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The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Good morning, everybody. It is yet again Thursday. Good morning, everyone. Yeah, Miss Kay and I tried to serve some Aloha Friday looks today. I know, so we're giving it Aloha Thursday. Aloha Thursday, but tomorrow is Aloha Friday. For those of you who don't know, what is Aloha Friday, Miss Kay? Aloha Friday is when everybody tends to wear like Aloha shirts on a Friday. Yeah, but why is it called Aloha Friday?

Do you know the jingle? No. The one that's like, it's Aloha Friday. No school till Monday. I've never heard of that before. Well, as far as I know, yes, it's Aloha Wear Friday, but also a lot of

workers as students celebrate Fridays because it's like the weekend. Yeah. Basically. So it's like, you know, it's very much a half day, I feel. Very much. It is. Very much. But yes, happy pre-Aloha Friday to everyone listening. Yes, happy Aloha pre. You believe we are already in the third week of February? I know. Time went by so fast. January went

And February is even going by so much faster, I fear. What's today's date? Well, today, when we're filming this... I think the 20th? Whoa, today, today? Yeah, today is the 7th. But when this episode goes up, it's going to be the 20th. The 20th? Yeah. Oh my god, hello March. Hello, mother-talking March. Oh my god, March is coming.

Yes, I wanted the third episode of February to be with my mans. But girl, it's just so hard filming anything with Justice nowadays. I know. He is in his worker era. I haven't been seeing him a lot. He's a worker bee. He's a worker bee. He's busier than me. So we'll try to film probably the last episode of February, maybe next week with Justice. Yeah, yeah.

Do you want to interview him? You should. Oh my god. You should put him in a hot seat. Okay, fine. You guys, I get nervous talking to him sometimes. Why? For no reason. I don't know why. Because I feel like I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm like...

He does have really intense eye contact. That was like from our first date. I'm like, do we blink? I love people that can make eye contact. No, for sure. But I'm not a super eye contact. Are you an eye contact? I am an eye contact. I'm eye contact. How are you on? Oh, you are eye contact person? Like, no, no, no. I'm saying, are you the eye contact person or do you look for eye contact? Yeah.

I look for it and I am one. Yeah, I feel like it's both. I feel like I'm looking for it and as soon as I make it, I'm like locked. Yeah. I don't think I am. I think I look at people's teeth or like noses anywhere but eyes because I start... Especially if I have a crush on you. I feel like if I'm like talking to my friends, I will look at them in the eye. But if I have a crush on you, even with my mans now, like I can't even like...

So are you that type of person that would like if they make eye contact with you, you just like to look like. Yeah. I'm so shy. Like I'm just a little girl. A mood. I'm the same way. If it's my mans, I'm like, don't look, don't look at me. But don't you think there are some instances where eye contact is a little too much? Is there ever a time?

I don't know. To be honest, because at work, if I'm taking your order, I contact you. And sometimes I could feel them like looking away and I'm just like, look at me in the eyes because I need to hear what you're saying.

I can't relate. What do you think is too much? Sorry. What was that? What would you think? Did you have an answer? On occasion? Yeah. I would say there are some times where I'll answer this question after this break. Okay. Bratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is.

And we are back. Okay, so to answer your question, when is it too much? I feel like, especially if I'm like, if it's... Oh, sorry. Oh my gosh. I know. By the way, I don't know if we ever explained why Miss K has an extra set. She loves playing with her mic. So we gave her that to play with. It's like my little fidget, but...

But yeah, I think it's like the one that I remember just being so shy is whenever I met my business managers or my lawyers for the first time. Because I think with their jobs, I'm so sorry to Will and Brett for talking to y'all like you're not in the room. Hi, everybody. But when I first met them, they make such like intense eye contact that I'm like... It's intimidating. I feel like I'm being interrogated at some point. I'm like, am I...

Being kidnapped right now. And they're like such high authority and they're like in big suits that I'm just like, I'm going to jail after this. I feel like, do I need a lawyer? Yeah.

It gets intense. But I think my boundary with eye contact is I will never make an eye contact with like a friend's partner. Oh, that's true. I never thought about that. Oh, I never thought about that. I mean, I already don't make too much eye contact. I feel like I don't think about that regardless. We should talk more about like boundaries, red flags right after our segment. Because Miss K, that drink is calling my name, girl.

You guys, I don't know if I could use some of the products I used, but I just used it. Brett is drinking it anyway, so. Bitch. Anyway, I was like, today, I was like daydreaming about like a watermelon mint drink. Watermelon mint. Yeah, but the watermelon I got was not giving watermelon. It was giving like berry ripe kind of sweetness. So I was like, this is not working right.

So this drink. Because we were like, where is Miss K? And I text Miss K, what is your era, girl? Because you swore you were, we can talk about that too. You swore you were just going to your doctor and I was like, coming straight here. And I'm like, what is this bitch? I text her, what's your era? And she's like, oh, I'm just grabbing a watermelon for your drink real quick. I'm like,

We usually have Miss K-Tex cat like... Yeah, but this one was like I didn't know what to make and I was like on my way here. Stuff. But it's watermelon spearmint with pomegranate water and honey. Like pomegranate juice? Yeah. Ooh. Kiefer. You ate with this. Really? I literally... It tastes... Okay, I will say...

Because people really fucking think I'm like kissing Miss K's ass. I have nothing to fucking kiss Miss K's ass for. I'm the type of bitch, I'm like, this shit is fucking nasty. Because, no, not this, but like, I can say that to Miss K because the reason why Miss K makes drinks and not food is because...

I like to mix my food. I love Miss K. I really do. I hate when Miss K experiments on food. Like, she never just eats the food the way it is supposed to be. Like...

We would go to like, go get pho. And she would put everything that they have, even if it's not for the pho, on the pho. And then she'll convince me that's the best thing ever. She'll be like, Brett, you need to try this right now. This is the best thing ever. And I would taste it and I'm like, Kiefer. No, it's not. You guys, I have like a very...

How would you say that? Like a... Acquired taste. A wide palate, if you will. I like, sometimes whenever I eat food, I'm like, this needs something. And I couldn't, I don't know what it would mean. And it's always, every food needs a little something with this cake, girl. So I just start adding stuff until it tastes like what I feel like in my head that it should taste like. Period. Oh, okay. So I was saying about the drink. It tastes a lot like palm.

