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#781 - Connor Beaton - What Is Your Attachment Style & How To Fix It

2024/5/9
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Connor Beaton:依恋理论的核心是早期与主要照顾者的关系如何塑造我们成年后的人际关系模式。焦虑型依恋者过度依赖他人,缺乏自我信任,容易感到焦虑和不安;回避型依恋者则过度依赖自己,避免亲密关系,难以表达情感。这两种依恋模式都源于童年时期与主要照顾者之间互动模式的偏差。 焦虑型依恋的应对策略包括:学习自我调节(例如冥想、呼吸练习),提升自我价值感(例如感激日记),进行暴露疗法(例如对伴侣说不),以及从他人身上剥离安全感和价值感的依赖。 回避型依恋的应对策略包括:了解依恋模式的根源,优先表达自己的需求,承担责任,将关闭视为重建联系的桥梁,练习与他人亲近,以及调节神经系统以建立信任。 恐惧型回避(兼具焦虑型和回避型特征)需要同时处理焦虑和回避两种问题,需要寻求专业人士的帮助。 在亲密关系中,伴侣可以扮演支持性的角色,帮助焦虑型依恋者提升自我价值感,并与回避型依恋者建立联系,但不能试图解决他们的问题,而是引导他们自己寻找解决方法。 Chris Willx:本期节目探讨了依恋理论及其在人际关系中的应用,并对焦虑型和回避型依恋的成因、表现以及应对策略进行了深入分析。节目中还讨论了童年经历对依恋风格的影响,以及如何通过自我调节、情感表达等方式改善依恋模式。此外,节目还探讨了在亲密关系中如何支持焦虑型和回避型依恋的伴侣。

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Connor Beaton is a men’s life coach, founder of ManTalks and an author focusing on men’s wellness and personal growth.

Attachment styles are the hot new idea to understand how we relate and connect to others. Today we get a great overview of the entire field, an understanding of the limitations of Attachment Theory and practical insights on how to improve yours.

Expect to learn how to identify what your attachment style is, where the core of attachment comes from, which attachment style suits you most and what sort of partner you should be looking for, how to move out of an anxious attachment style, how to cope with someone who is disregulated in their attachment, evidence-based suggestions to improve attachment and much more...

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