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Kim Kardashian Clears Up Rumors + Answering Your Voicemails

2024/4/24
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Fran: 我担心自己感冒或过敏,不想传染给同事Ria。我会尽量避免和Ria待在同一个房间,直到明天晚上。 Ria: 我记得之前Fran生病时仍然坚持上班,这让我印象深刻。我也回忆起自己之前生病的经历,以及我们如何克服困难继续工作。 Ria: 我相信佛罗里达州的阳光可以治愈疾病,温暖的气候有助于更快地康复。我之前在佛罗里达州感染COVID-19时,病情恢复得很快,这可能与当地的气候有关。

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Why did Kim Kardashian warm up her jewelry before putting it on?

She warms up her jewelry to avoid the discomfort of cold metal against her skin, especially when wearing expensive, icy diamonds.

What did Kim Kardashian reveal about her sleeping habits on Jimmy Kimmel's show?

Kim revealed that she sleeps with her eyes slightly open and washes her feet before bed.

Why did Kim Kardashian hate the cardboard sleeve on her Starbucks cup?

She has a phobia of the sound and feeling of the cardboard sleeve being moved up the cup, which she compares to nails on a chalkboard.

What did the Spice Girls do at Victoria Beckham's 50th birthday party?

The Spice Girls reunited at Victoria Beckham's 50th birthday party and performed a short rendition of 'Stop Right Now, Thank You Very Much.'

What did Mel B hint about the Spice Girls' future plans?

Mel B hinted that the group is working on something 'very good' for their fans but remained tight-lipped about a potential reunion tour.

Why did the hosts struggle with their dryer issue?

Their dryer is an energy-efficient model that takes an excessive amount of time to dry clothes, often requiring multiple cycles and leaving items damp. It also has a feature that requires cleaning after every load, adding to the frustration.

What did the hosts say about Tom Cruise's fame?

The hosts discussed Tom Cruise's status as a global movie star, noting his blockbuster success with franchises like Mission Impossible and Top Gun, and his international appeal.

What advice did the hosts give about dealing with in-laws who don't like you?

The advice was to accept the situation and move on, as there's little you can do to change someone else's opinion. It's important to focus on your own life and not let it consume you.

What did the hosts say about public education and discipline issues in schools?

The hosts expressed concern about the lack of discipline in schools, citing stories of students physically and verbally abusing teachers, with parents often siding with the children. They felt this was a growing problem with no easy solutions.

What did the hosts think about having a handyman as a partner?

The hosts considered it a personal preference rather than a dealbreaker. While some might find it attractive, it shouldn't be a deciding factor if the person is otherwise a great match.

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What's up everyone? It's Chicks in the Office with Ria and Fran giving you that Friday energy on a Wednesday. Noah, did I blow you away with my loudness there? No, I was all set. This guy. This fucking guy. This guy. My Ron. My Ron.

How are we doing today, guys? It's Wednesday. Good. I could be better. I'm not going to lie. I'm afraid. I'm afraid to even say it, you know? Yeah. But I'm afraid I'm coming down with a little something. Right. At quite literally the worst possible time. But could also just be really, really bad allergies. I could just be so congested that I'm getting that post-nasal drip. It's causing that sore throat, the whole thing. The whole night. But...

Not good. And I don't sound like myself in my head. You know when you're congested and you talk and you're like, oh, I don't even sound like myself. You do sound congested. Yeah. And I will say this, selfishly, I don't want both of us to be down bad. You know, because like if you're sick, you need the people around you to rally around you and be like, Francesca, we got this. You're good. This is going to be a great weekend. Bachelorette, woohoo! Yeah.

If I become ill, and then it passes that Gia and I are near you right now. Yes. If we then become ill, we don't need that. We don't need that. So I'm trying to get away from you until tomorrow night. In the nicest way possible, I'm trying to get out of the same room as you, which I can't seem to do ever. No, it is unavoidable. I mean, just rewind like two weeks ago when you thought you had the stomach flu and you were like, I'm coming in. I was like, God.

I know. And then you got, and then, and then I had some issues that we have. We never talked about that because I was like, Oh shit, I think I'm coming down with something on my stomach. Uh, I got the runs. Yeah. And you were thrown up as well. Yes. Yeah. I, I'm pretty sure I had the stomach virus and you were like, don't come in. And I was like, I have to come in. We have to do our job. Like I have to record. And then,

the next day. My greatest fear was lived out. The next day. By the amount of time I spent on the toilet the next night. And I do apologize. And we got past it. And we got past it and we will get past this. I'm just kidding around. If you get me sick, I will fucking bury it deep down until Monday. I just really, I'm hoping, I'm just hoping you get better for yourself. Thank you. This is peak allergy season as well. Yeah, it's just,

Listen. It's just allergies. It's just allergies. It's just allergies. Listen, once we hit that Florida sun, you're not going to be feeling any of this shit. It cures everything. The sun cures all. That's how I feel too. And I'm always in that, like, that could also be a placebo thing, but I will take it where it's like, oh, well, it's not.

The heat will just burn it away. No, it does. People would say that. I'd be like, oh, you're feeling a little sick? Just go. When you're in the warmth, it'll just burn right out of you. It absolutely does. Two Christmases ago, I had COVID and I was in Florida. And it went away faster, to my knowledge, because I had been...

trying to roast it away in the sun like i was burning away the covid uh so i friend i think it's just allergies and maybe maybe you're excited maybe you're just doing a lot and and once we get there it's all gonna flurry flurry away you're not even gonna think about it yeah yeah so um i understand your answer and you could be better but you will be better come tomorrow

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as you said came thank goodness they look fantastic well just one well we were having a hard time because they both looked fantastic and it was like you know when you sent me the pictures of both of them you know usually when some when your friend sends you pictures of an outfit you it's just opinion based but usually there's one that you like more right it's just like oh they're both but i like this one a little bit more you sent me both those pictures and i said

I was going, I was flipping back and forth. I said, I cannot decide which one I like more. I was like, these are both equally great and I can't decide which one I like more. Yeah. I'm leaning in. I'm leaning in one side. We'll see. I'm going to bring the both, but nothing like a sister's honesty to the, you know, Gia was like, Oh, this one.

Which one did she say? The set. Oh, really? Yeah. Okay. Well, we were, we were, we had become. We were leading that way anyway. We were leading, but I think they both equally look fantastic. Thank you. You know? So that was, that was. Sometimes you ever feel like we're like talking about things that are just like inside our own, like there, these are texts between us, you know? Right. I'm like, does anybody really need to listen? No. And.

Does anybody really care about this? No, I totally agree. But here is the battle I have in my head because I think it's split. I think there are people who would love to hear about this and I think there are people who fucking hate it and go fast, fast forward. I want to get to the pop culture stuff. And the good news is this is our show and we can talk about whatever we want. I will say this. I have seen girls in my DMs

sometimes say, I love putting you guys on in the background and feeling like I'm on a FaceTime or a phone call with my friends because it gives people comfort. Yeah, that's true. And...

I can totally relate to that, putting on something in the background. And, you know, that's why sometimes I love reality TV is like, I feel like I'm sitting in the room with them, but I'm not. Right. So they're half listening to us. Right. And I'll take a half listen as long as you're pressing play. Over a no listen. Yeah, exactly. So listen, you may hate this type of conversation or you might feel comforted. Yeah. And...

It's more just sometimes when I can't share the full details because I'm like, ooh, my outfit. Wait and see. Well, they'll see. It's a podcast, so it's not visual. So it's hard to show exactly what you're talking about. But yes, all very exciting. It is. And I got nails for the first time in a while. They look great. I feel like a new woman. You are a woman with those nails.

