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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. The very first episode. Oh, wait, no. This is the very last episode of the year. Four. Yes. Today, I'm giving you...

Fantasy. And I'm giving very much peacock vibes. I told the girls that we're wearing my Christmas tree colors today. Yeah. And my Christmas tree is really just peacock themed. And so they were green. You look like the grass. You look like the grass.

Oh, no, we're the grass of the peacock. And I'm just the peacock herself. No, we're the female peacock. I forgot to introduce you guys. Obviously, you guys probably recognize the voices. Today, I'm joined with none other than... Miss Gay. Princess May. Yeah, the gang's back together for the very last episode of the year. Which is so sad. This year went by so fast.

We're going to go into our, we're just going to get right into it, y'all. Y'all ready? Yes. All right. We're going to start with our segments after this break. Bratman to Earth, Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is.

And we are back. Back, back, back, back. Miss Kaylee, would you like to start us off with Miss T? Oh my God, yes. So today, Brett recommended, I mean, no, not recommended. Requested. Requested to make a hot cocoa. I had to work with the ingredients because I have not been telling him to get ingredients. So this is a little, one of my experimentation. I call it hot cocoa.

Hot white mint cocoa. Ooh. Ooh, we love a mint. There you go, princess. Oh, thank you. Eva.

Kiefer. I had a little bit earlier. I was like, wow, this is really good. She's really good. Miss K, I don't know if you've been seeing in the comments, but people have been asking you to start a cafe. I know. I know. I've been, honestly would. Miss Cafe is what you should call it. Miss Cafe with a K. Yes.

Miss Cafe, maybe we can do that as like a manifestation slash prediction for the upcoming year. Do you have the tea of the week? Well, it's not really a tea. It's more of like a question for y'all. Because it is, you know, the holidays and today is the last day of December of 2024. Well, no, this episode is on the 26th when it comes out. But yeah, you're right. Okay, continue. I'm sorry. But I just wanted to know because like this has been like a big question to a lot of like

you know, Christmas people. Would you rather have a Christmas, a real Christmas tree or a fake Christmas tree?

Ooh, okay. That's a hard question. I think I'm a little bit of both. Yeah, I obviously love, well, I've had both. So one year, which is actually Kat's first year here working. Very. She will probably tell this story on her episode because she really, girl, my first year, Kat bought seven real Christmas tree.

Four downstairs, three upstairs. I will not even get to how much that costs me because not only did I pay for the real tree, I paid for the decorations for each tree. Yes. And on top of decorations for everywhere on top of the house. You can probably predict how much I spent that year.

But that year, your house smelled the best. It was... Oh my God, girl. I could have sworn we were in North Pole. Like, gosh. It did smell so good. But this year, we opted for a fake tree that we will keep reusing. Because honestly...

My big thing about the real Christmas trees, obviously we live in Hawaii, so my situation might be different. Yes. But our big trees doesn't come until like December. Yeah. And I'm the type of girl that likes to decorate November. And I'm not trying to spend an X amount of money, especially because I want like a 12 footer like above. Yeah.

To enjoy it for a month. And on top of that, like last year, the big, big tree came in like three weeks prior to Christmas. So I was like, girl, I don't got time to spend. I don't got all the money to spend all this and the time to only see it for three weeks. Yeah. So this year, my recommendation, and I'm so sorry if I'm taking over the question. No, you're good. This year, my recommendation is get a fake tree and get those scentsicles.

That smelled like the scents Like it's like little Like little sticks That you can put in the tree That smells like a real tree And go to Bed Bath & Beyond And get the fresh balsam And burn that throughout the day And girl

People will think you have a real tree. No, literally. That's why everyone... Remember Thanksgiving? They were like, it's a real tree. And they were like, no, it's not. Yeah, because every year I have a real tree, but this year is like the fake tree. And it's going to remain that way because I love decorating in November. Yeah, and I honestly don't support cutting down trees. Oh, that too. Princess, do you have any thoughts?

I think it doesn't matter for me, but I do believe having a fake tree and reusing it is more better than just cutting up a tree that, you know. You use for a month. Use for a month, all of that. And also like growing up, we never really celebrated Christmas. And like we didn't do any of those Christmas activities and all of that. So being able to have a Christmas tree in my own home,

And then like having my family is just like Already a privilege Yeah it's like a rewarding feeling Anyways so like having to keep that tree It just reminds me of like all those memories Like that will live forever Aww that's a cute way to put it Or your little mini Well not really mini family I feel like a lot of people would think your family is big But for your family Is there any Christmas or holiday I guess Traditions you guys do now? Well

Honestly, we're still starting it only because like the… Sorry. The scheduling of the kids. So someday, sometimes there's Christmas where there's one kid is not there and they're with the other parent. So it's really, really, really, really hard to keep us all together. Especially for this year also, it's going to be hard because I'm probably going to be in the hospital. Yeah.

Right. You love giving birth on holidays, girl. I do. Yeah. She be picking the right time. No, she do. Halloween. Christmas. There's less people there. Yeah. Lele is going to be so upset the fact that everyone's going to double up on her Christmas and birthday presents. Period. I know. But we will cross that road when we get there. That will be our problem. Yeah. Well, not really a problem. More like solution, girl. Yeah.

