I think Toffee looks like Princess. Let us know in the comment section down below. Here's a picture of new Toffee and here's a picture of Alele. Period.
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I love someone who loves to take care of things. I love people who love animals, whether it's you volunteering your time for the animal shelters, or if you just have a lot of animals that you take care of, I love an animal lover. But I would say the number one hottest hobby out there is an active lifestyle.
For example, I love people who like to climb. I love people who like to do activities like surfing, fishing, anything under the sun. Like that is so hot to me because I feel like nowadays we're all on the phones. We met on the phone, but we don't have to spend our date on the phone, you know? But if your whole personality is the gym, dot, dot, dot,
Uh, next caller, thank you. I feel like there's a fine line between, like, a gym bro versus a gym bro. Like, girl, we get it. We get it. You know, I feel like there is really a fine line between a hot hobby versus an annoying hobby. If you make it your whole personality, bye. But if you're into adventure, like, riding horses, perhaps...
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New episodes drop every Wednesday. Hope to see you there. Do you have any questions for Miss Princess, Cady? I do. Because Princess is a person that I always go to when I have questions about being a mommy. Is there something you want? You know you already say a lot of things to new mommies already. But is there anything from this delivery that you were like, oh, maybe I should tell them that too?
Oh, okay. So for me, I feel like I went to the doctors twice already because of like the contractions and stuff like that. But don't go too early because they're going to tell you to leave. Because I came in two centimeters, like I went three times. Oh, yes. I remember this part too. And I was having contractions. And then they're like, okay, well, if it doesn't progress...
For the next hour or two hours they're in the hospital, they're going to tell you to leave. Because it's not progressing. So that means the baby is just going down and you're just feeling contractions at that moment. Yeah. So I feel like if it's 10 minutes apart and they're a minute long, I think that's when you should go to the doctor. Sorry. Oh my God. How was it again? It was a minute...
Long. Every. Don't go too soon. Don't. Because you will not remember. Yeah, I'm just trying to explain to them that like there's like a contraction like time that, you know, that you have to go by, I guess. Do the doctors like tell you about it beforehand? Like when you're like, because you go see them like once a week. Yeah, yeah. Do they let you know like, hey, like just wait? Like do they let you know like that?
the procedure to wait for it. Yeah, they do. So we should listen to them. Yes, you should listen to them. When I have a child, Princess will be there. I will be there. She's a doula. She will be the doula. I will be there 100%. Do you have any other questions for Princess? It's also Women's Month. Happy Women's Month. Thank you. Everyone that is a woman who is also watching this. I feel like there's a lot of like the girls and the gays that watches our podcast
And I feel like the gays are very much watching this like, what are they talking about right now? Oh, wait, let me read the tea of the day. I didn't even get to mine. The tea of the day. I actually haven't written on my journal for the past two weeks. And I will explain why here. Yeah, but it's but I'm but because my entry today was so long, I'm going to just do one part today and then the next part on the next pod. So just keep that in mind.
March 10, 2025. Two weeks, two freaking weeks of not writing in my journal. And I'm not going to lie, I feel a bit guilty. But at the same time, I feel so frazzled and overwhelmed that sitting down to write something has been the last thing on my mind.
With that being said, let me catch you up to speed. Last week, after being home for four days, I went to the Oscars, which is back in LA. And it was so much fun. I had to be in glam at 9am, so my day started at 7, because I, you know, I bitch had to work out. Then, red carpet is at 1. I wore Robert Wan, obviously, and it was from his Homecoming collection, which Brian and I fell in love with.
I got so many compliments from everyone and my glam bought eight. During the award show, I sat by my girl, Gwen, and that had to be the highlight of my Oscar, honestly. Truly spending it with someone who started this dream with you. Remy, Alicia, and Ali and I also went to go get Sunny Angels and La Boo Boo's the night before. And I also opened them up at the Oscars, which I think deserves an Oscar on its own.