They're a little long. But, you know, I was like, fuck it. Going to Miami. Bachelorette. Let's have these bee claws. Yeah, you need the long nails. They look gorgeous. Because I just really got used to having no nails again. Like, when I first cut them, I was relearning how to do things. How to live. Like, I was sending text messages. I...

The amount of times I had to rewrite text messages because my fingers were just pressing the wrong buttons. Now I'm back and

And it's just coming back. It's like riding a bike. Yep. It is just coming back. So I'm thrilled. I was pumped. They look fabulous. Mine look juvenile. He texted me, my nails look childish. I thought you were going to say you got blue nails. I was like, oh my God, did you panic and just pick some aqua blue color that you're just really going to hate? They're pink. No, the reason they look juvenile, in my opinion, is...

You know, there's just a whole thing behind it. They're in a medium length right now. Not short, not long. They're not short. They're not long. I'm liking the length of them. It's just more like I think I just had such a bad experience at the nail place yesterday that I wanted to hate them so badly after. You know, like it was such a bad experience that I wanted to be like, I fucking hate my nails. So I started calling them childish and, you know.

You're just grasping at any negative. And then I woke up this morning and said, oh, I like them. Yeah. So they're fine. What do you think it is? They're just messy. No, they're not. And she fucking, she wounded me. Well, that's the worst. She wounded me with the tools because she was in a big fat

fat rush because she was taking her time with the girl before me and i had to wait two i had an appointment at five o'clock an appointment at five o'clock i waited until 6 45 to start my nails i went to a nail place down the block i said excuse me i gotta make a phone call i went to the nail place down the block and was like do you guys have any time and they were like no so then i went back to the other now you have to make a phone call excuse me i'll be back make a phone call

like super important and there was no phone phone call to be made checked in they didn't have an appointment came back so then by the time she got to me she wanted to start rushing because they close at seven but they told me stick around we'll we'll get you done right and she fucking nicked me and she she wounded me with her tools and i said and i and you know what

Usually... You hit her with an ow? Usually... I did. Usually I play nice. I said, ow! Like that. Like, very dramatically, I went, ow! I said, you know, you don't need to rush. Did you say that? Yes. Like, in that way? Yes! Because I was so caught up... No, it's like...

I was like, damn, that's rude. Look at it. It's the smallest little thing. No, no. But it's like Vince Vaughn in Couples Retreat when he gets the shark bite. I was bit. It's like Step Brothers where he's like, ah. Because there's probably like the five times out of, or like that's like the one time out of like the 20 times maybe you've gotten like a little bleed or whatever when you're getting your nails done. Because the majority of the time you're like,

Oh, it's okay. Am I always fine? Oh, it's fine. Don't worry about it. Giggle. I said, ow, you bitch. She was flustered after because then the woman who... Isn't it awkward then like the rest of the time? I have very sensitive cuticles. So I pull away. I'm just like, oh, that's too much. At that point, you know,

there nothing could be done i had already made the noise and i already said you don't need to rush so the i then had to sit there for the next two hours getting my nails done but i don't know if it was like the owner or the front desk woman she came over and and she said to her she waited a very long time take your time after she nicked me right right and i said damn right but also speed it up a little bit okay

Yeah, I know. I know. Listen. Karen. Oh my goodness. Listen, call me whatever. What do you think it is in everyone's brain that is like a subliminal going on bachelorette trip that everyone gets pink? Like just like I was shocked and I think it's a thing. Like we all went to when we all went last weekend for Madeline's. I looked around.

Everybody had pink nails. Everybody went and got their nails done, they got pink. When I went to get my spray tan before I left, and I was, you know, free willy, naked as could be in the room with the girl. Oh, free willy. That was a sight in my head. I was looking at my...

I was looking at my toes and I was like, oh, I'm going to... Because she was wiping my toes. And I was like, oh, I'm going on a bachelorette trip. She was like, wow, I've had so many girls coming in or going on bachelorette trips. They all have pink nails. Maybe just because it's usually to a warm location and pink is just like warm sun. Yeah. And I think it's just like a neutral... It's a neutral color because you don't want to go white. Right. And you don't want to go to a dark color. And you don't want to be like crazy. Right. Like you're not doing some crazy neon...

Imagine I showed up and was like, got my nails done for your bachelorette and I had like neon orange with like cheetah print on the ring fingers. Hey friend, ready for your bachelorette? That would have been amazing. But I think that's just like, I think everyone, it's like an unspoken rule. Everyone like before a bachelorette is like, oh, I'll just get pink. I like that unspoken rule. It feels fair. You just reminded me I didn't get my toes done. Mine aren't looking too hot either, but granted I did go pink.

You know, a week and a half ago. So it's not like. Fuck. No, mine's been some time. Too many appointments. Shit. No, whatever. Doc will be barking. What are you going to do about it? It is what it is at this point. We're too late in the game. I don't have time now to go get my toes done. I think toes are less important. Oh, totally. Totally less important. In this. No pun intended. Scenario. You said totally. Oh. Yeah.

Come on, that was funny. I just, let me tell you, whoosh. How did you not hear that? That one went right over my head. Whatever. That one didn't register for me at all. Not me either. That one sucked. Totally. After you're talking about Toad. The Shoe's Rule. No, I get it now. The Shoe's Suck. Do you remember that? Yeah. The Shoe's Rule. Yep. The Shoe's Suck. I loved that when I was younger. What happened to that guy? But I recently rewatched some of those

videos like cigarette muffin why were they so funny and like talking about them they're still funny now yeah but they're not funny you know what i mean like you want to like i'm like why did we think yeah i mean it was just the world's greatest invention it was just that time the issues rule

These shoes suck. These shoes rule. And these shoes suck. Shoes. Let's get some shoes. Yeah, I don't really know why. Should we recreate shoes? Music video of your bachelorette. Oh, man. I have so many ideas. But, you know, I'll keep some to myself. No, it would be great. I would love to recreate some things. Yeah. I'm really excited for just like one big sleepover. I'm such a sleepover person. I love sleepovers.

I love staying up and sleepovers. Are you guys sharing rooms? Yeah. Like every person shares a room with someone else. Who are you sharing a room with? Yes. I don't know. I asked Fran the other day. Oh, yeah. It's up to you. It's what? It's up to you to decide. Yeah. Interesting. No, no. I've been on bachelor parties where like you're just like, hey, we'll share a room. Everyone can – it's either like everyone figures it out for themselves, but –

I will probably have it set up so that everybody is... Oh, I keep forgetting that it's not a hotel. Yeah. Yeah. Has like their own spot. Look, there were some... I'll get into it next week. Hell of a tease. But there were some changes that had to be made this week. Yes. And I don't want to jinx anything talking anymore about it. We won't talk anymore about it, but Fran told me that me and Gia would be in the room with her. Yes. Yes. But we'll see. But...

Potentially now things may need to be moved around. That sounds very suspicious of me. That sounds like I did something wrong. It sounds very suspicious of me. But look, our lodging has changed. The lodging has changed. Our lodging has changed. And that's all I'm going to say. So the dynamic has shifted. Yes. And I will talk about it when I get back from Miami because I just want to get through the weekend again.

issue free before I start bringing up issues. Very, very fair. Yes. But don't worry, everyone will be just fine. That'll be a Monday story. Yeah, yeah. We'll get there. All right, shall we get into the rest of the podcast? I need new socks. I just want that out there. You do need new socks. Okay. Not even necessarily white socks, but I notice how often you wear those brown fuzzies.