- Palm. - Palm? Like it's the pomegranate drink and it's… You bought it for me before. - Oh, it's one of the ones I use. - Oh you use… Oh okay. I'm like, "Wait, it tastes like palm. I'm not tasting too much watermelon." - Watermelon, yeah. - But it's really good, girl. It tastes healthy. - It has like a little hint of like watermelon on it, if anything.

We like her. Wait also, a queen has been remaking Miss K. That was so cute. Kat, can you please find her at so we can give her a shout out? She's such a queen. I was like, I woke up this morning and I saw it and I was like, oh my god, that is so cute. I just saw it when you were on your way here and I'm like, oh my god, I thought she was gonna make like one to two drinks but Miss K did half of the episodes.

Oh yeah. It's SoCaliasia. SoCaliasia. Yeah. So S-O-C-I-A-L-A-Y dot Asia. SoCaliasia. I'm sorry, but for the next couple episodes, it's going to stay as tea. Tea. Or like a refreshment. These are matches for now until March 15th, which is when my 75 heart ends. Oh my gosh. Perfect timing.

I keep thinking about how my first taste of like caffeine is going to be. I feel like it's going to be... I feel like it's going to be bitter. Yeah, bitter.

Or I feel like it's gonna hit me like a truck or like energy. And I cannot wait. I feel like I'm taking like a tolerance break or something. I'm pretty sure you're gonna be up all night. I know. Honestly. Okay, I should read The Baddest. I mean, The Baddest. I should read The Tea. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. The Tea. Okay, I'm just gonna read my most recent one. I swear that journal will be giving like...

An earthling journal. Bitch, I feel like I... Like a conqueror. Like, bitch, I feel like... Ugh. Anyways. February 6th. Also, I've been loving, like, my sticker maker.

Okay, February 6th, 2025. Girl, I became a US citizen yesterday. It was really such a fun experience. I'm not sure why I was so nervous for it. My only explanation is that I was probably just in disbelief that it was happening. I guess things just seem so far out of reach when you have been working on it for years and the end felt so far. Hold on, let me read that one more because I feel like that's supposed to hit.

February 6, 2025. Girl, I became a U.S. citizen yesterday. It was a really such a fun experience. I'm not sure why I was so nervous for it. My only explanation is that I was probably just in disbelief that it was finally happening. I guess things just seem so far out of reach when you have been working on it for years and the end felt so far. Everyone around me was so emotional and was so cool because one of my elementary school friends also became a citizen with me. Shout out to Gerald Soriano, girl.

Which I didn't even know he wasn't a citizen. I also met a couple of my supporters from the island, but as well as Outer Island girlies. Which was so cool, girl. I walked in and everyone was like... And a lot of the Outer Island girlies were taking pictures before the whole ceremony. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Which was...

Also, hi. While we were watching the presentation, it was not hard to realize that the Faces America video highlighted so many immigrants. Immigrants who made impact in our culture and society. Immigrants that made America the country that it is today. Immigrants are the backbone of America, and I can't help to question the system. It's very hard and scary being an immigrant in the U.S. right now. And just because I'm an American now, for 24 hours, I will always be that 8-year-old boy that came to America

with just a dream and hopes. And I will always stand with my fellow immigrants because we belong here. Period. Period. That was good and so true. In the land of immigrants. Yes. In stolen land, girl. I read something that was like along the lines of nobody is a citizen in stolen land. And I truly believe that. Yeah. Mm-hmm.

And that's what I will say about that situation. That is such a cute quote. Yeah, nobody's a citizen on stolen land. Yeah.

And we stand by that. But I do want to ask you a question about your… Oh my gosh, yes. Do you want to give us like a rundown of like what happened inside that room? Because I know it's like it's a whole process. Yeah. You talked about like watching a video, but what was like the whole thing? Oh yeah, it was really actually really easy. So I don't know if you guys know this, but in the mainland, they do same-day oath. I think we talked about this last time. So last time, me and Ms. K talked about the test-taking…

Part. Yeah. So it's two parts. Test taking and then the oath if you pass. In mainland, you do same day oath if you pass. But in Hawaii, because we are a smaller state and there are other islands involved, they schedule us in groups. So I was just in that group that day. That's why there were other immigrants. I mean, that's why there were other American citizens from outer islands because they obviously they're not going to fly back just to take an oath.

So they check us, all of us in. It's really like a TSA, girl. You take your belt off. You take your shoes off. And then they ask for your letter of, like, appointment. Yeah. You sit down with everybody. And then they really just, like, tell you the rules of, like... Because you're handed a certificate. Yeah. And they're, like, obviously telling you the obvious stuff. Like, don't post it online. Don't pose with it. And, like, people can and will steal your identity. Yeah. And then they play the video. Which, truly, I was like...

Truly was just a video of immigrants who are faces of America. And I was like, oh my God, this is such a weird thing to watch, especially with what America is going through right now. And like, just, I'm like, yeah, we are the backbone of America, but you're also like kicking us out, which contradicts itself. You know what I mean? People forgot what America is about. Yeah. Period. No, period. And after that,

You take the oath and you just literally like read word for word. They give you a pamphlet but like, you know. Oh, also when you walk in, they give you a flag and a little pamphlet and like the oath. And then you read that and then they give you your award, your certificate. And then that's it. I did stay behind after to take pictures with people. And then we also all took pictures with the flag. Like we were all so excited and it was just so cool. It was good vibes. Yeah, no, for sure.

I bet everyone was just so happy to get it over with. I know. And I know because I was talking to some people there and like a lot of the, I mean, I keep saying five years, but I know there's people out there in that room that probably had worked on it for as long as like 10, 15 years and as little as like months. You know what I mean? It is a scale. Like it's honestly the easiest thing to do to get your papers to like citizen here. It's the waiting part that takes forever.

Because you, I think a lot of people, and I will even say a lot of Americans, think that you can just walk into an immigration office, ask for paperwork, and then become a citizen like that. It's not. It's not. And it's case for case, and it's in...

