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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Yeah. Gay son, thought daughter episode. Good morning, everyone. It is yet again, The Baddest Radio starring me, Bretman Rock and Princess May. And on the mic today, we have Miss Kat and
Period. We got Aolele. Kat has Aolele today. And we just filmed an episode an hour ago. Princess and I went to go eat. Where did we go eat? We went to Spicy House or something there. Did you like this? Yeah, Spicy House. Oh my god, it was so good. The best Thai place I've ever been to. I told y'all. The best Thai place is on the west side, Spicy House.
I don't know. I'm out of breath. I went downstairs to go get me my matcha because usually I have Miss K making me my drinky drink drinks. But today we don't have Miss K. I don't know if we said this last episode, but Miss K is sick today. So give her some good well wishes. She's going to need it because we're going to the Philippines in five days. I wish I came. I wish you didn't have so much responsibility. No.
I know, I know.
And we're wearing Gay Son and Thought Daughter shirts today. I got this on Instagram. And then you thought of me? Yeah, I thought of you, girl. I guess it's only fair to ask. Well, usually, sometimes we ask a question in every episode. We didn't get to ask this last episode. But the question for today's podcast is, would you rather have a gay son or a thought daughter?
Leave your answers in the comment section down below and we will answer the question right after this intro. Cue the intro. -Gratman to Earth, Earth to Bratman. -Girl, you already know who it is. And we are back. So Princess, gay son or thot daughter, what would you have? What would you rather have? -Oh, I'd rather have a gay son. -Period. I would rather have a thot son and a gay daughter.
Oh, okay. You know, like switch it up. Like I'd rather have a thought son because one, well actually maybe let me not explain it because it might be problematic. Just switch it up. Like I would just love a son and a daughter period. I will welcome them for whoever they are honestly as long as they're good people because you can be a thought and be a good person. Yeah, 100%. Like my favorite people are thoughts. Me...
Well, me. You're both. Yeah, no, I really am. What do you think when people say, oh my God, you guys, because I feel like I got this shirt idea because I was reading one time that was like, Bretman Rock and Princess May are literally gay son and thought daughter. Where did you see that? All the time, like in the comments sections, people would be DMing me. Well, these were from, do you know Troy Saban and Charli XCX?
No. I know who Charlie is. XCX. But Troye Sivan, they had these shirts. I remember that. Yes. And I was like, oh my God, Princess and I need it because we're literally gay son and thought daughter. Super cute. I love it. Yeah. Kath, I know you're holding Miss, wait, Alele, but if you guys see me checking my phone, it's me just checking my notes, by the way.
What would you have? A gay son? Oh yeah, Kat, maybe answer that question while I look up questions. I would like to have, I would love to have a gay son. I think that'd be so cute too. Before we get into the questionnaires, let's get into our little segments. Princess, do you want to start with fertility or should I start with the tea of the week? Go ahead. Okay, period. Okay, like I mentioned, I'm going to be reading part two of my entry that I wrote from last episode because girl, I have just not been journaling.
Okay, continue. Now I've been home for almost a week, so let me catch you up to speed on what I've been up to. Right when I got off the plane, the first place I went to was Don Don Donkey. Don Don Don Donkey. Don Don Don Donkey. I've been wanting to go there. A place just for you and me. I've been wanting to go over there. Girl, um...
A girl is obsessed. And to be honest, I've probably gone every other day since being back. My friend Thuy also had a concert here this week at the Republic and it was really so cutesy. I can't believe I have pop star friends. Like, ugh, I'm really gonna watch my girl shine. I love her and I love the fact that she loves her girls and gays.
I wish my handwriting wasn't so ugly. Oh my gosh. If you guys ever see me stumbling, it's because my handwriting is just... Really ugly. I see it from here. I wish we could have hung out, but I had to lock in and be a family gal before I head back to the Philippines. Ezekiel has been having his football tournaments. Ms. Cleo has been wanting to hang out. And I'm like,
And my cousin Colin is in town with his girlfriend, which I met yesterday, which was so fun to see him again after all these years. But all in all, I've been taking it easy and I've just been a little Kermit before all of my travelings because this month is about to be insane. And so many traveling on the next month also. Please wish me luck and I may and may have I never forget to journal and write all about it.
Period. Princess. What a life. Exactly. Princess, have you gone to Don Don Don Donkey? No, I've been to Always One Goal.
Since they opened. It's so fun. You should tell Tony to take you. There's a really good sushi restaurant inside. I've been watching all these foodie pages and I'm like, oh my God, I need to go right now. I love sushi. It's so good. I also took Claire yesterday and her eyes was like, oh my God. She was like, I didn't think Don Don Donkey was this awesome. I'm like, period. What else did I talk about? Oh, do you know Tweet? Yeah.
Do you know Thuy? Yes. Why didn't you go to her concert? I didn't. I didn't know she had a concert. This is how I found out she had a concert because this lady came up to me. She's like, oh my God, my daughter sent a video. I mean, yeah, my daughter sent a video of Bretman on stage and I was like on stage. When was this? Yesterday at the food truck? On this Friday night.
Yeah, it was on Saturday when the lady came up to me and I was like, oh, let me see. And then it was you like going back and forth, like doing your thing. And I was like, oh, who was it? I thought it was Kehlani because I know Kehlani was coming here. But then it's not. So I'm like, who is it? And then my friend Kayla, she's actually friends with Thuy. What is it? Thuy. Thuy.