Okay. With sneakers. You're not wearing them right now, but you wear them a lot. Looks like shit. Tell me you don't wear those brown fuzzy socks with sneakers a lot. I've worn them a handful of times. With outfits like what you're wearing right now. You wear them traveling, which I'm like, oh, they're travel socks. Right, yeah. You could throw on a pair of fuzzy socks for travel, but you've worn those bad boys to work sometimes. I totally have. That's why I have tears coming out of my eyes. I need them.

And that's why I started off by saying, I need new socks. I'm glad you opened the door just slightly so I could kick it through. Right, right. That almost felt like you just punched me in the chest because it was like, okay, it was cool when I said it, but now that you're saying it to me, it's like... Well, the socks you're wearing right now are completely fine. Yeah, but they're not even matching. They're two different socks. I don't want to talk about it. Okay. Well, at least they're not the brown fuzzy socks. I'm having a dryer problem.

A dry oh I don't want to get into Listen now we're ending up In a place Where it's like I'm sorry this episode blows We're just like It's so good We'll talk about it

We're just talking. I'll talk about it. But we're just talking about personal issues. You can't talk about it till later. And now I'm back to where you were, where you said, do people even care? Yeah. And here I am talking about it. But you know what? I'll talk about it. Your dryer doesn't work right. I have the worst fucking dryer known to man. I own. I don't own it. Yeah. It's in my apartment, which somebody else owns. Is the worst dryer anybody can have in history.

their home. It's the worst. It's so fucking awful. It's so bad. It's so bad. You may think I'm being dramatic, but I'm at my wits. No, you're not being dramatic. I'm at my... I'm nodding my head, yes. I'm at my wits fucking... Should I get Matt in here to talk about this dryer? Because we're at our wits end. So what's the issue? It's not actually doing... It's just not drying anything. Uh...

Should I get him in here? Just bring him in. Bring him in. We won't make him stay for long. Is this his podcast? No, he's been on the podcast. He's been on. Bring him out here. Oh, like calling him. No, no. I'm going to tell him to come in here. Are you available? Can you come into the studio? Just tell him we need him for a very important. We need you for a very important but quick segment. I'll let you know when you sit down. It's a surprise. It's a surprise.

Don't be nervous. Don't be nervous, though. Come be yourself. No, come and be yourself. Be yourself. All right, hurry up. Be yourself. If you don't get here in the next 20 seconds, you're off the show. All right. Uh-oh. Uh-oh.

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I'm going to say a couple words, and then I want your full, unfiltered thoughts, because I just started screaming about something in our lives, okay? Yeah. She started talking like this for way too long. And I said, you know what? It sounds like I'm being dramatic. I need someone else to attest to this. Okay.

What are your thoughts on our dryer? Oh, my God. No, no joke. It's the bane of my existence. I can't stand it. Two loads. Three days. Three days. Friend, she should yell for a whole podcast. It's the worst thing in the world. I love that. Two loads. Three days. It's the worst thing. It is. It seriously is.

To dry, to wash and dry. Because I start off by saying I need new socks. Me too. We need new socks. Matt, do you notice that sometimes she wears those brown fuzzy socks with normal sneakers? Yeah. She wears it in her slippers sometimes at home. We also, you know, we're bad with socks. We are bad with socks. These are your socks.

your dirty socks that you wore yesterday. Oh my God, you sickos. The floor, put them on your feet. From the

It's not yours, so it seems clean, right? Yeah. I was like, fresh socks. That's one hell of a spin. The other night, we slept like we were like... That's arguably... Putting on someone else's socks are arguably worse than reusing your own socks. So the other night, we were... By the way, because a comforter takes a long time to dry. Yes, it does. Not for your dryer. Imagine it'd take four weeks. 24 hours? We had to sleep with couch blankets on.

I've done that before. I've had to do that before. It was miserable. But no, if we want to wash just a couple of t-shirts, you know, just a normal load of laundry, it takes a full day. It's miserable. What about the LF?

The LF thing comes on the thing. After every load, this button appears and you have to clean out the dryer, not the lint part. There's a whole other contraption that needs to be cleaned after every load.

Yeah, you got one of those energy efficient dryers. Yes, and I looked it up. I looked it up and everybody's like, this is the worst fucking dryer in the entire world. So we asked our landlord, can we buy a new washer and dryer and put it in? Like, we will pay. I will pay endless amounts of money for this to not have to be the case any longer.

And he said, no, it has to be this one in this apartment building. That's crazy. But they can't fix it? No. What about another energy efficient one, like a different brand? Anything different. We're living in the 40s. Let me tell you something. I have a feeling that guy's lying.

our clothes on our chairs. My grandma's clothes lining them. Like little Italian ladies outside their windows? It's ridiculous. And also, he goes, you gotta open the door for it to dry faster. So now we're watching TV. And it's like, the other day, she's like, I can't stand it. That doesn't make any sense. Just that the laundry door needs to be open and the dryer will move faster. It doesn't even help.

Those things have zero connection. The dampness of it. Oh, my God. That's the worst part. It's like hot but wet.

It blows damp. It smells. Yeah. It takes breaks, too. Oh, yeah. It takes a lot of breaks. It's this generation, right? Everyone needs breaks. No, it's so bad, and yet there's no fix. And the other day, our friends came over and-

The girls, we wanted to wear matching pajamas. So I got the matching pajamas sent to our apartment and I washed the pajamas before we wore them. I had to hang the pajamas on our dining room table for it to dry before they could get there because it wasn't drying. It's a pain in the ass. It really is. That's a problem. Yes. And I'm glad that we...

that you guys had us here today to talk about it. I do like slight, I feel slightly like your therapist right now. We're fighting because of the dryer and it's just you guys versus the dryer. Like that's the problem. It's like, we're not having it. You guys aren't having any issues, but you're having an issue with your dryer. Remember the other day, you're like, I need a break.

I need a break from the drive. I said, you need to shut this off because I'm going to lose my fucking mind if I have to listen to this beeping noise any longer. Does it do the jingle?

What jingle? When it's done. There's like a do-do-do-do-do-do. Yeah, when it's done it does, right? When it's done, which is rarely ever. And we're not happy because we've just got to redo it again. Redo it again. And at this point, our dryer is going out all hours of the day and night because things are never dry. Right. So what's your solution? So really how energy efficient is it if you have to be running it all day? I guess it's efficient because it's not really running. Right. It's just taking its time. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. There's no answer. You might just have to drop it off somewhere. Yeah, which is like, that defeats the whole purpose of having it in your apartment. Although it is nice not to have to fold your clothes or anything.

You use one? Yeah. I don't have a laundry. Let me tell you something. Noah will be sending someone else to do his laundry for the rest of his life. Oh, yeah. I can guarantee that. Well, no, if I had one in my apartment, I'd probably do it. That worked? We've watched you try to fold shirts before.

Wait, did I not talk about this, that I got a folding machine? Yes. Not on the show, but I've... Are you going to leave your hand like this in the middle of work? Enjoy it. But no, I know how to fold now. Like, it taught me how to fold. I could fold for you right now. Want me to fold for you? No.

He really wants to show you. No, no, let me tell you, this is the worst episode. I remember, I'm saying this because Sarah sent us a video of you folding and then you fucked it up. You were like, oh shoot, let me start over. Hoodies are like more complicated. No, this is the worst episode of this podcast we've ever done. We missed, he said hoodies are more complicated. They are, you got a hood. Okay, so all right, go grab that hoodie over here and come and here, switch spots, sit next to mama. Where should I give it?