I was just at the Oscars last week, y'all. It was so much fun. I feel like people forget to tell you that it is a lot of like movie magic because I was like, why am I getting ready at 8 a.m. right now for the Oscars? Because you would think the Oscars are filmed at night. No, girl, they're filmed at 4 p.m. in the afternoon in Hollywood. And it's a lot of like,
Like press and stuff like that. So like when I did get there at like 1.30, 1.30, I was like, what am I going to do for like two hours and a half? But like the red carpets, the press interviews, the glam bots, and just like a lot of like hellos, hi's. Oh my gosh. Like, you know, that was TikTok that's like, hi, girl. Like little talks. Allah.
that. A lot of that. But it was a lot of commercial breaks that like a lot of what am I, what am I, what now? Type shit. So I was like every time it went on commercial, I would literally just go to the bathroom or Quinn and I would go back to the bar or I would go open my Sunny Angels. We even found time to nap, girl. Like it was a lot. But
My favorite thing, did you watch the Oscars, Princess? I did. Oh, did you see Cynthia and Ariana perform live? I don't think so. You probably missed it because it was the very beginning. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because when I called Catherine, I was like, she was like, oh, I'm going to watch Spiderman in the Oscars.
I mean, on the Oscars. I'm going to watch him. Yeah. And I was like, oh, where is it on? And he was like... I was set, like, in the back second row. So, like, I was not going to get any screen time, girl. Trust. Like, none of that. I was, like, looking to see if, like, you're in the background. Yeah. Wait, Cady, so since you're a wicked girly like me, how did you think of Cynthia and Ariana's performance? I thought it was absolutely beautiful. It was so angelic. And then how they both had their little solos and they came together.
Like, just wait for good to come out in this part two. I know. I feel like when Wicked came out, it was our personality. And I'm like, I cannot wait to get my personality back this November. We went through it so many times, I feel like. We would just be staying at home like, should we see Wicked? Yeah. Yeah.
Have you watched Wicked Princess? Oh my God. Catherine just asked that earlier. Why did you not watch Wicked yet? Because I feel like you haven't. I don't know. I've never been really like... A musical girl. Well, Cleo and I, girl, your daughter, she be trying me yesterday because I knew she had that cooking too, that girl, because she was like, oh, can we sing something? And I was like, sure. And then she was like, can you play? What is this feeling? Can you be Galinda? Yeah.
And she's always Galinda. So I was like, hmm, this is the first time she's asked me to be Galinda. So we're singing it. And then there's part, you know where there's a pause where she's like, wait, what is this feeling? I can't remember the words, but it's when Ariana's just like, unusually. Yeah. So Galinda's like, unusually.
Exidentally peculiar. So that's her part. And then Cynthia has a pause. Cynthia. Elphaba has a pause where she goes, blonde. But Cleo goes, gay. And I was like, girl, you had that cooking because I know for a fact you did not think of that on the spot. And she made sure I heard it. She was like, did you hear me? I said, gay. Yeah.
And I'm like, Cleo, that's literally why I paused. You want to know a secret? You've told her to say that. We were sitting in the car all morning because I had her. And I was like, you know what would be funny? I was like, when Uncle Brett picks you up, you should play this song. And you say, gay. Yes. And she said, gay. Uncle, did you hear me? I said, gay. Okay.
I'm like, I heard you. She is so funny. I can't with her. But yeah, very much that. I also want, well, honestly, I was doing all the interviews like, I can't wait to watch Cynthia get her EGOT.
We're about to watch history tonight. And she didn't get her ego. I'm a little... I was a little shook. Shook, honestly. But I love Anora. Yes, girl. Because you and I watched Anora right before I left. And it was really good. And I'm not disagreeing at all. But I wish Cynthia got something. Yeah. That's all I will say. I love Zoe Sondana too. I think she's such an amazing artist. I mean...