Yeah. I'm not even going to get into details on why some people take longer than others because it really is just case for case. Yeah. But I'm just so glad that's done. Over with. Over with. And... Now no one will take your passport.

period you'll get detained i won't get detained for hours oh my god hopefully like this this time traveling for you will be easier it will be and we'll be together now in the same immigration lane are you talking about this march oh my gosh wait let's manifest yeah we are i've been manifesting you guys the reason why me and miss k are going to the philippines in march i don't give a

what for? We are going. If I have to book it myself, we are going. Yeah. And that's the only reason why I keep talking about March. Because I'm like, Brett was like, we're going to go to the Philippine shop March. And I was like, I feel it in my bone. I feel it in my bone. I know I have work coming up. That we are just finalizing. So...

We'll see. We'll be there. Yeah, we're gonna be there. It's not an option. I was telling Brett the other day. Like literally. I was telling Brett the other day. I was like, I'm taking this Philippine trip so seriously because I've been making friends. I've been giving them. She has plans. Yes. I was like, I'm making plans with people. Period. She has plans already. And I'm like, oh my God, girl. The pressure's on because honestly, we need to go home. Okay.

I need to go home I need to feel revived I need to feel inspired Anytime I go home I just feel like A new you just arrived Yes I feel so inspired And I just feel so grateful Not that I don't feel grateful When I'm here in Hawaii But like

There's just something that being home makes me... Brings out of me. You know? Especially when you go there and come back. Like, you're so... You're so happy. Yeah. Compared to everywhere else you go. I've never seen the two of you just so full of life and energy. And like, when you come back, you're like... There's a difference from when you pick me up from a Paris trip to a Philippines trip. So different. Oh my God. We're like really loud in the car.

night and day literally coming home from Paris not a single peep in the car I'm like blast the music looking outside the window and then Philippines we come back from the Philippines and I'm like Kat you turn we're going back

You turn this car right now. I don't want to be in here. There'll be the salmon bakes in the car. Yeah. For you to cook them when you get home. Oh my God, my salmon bake. Girl, that was a journey bringing that in here. But I really was like, you're not bringing that. And then I was like, I am bringing this and I will carry it. You're like, I told everyone about this. Yeah. We need to bring it. Oh my God. You're not watering. My tongue is watering. Bad.

I haven't had salmon bacon in so long. Speaking of mouth-watering. Let's talk about Kat's titties. I'm kidding. Yeah, guys. That's all I've been seeing from the last videos. You guys. So, I'm sure you guys know this, but a lot of our videos are pre-filmed. So, the video of the Kat. I keep calling you the Kat. The video of today. The video that went out yesterday was the collab with Kat.

Oh my god. I'm like literally losing my train of thought. I keep thinking about her titties. Was the interview with Kat. And honestly, half, I would say not even half, 80% of the comments, especially on TikTok and Instagram, are just memes slash comments about Kat's bitties. And I love how like YouTube is more like toned down.

and like we love her boys yeah yeah yeah she sounds like a cartoon like character yeah yeah yeah but on like TikTok or Instagram they're like don't ask me any colors I don't see any colors I'm not better than any man what were your favorite comments Kat? definitely the ones on YouTube they were so nice they're just like they're like oh she's so nice and positive and I'm like I try

But everybody's so sweet. One of the first comments I saw was like, oh, we thought she was Filipino. Yeah. I'm like, she is basically an honorary. She is. She is very Filipino. She made bulalo the other day. So good. Oh, yeah. And she didn't even eat it.

I went to go home. I was so tired. Yes. Okay, wait. Actually, speaking of mouth-watering, besides Kat's bitty... Oh, yeah! What is the Kat cooking? Okay, so there was some bananas that were kind of ripe. So I made some banana bread. I love banana bread. And I just drizzled some cookie butter on top. I don't know if I'm just a dumb girl, but I'm always asking Kat to get bananas...

I'm craving banana when I don't have banana but when I have bananas I don't eat them yeah or he'll eat one and be like that's satisfied my craving yeah and it just sits there and then I'm like two weeks later we have banana breads which at least I'm not wasting it obviously and like we always eat it and you're like I want bananas when the banana breads are done no literally you did make a different version yesterday I did like a muffin and I tried to like

So I drizzled it on top because the muffin had it inside of it. So I kind of like layered it. But I think they all got 18. So we have the banana bread. The pecan is so good. I'm glad y'all like it. We'll be back after this break.

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Hi, y'all. I'm Kinsey, and I'm the host of Houseguest Podcast. I am a Gen Z wannabe Martha Stewart meets Dolly Parton trying to live in a Nancy Meyers movie. We talk all about life, relationships, and navigating your 20s. I'd like to say I'm multifaceted. I'm either waking up at 4 a.m. in the sauna, tending to my garden, or closing out the bars until 2 a.m. You just never know what you're going to get. See,

It's either me at home in my house in Texas that I spend way too much time in or in the studio with some pretty cool guests. You can follow us at The Houseguest Pod and listen or watch all new episodes every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts or on YouTube. And we're back. All right, Miss K. Hi, everyone. You were saying something when we were on break. No. Okay, so speaking of love or whatever, I'm talking to this boy.

You guys, I have been saying yes to a lot of things lately. Which was your New Year's resolution. Including like dating men. And I've been loving it. But there's this one boy that I was like, oh my God, he is so nice. Always like ask me if I'm okay. Like text me whatever when you get there. I'm assuming you're telling us this because he's done. Huh?

I'm assuming you're telling us this because she's done. I'm still talking to him actually. Then why are you telling us? Because it's kind of like a turn off. Okay. Let's let her cook. And I was like, okay, okay. I don't know why, but I have this turn off. No, I'll just tell you the story first. Okay, so I was like, oh, she's at my cousin's house. He's from the west side. And he was like, oh, okay.

We're in the west side And I was like Oh up in this mountain You know And I was like Okay I was at my cousin's house This and that And he was like Oh okay And we were talking about it And he was like Oh do you know who lives there? Wait who lives in this neighborhood? I'm like trying to think I'm like Whitman Rock We just say no way And I was like What? Really? I was like I didn't know that But anyways Literally That's all I said

And I was just like, in my head, I was like, I don't know. Because, you guys, I went on a date before, like, long time ago, where I went inside. We went, I went with this guy. And as soon as I got inside the car, he was like, I know you. I watch you all the time on the internet. And I'm like, mind you, I was talking to this boy for, like, a whole week. And he never mentioned anything about me, like, knowing us. You. Preferably you.