I'm tired of getting presents for kids. Oh, so it's like a two-for-one kind of thing. Yeah. Do the kids like decorating? I feel like Cleo would like decorating. She's more of a Halloween girl though. Yeah, I know. I think… Well, you know, I like to be the… No, they like to… They want to help me decorate but I kind of just do it like when they're in school or like… Yeah. But then they love it when they come home. It's just like so rewarding to see that because…

mom never has done it. Or like, our family. So we just... Like, we had a Christmas tradition, but it was so different. Yeah. Like, the whole, like, opening one gift at 12 o'clock. No, girl. We open every single gift. That's... I feel like... We had... You know what? I've heard somebody talk about this and, like, Filipinos, like, in America, they do, like, kind of, like, similar...

traditions where we because that's like us we open all of our presents on christmas eve yeah yeah we don't wait until christmas morning yeah like i think sawiti was saying it on their episode daddy gang yeah her daddy with miss alex cooper she's talking about how her family opens all the presents on christmas eve and i'm like oh that's so us i guess it's not just us noche buena vibe yes well i mean sawiti is filipino no that's what i'm saying oh yeah yeah so what about you miss kaylee

Real or fake Christmas tree? I prefer fake also. Less things because it already comes with lights. Having to put real lights on real trees is the most painful thing ever because sometimes it's like wonky or like sometimes you're like missing a spot. Even sometimes the tree has like missing like branches. So there's like bald spot on it that you can't put. So yeah. I love that. Easy cleanup too, girl.

Speaking of real and fake Christmas trees and the spirit of holidays, do y'all smell that? What is it? Do y'all smell what the cat is-

This is my favorite segment, you guys. This is my favorite segment, y'all. Like, literally, I'm gonna skip princess for a bit. Kat. That's crazy. Kat, what did you bake us today? Oh, I was baking too. Okay, so I was supposed to make pecan bars for Thanksgiving, but I didn't, so I made

I made them today. - You did though and you didn't like how it turned out. - Exactly. So they didn't happen. - Wow. - They're out of my head. They're out of my brain. They weren't good enough. - Was it bothering you? - It's her redemption. - She's just very strict. I did have a little nibble of her pecan. - My favorite. - That she made for Thanksgiving and it was really good. - Lucky my favorite pie ever is pecan pie. - Same.

Princess, did you want some? Just a little bit. Let me take the little bit back. This goes good with the drink. Wow, Kat. Thank you. This is so... Oh my God. Is there apple in here? It's really good. But I will say, I did have a bite of her non-Kat approved pecan pie. And it was so good. Mmm.

So good. How do you make a bar? This is really good, Kat. How do you make that? How do you make that bar? Well, first you make the crust and you cook it. And then once it's cooked, you put the filling on. And the filling is like a custardy like egg and… I'm allergic to eggs. No, you're not. I'm lying. I'm lying.

Thank you, Kat. I learned something new today. I would rate that a 10 out of 10. So you guys just been eating Kat's dessert for the past- You should have been here for the mac and cheese. Well, you should have been here for the mac and cheese, mama. That whole video, I feel like we cut so much footage. We cut so much footage. Somebody commented like, you can tell the vibes changed when they had the mac and cheese.

Me and Brett were like looking at it most of the time. The whole time. We were like, but thank you, Kat. That really set the holiday vibe. That was really good, Kat. Also, I feel like this is the perfect time to announce that, yes, although I did say that there won't be a lot of guests. This podcast isn't really a guest-y type of podcast. Like, I'm not going to promise you guys a new guest every week. But this upcoming year, I will introduce you guys to more people that I love in my life. And that includes Kat.

We wanted to interview Jorley. I wanted to interview some of my influencer friends that are from Hawaii, like Kirsten and Erica. And more people from our family too, I think the world...

to meet our family because we have such a beautiful family. We have like a lot of like main characters in our family. I think we're only... In our own little way. Yes, for sure. With that being said, Miss Princess May, what is your fertility? By the time this episode goes out, you would be... Lele would be around like a week old already.

Like at home. At home. Oh my gosh. Hi Princess at home. Oh sorry sorry. Hey future princess who's watching this at home girl. Did you eat breakfast yet? I'm probably dead asleep. Dead asleep. Crying. Period. Crying in your sleep like.

Okay. Princess, what is your fertility of the day? I don't know. Can you guys ask me a question? Because I didn't really think... You didn't prepare one? Okay. I guess... Okay. So when you... Okay. So I want to ask because you... Last episode, you did tips on...

on giving birth and stuff like that now the baby's home with you first week first week what is your first week advice to mothers like who just brought their baby home maybe something that you struggled with on your first week with the kids or like just really understanding the the new routine that you're about to have i was gonna ask that how did that how do you how's your first week like and like what is your advice to people who are on their first week of bringing a baby home maybe

Oh, okay. So honestly, study your baby. The first week, it's hard. It's hard. But you have to have a routine for the baby. And it's for you. It's for yourself, too. You know, if you're putting the baby to sleep at a certain time, the baby, a newborn baby is going to wake up every two, three hours. Just expect that.

And then like also like I know the cries is like really, really bad and it's like crazy. But like. Just get through it. Just get through it. I promise you. Would you say like what is usually the hardest bump, like hump?