I mean, let's put you in a test. Hoodie. All right. Noah's going to... This is... All right. I mean, it's insane. Okay. I mean, there's the table as a flat surface. Is this going to be on camera? Yeah. Okay. Come stand back here. Stand back here and move these. Yep. Yep. So...

You want to get the seams? Uh-huh. You want to get the seams? He's doing it. Cross. Okay. And then if this was a shirt, I would go like here. Okay. Yeah. But in hoodie, we don't do that. Oh. Hold it halfway here. Tuck the hood. Lift it around. Okay.

Wow. That is not how I fold a sweatshirt at all, but that's nice. That was nice. That's better than how I fold. That was nice. That's nice. I just go like this. Guys, I'm sorry. I think we need to delete this episode. I'm not even fucking doing it. I'm not folding the sweatshirt. I'm not. I gotta draw the line. We can't get into a fold-off. This is a goddamn audio podcast. This is

the worst the worst episode you can watch this but I wouldn't I wouldn't it's only funny for us oh my god well anyways the um the brand of the the dryer is Whirlpool just one more thought let's put them on blast it's the energy saving fucking dryer that is quite literally my nightmare what if you got like the LG energy one

any new dryer, it would be the best thing in the world. My parents have that one and it's... We've never had any issues. Really? Yes. Okay, I think I'm seriously... Like, send... Be like, hey, just send them that dryer and be like, this...

Is this one in the same ballpark? Like, come on. Not everybody in your building has the same washer and dryer. No, no. And let me tell you, I am done hanging up stuff. My apartment's dry. Because if there was no washer and dryer, that would be different. But I have a washer and dryer in unit. So it should work and it doesn't. I'm sorry. And hey, I mean, look, you pay for...

a building like that that has that capability to have that washer dryer in there and it ups the value of the apartment. Exactly. And for a headache. It's been rendered useless. You know how long it takes to dry four fucking towels? Nightmare. Okay, I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. All right, let's talk. Let's get into the topic. Let's do some topics. You know what? I love it. I was entertained thoroughly.

That, I was entertained. I had to draw the line when we were about to start, each of us individually folding sweatshirts. Everything else before that, we're good. A fold-off would be fun. Yeah, because you're master folder over there. Well, it just depends on what, are we folding for time or for precision? Maybe both. Because I don't think you can do that fast. No.

No, I feel like he could. I felt like he was just explaining it. Now we're talking about it. Now we're talking about it. Anyways, when we end this podcast, I know I'm going to have thoughts to myself and I'm going to text the group. Should we cut all that? And you know what? I'm going to tell you, we actually can't. We don't have that kind of wiggle room. We just don't today. So.

Buckle up. You know what? Everybody, take this for what it is and just have yourself a silly day. Okay? Sometimes you need a silly little podcast episode. Sometimes you get the silly ha-has. Can I tell you what I did last night? Yeah, please. Please do. Okay, so there's been a little bit of like an in-house rivalry, right? Like Joe's an ex-fan. I'm a Sixers fan. They're playing each other. And the ending of the game Monday was...

like pissed me off so much. It might have, like, it might as well have been Joe who hit the winning shot because I did not talk to him. Like we had gotten into some massive fight. Like I couldn't even look at him. He, he got, he got up. He was cheering. I was sitting on the other side of the couch. And then we just spoke no words. And he, he,

We have the, we have a, like a, it's not the Theragun, but like a Theragun type thing. Oh, a knockoff? Yes, it's a total knockoff. And he went for a long run yesterday afternoon. And when he does that normally, like I help him with like his back or whatever. And the game ended five minutes, like five, ten minutes after the game ends. He's like, oh, Frank, is you? I went, no. Oh my God.

No, but I snapped. It was like... You wouldn't dare go to bed after the loss? You should have heard the way I said no to you. I wasn't like, no. I went, no! Wow, that shows you're a true fan, though. A really dedicated fan. Yeah, and then I just angrily... Well, that's spiteful. It was. It was. And I just angrily scrolled Twitter for the whole rest of the night, and then I went to bed. Oh, my God. Mrs. Poutiness. Yes.

Is that pee for pouty on your forehead? Literally. And now I'm like so embarrassed by my behavior. You know, like when you're out of it, you're just like, oh my God, when you like see black and then you come back and you're like, whoa, I was like, that was so bad. And like, just a game fucker, you know? Yeah. Right. Right. And it's fucking calm down, Fran. Everybody has those come to be moments where you go. Yeah. Was that? I woke up this morning and was like, fuck.

Yikes, that was a bad showing last night for me and the Sixers, huh? Yep, yep, yep, exactly. That's okay. You'll come back around. So it's going to be a long series. Theragun is back tonight. You better fucking Theragun is back tonight. I know, I know, I know. I'll make up for it. Bye.

Oh, God. Let's get into the topic. All right. Anyways, I hope we didn't lose any listeners there. No one's listening. At this point, everybody has... I think if we keep bringing it up, then we actually might. Right. No, no, no. Yeah. Let's continue. Let's continue. We're having a good time, okay? Sue us. All right. Let's get into the topics. We're going to be talking about Victoria Beckham and David Beckham. It was Victoria Beckham's 50th birthday. The Spice Girls came to have a little bit of a reunion, so people were talking about...

Talking about that. Rebecca Minkoff has joined Real Housewives of New York. Kim Kardashian revealed rumors or truth or lies on Jimmy Kimmel. What's that? That's the name of the game. The Order?

Yeah. Rumors or truth or lie. That's the name of Jimmy Kimmel's game. One of his producers needs to get fired. Someone hit up James Corden's producers for a better name. I thought that's actually the name of the game. Rumors or truth or lies? Yeah, that's the game on Jimmy Kimmel's show. Oh. I mean, I know that's what they talked about, but that's really what the name is? Yes. Not really spill or fill your guts. Guys.

You've never seen the Jimmy Kimmel Rumors or Truths or Lies? I can't tell if you're joking. Yeah. Fine, I don't believe you now. Gotcha. Oh, man, you got me. All right, now we have some voicemails. We're going to talk to the people. Sounds so excited. No, I'm very excited for voicemails. Voicemails are very fun. So we'll get into that. So let's get into the topics. Rumors or Truths or Lies.

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So Victoria Beckham celebrated her big 50th bash. You know, it was a big party. We saw the pictures of David Beckham giving Victoria a piggyback ride on the way out. Looked like she had a lot of fun. But the talk of the town was the Spice Girls reunion. David Beckham is like the world's best Spice Girls fan because anytime any one of them are together or Victoria's singing or there's something going on, he whips his phone out. He makes sure we get the content right.

And he delivered of all of them doing a little, stop right now, thank you very much. And it was great. And they all look fantastic. They really do. They could get the band back together tomorrow if they really wanted to. Not that they would or should, but they could. I thought they did. Now, granted, my Spice Girls knowledge is not extensive. Mine either. But did they not say they were going to go on a new tour tomorrow?

And just like that, Victoria Beckham didn't want to do it. This seems like it maybe happened a couple years ago where there was some talks about a Spice Girls reunion situation. Yeah. Okay, cut that out. Thank you. No, I'm kidding. No, no, no, no. Don't put that in. Oh, man. No, seriously, don't put that in. I thought maybe that they did some shows or maybe they didn't. The podcast is going. Cut that out. Good friend. Pause it long enough so we can cut it. All five members haven't performed together since 2012. What?