Bitch. Tell me why I thought how to pronounce her name was... Toy? Two. Oh, yeah. I feel like everyone does. I thought it was two. Yeah, I thought it was two until Coachella, honestly, last year. Really?
It's like with a list too. Tweet. Yeah. But yeah, I've always listened to her music. I know we were supposed to hang out, but girl, I had to be with the family. I had so much responsibilities this weekend. But there will be a next time because I did tell her she needs to see my chicken. She needs to see my mansion and I can't wait to cook for her. Yeah, I wish I met her.
She's going to come back. She loved Hawaii. Like, we were such a good crowd, honestly. I feel like we closed off her tour really, really good. Please come back. Please come back. And hopefully Princess will come and Cleo will be old enough because I told Cleo yesterday. And she was like, why didn't you tell me? And I'm like, girl, you're not allowed in there. You're like so young. But she loves Thuy, of course. And she's just like a star. Like, I can't believe I have like pop star friends. Like,
Period. Super cute. I heard her stage presence is really, really good. Yeah. I've watched like all of her like... Some people just belong on stage. Yeah. She's so cutesy too. Her outfits. Her outfits. So cute. She was wearing... She was wearing... But she... Most of her tour outfits have been like fancy club. Which is I think a Vietnamese designer. Correct? Maybe Thailand. But they sent me some clothes before. And they're really cute. They're very chic. What else did I write about? Yeah.
Oh, our cousin Colin. I wish Miss Kay was here because our cousin, her brother, Miss Kay's brother, Colin, is in town. I have not seen Colin in five years. I know. Five years? Yes. He left in 2020.
Yeah. Well, around five years. Like maybe a little bit shy of five years. Yeah. But I'm like, oh my God. Like I can't believe because someone you grew up with like in the same house, they have everything. You see them every time and then not seeing them at all for five years. And then you see them again. I'm like, oh my God, girl, we have grown. The growth is really growing. Yeah. His stomach grew. Yeah.
Which is good because that means he's eating. Yeah. He's eating. He's fed. Miss Tessa, we love your girlfriend. Yeah. I'm so happy for him. I know. I can grab her. I'll grab her real quick. All right. We're switching babies. Lele wants to be back on camera. Hi. And we're back.
Princesses breastfeeding now. I think this is the perfect time for... Fertility. Fertility. Well, what did you want me to talk about? Well, since we... On my journal, I was talking about how EZ Kill has been playing football games. And he posted this week...
EZQ's like big extended double family extravaganza and a lot of the comments were commending you on co-parenting so maybe you can speak on co-parenting tips and tricks how hard or easy it is probably for you because I'm sure you're not the first and the last person to ever co-parent in this world there's probably other co-parenters watching this right now so maybe
Your next fertility advice is about that. So what are your co-parenting advice to make it easier? Stick with the schedule and also communicate as best as you can. Because sometimes I know like we all have separate lives and we're all working and we're doing things. And things come up. Yeah, and things come up. But like I feel like most of our disagreements and arguments with parents
each other is like the communication part where like, how come you didn't tell me this? Or how come you didn't tell me that? It goes both ways because sometimes I forget and I'm like, oh, I'm so sorry. Yeah. And stuff like that. And yeah, it's just, it's really about communicating. And also it's really about just your kid, the kid. Yeah, of course. You know, and I feel like
And also, I know that it's really crazy that I was able... Not crazy, but like... I'm so happy that I was able to look past everything that I went through with, you know, Ezekiel's dad. And just really think about Ezekiel and what would make him happy, you know? Period. And so...
I did that, you know, and I see how much he's much more happier. And like, I don't want to be selfish because... And also, I have to take the little wins, you know, because there's some dads that don't want to be a part of their kid's life. And like, I'm happy that, you know, Ezekiel's dad and Cleo's dad wants to be a part of their life. And why would I push that away? You know, why would I be selfish enough to like...
Just because me and them didn't.
You know. And this isn't a disrespect to like their current lovers. But like you guys made those kids together. So it's only fair to like really share the responsibility of raising them as best as you… Whatever best is in your eyes, I guess. You know. It is ultimately like both of your responsibilities because you made it together. Yeah. And also it's… I'm happy that also Tony…
Understands Where I'm I'm coming from When it comes to co-parenting And I'm sure they have Understanding partners as well Yes Because you were saying How you have You and Cleo's Stepmom Or what's she called What is she? Auntie? Auntie Yeah Auntie Do you guys have a good relationship? You guys talk Yeah we talk Here and there But like And you see Easy Kill's dad's Current girlfriend Every Sunday At football games And like we're all In a group chat So like each Like
Like, I'm in a group chat. Tony's in a group chat with me and Cleo's dad and his girlfriend. And me and Tony's in a group chat with Ezekiel's dad and his girlfriend. So we're just like, hey, guys, we won't be able to pick them up today. Would you guys be able to? And then we kind of just make it work. And we just kind of align to that. I love that. Yeah. Yeah.
It's just, that's it. You know? Period. Communicate and stick to the schedule and the agreement. Yes. And then like, just, yeah. Just know that the kids are watching. The kids are listening. So, it's best to just be the bigger person. Big examples. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. That's really good advice. That is a really great advice. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you, Lisa.
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Tune in every Wednesday to connect and hang on the Balanced Bond Soul on Fire. Miss Kat, would you like to start off our little Q&A slash things of that, like things to talk about? And you can add things too that you may want to talk about. Period. Period.
This one's really good. What's your first impression of your honey boo-boo? I want to hear from each of you. Your first impression. Your man's. Your man's. So your first impression of Justice and my first impression of Tony. I feel like I met Tony so long ago at the same time. It's like also not that long ago. Yeah. Because it was... I met him at your house now. And you had like...