Actress. Do you have any favorite movies recently, Princess? I feel like you've been doing that a lot. Because every time I visit you, you're like breastfeeding, watching movies. I've just been watching like really old movies. Like what? Put us on, put us on. What has been kind of your favorite? Oh, actually, I've been watching this Netflix show. It's called Black and... Beauty in Black? Beauty in Black. I heard of that by Tyler Perry. Yeah. Ooh, what's it about? What's it about? An escort.
Okay, Anora. Giving Anora a fantasy. Yeah, it's like... She's a stripper, actually. She was a stripper. And she became an escort for this... No, not the man. The wealthy older man's son. And he was married to this lady that... And she kept up with the business. And she basically...
She's really good in business. And they just... The guy's just been cheating on her and everything. And I don't know how to explain it, but it's a really, really, really good show. I really, really like it. I feel like I haven't heard of it, but I feel like I also have. It's a lot of dramas. And he has a lot of secrets. I know that the dad, the wealthy man that Catherine's talking about, he...
He's actually gay. In real life or in the movie? We love a DL. Yeah, he's a DL. Have you watched any of... And the son was also gay.
Have you ever Have you watched Any of the Oscar nominated films? No I didn't Oh I feel like You and And you know I give great suggestions But I feel like You and Tony would like Conclave Conclave Yeah it was really boring And I think that's why You guys would really like it Because it's very like Straight people Movie It's about The Pope dying And
So when the Pope dies, all the Popes get together and they vote on a new Pope. And let's just say they voted for the wrong Pope. Is it scary? No. It's more dark. Thriller? You gotta watch it. I think you guys will like it. I think you guys will like it. Because I remembered last month, I went over to your house because you cooked some birria tacos. And I suggested you watch High Potential. Yes. And you actually kept up with it. Yes.
I cannot wait for the new High Potential. Season 2. Season 2, girl. Have you been watching White Lotus? No, I don't watch White Lotus. Oh, because it has killing. It has the D word in it. It does. No, it doesn't. But it has D word activities. Demonic activities. Stop! Oh, sorry. Speaking of saying it, do you...
Smell that. Do you smell what the cat is cooking? Oh my god, yes, I do. Period. Cat, what did you cook for us today? Because I'm hungry. What is she? I'm so hungry. I have not ate anything today, Cat. So this is going to be amazing. What is she? What is she? So, what I made today was a little coffee cake. And on top is a dairy-free whipped cream bread. Period.
Oh, we love a coffee cake from Starbs. Yeah. I've been watching a lot of I Love Lucy recently. And I used to watch it growing up. And when I was younger, I used to make a lot of coffee cakes. I was like, oh. Because I don't… There's like an episode of… I don't know which one. But an episode of where they're eating coffee cake in I Love Lucy. And I was like, waiting to learn how to make it. So, it's really easy to make too. Now that's refreshing.
That's honestly better than the Starbucks coffee cake. Really? I never had the Starbucks coffee cake before. Just a lemon loaf. That's really good. A lot of lemon on the top. Okay. Wait, so you used to work at Starbucks. I did. What was... Did you ever have like any secret menu stuff at Starbucks that you would like to share? Yeah. I used to... I used to do like... Actually...
That's all the screen time that we will give Starbucks today. Thank you. We still don't support Starbucks. We don't support them. That was a trick question, Kat. Lele, what's the tea, girl? What do you want to be when you grow up? She's just staring at you. She really is. Princess, what are your wishes for Miss Lele? I wish her to be a smart girl. Nice.
She's gonna be a smart girl of color. A smart girl who loves her family. I wish everything for her that I did not have. You know? Like what? Like smart and a family? No. Yes. You're dumb with no family. No. What do you mean things you don't have? Like...
Like, you know, like, I hope she learns from my mistakes. I hope she's a smart girl to do everything right. Not always right, but, like, you know, I want to give her the perfect life. I mean, don't we all want that for the kids, girl? Yeah, we do. When I say, like, I want her to have, like, a family, meaning, like...
You know, I wish that, you know, me and Tony stay together and, like, you know, raise her. I'll bury that. You know, because of, you know, our dad, like, not being present in our life. Like, I want that for her, you know? And...