But they teased fans when they came together, like we just said, over the weekend. Mel B previously hinted that the group is working on something, quote, very good while appearing on Today with Hoda and Jenna on March 25th. When asked what's in the works for the Spice Girls, she said that this is going to be really good and the fans are going to be really happy about it. However, when host Jenna Hager asked if fans would be able to catch the Spice Girls on a reunion tour, she said,

She paused and said, oh, I'm going to get in trouble. I'm not saying anything. Okay, bye. So there hasn't been anything other than that. See Tom Cruise was at the party. No, I did see that. I have very mixed feelings about Tom Cruise.

In what way? Like the Scientology part? Yeah. Yeah. Completely. I think that's totally fair. You know, I think he's like an established great actor and people really appreciate his art. But at the same time, I think the Scientology stuff is so fucked up. Like there's so many fucked up things that happen in the science. I actually don't even want to say it. They're going to come for you. I actually don't even want to talk about it. Never mind. Exactly. Have you ever met a Scientologist? Somebody that's in the church? No. No.

I've only ever read about Leah Remini and her leaving the church and every day she's fighting the good fight. Tom Cruise is one of the most famous people in the world. Do you agree with that? Definitely one of the most famous people in the entertainment industry. Yes. Yes. World? Yeah, maybe not. I don't know. What do you think about Tom Cruise being one of the most famous people in the world? Is he the most famous actor in the world? I don't think he's the most famous actor in the world. Who's more famous than him?

The most famous actor in the world. Yeah. He's top three. I think he's more famous than DiCaprio. Everyone knows Tom Cruise. His movies are gigantic. He single-handedly bought movie theaters back. But everybody knows Leonardo DiCaprio. But everyone knows Tom Cruise. Everybody knows Brad Pitt. Tom Cruise is a movie star. I don't... He does blockbusters. No, I think I do agree with you. Wow. That Tom Cruise is the biggest movie star in the whole world? I don't know about...

I mean, yeah, kind of. Really? He single-handedly took movies out of the bag. The Mission Impossible movies, too, are so international. Top Gun. Top Gun Maverick was so huge. Mission Impossible, like, those movies are so massive across the world. I'm not not agreeing. I'm just presenting the questions. Right. Now, like, is he the biggest... I have to pull up. Like, are studios fighting to make...

Like, it's like Tom Cruise, an up-and-coming, emerging movie star. No, but he's an established blockbuster. You know who's at number one? Robert Downey Jr. Oh. The whole Marvel thing is kind of cute. I think that comes down to money, because then number two is Scarlett Johansson. Right. And then Samuel L. Jackson. Just like name recognition, face recognition. Who is the most famous movie star?

In the world. Oh, the big three. Robert Downey Jr., Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Cruise. Leonardo DiCaprio is too artsy. I mean, everyone knows him, but his movies are more niche a lot of the time. Tom Cruise just puts out bangers. Why don't you just suck his dick? Sorry.

I honestly need to step out and just end the episode. I just want to cut that out of context. Tom Cruise puts out bangers. Why don't you suck his dick? No, they are massive, massive movies. He's definitely easy. And he also has the art. He has some of the biggest movies ever. That put him what? You were like top three? Top three easily. I think he's...

Like, who could walk... Like, Leonardo DiCaprio? No, I mean, they're all going to get recognized. And he's also just held a movie franchise on his own for so long. Like, the Mission Impossible movies. Yeah, he's also 60, and he's like... You know? He's still, like, throwing himself off planes and shit. Oh, yeah. This is from Entertainment Tonight, a YouTube video. Inside Tom Cruise's rise to being the world's biggest movie star. Yeah. Entertainment Tonight, steaming him the world's biggest movie star, and no Ives.

I mean, I'm not disagreeing with you. There are people that are, are competable. I, yeah. Yeah. I think Brad Pitt over, you think Brad Pitt or DiCaprio?

DiCaprio, I think. But here's the thing. DiCaprio and... Brad Pitt does do... But what about the Ocean's movies? They don't really do... Leo's not an action star. Action stars... You know who's probably up there with Tom Cruise? The Rock. He is. Dwayne Johnson popped up. That's sad. The big action movie stars, those are...

Yeah. There's a lot of international appeal on the, on the happy birthday, Victoria Beckham. Those big action movies. Yeah. Love Tom Cruise. The world's biggest movie star. Tom, you're officially, you've made it. How do you feel about him being at your birthday party? Congrats, Victoria. Yep. Moving on. That is just a flex. I think to have Tom would love to see the Spice Girls do more together. What do you mean? No, a flex. Of course. Like it's not,

the craziest thing in the world that Victoria Beckham has Tom Cruise. I didn't know that they were friends with Tom Cruise. I mean, it's like Victoria and David are... It's David and Victoria Beckham. I think Victoria and David could call quite literally anybody and have them show up at a party that they were hosting. So comparable. No, no, but it just like, it seemed like...

Tom Cruise, giant star. And then I didn't really see any other people anywhere near his level. It was like Gordon Ramsay. But David and Victoria are on that level. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? David Beckham and Victoria Beckham are wildly worldwide famous. Doesn't mean that they're friends with Tom Cruise. David Beckham is friends with literally everybody. Is he? Yes. Moving on. Anyway. You know when you can feel yourself being annoying? Yes.

That's how I feel today. Okay, moving on. Rebecca Minkoff is joining Real Housewives of New York. I love this move. I don't really know anything about her more than her brand, but her brand is so huge. And I love to see the... Obviously, everybody has different jobs on New York, but if Real Housewives of New York takes more of a fashion world...

side, I think that would be really cool. Yeah, I agree. I think people with cool businesses that we all know the names of... The toilet paper is coming out again. Sorry. Oh my god. I feel out of breath right now. Did you notice when I was reading that article about trying to find out... I was taking deep pauses because I just couldn't. The air had left my body. I'm sorry. I think it's cool to learn...

I mean, how am I going to talk when you're blowing so loudly like that? We could just pause. It was just a little blow. It was a big blow. It's cool that we're going to learn more about brands that you know the name of, but you don't know the backstory, really. And I think that's interesting. Especially when brands use the person's name. It's like Rebecca Minkoff is her brand. It is her. It is everything. So...

right that's very cool and like what's what's her is she friends with Jenna Lyons like what's their dynamic do they know who does she know who does she like who is she already friends with in the group yeah yeah um I I'd be down for some fashion feuds right that'd be fun we were very interested in the first season so I'm excited for whatever the next season's gonna

bring. I think they can only go up from there. And then last topic, we just want to touch on rumors or truths or lies. The game played on Jimmy Kimmel. Kim Kardashian addressed a couple of things. No, she doesn't have six toes. She does

Warm up her jewelry before she puts it on. Which honestly, great. Makes a ton of sense. Putting jewelry on naked, on your naked Free Willy body. When you're Free Willy and you're putting on some jewelry. It could be cold. Especially when you have as icy as jewelry as Kim Kardashian has full diamonds. It's got to be freezing. Yes, and she also said that, which is so relatable because it is something that we all wear constantly.

When she's putting on like a mesh metal dress or anything that's like chain mail, she blow dries that as well before it goes on her body, which also makes sense. But can't say I'm wearing a lot of chain mail to know that that would be a good tip. But even, I mean, yeah, cold necklace, chunky necklace. It's good to know. It's good tips to have for not cutting any of these things.