That a new mother might face? Like, is it usually the first month? Girl, honestly, I feel like it... Honestly, if you don't have a good partner, that's going to help you through it. Honestly. Period. Or just support system. Yeah. Because there's single mothers out there. Yes. Like, if you don't have a good support system, like, it's going to be really, really hard to...

Like even if you just talk to your mom or like a friend or like, you know, your other half. Like if you don't have that, it's going to be really, really extra hard for you. Especially for my postpartum, like my PT. What do you call it? Postpartum depression? Yeah. Like for those that do have it, like I know that a great support system is good for you. So even if you don't, it's…

I would recommend to have just somebody, honestly. Because babies are hard. For those maybe parents out there who might not have a support system, are there like, I guess like vloggers maybe that you like to watch or like mommy vlogs? Maybe even Princess could be a support system for some of y'all. Yeah, honestly, like there's this app called BetterHelp.com.

Bitch. No, I'm serious. I know. Yeah. Like, there's an app. There's an app that you can talk to somebody. Like, not even a stranger. Like, it's a therapist. So, like… Or just reach out to a therapist. Yeah.

I do have a question too. Okay, go ahead. For like, you know, the first time mothers. Are you going to talk, ask me about intercourse? No, no, no, no. For the first time mothers, because you know how like sometimes you realize your body has changed. Yes. Like what can you tell them to like, for like, what do you, what can you expect?

It is a really big change in your body. Especially… Like after I give birth, I always miss my belly. Miss? Yeah, like I miss it. Like, oh my god, my baby was in here. You know? But then also I miss my body before all of that. So… Just kidding. But yeah. There's a lot of changes in your body. Especially for my breastfeeding mamas. If you are a first-time breastfeeding mama…

There's going to be a lot of changes. And it's hard being a mom, honestly. Especially, like... Yeah. There's a lot of changes into your body. I... Okay. You don't bounce back right away. My question is...

So I know that pregnancy makes your feet bigger. Yes? No. Well, some people. Like it swells up. It swells up. If your feet got bigger from your first pregnancy, does your feet get bigger again on your second pregnancy and then fourth? Like, you know what I mean? Because you're on your fourth baby. That means at this point, you said your feet doesn't get big. But obviously there's people out there. Wait, let me finish. Girl, because that's another fucking conversation. Okay.

Like, does your feet continue to get bigger and bigger as you get more pregnant? I think it just gets swollen, honestly. Oh, okay. It's not really like permanent big. Like, it adds a size kind of thing. Okay. Yeah. Okay. That is for some people. But I think it's my brain that just goes smaller and smaller. Period. No, I'm just kidding. I think it's like...

One thing that I... She takes one part of the brain. Yeah, I'm like, I'll take that. There's this... It's crazy because when I'm pregnant, guys, my hair grows really long. It's very, like, you know, cutesy, very demure. And then when I give birth, girl, like, my hair, like, right here is gone. Like, I'm losing hair. Oh, really? It's usually... Well, I don't know, obviously, because I'm not pregnant. But I would think, like, it's usually, like,

The opposite. When you're pregnant, you're losing it. Do you think that could be like a part of like the postpartum? Yes, it is. It is, yes. Wow, thank you. Thank you for that. Oh my God. I feel like a mother. You mothered. Yeah, that is just for me. Not for everybody. Like I, yeah. Everyone goes through different things. My own experiences. We're going to go on a little break and I'll read you guys the tea.

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Hey guys, I'm Whitney Port and this is With Wit. A lot of you may know me from reality TV and the reality is a lot's happened since the hills. With Wit is dedicated to having real, raw, and occasionally ridiculous conversations with the people who have had a profound impact on me. Because on With Wit, very little is off limits.

Subscribe so you don't miss any of the amazing conversations to come. New episodes of With Wit are available every Tuesday on all platforms. And we are back. In spirit of the last couple of days of the year, I'm going to be reading the entry that I had in December 30th, 2020. It's really short and sweet. I still don't know where I was going with this. I don't even think I finished this entry, but here I go.

December 30th, 2020. Tomorrow is the last day of this year. This very exhausting year. Like where the hell has this year even been? I learned a lot of things this year. I learned the type of lover that I am. And it's not a very good one. I definitely could be a better one. But in contrary, I'm a good friend. Wow. You are a good friend. I think 2020 was like right around the time like I got dumped.

And I realized like, oof, maybe I'm not a great lover. But also, I don't, I really don't know where I was going with that because I think I got dumped in 2019. So I don't know. When did we move here? 2020, October. You got dumped 2020, August. August. Okay. Yeah. Then it was that. Yeah.

It was that year where I realized like, maybe I'm not the best lover and I gotta be working on the type of lover that I am. But all I know is I'm a great fucking friend. All of my friends would tell you that I'm a good friend. I guess to expand on what my entry was, I would like to know what type of lovers you guys think you guys are. I honestly never seen that side of me yet.

I'm kind of curious of like what I'm going to be. But I feel like I honestly like once I love a person, I have I'm like I get obsessed with them. So like that's all I think about. Like I think about like, oh, what are they doing right now? Or like, what can I do to like have, you know, make them feel love from me? Yeah. Princess, what kind of lover are you? So I'm a Gemini. So I really adjust to their personality.

You match. You match their kind of love. Yeah, their energy. And then like also their love language. So obviously like all these different people. What is Tony's love language? He... I feel like he's a service type of gal. Yes. Like he loves doing things. Yeah, he does. He does. Like if I cook for him, he's really happy. Or like when I help him detail or I... Even if he watches...