Yeah, I'm pretty sure he was with his cousins. His nephew? Yeah, I just, my first impression was like, oh, he's quiet. Like, he just didn't really talk much. I talked to his cousins more, but I think he was maybe like shy or like just overwhelmed with like everyone that was coming in. So maybe that's why he didn't talk. But I
I think, yeah, because I thought my first impression of him was like, oh, he's old. Because you were telling me, oh my god, I'm dating an uncle. We used to call him uncle. Yeah, she was telling me I'm dating an uncle. And I'm like, okay. So I was expecting someone old. And like, Princess also doesn't show me pictures of guys she talks to. So it's like, I really didn't know. Like, all I knew, because...
justice don't watch this but at the time also i was seeing someone older oh and then we were bonding about how oh my god we're into like older man like that but it wasn't like serious for me i was just like yeah but you were serious i didn't know you were serious yeah but until that time that i met him at your house yeah it was my housewarming yeah your housewarming so i yeah that was my first impression i was like he's shy but he's not old yeah he's
You just like to say he's old. Yeah. Okay. Well, he is 11 years older than me. Well, that is old. But I think like in my head, I thought I was literally going to meet an uncle. With gray hair. Like an uncle. Oh, an uncle. But he's like an uncle, you know? Yeah. Like how I'm an uncle. But not an uncle. An onks. Yeah. So my first impression of Justice is...
Was it Casey's graduation? I think so. Yes, it was. Oh, yeah. Bitch, we weren't talking.
Yeah, we were. We were talking. So I was a little like, who's this? And who is this man he brought around? Yeah. I was like, this fucking son. But you were talking to him. I was talking to him, but I wasn't talking to you. Exactly. Yeah. So what was your first impression? I was like, oh my God, he's so sweet and nice. Yeah. But he wasn't really talking that much though. Yeah. He's also like Tony. Yeah. He really don't be talking much. Yeah. Like you have to talk to them first. Like you have to be like, hey, what's up? You know, to get them comfortable. But yeah.
We should ask the third. Me? Yeah, what was your impression of our lovers? My first impression of Tony... I was...
I don't know if I can say this I come down the stairs And I'm like Is this old man? So old Wow, Kat So old I'm like, he's not old And you're like, he's old Her princess at the time Because she was At the time she was seeing people her age I think So when he came in I was just like Oh, he's older But also There was like
weird history because I used to talk to like one of his nephews back in the day and I was like and he brought it up too he was like I heard you talk to my nephew and I was like I'm like you were the old one yeah literally but no he was really nice and quiet I remember at the time he was giving you some good advice about some family things yeah but yeah he was always really nice to me he was always a very kind person justice
You were clocked in, I think. I was clocked in. And he came in. You were so like, he's here. Like you were so excited and like you were so excited for your date. You guys were going to Waikai that day for the food trucks. And I just remember like we literally practiced like, okay, so he's gonna come in. I'm gonna say hi. You guys are gonna go. Oh, yeah. You weren't doing too much yet. You didn't want to give too much personality yet. Yeah. Oh, I was so nice in the beginning. Yeah.
I was like very very nice now they're like public enemy number one yeah no literally I'm like oh he can he can take a joke so I give him all the jokes
But yeah, they were both very nice. They were both very compatible with both of you, like your partners. Chill vibes. I feel like we're like the opposite of them. Oh, yeah. They're both so similar that they're both the quiet ones, reserved. But they talk to each other every time. They really do talk to each other. I'm like, y'all talk, y'all do that. We have things to do. Literally. But yeah.
I think that was my first impression. Period. I was clocked in meeting both of y'all's mans. First time. Oh yeah. You were clocked in. Oh my god. You were. Okay. Next question. Speaking of the devil. Well. Both devils actually. Justice and Cleo both texted me. Justice just got off work. Oh. Cleo sent me this video. There's strawberries inside of him.
I bought Cleo a strawberry mochi yesterday at Don Don Donkey and I told her to send me a video trying it. I have a video of Cleo every night saying goodnight to me. That's so cute. You should save it and make it like a whole thing. Goodnight mommy, I love you. Send it back to her. Goodnight mommy, I love you. That's so cute. Wait, do you send them back to her though?
I just like a night I love you You don't send a video? No because I always miss it because I'm always with like either making dinner or like I FaceTime her right away What time does Cleo even sleep for school? Girl 7 or 8 her dad is like this Dang Yeah Oh it's probably because the dad works early too Yeah Oh that's why period Wow I could not even imagine sleeping at 7 or 8 when I was a kid girl Yeah
Okay, this one is... How do you guys deal with your mom living back in the Philippines? Because she'll be coming back and forth. Oh, she'll be coming back. I feel like people are still under the impression that my mom actually moved back to the Philippines because of our MTV show. But she...
She does. She does go back and forth a lot. And I will say she does spend most of her time in the Philippines. But she is here all the time. Not when she misses us, but when she misses her fucking grandkids. Yeah, that and because she has to come back every six months. Oh, yeah. For her green card, of course. Honestly, like, I feel like because she's been doing it for so long, even before we were working. Like, before we were working, like, what am I saying?
What am I saying? Before we were working and making money, like my mom was always going back home to the Philippines for an extended amount of time. She would leave us.