She also has to wash her feet before bed. She sleeps with her eyes slightly open and she needs someone else to remove the cardboard sleeve on her Starbucks order. Now, this by far is the most diva one out of all of them, I think. Like, whatever, blow drying your jewelry, fine. Washing your feet before bed, like, that's like a cleanliness thing, sure.

sleeping with her eyes open fine how does that work though sleeping with your eyes open what does that no it's just like she's asleep but her eyes are like slightly open you've never seen somebody sleep like that no oh i have friends i've seen it yeah uh it's just like they're not open but they're just like a little that's weird little crack um but she hates the feeling of

The cardboard sleeve on her Starbucks orders, she said, whoever I'm with, I just can't see it being done or I can't hear it and I can't feel it. Like the cardboard getting moved up the cup is like nails on a chalkboard to me. See, I don't even think that's diva. I totally understand that phobia because of my fear of napkins when I was younger, like texture things. Yeah, yeah.

I totally, I have gotten past that. I will say like the sound of like cardboard on cardboard is kind of sending a little shiver down my spine right now thinking about it, you know? Well, she should just tell them, hey, please, you can leave the cardboard alone. Yeah. No cardboard, please. Nails on the chalkboard. Oh, stop, stop. No, I actually understand that one because as somebody who has dealt with that in the past, I mean, I'm past it now. But making other people have to take it off for her when it does happen? Yeah.

well, it's a phobia. Why doesn't she just tell them to not put it on? Well, that's what I said. Yeah. But it's like a phobia. Yeah, sometimes maybe she's, you know, maybe it's a mobile order. Right, she can't put it in the app. Please don't use Cardboard. Or like, what does she do if it's hot though? Is it about being on or is it about taking it off? I think it's,

The sound of the cardboard, like if you're holding it and the cardboard is rubbing against the cup. So then, yeah. Sounds. The more we're talking about it, the more I don't like it. I know. The more I'm like, I'm very against the cardboard now, too.

Yeah. So it wasn't really they really didn't get anything down and dirty and juicy. And they also didn't like know like nothing about Taylor Swift was brought up or anything, which is I'm sure a hard and fast rule at this point. You know, like Jimmy Soft. They're like, look, if you want Kim Kardashian on your show, talk about what you want, but you cannot bring up Taylor Swift. Do you think backstage Jimmy's like, hey.

Crazy week, huh? I wouldn't be surprised. I did see that he did bring it up in his monologue. Oh, he did? He mentions Taylor Swift stuff during the monologue, but just didn't actually bring it up to Kim. Yeah, I could imagine Kim talking about it with some people behind the scenes, but publicly, no way. Yeah, no, no. She's probably like... My guess is she's just acting like she's brushing off her shoulders. I'm going to go on Jimmy Kimmel, play a little game, talk about my six toes. Did you ever do that?

Shoulder and soldier. Yeah, of course. Classic slip of the tongue. Yeah, I just did it. How do people think that she had six toes? Aren't there pictures of her on beaches? I think that's why. I think there was some fucked up Photoshop. There was a photo of something that was kind of deceiving where it looked like she had six toes. But she doesn't. Thank God she cleared that up because I actually couldn't sleep last night thinking about it. So I'm really happy to wake up today and find out the truth. Yes. And that wraps up the topics. Yep.

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Alright, we're going to get into some voicemails. Last week I put up on my story to call in with voicemails when I was solo. So we have a lot of extras. You got so many good ones. We got so many good ones. You said, let's try it again. Yeah, let's dive right back into it. So we're going to use some that people have called in. If they're just addressing me, it's because they thought you weren't going to be here, but now we have the extras. It's totally fine. They just...

hate me. No, and I'm sure that they would have loved to address you as well. But we're going to use the extras that we got. So if you thought yours wasn't answered last week, it may be answered right now. So let's get into it.

Hi, Rhea. I'm going to stay anonymous. Fellow bride over here. Just want to know your opinion on your bachelor party, or I guess your bridesmaids having a plus one. Do you think they should all have a plus one regardless on bachelor?

your relationship with their partners? Are they entitled to it? Just want to know your thoughts. I know you're not doing bridesmaids, but I'm just very curious because I'm having a lot of drama with that. So yeah, love your podcast. Thanks for answering. So this is a good question. It is. And it's tough because it is a very sensitive subject. It is a very sensitive subject. And I have to say,

I hadn't put too much thought into this yet, but I have leaned towards giving plus ones to two people I know who have significant others, whether that be a girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife. And if I know for a fact they don't, then I then I don't think I'll be giving a plus one. Like, for instance, Noah. Yeah.

I know he doesn't have a girlfriend. Right. So. No plus one. What if. No plus one. But if you. If you. If you told me. Hey I. I have been seeing a girl. You know. I think. You know. You know. Does it have to be before you send out the invitation though? No. No. No.

If I send you the invitation, I'm using you as an example just because he's right here. You're right here. But if I send you an invitation and at the time I send you the invitation, I'm not knowledgeable to the fact that you have a girlfriend. But you say to me, hey, I've been seeing somebody. Can I bring her? I would say yes to you. I would say yes.

I feel like it's a case by case. It's a case by case. How long would I have to be seeing her for? No, it's a case by case. It really is a case by case. I wouldn't ask questions. If you felt like you wanted to bring this girl to the wedding and so much so to ask me, I want to bring this girl, then I would say yes because you wouldn't ask if it wasn't, if you, you know. And that's also very different because that's also just like a guest and that's like doing guest plus ones, which I think is very fair when it comes down to like,

case by case for guests.

I know that there are some hard and fast rules. Some people do, you know, no ring, no bring. Some people, everybody gets a plus one. Whoa, I've never heard that. That is, that's, I think that's a crazy rule. No ring, no bring. Well, some, I mean, if you have like a really small wedding, you kind of have to draw a line. But what if two people are not ever going to get married and they just want to be, you know, there are some people who don't believe in that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, absolutely. If long, like, you know. Long term. Like, yes, long term, I'm sure. But that's really the way.

That I people think people use that excuse so that they don't have to invite like, oh, my God, Sammy just started dating somebody new. They've been together for three months. She wants to bring him like, you know, whatever. But she asked about bridesmaids when it comes to bridesmaids. It it is tough. But I think that if they have somebody, they get a plus one.

regardless of your relationship with said plus one because you are close enough with that person to ask them to be your bridesmaid yes and they are in a relationship and i think as you kind of have to respect that i think i agree with that now it if there are i know there are some people that give every bridesmaid a plus one regardless of even if they're in a relationship or not it's like hey

A guy had a friend who was a bridesmaid. She was invited to the wedding. All the other bridesmaids, most of the other bridesmaids were in relationships. So they all had plus ones. So they were like, oh, you have a plus one, you know, if you want it. And she took a friend. So it was like, in that case, you know, maybe it's an aesthetic thing for the bride. It's the table. She wants everybody to have a, you know, a plus one. But like, if I, like for me, I have some bridesmaids that are single.

They are single. They do not have a plus one to the wedding. But anybody that is in a relationship, they have a plus one to the wedding. Yeah. So I think that makes sense. Yeah. I think that's a good rule to live by. Yeah. All right. Moving on. Yeah. Hey, Rhea. Good luck on your first solo show. I can't wait to listen. You're going to be great. My question for you is a fuck, marry, kill question.

You have to fuck one, kill one, marry one. Italian food, Chinese food, and Mexican food. Let me know. Bye. This is so tough for me. I'm going to marry Italian food right off the bat. I can't live without it. Mexican, I'm... God, this is tough. I love both Mexican and Chinese food. A lot. And I eat both of those often. Fuck. I think I have to kill Mexican food. Really? Wow.