And then he goes, oh, I also brought my Bretman Brock palette. Can you have him sign it? The audacity. Oh, my God, Kiefer. Yeah. And then he FaceTimed someone. He's like, oh, look who I'm with. And I'm just like, oh, my God, this is not happening. That's crazy. And this was when, like, you were still in Ever Beach. Like, you know, the White House Ever Beach. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes. So long time ago. The last house.

And I wasn't really in your videos yet. I was just like around. Yeah. So I was just like, the fact that that was happening to me, I was like, oh my God. So like, not ever since that day, every time they like mention you or anything, I'm like, ugh. It's giving like, I don't know. I don't know how to feel about that. Well, as your cousin, and if that was to happen to me, like I'm putting myself in your shoe. Like, oh, if I had a cousin who was a little bit known and then like,

I would feel kind of some type of way. Yeah, it's not even like I hate it or I don't like it. It's just kind of like... Why lead with that? Yeah. You know what I mean? Like why even say that kind of thing? Like it's inevitable because we live on an island. Yeah, of course. People are going to eventually figure out like for me, like they're going to figure out like, oh, like they ask a lot of questions. They figure things out. Yeah, because even like

You can take this out when you, if you, whether or not you want me to say, but like, I feel like the last guy you were talking to also knew me was like, wait, because you told him, oh, I'm a personal assistant. And then I guess the last guy you were talking to was like, it's not Bretman Rock, is it? Yeah. Right? Yeah, he said that. And I was like, how'd you know? But it was, it's never like, wait, I forgot where I was going with this now.

It's inevitable that because we live on an island. But there's one thing when they're coming into it. Like, oh my God, they know Bretman Rock. Like, whatever. Yeah. Versus they figure out later on. And they're like, oh, that's cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or if they knew and didn't lead with that. That's why I'm like saying. Because I feel like, especially right now. Like that I'm like in this podcast with you. So I don't know if he's like, like just joking around like that. He doesn't know me. You know what I mean? Yeah. Does he have your socials?

Yes. Girl, he has to know us. Yeah, that's why. So he's like... Because you're reposting the Baddest Radio all the time. Yeah. And it's not like we're not on social media and stuff like that. So I'm just like, okay. It's like he doesn't want to see it first. Yeah. It's that vibe. That's so weird. So he doesn't know we're cousins? That's why I'm questioning it. Because he clearly knows you and what you do. And like...

Where you are. Where I. Because if you know where I live. You at least need to know Miss K. Yeah. Literally. Exactly. But he never mentioned about like me. He's like. So tell me. But he like. He's always asking me about like. About myself. And things like that. And I was like. Okay. And then as soon as he like. Mentioned you. I was like. Oh there's no way. This guy does not know me. Yeah. Yeah. Like he's friends with like. A bunch of like. Other gay people. So like. Because he. I was like. Oh I'm going to Scarlet. He's like. Oh I know people from there. So.

So you clearly know. Maybe he is trying to just get to know you though. Yeah. Like it's inevitable. Maybe he knows. But maybe he just doesn't want to make you uncomfortable too. Yeah. We'll see. Period. I feel like… I mean to be honest, I barely go on dates. I feel like I can count on like two hands how many dates I've gone to. And I feel like I've only really experienced one date where they…

Like... Led with knowing me... And like... Oh my sister knows you... And we had to FaceTime her after... And then like... Even... And maybe like... I don't know if it's just me in my head... But like... When he said that he knew me... Like... Friend... I'm like... Friend... We're gonna be friends... I don't know... Because you never know what their intention is... Because even with justice like...

The conversation of me as Bretman Rock came later on. He didn't lead with it. He genuinely wanted to know me as me. And then like, oh, and you're famous. Like, we're... You know? That was for the first and the second time we met up. I guess it's just the fact that I went on that date before. I don't want that shit happening ever again. I wouldn't either. I would hate that.

That was like, I need to take this out. That was like when my ex, he had no clue. He's like, this is a nice house. I'm like, yeah, that's my boss's. And he's like, oh, is that him? I'm like, yeah. He's like, he looks nice. And I'm like, oh, you don't know who that is? Oh, period. Period. Okay. I guess you're going to just lead off with that. A turn off on a date. That's a turn off. It is. That's a very big turn off for me. No, for sure. No, girl, trust. That's more turn off for me in friendships.

Like, with females. And if he does get mad at me, we know he knows about me because he's literally watching this. So if he doesn't reply to you anymore... Yes. Yes. Kat, do you have any, like, dating red flags, dating tips? Oh, for sure. But I'm...

Not everybody's the same way as me though. Because I'm more... You have to be a gentleman for sure. Like it goes without saying. Like open my car door. That's a red flag if he doesn't open my car door. It's as simple as the fucking things. And then if he doesn't like offer to pay at first. Like I'll start to like look for my card. But like if he's not like... You know? Because I like a guy who's a...

who's just a gentleman and like wants to be a provider doesn't mean I need it but I want him to like be in that role yes period because I'm not a sugar mama yeah we also I'm wait no

I'm just looking at myself in the mirror that's why and I just realized that sometimes I might look like I'm over cat talking but there's a big ass mirror behind cat I'm never looking at cat I'm always looking at myself so if my face don't ever look like I'm interested in cat talking I am I'm just looking at myself by the way because I already know people are going to be like oh Brett is so over cat no I'm just looking at myself through her

But anyways, no, gentleman-ness is really, really... Yeah. It has to be there. Yeah. I think it's weird as... It's a weird topic for me to talk about because obviously I'm gay and my boyfriend's gay. But I think because I am more feminine, like... Okay, what am I trying to say? How does... I don't know how to word it. Like, how...

Like when a person is more feminine than you and you're already very feminine. No, no, no, no. Or you'll be treated like a little girl, like a princess.

