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#789 - Neil Strauss - Why The World’s #1 Pickup Artist Left The Game Behind

2024/5/27
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Neil Strauss: 本期节目中，Neil Strauss 回顾了他对两性关系和亲密关系的观点转变历程。他从最初研究并实践搭讪技巧，到后来深入理解亲密关系的复杂性和自身在关系中的模式，最终体悟到在一段关系中，个人的健康和成长至关重要。他分享了自己与前妻离婚后，依然保持良好关系并再次生育孩子的经历，以及他如何努力让孩子从离婚中获得积极的体验。他认为，在亲密关系中，个人的健康和成长是关键，任何关系模式的选择都取决于个人的健康状况。他强调了放下对既定故事和方法的执着，忠于真实的自我，并不断学习和成长。他分享了自己在处理关系问题时的一些方法，例如深度密集型治疗、定期问责和即时工具，以及非暴力沟通技巧。他认为，在关系中，重要的是尊重彼此的感受，并以一种合作而非对抗的方式进行沟通。他强调了自我认知和自我疗愈的重要性，以及如何通过改变自身反应方式来改善关系。他还分享了如何通过识别和纠正自身非理性的想法来提升自尊和自我同情。 Chris Willx: Chris Willx 在节目中与 Neil Strauss 展开了深入的对话，探讨了现代两性关系、婚姻、离婚以及男性心理健康等话题。他引导 Neil Strauss 分享了他对两性关系的观点转变，从最初的搭讪技巧到对亲密关系的深入理解。他关注了 Neil Strauss 与前妻的独特相处模式，以及他们共同抚养孩子的方式。他还探讨了现代社会中人们对两性关系的期望与人类进化心理学之间的冲突，以及交友软件对两性关系的影响。此外，他还与 Neil Strauss 讨论了男性心理健康、男性气质等问题，并探讨了如何应对社会压力和网络负面信息。他与 Neil Strauss 分享了对自我认知、自我疗愈和人际沟通技巧的看法，并探讨了如何保持真实性和避免重复不良模式。

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Neil Strauss is a journalist, writer, and an author.

Neil was the world's most famous pickup artist who kickstarted much of the modern dating discourse. So looking back 20 years later, what has he come to realise about what really matters in life and how to find love and connection?

Expect to learn the trajectory of Neil’s views on relationships over the years, how Neil reflects on his book The Game, why Neil is having a baby with his ex-wife, what went wrong with the world of pickup, why faking status is not such a great idea, how to measure success in a relationship, how to rid yourself of other people’s expectations and much more...

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