And fuck Chinese food. Well, Mexican food is spicy. So Chinese food can be spicy. Yeah, true. I love both so much. So Mexican food, I wouldn't be able to have tacos or quesadillas or all of that. I think I'm going to have to kill Chinese food. But I just love a good dumpling, you know? Same, but...

My heart of hearts. I think I got to kill. Even though I do. I'm also just going off what like I I do love it. But Mexican food and I but I just don't eat it as much like I eat Chinese food way more. So. All right. Good answer. I'm I'll do the opposite of you. Yeah. But marry Italian food right off. Absolutely. That's no questions asked. Good girl. I'm Nicole Kidman. This Christmas. Get exactly what you want. Baby Girl in theaters December 25th.

Hi, Rhea. So, since you're an expert on finding great quality guys, shout out to Marty, I wanted to get your advice on a dating situation. I've been casually dating this guy from a dating app for like a month and a half. We have opposite work schedules, so pretty

pretty much the only time we hang out is on weekdays when he comes over after work at like 11 p.m. I told him that I want a real date on the weekend. He says he wants more than a casual relationship, but when it actually comes down to scheduling something on the weekend, he's always busy with friends or family. So any advice how to bring this up without being demanding? I really like him, but I'm not sure if he's

if he actually wants something more since he's not really putting effort into it. Thank you. He, this is going to be harsh. He doesn't care that much. Like if he, if, if he, uh,

and especially that early on into meeting somebody like a month, month and a half, like you should want to spend so much time with that person that if he's not making any time for you on the weekends, that's questionable. Not even like inviting you to go hang out with his friends or like meet those people. Like just being unavailable on the weekend is not, like I'd be like, ooh, that's not good. And from my point of view and past experience, when you first start talking or dating somebody, you kind of want to be with them

all the time. And it's like, they want to be with you all the time. You want to be with them all the time to the point where it could be almost annoying to other people at how often you two want to see each other. And so I feel like if that's not it right off the bat, then maybe he is lying about saying he wants something more than casual. But at this point, I think

You know, it may be uncomfortable to be up front, but you really have nothing to lose because either you are up front and you get an answer in maybe an upsetting way, not the answer you're looking for, but at least you get an answer and you're done wasting your time. Or he actually changes it around and goes, you know what? I actually do. And maybe he'll put in more effort and then you can try to weed out whether he really is a guy for you or if he's wasting your time. I think be up front is...

even though it may be uncomfortable, say to him, hey, you know, I'm really interested in getting to know you a bit more. I would really, really love to do something on the weekend with you. If you're not interested in doing that, just let me know. Yeah, I agree. And,

And you'll get the answer you're looking for. Don't have your time wasted, even if being up front makes you feel uncomfortable. Hi, Ria. So I need some advice on what to do when your in-laws don't like you. I have been nothing nice, but we just don't click. They're also my neighbors. Anyway, thanks. Oof. That's a tough one. And a similar question to the one we got last week about a sister-in-law.

It's tough because there's really just not much you can do. Like, I know that sounds bad. Like, you can just continue to try and be as nice as possible. But like, at the end of the day, if they're holding something against you or they have this idea of you and they're really holding on to that,

It's hard to shake. And it may not be something you've done. Maybe this is just them in particular. And I said this on the last episode when we did the voicemails. Sometimes you just have to accept people for who they are, digest that and move along.

If you just accept the fact, okay, these people, they don't like me. Whatever the reason may be. Maybe you did something. Maybe you didn't do anything at all. And it's just them. And your neighbors. And you say, you know what? These people just don't like me. Let me swallow that and move along. Yeah. And just move along. Accept it for what it is. And stop trying to grasp at straws. Because the more you dig, the more it's going to eat you alive. Right. Right.

Why don't you turn that into, hey, you don't like them. Right. And just like, you just have to keep living your life too. You know, you can't go overboard and try and be too nice because then they'll hold that against you somehow. Or like, you know, you just got to keep doing what you want to do. Accept it for what it is. Yeah. Swallow it and move along.

Hi Rhea, I'm Ashley from Seattle. I have a would you rather for you? Would you rather be forced to watch your parents make love every day for a full year or join them once? Oh my god, you sick bastard! You sick, sick puppy! Holy shit, that's a sick... What are they doing in Seattle? They ate sleepless... God. That was good. That was good.

Jesus Christ. Holy smokes. Oh my God. I have... Well, I'm certainly not joining them. So you're going to watch them every day and crush your life? My God. I mean, if you're going to make me choose...

Because, yeah, honestly, if you join them once, you'll relive that every second for the rest of your life. At least watching them every day. Right. At least you get to watch your parents make love. Hey, on the bright side, your parents still love each other. Right, right. At least they're still going at it and it's how they made you. Yeah, also, are they going at it every day? Right. And you get a little tape on how you were made every day. But if you got to join them, you're never talking to your parents ever again and then you're killing yourself after. Yeah, that's some sick shit.

You legitimately have to off yourself. Yep. Yep. All right, moving on. Whoa. Whoa. Hey, Rhea. This is Jackie. So I'm asking for some advice. So I kind of have an interesting roommate, and I don't really know her outside of being roommates. And basically, she has an ex-boyfriend, and...

She got pregnant and now the baby daddy, who's also the ex-boyfriend, is just living here with her. And it's really uncomfortable because I don't really feel comfortable being around him. And I don't know how to tell her, like, he can't live here because she lives here, not him. So if you could help me out, thanks.

Whoa, that's a sticky situation. And my advice to you would be to get out. Yeah. And I know you having to move out is not the ideal situation because this is your home. And somebody coming into your home is not ideal.

I would rather move than deal with having to talk to them. And to have that conversation, I would rather just remove myself from the situation. You two crazy kids, try and figure this out, but I'm out of here. And look, if moving is just not even an option, like...

You have to come up with something. I don't know. You have to sit her down. I know this is a sticky situation, but we are roommates. Somebody signed a lease. We are paying this much. Either he's got to pay rent or something's got to happen.

Yeah, I think that's a reasonable meet in the middle situation. Hey, if he's going to be living here, he needs to contribute. He needs to contribute, yeah. Especially if he's fathering your child. Right. Whoa. Yep. Sorry to that girl and the situation she's in. You really lost the roommate lottery on that one. Yeah, really.

Hi, Rhea. Quick question for you. I feel really bad. I'm sorry. Pause it. I feel really bad that these are all addressed to me. I do. It's okay. I'm answering. I'm just pretending I'm hearing, hey, Rhea and Fran. Hey, Rhea and Fran. The next batch that we do, it will be. But these are, you know, there were so many that people called in. Hey, Rhea.

And friend. And friend. I'll throw that in. Iria, quick question for you. You have the most beautiful hair and you're always posting about your blowout. I'm wondering what you do with your hair when you're sleeping. Like sleeping in a light like top bun is what I've heard is good for it. Sleeping in braids, like sleeping with it down. I can just whenever I get a blowout, I can never seem to keep it

overnight. Like it never looks good the next day and yours always looks good. So I'm just wondering what you do to your hair to keep it healthy and strong overnight. Thanks. Love you. She's probably going to say nothing. She's probably going to say she sleeps with it down. She doesn't give a fuck. She just wakes up. It looks good.

I do sleep with it down. I don't like sleeping with my hair up because it gives me a headache. So I usually just sleep with my hair down. I'll put it in like a loose twirled up bun at night if I'm just sitting on the couch. And then before I go into bed, I just unclip it and I'll just go to bed with it. Like however it falls. That's it. I know people think I'm like keeping some, I'm just not. No, I mean, you just also have like,

You just have super thick hair, too, where when you sleep, it doesn't... It can stay in place. People with thinner hair, a la yours truly, you know, if you get a little, like...

