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Dating. Yeah, I don't know what happened, bro. Dating fell off, bro. Like, I'm not gonna lie. Dating just seems really complicated now. Like, more complicated than it has to be. Like, I just don't understand why things have just gotten so complicated over the years. Maybe because of social media. They have, like, access to, like, basically the entire world at their fingertips, bro.
Like, a dude could slide into any insta-baddie's DMs if they want to. I mean, that's not saying they're gonna get the dub, but obviously, they could do it if they really want to. They got that access at their fingertips. Of course, that's only one of the reasons why dating has just become so complex. And there are so many more reasons that I will get into into this video. So now we gotta talk about the girl boss and the alpha male mentality. It's just so dumb. Like, aren't we all trying to work together here? Like, I don't understand this, but...
It's just so dumb to have this mindset. If you have this mindset bro, like you're just completely lost. Basically these people like have the mindset that "Oh men or women aren't shit bro and you're better off without them like bro I'm just in my villain arc right now you know how it is" like dude just shut the fuck up.
It's just cringy as hell to have this mindset. Like, all these girls are like, men suck, men are trash, like, we're better off without men. Well, we wouldn't be a population without men. Think about it. And same thing goes for those alpha male Andrew Tate meat riders that say women aren't shit and women suck or whatever. But if you think about it this way, bro, like,
We'd be nowhere without the opposite gender. Like, we'd be fucked. Like, I don't understand where these people are getting this mentality from. It's really fucking stupid. Like, the whole gender wars thing, it's just one of the reasons why dating has become so complicated. You're just like, you're striking your odds here. Like, a nice little, like, one or three odds you'll run into somebody that thinks men ain't shit or men suck. Like,
That's basically the odds at this point, bro. Like I'm, I'm really, maybe I'm just looking at the rock direct. I don't know, bro, but it's tough out here. It's tough in the streets. So many people have given up on dating because shit, bro, you just can't win. Like, I don't know what it is. Like, and I guess part of being a girl boss, quote unquote, or an alpha male is you cheat on your significant other, man. That's, that's really how you do it, bro. That's how you truly win at life. No, you don't like the fuck are you talking about?
If you're the fuck boy or the thot bro, like you are never gonna win at life bro. I'm telling you you are just always gonna feel empty on the inside It's just the same cycle over and over again. The relationship never is going to progress It's just a one night stand and that's it and all of a sudden now you're a girl boss or an alpha male like bro It just doesn't make sense Another thing that's ruined dating is people have just gotten a lot more soft Like I don't know what it is with gen z but holy fuck
In 2023, it is just so easy to offend people. Like, I don't know. This video is probably going to offend people, even though I haven't even said anything like that bad in this video at all. Like, I'm literally just, I'm just spin facts, bro. In my opinion, that's how it is. And if people get mad, so what, bro? And the
point anything can leave your mouth and you will offend somebody like people just pull out all these buzzwords out of nowhere and just call you like ageist or fat phobic or whatever the hell people say nowadays like you could be like yeah i'm going to the gym and then somebody could be like i'm a
Uh, excuse me. I think you're actually calling me fat like bro. Shut the fuck up Like no, I literally just asked you if you wanted to go to the gym with me, bro Like when did I ever say you were fat like jesus fuck But anyways, I think it might be wraps at this point, bro I swear like all the good ones are taken bro. Like I
I don't know if it's just me. I don't know if it's just me that feels that way, but Jesus fuck, man. I swear, every girl that I meet, I'm like, damn, she's pretty cool. She has a boyfriend. I'm like, damn, that is so tough. Like, people call it everything misogynistic nowadays, bro. It's kind of crazy. People really be like, oh, well, actually, actually, this song is misogynistic because X, Y, Z, X the third and the fifth. Like, dude, shut up.
I did not ask for your input on this song, bro. I am just trying to listen to it right now. Like, I did not ask for Nielsen and Bartholomew to explain to me why a song's fucking misogynistic. Like...
It's just so annoying. And that has definitely played a role into dating. I feel like it's a lot harder for people to connect if people are so easily offended with what each other have to say. Like, it's just ridiculous. Like, I just feel like I have to walk on eggshells sometimes, bro. Like, it's just hard in the trenches out here. Now we gotta talk about OnlyFans, bro. Ooh, this... This is crazy. OnlyFans is taking over, like, the industry right now. It's...
raking in millions of dollars from simps around the world moms are getting into it like the milfs are really breaking in the cash too like it's crazy like even like a divorced dad cannot find a date without having to like make sure this girl does not have an only fans like it's it's really crazy bro like you really got to do a background check and be like oh shit does she have an only fit like bro
It is bad. Bro, there's plenty of other ways to get the sac rather than just selling your body. I mean, by all means, they are running a crazy bag, but at what cost? I mean, I don't like hate people that do it, but I just wouldn't date somebody that did that. Me personally, like I would just feel so fucking weird. And the fact that people are paying for this is wild. Like, I don't know who's blowing all their cash on OnlyFans. They're like, ah, shit, can't pay rent this month. That's tough. And they got like fucking 50 OnlyFans subscriptions.