Okay, wait, let me think of how I want to word this. It's because like, okay, I'm obviously like the more feminine one in my relationship. And but we're both guys. Where does, where do you draw the line of like, who is the gentleman and who isn't? Like, because obviously, like, am I going to open, if he's going to open the door for me, which Justice always does, now he does. Do I open his door for him too? Because we're both gentlemen? I would say no. Right. Okay. Because I, I,

I feel like that's when the roles come in. Right. Like you said. And communication. Right. Because somebody, as you guys know, I lost my ring and I'm talking, I posted it everywhere and I know I still don't have it yet. You guys are looking for an update. I have not found my ring yet. But somebody was like, oh, maybe like Justice got it to get your ring size for like to propose to you. And then another comment was like,

commented under that that was like, no, Bradman's gonna be the one proposing. And I'm like, me? Girl. Proposing to a man? Don't make me fucking gag, bitch. Don't. I literally... Guys, be so for real. Do you see a bad bitch like this kneeling down? Will you marry me? Kiefer, do you see me? No, I don't see you ever. I'm the one that's like...

Yeah, yeah. Girl, I have not once...

Dreamt about Proposing Being the proposer I always dreamt about Being the proposee Yeah And there's nothing wrong with that I could never Yeah I would never Say that you would be The one proposing Also this is not A diss on like Women or like You know the more feminine One in the relationship Proposing Like this is just Strictly me Like my personal Like I Cause I already know Some people are gonna Make this about themselves Bitch I said I Yeah

I will never propose to a man. You, however, can. Go for it. Go for it. Like, this is... Girl, you can and then start a podcast and talk about it. Like, if you want to make it about you. But, yeah. I do love a gentleman. I, myself, should be a gentleman. But I feel like... No.

Honestly, no. Honestly, no. I feel like there's ways, sorry Kat, there's ways for you to be a gentleman, but it doesn't have to be like what

Yeah. Men do. I'm a sweet girl. Yeah. I'm a gentle woman. I feel like you just be caring in different ways, you know? Yes, yes. Like, Justice gets you flowers and it's so beautiful. And like, but you help him in other ways. Like, you get nice things for him in other ways or do nice things for him in other ways. And that's how I am. And I remember, I remember Justice, I got him flowers for his birthday. He's like, no one ever got me flowers before. And I was like, okay, it's not that big of a deal. Yeah. But I already know if I brought him flowers, he'd be like, why?

Yeah. He's like, that's my job. Yeah. So, yeah, but you're right though. Communication, like, obviously, like, if I ever felt like Justice would want the same treatment, like, I'm sure he would tell me, like, hey, can you open my doors too? Just how I tell him, I'm like, ugh, this door is so heavy. A little frail girl, like, need to open doors. You know what I mean? So, yeah, I do, I love a gentleman, but I can't.

Yeah. Like, okay, wait, speaking of that part, I don't like it when like, since I am like gay or trans, I am trans, whatever. But if they're more girlier than me, I would never. I'm sorry. Like I have to be the one with the long hair, the makeup, you know?

Just in general. That's your type. Yes, yes. The more muscular, muscly looking ones. Like, I don't need you to be like, yeah, skincare is amazing, but I don't need you to be doing skincare for 30 minutes. Or like getting ready for two hours. Or like scared of bugs, you know? I think I can get that. But then there's also times where I realize that like, yes, we are a gay couple and my partner is going to be gay too and have feminine features.

traits slash like things that he likes. And then there are times where I genuinely realize like, oh my god, I forgot like Justice is gay too. Like there are times where I'm like, oh my god, I forget that he can be feminine. And sometimes in some cases more feminine than me, you know, like gardening. Girl, he does not get down and dirty like a bad bitch. And then I'm like, oh my god, stop being a fucking pussy. Like, you know what I mean? Yeah.

But I think it just depends because like I am you are gay. I'm trying to like perspective because I wouldn't want my partner to be more girlier than me. Oh, no, for sure. You want a man. Yes. Yes. I need to be like a little girly pop. Yeah, I feel like we're not talking about like

emotional like sensitive like it's important for a man to be in touch with his emotions yes and be okay to communicate that with us but also for me I feel like for you guys as well a manly man like there's nothing that tops that like yes coming home from work without a smell like drink your coffee I'm sorry we have daddy issues like we have daddy issues I'm sorry like that's just what I want I want a daddy wait wait we're doing Starbucks daddy daddy daddy

and a guy got like a coffee or a cold brew with no sugar or cream, I'd be like, that's some milk. You're like, yeah, the better one. I'd be like, you like that, don't you? You're like, coming right up. I'm like, I have some milk. Like, you sure? The drink is inside right here. Like, here you go. That would be so funny. Oh my God. Wait, Kiefer, what is it?

Just bouncing off of that. What is like a manly drink? Because you're a barista now. What is like a drink that like a man gets that you're like,

Honestly, cat is right. Yeah. A lot of, it's mostly girls, females, that gets like flavored drinks. A lot of men usually like, usually like a freeze, a smoothie, or a dark coffee. Like a special shot, or like a black coffee. Yeah, or like a just straight espresso shot. Oh, that's hot.

Yeah, they're like can I just go like two shots? I'd be like, you know, it's how in man Manly traits y'all look for like in a man Veins I love a baby arm. I love big arms. Yeah, I love hairy men. I love hair Oh interesting I can write a whole thesis about this because I

Girl, this is so TMI, but I'm literally like, there's times where like, I'm literally begging Justice not to shave his chest, but he, which I get, it's his body, his choice, but like, I'm always like, ugh.

Sometimes I want to hide like my razors and like... Because I'm like, oh my god, what am I going to grab when something's cold? Oh my god. I love a good hairy man. Yeah, and then like we're like both cuddlers. And then sometimes like when he shaves his body and it starts going back. Yeah. And it's so prickly in the back. I'm like, ugh. Yeah. Like, ugh, I want something like fuzzy. Like not something ecstatic-y. Like, okay, me girl. Yeah.

But yeah I love her hair. Like it does keep his beard which I love. Big arms. My ultimate type would have to be like. I just love a man that makes me feel small. Smally. Yeah same. I love a good dad bod. I love a dad bod. Yeah. I love a dad bod. That's what you even. Okay sorry. To keep talking about my man like this. There are times where I'm just like. Oh my god I'm so excited for our 30s. Cause like.

his butt because he's so big and buff now but I'm like when that dad butt clicks in I'm gonna be a little girl like yes I love a dad butt with hairy chest and a bald head oh she has a tight I see you with that I see you with that like oh my god you're like my throat is lonely my throat is bored all of a sudden my mouth is watering girl

Yeah, so funny. Okay, what is another dating red flag or tip? A red flag. Someone who can't communicate is such a big...