It just messes up your hair. I'll sleep with my hair in a loose bun on the top of my head sometimes. Yeah, I think that's a go-to. I'll keep it on before I go to bed and then I'll unclip it. Very loose, where I wake up in the morning and it's completely undone. For my natural hair, I'll put it in a braid before I go to sleep. That's how I do my natural hair. And then people will say to me, I don't get it. Your hair was horrible a couple of years ago.

And I'm like, but if you look at my hair before it was at its horrible point, it was similar to this. My hair was very healthy and thick and long before I ruined it. It's not like this hair came out of nowhere. My hair was like this previously. And then I damaged it. And then it...

became undamaged yeah it's just hair 101 you fried it so maybe people who have not been following me for as long think oh my god her hair turned out like this out of nowhere my hair was like this my entire life and then I damaged it I'm actually gonna start a rumor that you got it that you got a full head transplant and and I'm just wearing extensions and fooling everybody no it's just I think that's what happens sometimes it's like when people ask me things about like I'm just gonna start a series where I sneak up to you and I

and I pull your hair. Try to rip my hair out? Try to rip your hair out. Please don't do that. But people will say these things and I'm like, I forget that people have not been following me for the past eight years and that maybe they only started following two or three years ago and they don't know what I looked like before. So I'm like, if you just...

I mean, when you start, also like when you started at Barstool, you had really, really blonde hair. Yeah, my hair was really blonde. So it was just totally different. I mean, before that, my, you know, my hair was my whole life very thick and long. Yeah. And it just, I just damaged it. And I, I, um. You just had to bring it back. Had to bring, it came back around eventually. Yep.

No joke, I think I might have a cane sauce problem. I was raising canes the other day, getting my box combo with extra sauce on the side like usual. I have an order. When I eat my canes, it goes crinkle cut fries, chicken fingers, the Texas toast, and finish strong with the slaw. So I start eating, and before I know it, I'm scraping the bottom of my sauce, and I wasn't even done with my fries yet. This habit is escalating, and I'm 100% here for it. Dip into canes. Get extra sauce for me, please.

Moving on. Hi, Rhea. I just wanted to get your advice. So I know that you always talk about all of your fun experiences in elementary school and like middle and high school. So I'm an elementary guidance counselor and it is like the toughest job ever.

ever. I'm constantly getting like hit and kicked by the kids. They're just so disrespectful, like talking back all of these different things. And I just want to hear your opinion, like on like schools and kids these days, because I know that like,

school was such a big part of your life and you talk about it so much on the show so i just really want to hear like your thoughts on public education and school like today so it's just really hard i love you so much i listen to you guys all the time and i can't wait to hear your response love you it's really sweet it's hard to comment because i don't

So I don't really, do you know like what public schools are like? Well, I have some family members that are teachers and I will say some of the stories that I've heard are horrible and it's kind of similar to what you said. Like kids are, are reckless. They'll, they'll, they'll literally physically hurt the teacher. They'll scream at the teacher. And when the teacher tells the parents, the parents, you know, side with the kids and they say it's the teacher's fault. And,

it's just fucking reckless. It's reckless these days. I don't know how kids get away with half the shit that they get away with now would have never fucking flown in my, I couldn't even having my phone out in school was like, I murdered somebody. So I don't know how people get away with this, but yeah, it's hard to comment on because we're not directly in the schools, but from the stories I've heard,

it's disgusting and I feel so awful for teachers, guidance counselors, anybody who works at a school that has to deal with this nonsense because it doesn't seem like it's getting better and it seems like it's only getting worse and there's not a lot of discipline happening it seems. That's my opinion. And thank you to all the people calling in who leave nice messages and said that they love us and listen to the show. We appreciate it and love you guys as well. Let's go to the next one. Hey guys, love the pod, been listening forever. You guys are the best. So,

So here's my question. If you are into someone or a treat about someone who is like a handyman, like they know how to fix things, you can lean on them to do that type of stuff. Should that be a non-negotiable when looking for a partner? Or is that kind of like a superficial type deal? Can't figure out. If you meet someone and they're super nice and they're great, but then they're not the most handy person,

Do you just kick them to the curb or is that rude? Trying to figure out where's that line of settling for what you want or accepting them for who they are. Help me out here.

So I feel like this is a personal preference. It's not a deal breaker for me, but maybe it's a deal breaker for her. Right. And you started off by saying you're into somebody who's a handyman and can do that sort of thing. So it sounds like that is something that's important to you. If you have to ask yourself, say you meet a really nice guy, you love everything about him. He checks all the boxes besides this one thing.

is this the one thing that you're going to cause a fight about later on? Right. Like, are you going to be sitting around? You're going to let go of someone just because he can, like, hang a picture for you. And say a TV needs to get hung and all of a sudden you start a fight. You can't even hang a TV. Yeah, yeah. Is that going to be something you fight about in the future? Right. That's a personal preference. And everything else is good. Yeah. Right. It would be like if I was like, oh, you can't cook? Well...

Right. The thing is, right, it's like how much does that mean to you? Because there could be a guy out there for you that is so perfect for you and maybe he can learn to be handy, you know? Yeah. Because, I mean, it definitely is more of a superficial thing, I will say. It definitely is. Right. If he's a really great guy, really stand-up guy, gentleman, and does all the things, but oh my God, he's just a little clumsy and maybe not so handy. Right. Yeah, I don't think that's a deal breaker. It sounds like more like maybe she's just more like...

sexually turned on by somebody that can be a little handy. Change his tire for me. Yeah, but that's what I... But I will say sexual chemistry is extremely important. Yeah, yeah. So if you feel like that's not going to be the case... Is there a correlation between being a handyman and sexual chemistry? No, it's more about what she's attracted to. Yeah, like if she...

If watching him do something, you know, fix something, fix the plumbing in the kitchen sink is going to turn her on. That revs her engine. But if like, if watching a guy try and do that and failing terribly, like is like, is a giant, like she's like, right. Like, you know, that turns her off. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Let's do one more. Yes. Hi, my friend. This is Jen. I have a really good question for you guys. It's an ongoing debate with my friend group. So when you're wearing a sweatshirt, like a hooded sweatshirt, do you have a T-shirt on underneath it? Like...

No specific day, just like you decided you're wearing a sweatshirt. Are you putting a t-shirt on underneath or are you just going to wear a bra underneath? I'm dying to know your opinion. Thanks, guys. I love you so, so much. Love you, Jen. Love you, Jen. It depends on the season for me because the winter...

I will wear a sweatshirt, no shirt, just bra underneath. When it starts to get a little bit warmer, I'll do like the sweatshirt then kind of becomes my jacket. And so I'll put on like a tank top or like I have a tank top on right now because it's like kind of nice out today. But if it was February and it was 40 degrees and I was wearing a sweatshirt and I also was wearing a big winter jacket, I'm not wearing anything under my sweatshirt because I know I'm not taking my sweatshirt off.

I'm always wearing something under my sweatshirt. Always. Hoodie. Crew neck could be worn as like a shirt to me. I'm always wearing something under my sweatshirt. Whether it be a tank top, no bra. Yeah. Just I always feel like I have to have something underneath my sweatshirt. Yeah. It's a case by case basis for me. I will. Like it really depends on the weather. Because I'm always thinking the what if I have to take this sweatshirt off. Right. Right. Right. Right. What if? When it's cold out, I'm just always banking on I'm not taking this sweatshirt off. Right. All right.

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