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Back In The Saddle Again

2024/11/14
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I Choose Me with Jennie Garth

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Elizabeth Brown: 我离婚三年半了,有一个六岁的女儿。我寻求帮助来寻找爱情,分享了我与前夫(也是单身族成员)的恋爱、结婚和离婚的经历。我意识到在婚姻中我需要更多地了解自己,并在离婚后做了很多自我提升的工作。现在我面临着再次开始约会的挑战,特别是考虑到我作为单亲母亲的角色和时间限制。我与前夫的婚姻不会再重来,因为我现在的自我认知和界限感更强了。离婚后,我发现自己更倾向于与比自己年轻的男性约会,这与我以往的约会经验不同。我对未来伴侣的年龄范围有一定的界限,并且不希望再要孩子了。由于居住在农场并远程办公,我发现很难结识新的约会对象。再次约会时,需要考虑伴侣是否已经有孩子,以及如何平衡彼此的育儿时间表。我对让约会对象见女儿很谨慎,需要确保对方能够长期融入她们的生活。我希望未来的伴侣善良、爱孩子并且与我拥有相同的幽默感。我希望能与未来的伴侣先建立友谊,然后再发展成爱情关系。因为居住在偏远地区且时间有限,我很难找到机会结识新的约会对象。 Amy Robach & TJ Holmes: Elizabeth在参加《单身汉》后找到了爱情,但最终离婚了,现在寻求帮助再次寻找爱情。再次约会时,需要考虑伴侣及其子女,因为这会影响到整个家庭动态。在约会应用上直接表达只想先做朋友的想法可能会适得其反。不必明确表达只想先做朋友,而是要通过行动和感觉来判断。很多女性在约会时会急于寻找认真的关系,这可能会吓跑潜在的伴侣。建议Elizabeth加入跑步俱乐部或其他兴趣小组来结识新的朋友,多参加一些社交活动,减少约会压力,让关系自然发展。将约会对象介绍给孩子的时机应该等到关系稳定后再进行,并且应该让孩子来决定何时以及如何与新的伴侣见面。如果孩子不喜欢新的伴侣,这可能是一个需要认真考虑的信号。

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Why did Elizabeth call the podcast for help with finding love?

Elizabeth called because she had been through a divorce and was looking for guidance on finding love again, especially as a single mom.

How did Elizabeth meet her ex-husband?

Elizabeth met her ex-husband, Ty, through the Bachelor franchise. They connected after the show and eventually got married.

What challenges did Elizabeth face in her marriage?

Elizabeth realized she needed to work on herself before entering a marriage, having been in long relationships since high school without truly finding herself.

What has Elizabeth learned about herself post-divorce?

Elizabeth has discovered her true self, her likes and dislikes, and has become more comfortable with who she is after spending time alone for the first time.

What are Elizabeth's non-negotiables in a potential partner?

Elizabeth's non-negotiables include kindness, a love for kids, a family-oriented mindset, and a similar sense of humor.

How does Elizabeth feel about dating younger men?

Elizabeth finds younger men attractive but is cautious about their intentions, especially regarding having more children, as she does not want any more kids.

What advice does Elizabeth seek from the podcast hosts?

Elizabeth wants advice on how to approach dating without rushing into relationships and how to meet potential partners outside of dating apps.

How do the podcast hosts suggest Elizabeth meet new people?

The hosts suggest joining local clubs or groups related to her interests, like running clubs, to meet people naturally without the pressure of dating apps.

What is the hosts' advice on introducing a new partner to children?

The hosts advise letting the child guide the introduction process and ensuring the relationship is serious and exclusive before involving the child.

What event will Elizabeth attend to practice her dating skills?

Elizabeth will attend the Jingle Ball in Los Angeles, where she will be observed by celebrity mentors to receive feedback on her dating approach.

Chapters
Elizabeth Brown, a former contestant on The Bachelor, shares her journey from reality TV to real-life relationships, including her marriage and subsequent divorce.
  • Elizabeth was a contestant on The Bachelor and Bachelor Pad.
  • She married Ty Brown, who was on The Bachelorette, but later divorced.
  • Elizabeth reflects on the challenges of finding love after reality TV.

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You’d think if you were on The Bachelor you’d have no problem finding love once the cameras are off, not the case. You need to hear Elizabeth’s story of reality love gone wrong. Can Amy & TJ help her find her way to I Do, Part 2?

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