Girl. I mean, yeah, we talked about this already, like, types and what we look for. I love a conversationist. Like, I love a guy that just, like, yes and. Or just, like, if he's going through something, if he can't communicate with you, what he needs in that moment and, like, what he's going through, that you're like, girl, you're going to be pulling at strings.

Do you guys get nervous for first dates? No, I get so excited. I'm like, they're gonna love me. Like, they're so privileged to see me. The only thing that I would say makes me nervous is like… Maybe I'm just like, show Leo about like what I'm wearing. Or like what you look like to them. What I look like. Because I got the personality, the questions. And honestly, the bag down. I would never, you know…

Also, speaking of bag, please don't go on dates if you're broke. Like, especially if you're the man. Like, girl, I could see a girl, you know, that just wants like a free dinner. Like, I will always be team girl. But like, boys out there, please don't. Focus on your career if that's the case. Like, let's get the bag up. Let's get the bag up. Because girl, there's, I mean, not everyone's...

straight world but like girl there's so many girls out there in the world there's so many people out there in the world for you like girl get your bag up first love yourself first and then love same thing with girls I'm like girl if he can't do the basic the bare minimums he doesn't need to be the one like he really doesn't

At all. That's something I've learned in the last like two years. Is that I need a man who has his shit together. Because someone else will accept the whole of you. Yeah. Yeah. Like it's not admirable to be in someone's thick and thin through their broke days and rich days. Like girl, he's gonna still treat you dirty. Yeah. Even in those broke days and the rich days. This is not a dating tip. This is just a me thing. I would say, I would always ask them to pick me up.

100%. Always ask them to pick me up because I think just the trauma of my ex not having a car or like anything under his name. Now I'm like, bitch, pick me up.

Yeah. I don't care what you're picking me up in, but bitch, I need to at least know you have something to pick me up in. Like to come over here. And I had this conversation and I was like, I had to be with a guy who has a nicer car than me, right? Brett's like, he just needs to have a car, a skateboard, a bicycle.

Yeah. For you to get here. Point A to point B, bitch. Have something. I'm sorry. Like, bitch, you should not be going on dates if you don't have shit. I'm sorry. And I'm not even broke shaming, bitch. And if you are broke and you feel shamed, then I'm sorry. But don't go on dates, bro.

I cannot Like you're not ready You're not ready for all of this You're not ready Period Not even if And I don't care if you don't want me Like girl You're not ready for anything Period Cause

a lot of women out there needs a provider and deserves a provider. Yes. And if you can't even provide for yourself, how the hell are you gonna provide for other people? And it's like, everybody's situation is different. But in general, if you're coming into it and you're expecting them to just give you, that's wrong. Yeah. Unless you're a woman, obviously. I know. This is an all-woman show. Yeah, this is for the

women and girls. Yeah. If you're the girlies. Girls, you can date broke. I don't care. Yeah. Do what makes you happy. Yeah. Girl, get that free meal. But don't be complaining. Yeah. Do you have anything, Miss K? I have one. How do you guys feel about like when you guys are talking to a person and then the communication is very like non-existent?

What does that mean? Like, can you example? But like, when you get started, like, okay, so I would say text and like he wouldn't text back for like a good hour. And it's just be like that.

The whole entire time. Like... Like, not like a concept text where, like, I text back and forth. It's, like, more of, like, in spaces. Yeah. For me, that's, like, a placeholder. A placeholder. Somebody to entertain me at the moment. Yeah. But I'm not gonna see anything future with them. Because clearly they have a hard time being consistent. Yeah. I would... I don't know. I would kind of question, like, what does he want? Like, because if... Like, he does say, like, oh, yeah...

I want you blah blah blah blah like his action matches whatever he's saying but like sometimes like the communication is not there I don't know because like I think I'm speaking for the devil like in this case because like no no no not saying that devil's advocate in this case I want to say

Because I myself too like have my moments where I am a bad texter and I will admit that. But it's always because, especially at the times that I am, like it's always because of work. Like I'm either traveling or like working or just like I don't have the mental capacity to be texting someone in the middle of like a photo shoot. Say that. I think it's very situational. Like did you go in there, your first week like he was like prompt and then

Off. And then off. Then that's when I would be like. Okay girl. The feelings. Yeah. Is not there anymore. Yeah. That's when I would. But then every time you guys see each other. It's like. Amazing. Yeah. But if he's always been like a busy guy. And like you understand that. Boundary of his. Then like. Then I could understand that. Because like. That was something that. I talked about. With.

my boyfriend now is just like girl like we both work so much and like communication is key for the both of us yeah but we also both are like i am a texter he isn't and he's a facetimer i'm not and it's just like finding the right and also communicating that like what is your i don't know what is your type of communication yeah you know what i mean i feel like oh sorry

No, go ahead. I feel like it's important if that's the case, you have to set the foundation. Yeah. Right away. Because I feel like in the beginning, if a man wanted to, he would. Because there's so much eager in the beginning. Yeah. But it's like in the beginning, he's already starting off like that. Yeah. It's probably not going to get better. But if it's like you guys are together, you guys know where you're at, then yeah, I think it's normal if he's like busy or busy. Yeah.

but cause I'm a caller too I'm like I'll call you I'll pick up the phone but I will never text you so period maybe it's just like a mutual understanding then yeah

Yeah. Okay, wait. I have a question about Valentine's. What would you like to get? Would you rather have flowers or chocolate? Flowers. Flowers. Flowers. Flowers. Why would you get? Flowers too. Period. Why? I just think it's just more special.

Right? And I don't like chocolate. Personally too, like I feel like I won't eat the whole chocolate like thing. And I do love the gesture. Like if you got, like I mean, Justice got me chocolates. I'm not gonna be like, girl, I don't eat chocolate. Like why'd you get me that? Like, you know? But I'll be like, oh my God, I love it. I still have my flowers from last year. Really? I still have the first flowers that Justice made me. And I kind of want to like put it in like an acrylic like thing. You should. That's so pretty. That is cute.