And I want her to be a smart girl. Meaning like she makes smart choices and she is smart in education and school. Period. Yeah. Let's go through all your kids and let's update them on what they're all up to. What is Cleo up to these days? Cleo's just been, she's a Sanrio girl. She loves to sing. Yes, she is in her singing era. She's been singing everywhere, girl. Especially love.
Yes, she's been wanting to go to she's been wanting to do like singing classes but it's just really really hard for me because like They be expensive. They be expensive. I've never been to a singing class before but they've been they are especially if it's like a personal one or make her do a choir like
A choir would be so fun. No, she wants to be a singer. And they sing in choir. Yeah, but they don't want that. You think Cleo's gonna be a pop star right now? Girl, let her get her fucking vocals correct. I think that's what she wants, actually. She's eight, princess. Since she was a kid. Since she was a little girl.
Girl, what I'm telling you is... That's not what I'm telling you. I'm telling you that if you want to save money because you're seeing how expensive singing classes are. Yeah, yeah. Send her to a choir where they sing for a church for free. Oh, yeah. Churches do. And they learn how to sing. They learn the basics. And she's singing songs that like... And that would make sense for you because you're a church girly. Since Cleo was a child, she's been... Her dream is to be...
in American American Got Talent she said one day she will be in there period and what is her talent singing yeah singing period and then or this is the voice that one this is this is the voice
And she's been trying to learn some Filipino songs. She's very curious of like her culture. She's been in her curious area lately. She's been like, she's like, I want to go to the Philippines. Kat was telling me how she was convinced that she was born in the Philippines and Samoa. Yeah, no, literally. I'm dead. I tried to explain to her, I'm like, you are Filipino and Samoan, but you were born here. And she's like, no, I wasn't.
I was born in the Philippines and Samoa. And I was like, okay, girl. Period. I was like, I love that for you. You ate that. Like, your head came out in the Philippines and your whole body came out in Samoa, girl. Kids just have imagination. And then I have to keep telling myself that, like, Cleo's not old enough to, like, know these, like, you know. Yeah, I remember yesterday she was telling me about her crush.
I know. And how he's shorter than her. And I was like, period, Cleo. And then I was like, what about the tall boys in your class? And she was like, I'm kind of the tallest in the class. She said, I am the tall boy. I am the tall boy and the tall girl. What has been Ezekiel up to? Ezekiel has just been playing his flag football.
I know. They won yesterday. Yeah. They did so good. He did so good. And he's… He plays really great defense, I feel like. Yeah. He loves, like, grabbing the flag. Yeah. But I really wanted him to play offense, you know. Because he was doing pretty good, like, the first season that he did. He did really good. And then they put him in defense. But he's just getting older. I think it's because he's fast. And he can catch them really quickly. Because I feel like… He's really scared, though, to, like…
Pull it. No, not pull it. To like... Yeah. To each other. Yeah. He was focused yesterday. Like, I was surprised how he was like watching the ball, watching the players. Like, he really was good. He was locked in. Yeah. I love that every time he pulls the flag, he like feels bad. And he's like... Yeah.
That was so fun. Is it rewarding seeing your kids play sports? Because I feel like it would be. I feel like I would be the worst soccer sports mom ever. Because I would literally be... I would want to be the head coach. I feel like I would do some shit like that for maybe my next adventure in life. I would want to coach track in high school. Give back in that kind of way. Yeah. And then also, he's just...
Pretty much he's getting ready to go to public school next year. This year actually. I feel like he's really great at making friends. So I'm not worried about him. He's really sweet. He's a really sweet boy. And he's like a people people. He loves people. He loves to talk to people. Unless he's having a bad day. Yeah, he also has a temper too. Yeah.
You can talk to Ezekiel, but when he's having a bad day, he's just... He's not... Nobody likes... He don't like nobody. Yeah, he don't like nobody. I gotta snap him out of it. How has Tophie been? Tophie, we are in this program called Child Development. It's just he's not hitting the milestone that he should be at his age, which is like also like talking. And he's not really talking as much.