When he like knows that I'm over here taking care of the house, the kids. Like that's what makes him. He matches the values. What kind of… What's your love language? Physical touch. I mean clearly. Mine is physical touch too and spending time. Oh yeah. Spending time. Mine is quality time. Quality time. Yeah. Same. Oh can I change my answer? No. I'm a backbone lover. What does that mean? It means like I will always have your back kind of thing. Oh.

Oh my god I was thinking about something else I would say the type of lover that I am Is like I really am a loyal ass bitch And I think it's because like

Growing up, I watched my father cheat on my mother. And that traumatized me so much. So my loyalty, even with my friends, I've had the same exact friends. Since middle school. Since middle school. And it goes with everyone in my life. I've had the same guy cutting my hair, Angel. And even before I started growing out my hair, I had the same person giving me my buzz cut for a whole year. I have the same friends from...

elementary and middle school so loyalty is like a big thing for me so that's like my big encompassing like love language is like loyalty and like knowing that especially with my man now i'm like bitch i need to know i'm everything and everywhere all at once and that i'm the only person you think of when you wake up and when you go to bed wow crazy because no one that pays to damn

i thought i was crazy because that's the type of lover i am that's how i am to him i'm like girl it's it's his it's like all i see is my man and i need to know that all you see is me yeah i feel like i'm the same way too like i like i give a lot of my love and that's why like that's why i'm so hurt and disappointed when i do get like this when it's not reciprocated yes when it's not reciprocated yes exactly i'm saying bitch i'm like i'm

All or nothing type of girl. Yeah. If I'm with you, I'm with you for life. Yeah, but we're not pick me's though. Oh yeah, for sure. We're not pick me's. Never that. But... I will always say, I will never crave for a friendship. For sure. Yeah. I would never beg. Yeah. I would never have to like... I would never want to be an option. Yes. Or a choice. Yeah. It's either... She's like, to that girl. I'm kidding. Yeah. So to whoever I was journaling about...

Fuck you. Bitch. Okay. Is that all you guys wanted to talk about? Oh, wait. That was yours. That was you. That was my stuff. So, in spirit of the last week of December or this year, we just had Christmas yesterday. And we have New Year's coming up. Thank you for the shoes, brat. In advance. Yeah.

Thanks for my bag. Like, hey, future self, don't forget to say thank you to Brett. Whenever I think of Christmas, I know we always talk about how we don't really celebrate it. But I think that started when we moved to America because we didn't really know how to celebrate it. And we were broke as fuck. I kind of want to spend some time reminiscing about Philippine Christmas and your memories of it. I know, Princess, you don't really have much. I don't have much.

Do you have any like Christmas memories of the Philippines? No, I don't really. But I do... Not really. But I do remember... I was older already. I already had Cleo. But I went to go to grandma's funeral. And it was around that time. It was December. My mom wanted to stay. So I was like, okay, you know what? Let me just stay. It was really fun. Like all the fireworks. There is no... There is no...

Incomparable thing To a Filipino Christmas I think Yeah Cause girl Like the The caroling Like I missed that Yes I missed Everything about Philippine Christmas But I think One of my Fondest memory That I remember Is Noche Buena

Yeah. Presents was never really a thing in the Philippines. Like, I don't remember unboxing any type of present besides the ones that I would give away in school. Yeah. It wasn't really like a present. It was more of like, oh, here you go. It's happy, Merry Christmas. Yeah. But it would be just open already. It wasn't a big...

of getting presents. Like we weren't expecting presents. Yeah, very much that. But Noche Buenas were always so fun because of its like little quirks and little cultures. Yeah. Like the 12 fruit balls that we would have. I remembered my brother's wife. Are you done? Oh. I thought you were

I was like, are you touching your pussy right now? No, I moved my phone. Can you not open your legs like that? I have to because my... Okay, well, put something in there, girl. Because you already know. Let me just...

Get up a little bit. Put a bush in there. Wait, let me just get up a little bit. She needs to trim her bush. Okay, we'll have a little break for Princess. She needs a tummy break. By the way, my outfits weren't teal. Your peacock thing, headpiece is everything. Yeah, it is giving, bro. It looks like that. You know I have to give it. Yeah, no, I got it from my Christmas tree.

You know I had to give for the last episode. Yeah. But I was saying my favorite like quirks and like little cultures of Noche Buena is also like how the food layout. Like during Noche Buena, there's this thing that my brother's wife makes. It's with graham crackers, condensed milk with mango and then like

mango float mango graham crackers girl I'm lactose as hell but I will risk it all for that like I will break out I will shit

For that, it's so good. Oh my God, maybe Kat can do like a lactose-free one day. Free one. Yeah. Kiefer, do you have any fond memories of like Philippine Christmas? I'm not really sure if this is a Christmas or a New Year's Eve kind of thing. But I would just remember like all my mom's siblings would come to our house. They would start cooking at like 9 o'clock at night.

Just like a bunch of like food, but no one could eat it till 12 o'clock because it was like the whole like tradition where like, no, you have to eat it so we can celebrate like the, I think it's new year then. Yeah. The upcoming new year, this like, so our, our food, our table is never going to be empty. Like, you know, that kind of thing.