And like she would fill up the... The refrigerator and leave us for like four... Yeah. Three, four months. Yeah. And she would give us $100 each. Just $100. Wait, how old were you? We were young. We were young. We were like... Is it in the pink house? Nine. We were like nine, ten, eleven. Yeah. So there was like supervision in the area. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Our aunties were... We had all of our aunties. We had all of our cousins. All of our like older cousins that were like...
practically are babysitters. So she had babysitters and like, honestly, like,
I don't mean to sound like, oh, we grew up fast. But, like, we've been walking to school since, like, kindergarten. Like, bitch. Like, knowing how to, like, make our own food by, like, second grade. Like, so. That's very, like, very good. Like, both. I definitely noticed that both of you are so independent. And Princess definitely raises her children to be independent. Yeah. Yeah. Only because, like, my mom has always, not left us, but, like, she was, like.
I feel like we were raised like survival mode. Very much. Yeah. We kind of just like picked up from whatever we can pick up. Yeah. Because just like, and we're not like trying to throw my mom under the bus. Yeah. My girl was raising three kids on her own. On her own. And she did it well. Yeah. You know, but because of that, like I think she didn't really have a lot of time to like. But she had a lot of healing to do too. Oh my God, girl. For sure. Like even just like,
No offense, Princess, but like even like when Princess was a kid, like she didn't know how to brush her hair or do her hair. Yeah, I didn't. Because my mom didn't like really show her. Like, you know, and if anyone showed her, it was dad. But then when dad did her hair, it was like torture. Princess always has torture. Yeah, like growing up, like I know that my mom was really always so busy. She was always working. So she never taught me how to cook and cook.
Clean and... But now, give her what credit it's due, girl. Because you and her have been cooking, bitch. She's been teaching you how to cook for your kids. Yeah, she does. No, yeah. I'm saying, she was really busy back then. And like, now I understand as a mother. Like, it gets really, really frustrating. Of course. And it's...
It takes a lot of your time when you have other things to do. Like, you know what I mean? Take care of yourself. Because even for myself, like, oh, when am I going to choose me? You know what I mean? Like, no. And then, like, the thing is, mom never had anyone. That's what I'm saying. I'm like, because now imagine your four kids, but take out Tony and the picture. Yeah. Yeah.
And I'm so happy that I have somebody like Tony because he's a part of the kid's life, you know? Yeah, mom had to play Tony and Princess. So that's why we're like... I think I know what you're saying. Like as a kid, like we didn't... We resented her for it. And like we would say like, oh, you favoritize JR. And like you're always... You had more time for him. But like really she had time for what she had time for. And like she really did what she...
Could do. Yeah. Period. Like. She raised three very successful children. Like. Honestly. On her own. Period. But.
The question was how do we feel about her being in the Philippines? I honestly like... I don't really care. Yeah, not that I don't care but I'm like I'm so used to her not being around and her texting me like once a week. She's so much happier in the Philippines. Because if you look at her like if whenever I'm just like wondering like oh how mom's doing I just go on her Facebook and like she has like four lives going on before the day even ends. Yes.
So it's like at least... A lot of people are taking care of her than her coming back here taking care of other people. You know what I mean? Because back home, she has all her sisters, all of her nieces that like... Literally will do anything for her. Will do anything for my mom. My mom's nieces love her, which I loved. I'm like, yeah.
So I know she's taking care of more in the Philippines. Yeah. Somebody to talk to and stuff like that. I think it's so interesting that like a lot of foreign parents like work their asses off when they move to America just to move back from where they come from, which I guess is their version of the American dream. I mean, yeah. Grandma, she lives her life here and then she went back to the Philippines and she died there.
And mom will probably, if she actually did one day, like retire back in the Philippines. She would do that. Well, that's what you wouldn't do too, Brett. Yeah. Retire back in the Philippines. Yeah. But my version of retiring back to the Philippines. Like I want to work so hard and then just get like 67 acres. I don't know why I keep saying 67. Like 70 acres of land and then just like live on it. But like have like a little acre for like my mom.
And then a little acre for like all the extended family. Oh, it's like a compound? So that we all kind of just like work. A compound? Like almost like a compound, but we almost own like a whole mountain. Oh, wow.
And then just like the family just like works under me and like stuff like that. You have like a beautiful farm and like the restaurant. Yes, like I would like make all of my uncles raise like all my pets and animals because I want like horses and pigs. Yeah. I really want to take the kids to the Philippines. I really, really want them to see like where we grew up, you know? I would cackle to see how they would like
I feel like they would love it. Like, honestly. Oh, yeah. You gotta do it when they're kids, though. Because, like, when they're teens, like, they're gonna be so, like, where's the internet? Like, because I can see E liking Philippines. Yes. Oh, yeah. But Cleo being the iPad girly that she is now, I'm like, she's gonna talk. She's not gonna talk, but she's gonna miss that internet. Yeah, but I feel like once... She's really curious. Like, she really wants to go to the Philippines. Mm-hmm. Yeah.
One day, maybe next year. When she's also older. I don't want to take care of that. Girl, traveling with four kids. Oh my god. Four kids. I got a man too. I know, but like that's a lot. It is. I'm like, oh my god, that's your first family big trip. We're gonna have mom over there too. You have all your aunties. I know. I wish we can have like one big like family like trip. Like, ugh. We've been talking about it for so long. We can. We should. But...
I'm like, now that like everyone in the family is like doing good, like thank God, like we really all made it. I feel like we can soon. I feel we need to. We do. We need a little homecoming. That would be amazing. A family reunion. Yes. And visit grandma. Okay, somebody asked, what is your favorite like content that we made ever?