Like he can't say, he's supposed to be saying like two word sentences already. Like no mommy or like yes mama or like.
You know, he's like, also his motor skills is really, really good. His motor skills are very good. It's just like he's not nonverbal. What is his motor skills? What is that? Motor skills? Motor. It's like... He's walking. No, no, no. Motor skills are like if there's a spinning toy, will he spin it? Okay.
What are scales like? Like if there's blocks in front of him, will he stop them? Yeah. Oh, and they test that too? Yes. They test everything. And then there's a lot of signs of like autism, which I don't think he has autism. I think he's just delayed in...
Because I do know that Tony's other son, he also did the same program. Oh, period. And he's... And Cassius is very, like, talkative now. So I think he's just a little... And then Tony said that, like, back home, they don't have these. So, like, and...
These programs. So. And his family. All the boys were like. Always late. And like. So I think. It's like. You know. But. Obviously. Like. We're in a whole different. Yeah. I'm. I was gonna say. I'm glad your kids have. The resources. And you have. Yeah. The means to like. Put them there. And for. Yeah. For the better.
For them, obviously. Yeah, I was scared at first because I was in denial. I didn't want any... There's nothing wrong with kids with autism, I'd say. Nothing at all. But I was just scared because I'm like, oh, what did I do? What did I do? Was I not speaking to him enough?
Was I not taught... Like, was I not, like, focused on him enough? Yeah, were you not, like... Yeah, you start blaming yourself for it. Yeah, so... Because, like, they... When they explain it, it's like... Oh, did you talk to him? Or did you, like... Or was he always, like... Like, just... Like... Yeah. By himself, independently. You know, whatever, whatever. I feel like... And correct me if I'm wrong. But, like... I feel like Toffee spent the most...
Of all your kids, he spent the most time with you as a baby. With me, yes. Yeah. Because Cleo and E, they come from, like, two families. Obviously, like, Cleo would spend some time... Even when you were with their baby daddies. With their dads, sorry. With their dads, like, they would have turns. But Tony, because his immediate family is not in Hawaii, like, you...
He was either with you or Tony the whole time. Yes. So, I mean, and so I doubt that you guys weren't talking to him. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because, like, you're with him the most. But, yeah, go ahead. I don't, I really, I think it's also because, like, I was pregnant also with Aulele. Okay.
So, you know, most days I was so tired. And then, like, you know, I wanted to get things done in the house. I also had to create content too. Shut it clock in. Yeah. So, like, it's not that we were, like, not talking to him as much. But, like, we didn't have, like, a schedule for him. Because he…
He wakes up at any time. He goes to sleep at any time. That was him. You know, that was new Tophie. He's kind of like a middle child-ish almost. But the thing is, like, he's so chill. He's so chill. He doesn't cry. He's so good. And then it was just always me and him. And then after the baby, that's when he became so, like, more. Like, he's not talking much.
Well, I don't think it's healthy to blame yourself for that, for instance. Like, it's... I mean, I get it's normal because, like, yeah, they ask you questions like that, but...
I don't know. I don't think you should blame yourself. He's good though. Like he's definitely been… He's been talking more now. He's been talking more now. His motor skills are really, really good. Yeah, he's been saying things. Yeah. And he mumbles. He hums songs like ABCs. And he can walk up and down the stairs. How long has he been in the program now? Two weeks? No, he hasn't. Oh, he hasn't started yet? No, he hasn't started yet. But we did find… These are like the…
These are the teachers that he has right now. Sorry, give me one second. This is what he needed.
He needed a teacher and a occupational therapist. That's it. A what? Sorry, I wasn't listening to the first one. A teacher. A teacher. Like what kind of... Like a tutor teacher? Yeah, like a teacher. Okay, I know this girl. I think she's busy though. Miss Rachel? He loves her though, yeah? Yeah, Tophie loves Miss Rachel. We live for Miss Rachel, I think. And then that leads me to your last daughter.
