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5 signs you need to breakup + my views on sex & casual hookups

2023/9/25
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Lyss: 本期节目探讨了结束一段关系的警告信号，以及Lyss对性、亲密关系和非正式约会的个人看法。Lyss分享了她个人的经验，并指出害怕孤独和后悔是人们难以离开一段关系的常见原因。她还列举了五个重要的警告信号：1. 不再对伴侣的行为感到惊讶；2. 持续的焦虑和压力；3. 认为自己值得更好；4. 害怕孤独；5. 持续的不尊重。Lyss强调，直觉和内在感受通常能预示一段关系是否健康。她还分享了她与前任的对话，探讨了男性和女性在关系中的不同视角，以及在关系中寻求改变的可能性。Lyss建议，如果一段关系持续带来消极情绪、缺乏信任、沟通障碍、缺乏欣赏和尊重，就应该考虑结束。她还分享了她对性与非正式约会的看法，强调了在发生性关系之前建立情感安全感、信任和深厚联系的重要性。Lyss认为，如果一段关系是正确的，那么发生性关系的时间不会影响关系的走向。她鼓励人们根据自己的节奏和舒适度做出决定，并相信直觉。

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If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to let them go, this episode covers the major warning signs and red flags that I personally feel could make or break a relationship. These are some of my dealbreakers that I find are helpful when deciding when to leave a relationship. In the second half of this episode, I talk about my views on sex and intimacy for the first time ever on the pod, and my perspective on casual hookups. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss! xx