Oh, I really enjoy the challenges that we do. Like the Guess That Song. Those are my favorite. Oh my gosh. We should do… Will somebody ask us to do another Spelling Bee contest? No.
Why not? Because, no. Princess, you have not been studying after all these years, bitch. No, I have. It's just like, ugh, I don't know. I don't want, no, I don't want to. Why? Is it because people are still bullying you about macchiato today? Yes, they are. Machito. Macchiato. Macchiato, girl. Compatibility.
Yeah. I'm having like a fangirl moment because I used to watch y'all like doing videos together. Wait Kat, we should ask you. What is your favorite Bretman Rock and Princess content? They're just so funny. I used to watch like the compilations of you two just being siblings. Yeah. But I loved the earlier ones. Do you remember like the first video you watched of us two? You guys were eating before that. It was the Jollibee.
Oh, when I was wearing red and I had that yellow. That is actually one of my most viewed YouTube videos. Really? One of them. I think it's because... This is your old, old, old apartment. Yeah. I know, bitch. When Miss K was our editor still. She was? Yeah, she edited a couple of our videos. Oh my god, I didn't know that. That's cool. That is fun. I feel like we should do another challenge video soon. We should, but I don't want to disappoint you, Rich.
We should do what kind? We can't do singing ones anymore. You guys should do like, are you smarter than a fifth grader? Girl, she doesn't want to do any like educational tests. Oh, you know what? You should do. What? A part two of getting my license. Girl, you haven't even taken the permit test. Exactly. So that was the point of that. We can do a part two. The part two of a driver's test after a permit is on the road.
So I'm not getting on the road with your ass, princess. No, I can actually drive. I just get really bad anxiety. I don't want to see it. This is great quality in a driver. Anxiety. She keeps on driving me. She said. What is so funny, bitch? Wait, princess. Somebody asked us about funny childhood stories. Do you have any funny childhood stories? No, I feel like I was really traumatized.
That's true. But do you not have any like funny ones? Funny? Yeah, funny or like things you remember from childhood. Do you have one? Yes. To paint the picture, I was in the Philippines by myself with my dad and Princess was visiting. She was playing with us. You were playing with us. And okay, this is two stories in the same day.
So Princess would be like, I speak English, like telling everyone that she spoke English. And me and my cousin was like, tell us a word. What is a word? Speak in English right now. And she was like, I remember that. And I was like, what does that mean? And then she's like, I don't know. But she would say it in Ilocano. She's like, I don't know.
And I'm like, so what is Aranda the Fae? And I don't know why I always remember it. Because even now, like probably 20 years later, I'm still thinking like, what the fuck was Princess trying to say with Aranda the Fae? Because the way she had her nose up when she came to the Philippines, like, yeah, I am actually better than y'all. Because y'all are not from America. And Aranda the Fae. I did not. I did not.
No, but to me, that was your energy. She was like, oh, wow, this little girl really thinks she's all back because she's from America. And then all of our cousins were like, speak in English then. And she'd just be like, I ran the fae.
What the fuck? Do you know what you were trying to say? I don't know. I really don't know. I ran away. I'm thinking like, oh, I went to the fair maybe or I ran out of, I get out the way. I ran away. I ran away. Maybe. I don't know. You should run away. I did. Oh, yeah, you did. Why'd you come back? I was here and watched.
And you went to look for me, remember? Why'd you come back again? Because mom called the cops on me. Girl, running away in Hawaii is so stupid, first of all. Because that was your fault. Because how are you going to run away in an island? Where are you going? Swimming? Where were you going? That's why I'm like, when people run away in Hawaii, I'm like,
Where are you going? Town? You're going to go to Waikiki to run away, girl? I just feel like I was doing all this random shit because I was trying to get my mom's attention in a very wrong way. In the worst way. In the worst way. And then my other favorite story is when we were playing house. I think I said this story before. So let me know if you guys said this before. But we were playing house and we were behind the jail.
Remember? So our house in the Philippines. My thing got caught in the tree. Yes. So our house in the Philippines. Shut up. Our house in the Philippines, two doors down, quite literally two doors down is the jail. I don't know why. Don't know how. Don't want to know why. But behind the jail, there was like this part of land where all the kids would play in. Yeah.
And we would play house, house, bahay, bahay. Or we would just like hang there and make like whatever. So we are under this tree and Princess is climbing this tree because she's really sore. And Princess has always been a girly girl. So she was wearing like a skirt. She was wearing a skirt. She's above the tree and she's wearing a skirt. And we're all down. And she wanted to jump. Yeah.
Brahmin left me there and went to go grab somebody. So Princess wanted to jump out the tree and land into the dirt. So she jumps but her skirt gets caught on the branch. I wasn't thinking. So it gets caught on the branch and she's swimming in the mid-air like this.
And we were like poking her with a stick. Oh my god. Like a piñata. But no one could get her down. Mind you, at this point, it was me, it was like a lot of us playing. But there was, none of us were like tall enough to like grab her out. And so we all run out and like left her like hanging there. Oh my god. To grab an adult, obviously. But I think you were hanging for like five minutes. I don't know, but it was so scary.
Really? It was so scary. And I thought they were actually gonna leave me, you know. We came back. I don't know which adult it was that came. I think he was, you know, Manong Sharon's brother. I think Sunny. Yes, I think so. I think so, yeah. I think it's Sunny. Because he was always home. I think so. I think Uncle Sunny or Manong Sunny...
ended up like grabbing you out of the tree but I don't know why that was so funny to me because every time I think about it I'm like just seeing you like swimming in the air was so fucking funny
It makes me cackle every fucking, it doesn't, oh my God, it hits every time. Okay. There's this one funny childhood memory that I had. So there's this time when we were all jumping on the bed. We were jumping on the bed. It was Colin Demme and Kiefer Demme was moving into that house, into that room.