Oh, well, maybe if you canceled all those fucking OnlyFans subscriptions, then you could pay rent. Like, that is crazy. Like, bro, even dudes are starting OnlyFans now. Like, god damn. Now we gotta talk about spoiled people. Now, I feel like at this point in time, since we have access to a lot of technology and we got a lot more free time, society has advanced a lot. And a lot of people are
living like really simplistic lifestyles and just haven't really had it rough at all. And to be honest with you, there is a huge increase in this generation, especially of kids that were just handed money from their parents and they were never really told no. And of course, yeah, you know what that's going to do to a relationship. Oh my God, you bought me a Kate Spade bag? Unbelievable. Where's the Gucci bag? Where's the Prada bag? Uh, I...
My bad, I mean, I just got it 'cause I thought you would think it's cool. Ew! No, this shit's garbage! Throw it out right now! And go get me a Gucci bag! Like, holy shit, chill the fuck out. Or there's that one dude that will just fucking command a girl to do anything and everything for him. Apparently this girl's your fucking servant. Like, Jesus Christ, bro. Like, you can do shit on your own, bro. As for spoiled people, I mean, those are some of the things I've seen nowadays. And as life just gets easier for us, it's just gonna continue to go up.
A lot of people have made sacrifices for us back in the day and obviously our life is just so much easier compared to theirs. And we just gotta appreciate that, but sometimes people just don't really appreciate that at all. Astrology. Yeah, this was not a thing before Gen Z. Of course. Now astrology fucked up dating for one reason and one reason only.
It's fucking stupid and it's not true and people are believing it. Yes, I don't understand why people just like look at this and be like, yeah, this is 100% true. Like, bro, you're so dumb. Like, it's one of those things you're supposed to look at like, oh, that's pretty cool. Like, what if that was real? Like, no, bro. Astrology is not- You think the way the stars were aligned predict your personality? That's crazy. And apparently there's whole ass beasts-
between different star signs and they're not supposed to like each other and that impacts dating, I guess. I talked all about it in this video right here. I ranted about it for 11 minutes straight. 11 minutes, bro. Like, I had so much shit to say about that. Like, when people are obsessed with astrology, it just really gets on my nerves. Like, uh,
Sorry, you're a Capricorn. I can't date you. Like, dude, shut up. Like, you never even met the person yet. It's crazy that people will immediately dismiss you because of your star sign. That is nuts. We can't forget about pick-me's, bro. Jesus Christ. These are people that will do anything and everything just to, like, have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Pick-me's are crazy. Like, even if the person shows absolutely no interest in them, they will still do the most to try and...
be their girlfriend or boyfriend. It's over. Like, just stop. Like, she's not interested in you, bro. Like, she is not going to fuck you, little bro. Just because you gave her $20, Bartholomew the fifth, that does not mean you are getting it tonight. Bro really thought he had game just because he was giving this girl money. That is, that is crazy. Her dudes will be like, oh yeah, men are so trash. Am I right? Like, dude, shut the fuck up. Stop being such a puss. Like, the fuck
you mean bro you are a man yourself or woman will be like oh i know women are so difficult right guys dude just stop it's embarrassing it's painful for everybody to witness i'm not gonna sit here and complain about men yeah my own kind to girls like that is just that is crazy behavior no of
Of course, the rise of like being promiscuous and all this other shit has caused so many trust issues. Like technology and having all this access at your fingertips has caused a lot of people to like never trust you ever. Like for example, if you are in like a group for a group project or some shit, you tell your significant other that it's a group project. They're just going to look at you like you did nothing.
Like they committed the most foul sin of all time. Like bro, it is a group project. I am stuck with these people, bro. I did not choose to be with them. And half of them are bums anyway. They're not doing their work. That's crazy that people be like, oh yeah, I really want to date that one person I barely know in my group. Like the fuck? Like
Like, no one's saying that, bro. Now we gotta talk about people who basically share their entire life story of their ex to their, like, new girlfriend or boyfriend, whatever. If that was me, bro, like, I wouldn't want to hear about your ex. Like, I'm just trying to enjoy the moment. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, fuck...
Fuck the past. People just be spilling their entire life story about their ex now. And there are so many people who have like a lot of exes to spill stories about. There are so many people that were just like dating around like crazy, like in high school. And granted, most people who were like dating a long time ago, like these high school relationships like actually lasted and they ended up like getting married in like their early 20s. I mean, that's just how things were back then.
But just things are so different now. And obviously, dating somebody in high school, it's just... the likelihood of it working is just so low. And of course, it's because of these reasons that I just listed. Loneliness has been on the rise, nobody can really find like a stable partner. It's just... it's rough. Back in the day, a lot of dudes would be going crazy, like, "Rising up girls" and shit, but now, I mean, a lot of guys are afraid to talk to girls, and yeah, definitely, definitely this includes me.
And a lot of you probably have this question for me. Well, how do you succeed in today's like dating market? Well, honestly, you probably just don't give a fuck what people think about you. Just be the best version of you, whatever you think that is, and just run with it. I mean, that's, you really want to attract people that are like you, right? Anyways, that's my advice that I need to follow. Jesus fuck, dude. I'm really unqualified to be giving advice for this shit. Anyways, I'm out.