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Do you guys get gifts? If you have a Valentine, do you get gifts for your Valentine? Yeah. What are some gifts you would get them? I probably, well, Valentine's will probably be passed by this. But like, I was thinking of getting Justice like a pair of shoe. Cute. Just that. Because I'm always like, girl, I like a pair of shoe that he can keep in my house. Something, yeah. Because he always comes over like after work. And then sometimes he only has like his Birkins. And I'm like,

Okay girl. We need to get you like a house shoot for the house. Yeah. Like when he comes over and we go somewhere. It would honestly depend. But I would probably give them like an everyday item thing also. Yeah. Yeah. Like a wallet. What about you Kat? Last year I think I got my ex. He loves his dog. So I got his dog drawing like the cartoon. Oh is it the same? Yeah. And then I put it on like a keychain and a cup.

and something else and I made him some like chocolate chip cookies. - Oh my god. - That's so cute. - You guys don't know what we did. We went to… and we got tattoos. Not matching ones but they were having a sale. - Oh yeah. - Oh I remember that day. - Yeah, it was cute. It was a cute date. - You got your baking… - Yeah, made with love. And then he got like 777. - Yeah. - Sure. That's cute. - How do you guys feel about men receiving flowers?

I think it's cute every once in a while. But men. Okay my thing is. They're not gonna appreciate it like we do. Yeah. They're gonna be like. Ugh this is gonna die. Like what's the point of it. They'll always say they appreciate it. But I don't think they really appreciate it. Like how we. Yeah. Oh like I can make a frame out of this. Yeah. I'd be taking all his flowers. And like pasting it on my like.

I have literally flowers in here. Yeah, yeah. Like, girl, I'm like making jewelry with it. I'm like... I'd be saving it. I'd be like, when we get married, the flower girls are gonna... They're gonna fly.

It's like dead flowers. I think it's a sweet gesture every once in a while. But I would not give my man flowers all the time. Because I'm like, he's not going to appreciate it. Yeah. I feel like if I did get like flowers for a man, it would be for like his apartment. Or a plant. Not like a bouquet, but like a… A plant. Yeah, we do have a plant. Like a plant. Like a plant plant. Or like a… You know, like a centerpiece kind of like thing. Like they can put it in their kitchen. Yeah. Not like a bouquet. That's what I love giving people sometimes. If I have no gift for you, I'll get you a cactus.

that's smart i love making like well not i don't always do it but i wish i could do it more like i love making like from my garden like little cute like bouquets from like my garden and i wish i did it more i just like always forget it's crazy because like you just walk outside and there's so many beautiful plants and flowers but yeah you just like forget to do it you just enjoy it what is like what are like the questions that you ask on dates

Well, I feel like first you're going to get to know them a little bit through texting. So I feel like in person, it's more off the vibe you're getting from them. And you kind of go from there. I have a little scenario. Okay. I just created it in my head just now. What if the person you're dating has trauma from past relationships? Then you shouldn't be dating. Get over your ex first.

No, like, he's already over it. Like, scene therapy? Yeah, it's just a trauma now of, like, trust issues of, like, what's happening or, like, this and that. Like, and then you guys are working things out. And then this boy is like, who are you texting?

Clearly nobody. He's just like reassuring himself. How would you guys feel about that? If he was asking who we're texting? Yeah, all the time. Oh. Just because of his trauma. Like, you know, the trauma. Yeah, I would try to understand it. But I feel like if it's starting to get in a way of like his relationship period and his self-esteem. Yeah. Where it's to a point where like, I feel like he can't even trust me. I would be like, then why are we dating? Yeah.

Yeah. Honestly. Like, I would always give it a beat. Like, I'm never gonna be like, oh my god, and make it about me. But then if it's like a constant thing. Like, you were very understanding about it. Yeah, I would question it. I would be like, oh, okay. Well, I'm not your ex. Yeah. I'm not, like, I wasn't raised like that to cheat. So, I mean, like, I would just be very straight up and I'm like, I think you need to work on this first because it will affect you.

our relationship do you think you would want to work on it with him or would you want him to go do it himself I personally don't think I have the patience to work on that with someone personally like because that's a personal question like personally but I wouldn't like hate someone for like

standing by their partner if you know that's your person like and you're gonna work with them thick and thin but girl if it's the first date and you're already like who are you texting yeah yeah bitch my mom is crazy if it's someone I've been seeing and like I love them the rest of my person I would want to I would want

To work on it with them. And vice versa. If I was going through it. And I would suggest like. We should go therapy. Because I feel like. Having a mediator sometimes. Is really helpful. Especially. Trying to understand each other. Where they're coming from. Because it can be hard as well. Yeah. I love that. I just. I think I went. In the question. Thinking you were asking more of a. First date. Relationship. Kind of question. But.

I personally still wouldn't. Like, would that be considered like a red flag? Right away? Like, first date? Like, the more you notice it. I mean, I feel like everybody has their insecurities. Yeah. I feel like I would probably be like, sometimes I'd be like, who's that? You know? But I feel like it's just how you talk about it, how you reassure each other. I also will say there is a fine line of like...

Of like having your own insecurities and then like dealing with it without like it affecting your partner. Yeah. Do you know what I mean? Like because there are some times where like I would feel insecure about something that my ex made me feel.

But I don't need to make that an issue with my boyfriend now. You know, because I feel like he would just think I'm comparing them. When really, I'm really just like, okay, girl, like, my ex did this to me. You're seeing pattern? Yeah. Oh, wow. I never thought about that. I guess my therapist told me, especially about my ex. It's like, she's like, well, maybe he's seeing the pattern. I'm like, because he was married before. She's like, maybe he's seeing the pattern. And I, it was like a light bulb. I was like, oh, my God.

Yeah, and it's not necessarily like comparing you. It's more of like a projection of the trauma that they've been through. You know what I mean? Your body and your mind just like, okay, I've seen this. It wasn't good. How do I get out of it? Okay. Did you answer it? Yeah. Were you asking us or? No, it was just like, I was like, how do you think about it?

I honestly wouldn't go... If it's like a constant of them asking like, who am I talking to? Or like this and that. It's a problem. It's a problem. At the end of the day, it's like, why are you with me if you can't trust me? Trust is like a big thing. I feel like, Miss K, I feel like you're supposed to be a mysterious person in general. Yeah. Where you like...

you like your business is your business yes whereas for me i'm just like an open book with my man yeah or like honestly anybody they can ask me any questions i'm like yeah but i feel like it's also just like how you are personally because i feel like yeah personally you are like a more quiet reserved person yeah but like for me i'm just like my man was asking me i'm like you can go through my phone like i don't give a fuck but i think it's just how people are like everybody's just different everybody's like privacy that's true yeah there's nothing wrong with it

Even the same, I'm like, same with Justice. I'm like, girl, look at my phone. I have two phones, but just don't look at my emails because you don't need to know Bretman Rock's business. You're dating Bretman, not Bretman Rock, girl. You don't need to know how much I'm making. Like, girl, that's weird. But yeah, we're both so secure in our own ways and we have our own little insecurities here and there, but we don't project. Okay. That's good. How about when a married couple does not share a bank?