And after that, we would go outside, pop fireworks. And like, I remember like Philippines fireworks would have those noises. Yes. And like, I would like, I would always like look for it here and they never had it. It would just be like the explosions, like noises. But the one in the Philippines makes like those little moo sounds and like little things like that. Can you make the noise?

I feel like you would do good. I don't know it. That's why. I don't know. No, I think I know which the fireworks that go. Yeah. No, there's one that literally goes moo. Oh, really? Yeah. I think I remember that. It's like a little tusk. Yeah, it's a little tusk. And it goes like a peacock thingy. Yes. Okay. So, Miss K is talking about New Year's. So, I'll skip there. But my mom, when we… Hold on.

Hold on, I'm getting a little excited. So when we used to live in the Philippines, my mom worked at the marketa and she had a place and she was always selling fireworks. And I had so much access to fireworks and I would always just, I remember like Watusi, Piccolo, like all that.

But I remembered one year, and maybe we could use this as an ad to like maybe not play with fireworks, but one year, one of the shooting things like you kind of hold it like that and it shoots like little balls. Yeah. I know they have it in America too because I remember playing it, playing with it when it was legal in Hawaii. Is it the piccolo? We will talk about that in a bit.

I think that is the piccolo one. But you shoot it. But my thing as I was shooting it like that, I think I was just like threatening people with it too much that it backfired on me and exploded. Behind? No, it exploded. Like the whole tube exploded. And I literally had like so much like

It didn't explode like right in my hand. Obviously, I still have my hand today. But I had so much like burnt rashes, like little dots on my hand. Did I learn my lesson? No, because I still went out and popped more fireworks. And then literally a couple years ago, he literally got a firework attack him.

Yeah. Remember the fur coat that you were wearing? Oh my god, yeah. And then it popped on my ex's leg. Girl, good for you, bitch. Okay, since we looked back on a little bit of Christmas and New Year's, let's think forward. Do you guys have any predictions or maybe things that you're manifesting for 2025 or upcoming years ahead? We already said Miss Cafe. Miss Cafe. I feel like I would love to travel more.

You said that last time. I know, but I need to travel more. Period. I need to see the world. You're young and hot. The world needs to see you, Miss K. And honestly, because I always feel... I always learn something from traveling to other places in the world. Everything and what they do and things like that is so different. Which is like... I don't know. It fills my soul. I love that you love traveling. Yeah. One of my predictions this upcoming year...

I think Miss Cafe Miss Cafe is gonna be really amazing damn I really had a whole thing of like things that I'm predicting but I can only think of what I already told you which is the fact that I really feel like a bad bitch is gonna be

filthy rich next year like i really feel like i'm gonna find a new hobby or like maybe like a new avenue or maybe i'm just gonna start doing more like tiktok lives and selling something i don't know who knows i love i'm like it's not even gonna be my money but i'm so excited for you girl i just really feel like next year is gonna be like money money talk yeah

I mean with this green ensemble of yours Girl you're already predicting it And last year I don't know if y'all know But me and Miss K ate grapes under the table Yeah And my grapes were I guess only one person out of the whole table You had to go to another table Yeah You needed to go to my own table Dang We'll do that this year But this year I think because I was already wearing the red underwear Oh and I wasn't wearing an underwear

Nasty ass? Oh, I said that wrong. No, I was wearing the wrong color of the underwear. Yes, yes.

So if you guys don't know what we're talking about, let me give you guys a quick synopsis. So there's this big belief that if you eat 12 grapes under a table during New Year's, it has to be right when the pops are popping. At the strike of 12, you eat 12 grapes. And you have a minute window. You have a one-minute window to eat 12 grapes. And...

You do it with the corresponding underwear. So if you wear red, it's for love. It's green if it's for money. Yellow is for health, I believe. And there's other things that you can wear. You guys can probably look it up. But I wore red underwear and 812 grapes. And I found my lover. Oh my God. I wore a pink one. Was that like a semi-love? Yeah. Princess, will you be eating grapes this year? No. No.

She will be eating an engagement ring this year. What are you predicting for 2025, Princess? Honestly, guys. I am really manifesting, you know...

So much things, honestly. There's like this one goal that I achieved this year. Is that I got a family car. So I got rid of my Audi, my little small sedan. And got a family car because my family is growing. She's getting bigger. Also, you're in your…

Soccer mom era. I mean, none of your kids play soccer. But E plays football. I want to go watch him. Oh my god, yes. You guys should. They're so fun. It's always in Ever Beach. So let me know. I'll be there. Let us know on his next game. Us with signs. Yes. Go E! Yeah. So yeah. So I am just manifesting. I really, really, really, really… I'm predicting money also. Because…

She gotta support her family. Yeah, we gotta provide. And also... No nails? No. More finger tattoos? No. A bigger glove? A hand scrub. No, I... A laser? I hopefully, you know... You're gay.

No. I hope what like next year I will become a fiancé. We need to rock on that. Yes. Because people are already coming for me about no ring. Like okay. Like damn. Just wait. It's getting polished. Yeah. We'll just wait on it. It does. The thing is like

This is one thing that I refused, okay? To have a mistake on is like marrying the wrong person. I'm not saying that I'm gonna... Like, Tony is the wrong person. But since like, I'd had kids with, you know... Period. With the wrong people. I would want to have somebody that loves me forever. Because seeing my mom go through all of that. Married and all.