How has she been? She's great. I feel like we talked about her first two months, but how is she now? She's great. She's awesome. Like, she's super easy to take care of. She's my, what do you call that? What is that called? She's your rock.
Yeah, she goes everywhere with me. Oh, she's your plus one. Yeah, she's... She's your shadow. Yeah, she's my plus one. She's my... Yeah, she's just really, really good. Like, when I go do my lashes, when I go do things like I want to do, I just take her. Yeah, she really sleeps on your chest. She's just been really good. Sometimes we're a little angry and...
But she's been so good. She's like, oh, how long has it been? I'm ready for my lunch. Princess, do you want to go first? Yes. So I have Lemmy. But my favorite one is Lemmy Purr. Purr. She's just holding that up because she forgot to bring her product of the day. But she's holding up Lemmy Glow, which is I like it. But she's going to talk about Lemmy Purr. Lemmy Purr. Lemmy Purr is like...
For vaginal health. Yeah, the vaginal health. Vaginal health. And I love the fact that, you know, it gives you, it makes your vagina smell like pineapples. Yeah, yeah. And did Tony tell you that? No, I told myself that. You should ask him if it does. Because something's fishy right now. I'm kidding. Kat, you have also like take Lemme, right? I do. I love Lemme. I've gone through like three bottles.
It's my everyday vitamin supplement. She has Spongebob in there. Because he's in the pineapple. Oh. Bitch. That's Spongebob? He lives in a pineapple. He lives in a pineapple and on the sea. I was like, wait, what are you talking about? My product of the week are these ceramic bowls that were sent to me by a follower. Her name is Mikayla. And she lives in Nova Scotia, Canada.
And I thought I was buying one bowl because she told me that she wanted to send me the urchin bowl, which is this one. I use this one to make all of my matchas. And it's just so cute. See, it's so fragile, though. I don't want to break it, but it's been my favorite chawan bowls ever.
because I just like the intention behind it I like that it's from you guys and she surprised me with so many things I paid for the bowl but she sent me a mug another chawan bowl that was more smooth and then two candle holders that were like the most beautiful like coral inspired candle holders I have them like laid out around the house and I didn't want to bring them because I didn't
want to crash it on top of each other and like break it because I did already kind of nick this one right here. I don't even know when. I was about to say that. But yeah, they're my favorite and I love it because it's from you guys. So thank you so much. And I also told Mikaela that I would be talking about it. So thank you, Mikaela. And she also sent the best...
And I'm already like on my last two uses of it. But she sent Nova Scotia maple syrup. It's so good. Princess, do you like matcha? I want to... Yes, I do like matcha. I'll make you matcha on the next episode. On our little break. I asked Kat earlier to make me coffee. But I think I want a matcha now. I forgot. No, it's okay. Okay, period. I don't really like...
I don't really like coffee, but they say that matcha is a little less caffeine. Yeah. Because I get jittery with coffee.
And then, like, it kind of... Your anxiety. Yes. And then it gives me anxiety. And then after that, like, I fall asleep. And then, like, I have a headache. I like matcha because it's gradual energy. Like, it gives you, like... It's not, like, in your face energy. This one gives, like, I have energy throughout the whole entire day. And I don't crash at night. Like, you know what I mean? Like, you don't crash. I don't... Because...
And everyone will tell you that it's been around me. Like I usually crash around noon because I wake up so early. I do so much in the morning. I drink so much coffee in the morning doing so much. And then by 12, I'm like, I'm ready to retire. I'm ready to call it a day. I did everything that I need to do. All my homework's done. But the green tea, matcha, I'm not crashing. So I have energy throughout the day.
I need that. Princess, where can they find you, girl? They have not found you in three months. You can find me in all my social media. Realprincessme on Instagram. Realprincessme on TikTok. And Realprincessme on Amazon storefront.
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