No, they were already moved in. No, they weren't. Because they didn't have the double-back bed yet. No, they were cleaning the room out. No. To put the double-back bed. And we were jumping on the bed. Yes, we were jumping on the bed. And then after that, like, we were really loud. And we were really, really loud. And I just remember somebody...
Somebody opens the door And like I don't know They're like They said something And then I fell down On the bed And I landed On the floor And while They were getting While everybody Was getting in trouble I was still laying down On the floor Getting in trouble Do you remember? Yes but you said it wrong Yeah No No
So we were all in the bed, on the bed, jumping. And we stuffed our stomachs with the pillows. And we would go in a circle. Like, we'd jump in circles. And every time someone said go, we would all, like, mash in the center and see who falls off the bed. Yes. And I was the littlest one.
Yeah, and so we would all like smash each other on the bed and I remembered somebody opened the door and Princess just flew out of the bed. And then we were getting in trouble and I was still on the floor. She was on the ground. And we were all like, um, she dead.
Because we were like too much in deep trouble for her to like cry. Because if she cried, we would have been in more trouble. Girl, what is that? Something like, you know, my air, like I think... It knocked the wind out of her. I remember also like her catching herself with her hand. And I literally saw her hand go in and out. Ew. I was like...
And she just had to eat it up because she was getting in trouble. We were all getting in trouble. It was so bad. Girl, that is so fucking funny, bitch. Oh my God. Okay, my next story is... I remembered when... I forgot what age I was. I think I was in third grade. So I want to say I was turning nine or ten. And mom...
always leaves us $20. Yeah. On our birthdays, if it lands on a school day or whenever, honestly, she would just give us $20. And I remembered making a deal with my mom that day, that night before. I'm like, mom, I really need that $20. It's more like Scholastic's school supply store is here. Like, bitch, I got to get my Scholastic's.
And she forgot it. But I had a $20. And so I called her and I'm like, Mom, you said you would give me the $20. Like, where is it? And she was like, oh, okay, Princess has $20. Can you just tell her to give you your $20? And this bitch wouldn't give me my fucking $20. So I...
Also, when I was a kid, I was probably like 5, 20 times more dramatic than I am now. Problematic AF. Problematic and dramatic. And Princess didn't want to give me my 20 bucks. So I literally stayed home and I crawled under the sheets, under the blankets, and
And I stayed there until after school. So I was under the blanket and under the sheets from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. until I was found. When everyone came home.
So I was under there for And you locked the doors too 11, 12, 1 I was under there for 6 hours Yeah And I was I When they found me I was sweating profusely girl And I wouldn't wake up Because I fainted from fucking dehydration Oh my god Yeah And then I remember calling my mom And then I was like Mom She said I think he's dead Yeah
And I remembered waking up because Auntie Sessan was home and she grabbed me and she like just started like rocking me. And I remembered waking up being rocked. And yeah, that's how dramatic I was. I was ready to risk it all. I was ready to go if I didn't get my $20 from Princess Girl. I was like, girl, give me my 20 bucks. Like you're going to get paid for it after. And she just was like, no, no.
And I was like, oh, okay. Well, I'm gonna go kill myself then. No, deadass. Deadass. But that's not funny, bro. That was like, I was really scared, you know. I was so scared that he, because he did it three times already. I'm a survivor. No, that was my second time, bro. Don't play. Okay, well, there was another time that he did it third time. The first time that happened was in the Philippines.
And Princess said something. No, it wasn't even you. It wasn't me. It was a cousin of mine. And he was like, this was when I was like, not closeted, but I hated being made fun of for being girly. Yeah. And my cousin made a joke about me being girly.
And I got so upset that I laid outside in the sun all day. And I was... Not all day. I was there from, like, blazing hot, 12 in the afternoon until 3. For 3 hours, I was in the sun. And then after that, as if I wasn't already dehydrated and, like, dry, I did the same thing. I went underneath the sheets. I don't know why. It's just, like, my comfort place. Like...
Being claustrophobic like this. And I was never like I tried to like unpack it during therapy and stuff like that. And I never really got down to like why if I'm overwhelmed or overstimulated. I like to be like confined. I like to be like confined if I'm like overwhelmed. Like that's why like even when I'm having a rough day. Like I like to like stuff myself like maybe in the attic and like just be a hermit. Mm-hmm.
But if I'm upset, bitch, just know I'm tucked somewhere. But after out in the sun, I went underneath the sheets and my mom found me like sweating and they said I didn't wake up for 30 minutes. Oh my gosh. They were gonna rush me to the hospital. They don't... I just remember when I woke up, I was wet. I don't remember really like
Yeah. Because my mom said they dumped water on me. Yeah, they did. I was about to say that. They even, they said they were biting me. What? Yeah, they, I obviously don't remember. But I remembered waking up wet and my mom crying. Yeah. Oh my god. So dramatic. Because I was upset. So don't get me upset or else I will kill myself.
No, literally joking. Not literally joking. So yeah, there's that story as well of how dramatic I was. How would you say you were like as a child princess other than an attention whore? I feel like I didn't get enough attention from mom. I didn't get enough attention from her. I don't think anyone did, girl. Yeah.
