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Popping The Question with Men of Bachelor Nation
2024/11/2
I Choose Me with Jennie Garth
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Bob Guiney
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Jason Mesnick
Bob Guiney 和 Jason Mesnick 讨论了现代约会中的各种现象和挑战，包括第一次约会发生性关系、女性主动买单、关注女性过往性经历、约会中的“消失”行为、何时向孩子介绍新伴侣、孩子对新伴侣的看法、约会离异男性的建议以及约会中需要注意的危险信号等。他们分享了自己的经验和观点，并对这些问题提出了建议。他们认为，现代约会观念发生了变化，第一次约会发生性关系并不一定意味着不能发展长期关系；女性主动买单是一种体贴的姿态；除非数量异常庞大，否则男性通常不会太在意女性的过往性经历；“消失”在约会中不可取，应该直接坦诚沟通；与孩子相处的成熟度决定了何时介绍新伴侣给孩子；如果孩子不喜欢约会对象，需要谨慎处理，不能草率决定；约会离异男性需要耐心，并认真衡量是否准备好面对随之而来的挑战，例如与前伴侣的孩子相处；约会中最大的危险信号是男性长时间保持沉默，并对自己的行踪含糊其辞；如果约会对象只在深夜联系，可能只是为了发生性关系；色情短信只适合建立信任和承诺的长期关系中；随着年龄增长，人们在寻找伴侣时，更注重陪伴和共同成长，而非单纯的吸引力。
Bob Guiney 和 Jason Mesnick 基于自身经验，分享了他们在约会方面的建议，并对一些常见的约会问题进行了探讨。他们强调了诚实沟通和相互尊重的重要性，以及在与离异人士约会时需要考虑的特殊因素，例如孩子的感受和家庭的融合。他们也提醒女性注意一些危险信号，例如男性长时间保持沉默或只在深夜联系等。
Deep Dive
Why might a man be turned off by a woman who double texts?
If the texts come every few minutes, it can feel overwhelming.
Why should a woman offer to pay on a date?
It shows a nice gesture and modernizes the dating dynamic.
Why might a man not care about a woman's body count?
As long as it's reasonable, it's not a significant factor.
Why is ghosting not acceptable in dating?
It lacks respect and direct communication, which are crucial in relationships.
Why should a woman be patient when dating a divorced man?
Divorce brings challenges, and rushing can lead to making the same mistakes again.
Why might a woman's decision to date a divorced man with kids impact everyone around?
Her choices directly affect the children and the dynamics of the family.
Why is radio silence a red flag in dating?
It suggests dishonesty or hiding something, which undermines trust.
Why do some men send unsolicited dick pics?
It's unclear, but it might be due to the ease of modern communication technology.
Why might sexting be risky?
Digital content can be easily shared and live forever online.
Bob Guiney and Jason Mesnick discuss modern dating dilemmas, including double texting, offering to pay, and body count. They share personal experiences and offer advice on navigating these situations.
- Double texting can be perceived negatively if done excessively.
- Offering to pay on a date is a nice gesture, even if the man insists on paying.
- Body count may be a factor for some, but it shouldn't be a major concern unless it's excessively high.
- Ghosting is unacceptable; open communication is always preferred.
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