I do not want to… And then she also had us already. Like that affects a lot. A lot. So that's why like… I just know… I just know that I'm going to marry this man and this man is going to marry me. Period. Work. Yeah. We got to put a rock in that finger girl. Yeah. But honestly I feel like… I feel like it… Like weddings doesn't like really… Because you know like there's so many married women. I mean married couples that are…

They're married and they're cheating. You would get eloped. What does that mean? Eloped is like when you... It's like nobody's in your wedding. It's just you two.

Oh yeah I would definitely do that Yeah I would definitely do that Are you a big wedding type of girl? I'm not actually I honestly I can't relate Like bitch I will have three weddings As her ex You know wedding coordinator I could see you having Like a little arch at the beach And just having everyone stand up While there's just a pastor You two And the beach Just simple Yeah I want it simple Like yeah And then just

But I do want... I did have this fairytale big wedding. Asian rich crazy wedding. You mean crazy rich Asian wedding. Sorry. Why? What does that have to be? Rich Asian rich. Rich Asian what? Why does it... Rich Asian crazy weddings. Yeah. You guys, I'm pregnant. Okay.

Okay. Oh, it was the brain. Yeah. It was the brain. Yeah. Sorry, somebody was texting me. Yeah. So I am manifesting for all of that next year. I wish you can have like the best wedding ever. Thank you, guys. You deserve it, girl. Thank you. I feel like The Baddest Radio is going to reach 1 million listeners and viewers next year. Oh my God. On your first year run, I think we'll have a million. I believe it. Yeah, me too. I do believe that. The Baddest Radio, you're going to be a millionaire.

I know. I've been seeing like the ones that you've been reposting on like The Baddest Radio of like how people have us on like their top podcast. Oh yeah, let's talk about that real quick. I've seen that The Baddest Radio is in some of people's

wrapped this year. Thank you guys so much. And please tag us. Please. We will be posting. And it makes me feel so good. I am very much a words of affirmation type of gal. I love receiving them. So please let me know if I was in your top spot. If we were in your top Spotify podcast list this year. That's amazing. It's amazing. And the fact that we've only are on our 24th episode...

I know and everyone loves it everyone is so positive about it which I love I'm gonna miss you guys after I give birth I know you're not gonna be here for a hot minute yeah we'll see we'll see girl because I know you'll be getting bored and you're just gonna be like can I come yeah I yeah

Yeah. Knowing you, you'll be fine in like two weeks after. Yeah. Or we can film at your house. We'll probably like bring like a backdrop or something. That would be cute. Honestly, you guys really should visit me in the hospital. No, we are. Oh, you guys are? We're gonna try. We have to film that TikTok where I'm like…

What was it? It was the... You can do it. You can do it. You can do it. I think we went there for Nootofi and Cleo. We couldn't go for Ezekiel because COVID. I was only there for Cleo. You guys did not come to Nootofi. I was there for Cleo. I was there for Cleo. I was there for E because it was COVID. And then Tofi, I was in... I think I was in Paris.

Because I remember… I was with you. Yes, yes. Because I remember E and… You couldn't come to my baby shower. Yeah, because I remember E and Cleo FaceTiming me, like, wanting to see Paris. And I'm like, girl, I'm trying to see your little brother. And they kept trying to see the outside. Yeah. For the kids this year, I'm predicting more YouTube videos with them. They love it. Oh, yeah, they do. Speaking of YouTube, I do see myself going back in my main channel and hopefully…

posting more on my main page. Yeah. I can't wait for my mom to come back home so that I can convince her to do like a cooking show with me. Like a monthly cooking show. Would be so fun. I want to be a part of it. I do. Well, you trying to be a part of everything, bitch. So obviously. Well, I...

With mom. That would be so fun. But I have to redo my kitchen first, girl. Because that kitchen is a mess. So that's going to be for next year also. Maybe my prediction next year is. Girl, we've been waiting for your pool, girl. That's going to have to take a little bit. Let me build a gate in front first, girl. We've been waiting for that gate also.

I have to say but Like what can I say I love it Things are not cheap I know I know I love how you're just like Progressing with this house And it's just like Becoming you Yeah I love this I love this for you Kiefer do you have anything else That you're manifesting this year Maybe a Mr. K A Mr. K True Maybe Maybe And like more opportunities Actually Yeah More things to do More work More hobbies Yes Yes

More hobbies. Yeah. Honestly, I want to find something that I really, really enjoy. Because I feel like I've just been so bombarded. Did I say that right? Embarded? Bombarded. Bombarded. Bombarded. Okay. Spell bombarded. Vocabulary of the day. Bombarded. You know. Yeah, I do know. Yeah. So why are you asking me? Wait. No, yeah, baby.

Bombarded with the kids. So I really want to find a hobby that I actually really enjoy. Yeah. I really want to start sewing clothes. I like sewing. Yeah. It's fun. I haven't made like a cloth yet, but I've been always... Well, knowing how to sew is a really great thing. Because I fix all of my pants now. I fix all of my shirts.

So I could teach you girl. It's really fun and you can have my machine because I kind of want to get a new one. Oh my gosh. Don't tell me that because I will take it home today. Period. Well, not today. Not today. I will give it to you when you learn because there's no point of giving it to you if you don't know how to use it. No, I know. Aww. But what was I going to say?