I approve that. Yeah. Well, yes. Really? You know how like, because a lot of marriage people like, does have a bank, like joint bank account. I mean, yeah, but like, I think you should also have your own. Yeah. No, that's not even in the question for me. You wouldn't? I would not at all. I'm like, I think it's also just me growing up broke. Like, bitch, I'm sorry not to sound selfish, but my money is my money. I work so hard. Like, bitch, I've been working since I was 15. Like, you don't have access to this. Yeah.

And girl, that's even the first thing we talked about like on anything. That's why I asked like what are the first questions you would ask on a date or like boundaries? My boundary is bitch, that prenup will be signed. Okay. Because I don't give a fuck. I don't care. I don't even care if I date someone, if I marry someone richer than me. Like girl, I will sign that prenup because what's mine is mine. So yours is yours. Yeah. And maybe that's just me thinking.

it's not really the traditional way of like getting married but also like I don't know like my mom also just instilled it in me like girl sign up right now yeah and you know that it's smart though and I feel like I feel like it's so important to have separate because I feel like for me going into a relationship I'm always gonna have my own money yeah but I like to be with a man who's a provider as well yeah I want him to like want to provide and want to

Be paying for things and whatnot. He's like, let's use your money first and then mine. Yeah. I'm like, yeah. He wants to give me his credit card. Like, I'll be like, I'll afford it. But I think as soon as your bank accounts go together, that's where I'm like, no. Yeah, no. I would never share a bank. Unless we have, like, children and we have, like, a savings for them. Yeah. Then I could see that being, like, a shared account. That would be, like, the only joint account. Yeah. Because we made that together, that child. But other than that, like, no.

No. And the data to protect yourself. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I don't know. There's also special occasions where I would understand that. Like, obviously, if you buy a house together, then you're going to need a joint bank account. Or if someone's like a stay-at-home mom. Yeah. Yeah. But me? Me personally. Yeah.

These are all me's These are personal These are all personal questions and answers So please if you guys think differently I don't care Work Should we do products of the day? Of course Okay can you go first? Cause I wanna know what the fuck Okay

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And it tastes like candy. You know like those bracelet candies? Imagine it's that. No, that's what I'm saying. But every time I take it, 10 minutes later, it leaves. Period. Do you want to read what it says? I kind of want Miss K to read it. Not rum. Not rum. Muriatisum. Okay. It's natrum. Natrum. Muriatisum. But how do you pronounce A? A, right?

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It's my first couple years having long hair. So I still don't know how to have long hair. So sometimes I will sleep on my hair and my neck will get stuck like this because that's how it is. Oh, it would get stuck in your back? Yes. And me and my hair are best friends, but my skin and my hair are not best friends.

If my hair is like in my face while I'm sleeping, I will break out. Like I, it doesn't matter. And I know I don't wash my hair every day, but it doesn't even matter if I wash my hair often. I just break out. My hair and my skin is just not friends. And this just helps with that. I get these from TikTok shop. Honestly, I just, I don't, I can't, I can't even find the TikTok shop anymore. I don't know if they got like banned or like,

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Okay, I'm going to ask the question of the week. Okay. And then I think I'm going to have Kat read some of the answers from last episode. Because she was the one that asked the question. My question of the week. It's not really a question, but I'm turning the mic on to the audience. Drumroll, please. Please tell us about your worst first date. Ooh.

Like a story? I told you guys mine. I told you guys mine already. Oh true. Oh yeah. The whole bringing Bretman's palette have me sign it. That was a bad one. That was my first date ever. Ever? Yes. Yes.

oh my god Kiefer I feel like I ruined it for you it's okay it's not your fault I'm sorry I'm so famous I'm kidding so hard so yeah tell us all about your first date horror story not have to be horror stories but like tell us about it please and I would love to read it on the next podcast episode let me read some of these yes so one I saw earlier I don't know where it is let me see let me see the username

You can. Okay, well, I don't know what this one is. But she said it was

She'll know who she is. She said it was raspberry… Oh no. Ladyfinger raspberry cheesecake. Ladyfinger raspberry cheesecake. I looked it up. It looks so good. And I'm like, I want to make it. Ooh, make it for Miss K. Wait, what? It's like… So Ladyfinger's on the… I don't… I can't explain it. Like a Butterfinger? No. It's what they use in tiramisu. Like to do the layers. Oh, okay, okay, okay. But also tiramisu was a big one. A lot of people were saying tiramisu. Yeah. A lot of people were saying halo halo. Wait. What video is this?

From Kat's question. Favorite dessert. Okay. LifeWithAir8089 said, Favorite dessert, lavender cupcakes. Yum. Love a lavender cupcake. I've never heard of that before. Miss Jessie at J-E-S-S-I-E-E-A. Favorite dessert is blonde.

Leche flan or just flan? Just flan. What kind of flan though? There's different type of flans. You know, I didn't even know. Girl, me neither. I only know leche flan. I only thought there was a leche flan. That was me when I saw creme brulee for the first time. I'm like, is this? Ooh. Name is C-Y-A-N-A-R-E-N-E-E. 3-3-2-2. She said, I love Tres Leches cake. Ooh.

Thank you so much to everyone that left a comment. Yes. If you guys want a shout out on the next episode, please comment down below your worst first date. Yeah. Miss K, where can they find you, girl? You guys can find me at M-I-S-K-A-A-Y. And y'all already know about bitch when you see one. Everything is at Bremen Rock and every podcast thing ever is at the baddest video everywhere. I will see you guys next episode.

Bye. Bye, beach. I'll see you next Thursday. Yeah. Don't forget to follow, rate, and like. You can follow me at BretmanRock on everything and follow the podcast at The Baddest Radio on all social media. Bye, beach.

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