Have You Got Game?
I Choose Me with Jennie Garth
Deep Dive
Why has the podcast been therapeutic for Kelly Benzema?
The podcast, combined with therapy, has been incredibly therapeutic for Kelly as it has allowed her to dig deep into personal issues she might not have otherwise confronted. This has led to significant personal growth and a more settled, calmer approach to life.
How has Kelly Benzema's approach to dating changed since her previous experiences?
Kelly's approach to dating has become more intentional and relaxed. She is now more selective and open to possibilities rather than feeling the need to be emotionally available to every potential date.
What does Kelly Benzema believe is the key to effective flirting?
Kelly believes that effective flirting involves being chatty, engaging, smiling, and asking questions. She emphasizes the importance of being genuine and not overthinking the process.
Why did Kelly Benzema feel uncomfortable flirting at a bar with her friend Sarah?
Kelly felt uncomfortable because she didn't want to force a situation or pursue someone in a setting she didn't consider ideal for meeting her potential partner. She prefers a more natural, unforced interaction.
What advice does Kelly Benzema give about what women should wear on a first date?
Kelly advises women to wear something minimalistic and comfortable, like jeans and a t-shirt, to present their true selves without the need for heavy makeup or elaborate outfits.
How does Kelly Benzema determine if a guy is interested in her?
Kelly looks for clear signals such as eye contact and approachability. She also believes that if a guy is genuinely interested, he will pursue her rather than the other way around.
What unconventional method did Kelly Benzema use to gauge a guy's interest?
Kelly once asked a guy to follow her to another bar without telling him where, to see if he could keep up and share in her sense of adventure. This method helped her gauge his compatibility and interest in a more dynamic way.
What is TJ's best advice for Elizabeth and Rebecca at the concert?
TJ advises them to take full advantage of the opportunity by being open, confident, and proactive in meeting new people. He suggests that even if someone isn't a match, they might know someone who is.
- The hosts discuss the various techniques and approaches to flirting, highlighting the importance of confidence and being yourself.
- They share personal anecdotes of their own dating experiences, including both successes and failures.
- The conversation touches upon the challenges of dating as a single parent and the importance of being intentional in your approach to dating.
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