Okay, yeah. New hobbies is a good one. I'm manifesting more hobbies, girl. I love finding new hobbies and things that I'm good at. I want to know what your next obsession is going to be. I don't know, girl. You... I don't want to know. I can't wait. It's always so random. I'm like, girl, even with my chickens, I'm like...

Period. My sewing, like that was a random hobby too. Wait, I have a question. With my blind boxes? Yes, me. If you could pick an obsession for Brett next, what would it be? An obsession? Yeah, like, you know what? Like another hobby for me? I've done it all though. Yeah, he did. You first. I think it would have to be, what is that called? Adrenaline rush things.

Yeah. Like what? I do want to be in the water more. So maybe like a little diving. Like diving. Yeah. Oh, okay. I could see myself diving. Oh my gosh. Yeah, you should. I mean, I have access to it because like my friends. Your friends, yeah. Like girl. She'd be more than happy to take me out diving. I think for Brett, I think. Oh my god, it's so hard because you literally do everything. You're like, maybe it's time to not find hobbies. Yeah. You're like, maybe it's time to chill. Maybe we should just chill.

Relax. That's a hobby too. That is a hobby. I feel like that's been my hobby. So, I mean. Yeah, it's hard because like how do you find a hobby when you have four kids?

They like pull so much from you, you know. But I hope you do find one. Yeah, I do. I hope so too. I'm pretty sure you will. All right. Okay. So I'll probably ask you guys this again on our first New Year's episode. And we'll probably expand on it more. But do you guys have any at least like one New Year's resolution that you want to imply for next year? I think it would have to be for my health. Ooh. Yes. Tell us.

Because this past couple months, I just kind of like fell off from like working out, eating healthy. And I kind of want to just get back into it because I just, I had like that, you know how like when you're like in a role and you feel like your body is just like more, it feels more better. Yeah. Yeah. I kind of just had lost that. And like I lost like, what is

what is that called? Like... Motivation? Motivations to do so. So... I could see, not with you, but like same with me because I've kind of fallen off a little bit too. I obviously still train as much as I can, but not as much as I want to. But I think, I'm not trying to be like fake positive, but like you need to realize also that like health is also comes in waves and ebbs and flows. You know what I mean? Like, so you'll have days where like

Or times or moments in your life where you feel unhealthy. Sluggish, yeah. Sluggish. And that's fine because whenever I am going through a moment, especially right now during the holidays, I know that by the time January, February comes, I'll be back in my… Routine again. Routine of working out and being so in. But during the holidays, girl…

You kind of just have to forgive yourself. Like, bitch, let me enjoy it. I've been killing myself the whole year. But that's a good one. Princess, do you have any New Year's resolution? Yes. I feel like I need to discipline myself more in a way of like my health. One, because like so many changes in my body that I don't honestly like right now I feel so insecure. I feel fat. I feel ugly. Oh my God. You're beautiful. You're beautiful.

But like, I just haven't been myself. I just feel like I haven't been like myself lately. Because I just feel like, you know, like there's just a lot of change. Oh my God, why am I crying? That's fine. No, it's not fine. You can cry. It's the last episode of the year, girl. Like it's good for the thumbnail. Instead of like,

A bag, maybe like a BBL or something, right? Girl, not a BBL, bitch. No, I'm just kidding. And knowing you, you're going to fucking ruin that BBL because you're going to have more kids, bitch. No, but seriously though, like I really need to take care of my health because like mentally and physically.

Mentally, physically. Because... She said, I'll need it. Yeah, I really will need as much mental health. Healthy mental health. Okay. So this year, your resolution is to focus and find newer ways to be healthier physically and mentally. Yes. Period. For my kids.

As you should. Yeah. Because I feel like if you're not mentally like okay, you're not able to take care of your kids the way you do. Oh no, for sure. That goes with everything. Yeah. So I'm doing it for my kids and their future. What about you, Brett? One, I think one New Year's resolution that I want to have or start to imply is

Is damn. Well, last year, let's talk about my last year's one because I'm still thinking about my New Year's resolution. One of my New Year's resolution last year was to wear more colors. Yeah. And I think because the podcast and like just like challenging myself to shop more, I was able to accomplish wearing more colors because I was always so always wearing black and white. Not ours being unhealthy in this vision. No, that was my last year one. Bitch. Bitch.

And then this year, my main goal for this year is being more patient with myself. I think for me, because of what we do, like, I mean, for me, I don't include you all, but like, for what we do, it's very pulling. It's very fast-paced. It's very, what's next? It's very like...

And it's hard to like enjoy moments for what they are. Even when I'm traveling. I'm not saying I envy you because you're not like working like me. But like you get to like see out. And like, you know, but I'm clocked in during like when we're in Paris. Like Miss K, yes, she is helping me and stuff like that.