Yeah, and you guys used to bully me a lot. And that's when I started to become very, like, attention whore-ish. Where, like, I felt like I needed to fit in. And, like, I feel if I did something, even if I was doing something good, my mom was never really there. Like, if I had an award, she wouldn't really come. Like, you too, Brett. Girl, she didn't even show up to my sixth year graduation. Yeah.
Yeah. For my school play. And Princess, I was full on Aladdin on my school play. Princess was an narrator. She said two lines. No, girl, I was Rainbow Fish. Oh, yeah. Wait, were you the Rainbow Fish? I was the Rainbow Fish, girl. Don't play with me. Oh, wait, we were both main characters on our school play? That's crazy. Never mind. But mom showed up to your play. Mom didn't even show up to my Aladdin play. And I thought I made it up. She was late.
And she brought me a Kit Kat. At least she did. But yeah, I feel like that was like my childhood. Like I feel as if like mom wasn't really giving me attention. No one was really paying attention to me. And even when I was doing good, it wasn't really anything. And then if I was doing bad, I feel like that's what mom does give me attention.
attention that's very much mom for you girl no that's justice but like but now like my mom my mom gave gives all her attention to my kids and i just wish that's how mom was with us but i'm happy to see her as a grandma because you know she takes care of my kids really really good she loves on them really really good and that's
That fulfilled my childhood. That healed me a lot. To see my mom there for my kids. And yeah. You know, now she has more time for herself. Period. Also, if you guys see me on my phone, I'm literally looking up things that Princess and I talked about because I asked earlier. Ooh, okay. Since we talked a lot about it in this video, somebody said, how to learn to forgive your parents and not to carry that resentment into adulthood.
For me, I was to speak for me, I think adulthood like teaches you so much on where your parents were coming from that it kind of makes you not necessarily forgive them in some senses and cases, but it makes you understand them a lot. Just like how we have been here, like saying things that we wish our mom did, but also understanding why she didn't have those times with us. Like,
So I think, honestly, adulthood does teach you a lot of
The reasonings behind why our parents did the things that they've done. But that doesn't necessarily mean like you forgive them. I think you might understand them. And at least that's a step closer to forgiveness, I think. Yeah, understanding. Because, I mean, even for me, I will be very candid and admit that like... There's days where I feel like I haven't really even forgiven dad. Because I feel like I still carry that resentment. Especially when I see mom. And I'm like...
Oh my god, this girl had to figure out how to raise three kids on her own. And she didn't ask for that. And like, I don't know. In that sense, I can understand mom. But in that same sense, I can't understand dad. Because I'm like, really, bitch? Like, why? So, what would you say, princess? As for me... Because I think you're... Mine's just different. Yeah, because you're a mom now. Yes.
As a mom, I think about, you know, all those times with mom and I think about if, you know, all those wrongs that I did, the mistakes I've made with my kids, will they forgive me one day? You know, so I think about myself. I think about
mom as a mom i think about mercedita as a mom like like of of me like yeah you know and mom has give gave me the best qualities of myself i feel because mom always chose us you know like she she she could have left too honestly period you know what i mean but she decided to to raise us you know and
And like me, I can leave too. You know what I mean? But I didn't. I could have become a drug addict or other things, but I chose my kids. And I felt like she had given me that strength. You know, if my mom can do it, I can do it.
You know, and because I was a single mom too, you know, two times. Two times for two weeks. Okay. So I understand where mom is coming from in both sides, you know. And yeah, I hope one day she also forgives herself too, you know. Because to this day, I feel like mom, my mom, you know, she also needs to love herself and love.
And give her self credit for everything she's done for us and for herself. Somebody said we always talk about a lot of Filipino traits that are good or things we love about being Filipino. But let's talk about maybe toxic traits of being Filipino or like maybe things that like we grew up believing and not necessarily like true. Or things that we hope to stop with our kids like generational trauma maybe. Yeah.
Okay, I feel like I've kept a lot of myself to myself because I was always so scared of what my mom would say or feel because of things that I was doing. Because at one point, I was a little, I feel like I was a little gay because I dated a girl.
But I didn't know how to tell my mom. Like, hey, like, I think I'm gay, you know? And I didn't know how to, like, talk to her about it. Because she was always so stressed out. And so I was like, I don't want to stress her out more, you know? And, like, I was just always so scared to tell her things. Like, and yeah, I want to break that. Oh, like being scared to open up to your parents? Opening up to my parents, yeah. That's a good one. I'm glad that, like...
I don't see that with Cleo. Like, I think, I don't know for me. I don't know if I have a different relationship with Cleo than you, but she's very open with me. Like, I can be like, who do you have a crush on? I should be like, and I know I shouldn't be asking kids that they have a crush.
