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Love In War with Esther Perel: Ukraine

2023/3/11
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Esther Perel: 本期节目探讨了乌克兰战争对一对夫妻关系的冲击,以及他们如何应对由此产生的关系困境。战争导致了他们的分离,以及由此产生的孤独、思念和对未来的不确定性。节目中,Esther Perel 帮助他们探索了在战争环境下如何维持彼此的联系,以及如何平衡个人需求与国家责任。她引导他们反思了现代男性气质的定义,以及如何在坚强与脆弱之间找到平衡。同时,她也帮助他们探索了在战争环境下如何保持希望和快乐,以及如何利用创造力和想象力来应对困境。 妻子: 战争导致我和丈夫以及两个儿子分离,我带着小儿子去了西欧,而丈夫带着大儿子留在乌克兰。分离的痛苦让我感到孤独和不被爱,我渴望丈夫的赞美和关注,但同时我也理解丈夫肩负着保家卫国的责任。我面临着是否要回到乌克兰的困境,一方面我思念丈夫,另一方面我又担心战争的危险。我努力在个人需求和家庭责任之间寻找平衡,并尝试在新的环境中重建生活。 丈夫: 战争让我每天都面临着生命危险,我努力扮演坚强的角色,保护妻子和家人,但内心也承受着巨大的压力。我需要在保家卫国和保护家庭之间做出选择,这让我感到非常痛苦。我努力控制自己的情绪,不让家人看到我的脆弱,但我同时也渴望妻子的爱和理解。我努力在工作和家庭之间寻找平衡,并尽力为家人创造一些快乐和轻松的时刻。

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Esther Perel discusses the impact of war on intimate relationships, focusing on a couple separated by the conflict in Ukraine, exploring their struggles with trust, communication, and maintaining a connection under extreme stress.

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In this session Esther counsels a couple torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Young sons divided between a mother who leaves for the sake of her youngest. And a father who stays with the oldest for the sake of their country. 

This episode was done in partnership with The International Trauma Studies Program and One Ukraine. 

(Ukrainian and English language transcripts available at http://www.estherperel.com/love-in-war-en))

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