But when I'm in the shows and stuff like that, you do have your breaks. I have a little bit more free time. Yeah. And then for me, I think I don't really get to venture out. And obviously, like I said already, I'm not resentful of that. But I think just being patient with myself and being more present with the moments that are given to me. And I think that's also...

why I was scrolling through my Instagram today and like reminiscing of our time in the Philippines and like I feel like I took so much advantage of that because there's nothing more I want now than like go back home I want to go home with you guys we should all manifest that like that's for 2025 we're all going home we have to go home please

Yes. We're going home. Well, we should say it. 3, 2, 1. We are all going home in 2025. Period. Yeah, honestly. That's...

just end of story we're going philippines bitch we'll be there and yeah because honestly in the philippines i've like i've traveled with brett everywhere so like in the philippines where it's like i've seen brett kind of like had more of a free time than work time because usually when we go travel it's always like work work work i'm like i wish i can read you guys his timeline for like a week worth of

Girl you don't want to Traveling Because it's literally Just work The next day work Literally after from flying We go to fittings And like this and that And like Philippines Was like one of the Places where like He got to relax For like at least A whole week Yes a whole week And did nothing And I like I don't know It kind of like Made him more Alive Yeah And more excited to things There's

There's just nothing like being around people that look like you too. Yeah. And just like being home for motherland. So with that being said, I hope you guys have an amazing 2025 ahead of you. And also I hope you guys had an amazing 2024. All right. We're going to do products of the week after this little commercial break. All right, you guys. Product of the week. Princess, what is your product of the week?

My product of the week is my holiday collection. Is the holiday collection phone case from Delicaviar. Oh, that's so pretty. I love the little dangly things. Delicaviar was like one of the first companies I ever worked with when I first started like social media. Oh, that's so nice. They were always very cutesy. Miss Kitty, you want to go next? Yes. Okay.

My product of the week is going to be this little guy right here. I don't know if you guys can see her. It's actually all of our product of the week because we had so much fun playing with it. Yeah. So I bought this from TikTok shop because I've been seeing it all over TikTok shop. I think I've talked about it once here. Uh-huh. But this is for your ear. It's an ear cleaner and it has a light right here and a camera which you can stick.

Inside your ear And then connect on your phone At the same time To see what's inside your ear Period I want to try it on the kids So bad You can borrow it I honestly Or get by when you're on your own

I don't want to wait for it. It took a week. Because I only see the kids like every day. You're like, I'm going to be giving birth by then. By the time it gets here. But honestly, this is like the best thing ever. And it was like… I forgot what I was going to say. The best thing ever. It's fun. Yeah. Oh no. The very first time I've used it, I was so disappointed because I wanted to see something in my ear. Like somebody like…

Yes. Not even that. Like, even like a little dirt that I can take off, but there was none. So I was like, ugh, what a waste of money. Not even a single wax or anything. Yes, not. Not a single one. And I'm like, so bothered. Mine's too. When I tried it earlier, I was like,

So why is it itchy? Yeah, that's it. So I'm going to try not... Oh, your ear was itchy? Yeah, it was always so itchy. So I'm like, what is it? Like, what is in there? It's probably a bug. No, it's not. Don't say that. A bug making its place. Like, ooh, that's nice. She's like a snuggly... My product of the week, which is also...

Probably my man's product of the week and Kat's product of the week. Kat actually put me onto this. This is the Nivea Serum 10 Vese Smas Vitamin C. This is just like, we get it on TikTok shop. Oh my God, girl. This is like a TikTok shop ad. I know. It's a deodorant. But when I tell you, it's the only deodorant that lasts as long. I used to wake up the next day and my armpits smelt so smug. Really? Yes. Did you use this too? Even like showering after showering? Did you? Yes.

Yes. The armpit was armpitting in the car today. Oh, maybe because I used the white one? Princess, first of all, that was you, girl. No, that was you, Brett. You were lifting up your stuff. Oh, period. Well, I didn't use this today. I was like... You were like, is that... It was very much probably me. And the thing is, it was so crazy is that I'm like, I'm pregnant, Avi. And like,

My nose is just more sensitive to like smell. Princess, you fucking swear. I'm sorry. I'm stinking that much. It wasn't even that bad. No, don't lie. Girl, I was right next to him. Yeah, because he wasn't lifting it on your side, bitch. He wasn't lifting it on your side. Okay, princess.

Princess, would you like to show us your armpit? No. Because we can raise our hand. No, my armpit looks... Let's raise our hand. Girl, my armpit is burnt. Like, it's black. Yeah, let's raise our hand. Girl, please. She's like, it's burnt, but it doesn't stink. It doesn't stink? It do, it do. It don't, it don't, it don't. Okay, smell it now. What?

Well yeah, because you put it on earlier. Exactly. It was hot. Well, I needed to show how it works. So that's why. First of all, the car wasn't on. It was hot. It was like, it was breathy in there. We took merch pictures and this bitch really fucking swears. No, I swear. It was bread. Like, who is that? Who is that? You fucking swear, bitch. But yeah, you're right though. I didn't use it today.

I didn't use this today. You know what I did use was the white one. I don't like the white one. It was burning my armpit this morning. And I think the white one, the other one that we ordered on accident, it was burning my armpit this morning. I think that's probably why. But

But we just got these new pink ones in because... Well, not these new ones because we always use the pink ones but I ran out and I've been using the white one. The real product. And girl, that was burning my skin. This one just came in. So don't try me, princess. Okay. Sorry. No, I was just... I was just wondering if that's what you used today because I would say that's not true. You're like, maybe we should get new ones. I hate you, bitch. I'm sorry. Anyways.

Cause I was like, what is that? And you're like, deodorant? I was like, did you use it? You're like, we should start practicing what we preach. Wait, also, I didn't realize this had an inside. Or what? We should get this Target.

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