about their crushes but I know Cleo has a crush because she always want to bring it up so it's not me bringing it up trust me no Cleo tells me everything yeah that's what I'm saying so it's just like breaking that curse of like you're not feeling like you can open up to mom because she girl because mom will find a way to fucking scold you about anything love her though yeah we love her but at least she doesn't do it anymore but yeah
I feel like therapy was never a thing for them too. You know, I feel. For me, I think a Filipino trait or maybe just like maybe a developing country, third world trait is that like a lot of parents really emphasize like success on their kids and
And I'm glad that mom never told me I needed to be a nurse, I needed to be this, but mom would always compare me to our cousins that may have done well and you have to do better than them, you have to do this. So it's just the pressure of doing well, I think, was a lot as a kid. And I don't know if necessarily that's a Filipino trait or anything, but just the pressure of being great
for the family was a lot for me because I was just like why doesn't JR get this energy I'm like why do I gotta be a nurse but JR can be who he is so very much just like the unnecessary pressure I think of like being amazing and great and grand but ultimately I think what you were getting at was really a good point of like
opening up. I think that goes with all generations of Filipino. I think it's amazing to see young Filipino kids open up about their feelings, but I think it'd also be great to see adults, especially our mom's age, to talk about their feelings and why they
are the way that they are and I think that could even going back to the previous question open up your kids mind on understanding why you're so strict or why you are the way that you are you know what I mean
So I would say that openness is a really good one. Yeah. To break. 100%. Yeah, like just to end it off on a high note. Princess, speaking of, let's end this on a high note. What are you looking forward to? For what? Just in general. I'm looking forward to going back to the Philippines. When this video is out, I will literally be in the Philippines. Oh, what I'm looking forward for...
Going back to work and like doing content again. I feel like I've been doing content, you know. And I'm so excited to see for everybody to see like the kids also being involved into like, you know, in my life. Because I feel like people really think you're really out here taking care of the kids. Oh girl, no. But like I'm saying, like, you know, I'm so happy Cleo and Ezekiel love...
being you know being being there and just trying new things with me and you know i just i just love how they're so open to doing things you know doing things trying things eating things yeah wait tell us a funny maybe last thing is tell us a funny easy kill and cleo story because i know you got a lot girl there's too much oh tell them maybe the fish one
Clio and Ezekiel loved fish and... Because of you. Yes. Well, because of grandma too. Yeah. She would always make fish soup. Fish, fried fish, anything fish. Like that's what they would eat every single time. Anyways, there was two pieces of fish left at my sister-in-law's house. And my sister-in-law was like,
Cleo, Ezekiel, are you guys hungry? And Ezekiel was like, no. And then Cleo was like, yes. And then so Ezekiel came by the table and he saw Cleo eating the fish. And then he's like, nevermind, I'm hungry. I want the fish too. But there's only two fishes left. And then Cleo was like, well, you can't have my fish. Like, this is mine. And Atilla Renna said, if you were hungry already. And you said, no, so you can't have my fish. And then so Ezekiel just like,
like she was like all mad and like irritated on the side and then so at the learn it was like ezekiel do you want me to fry fry you a fish and then he was like no because i want that one and then they were just going back and forth and then at the learn it was like is clay or do you want me to fry you a fish you can just give that to ezekiel and he was like no that's not fair because you know you you already asked us if we wanted the fish and i wanted the fish and then he's like so no this is my fish
So Adelaurena ended up feeding them one by one, those two fish. Period. Oh my God.
I just want to know why Ezekiel wanted that fish. That's how they are. That's how they are. That's like my dogs, honestly. Because I would get them six toys. One for each. Even the dogs that don't even play with the toys anymore. I would get one for Ella and Tora. They don't even have teeth for toys anymore. But they will always just fight for that one toy. Like I would give them each a toy. But they would all pick on like...
Let's say Tora's toy And they would all want Tora's toy They would all want Kai's toy And I'm like
I could get them the same exact thing of something and they would want that one thing. So I don't know why. That's such a kid thing. But I'm pretty sure if we think really hard, we were probably done. Yeah. No. Like for this. I want that one that she has. Last year's Christmas, I got them everything the same. Now you know why I do the same for everybody. Yeah. For Christmas, everyone gets the same shit because I don't want no bitch being like, you spent $2 more on...
I got them though, like everything the same, like even for Easter, like, okay, you're going to get the same chocolate. You're going to get the same toy. But different colors, their color, their favorite color.
So I kind of just learned them and to see what they like to do and what type of toy. But kids nowadays are so easy. Like, girl, get them a Roblox card. No, literally. Princess, should we do a product of the days? Yes. Do you want to start first? Yes. I feel like yours is huge. We're not going to bring it because it's a lot. Yeah, it's downstairs. I mean, it's in the car. But it's the Dooner. It's the Doona. It's the Doona. I forgot what they call it.
I think it's like a Duna 2-in-1. It's a stroller slash a... What is it called again? A stroller slash a... Car seat. Car seat. So basically, I... D-O-O-N-A. Duna. Yeah, D-O-O-N-A. And it's super cutesy.
It's perfect for the kids to push because it's really small. And yeah, it's perfect. I love it so much. It's so convenient because I don't have to bring a stroller and a car seat, you know, whenever we have to go. It becomes a stroller and a car seat. Oh, yeah.
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the Oscars. And my makeup artist Chanel was putting me on. She always puts me on the best stuff. These are only Sephora online exclusive right now. I'm not sure if you guys get them at the store yet. So I literally ordered this right after I stepped off the carpet because I was glowing. And I just like that it's like a wet
Look, it looks like my skin. I thought that was natural the whole time. Like I didn't realize that was makeup. Oh my god. I want to try it. Yeah, hold on. I feel like Brett should do your makeup again for a video. Oh, yes. Wait, try it. Because you were already oily. Maybe it looks the same. Oh, wait, look. You can see. I can't see from here. I'm really blind. It looks good.
Alright, well that is... Oh, and I'm also wearing the shade... Today I'm wearing the shade Citrine and I put champagne on Princess. Princess, where can they find you, girl? Follow me on all my social media at RealPrincessMay on Instagram, TikTok, and your Amazon storefront. And everything is at Bretman Rock. And make sure you guys like and subscribe to the Baddest Radio Gift Best Reading. And we will see you on next week's episode. Aloha.
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