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Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating

2025/6/2
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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
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Esther Perel: 约会是人际关系中的关键阶段，涉及文化、礼仪和选择。数字化约会扩大了机会，但也带来了疲劳和非人化。约会已成为一种积极寻求结果的活动，而非随意的相遇。 Louis: 我在会计行业工作，通过各种方式约会，包括应用和户外活动。我的约会模式是从高涨的情绪开始，然后突然消失。我希望通过今天的对话，更好地了解其他人的约会状态，以便调整自己的心态，更有耐心和放松。 Allie: 我离婚后重新开始约会，主要通过约会应用。我对约会感到矛盾，觉得过程很乏味，希望能摆脱这种状态。我首先看的是对方的照片里是否有笑容，希望能感受到对方的友善和开放。如果交流顺畅，我就会很期待见面。 Douglas: 我来自韩国，一直在寻找长期伴侣。我发现即使对方很好，但如果彼此之间没有吸引力，很难保持联系。我比较内向，会观察别人如何与我互动，并尽量模仿那些我欣赏的互动方式。我尽量在约会中寻找乐趣，即使不顺利，也要把它当作一次学习的机会。

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Dating often comes with a lot of questions. Who gets to say what they want? Who gets to be chosen? Who gets to choose? Should I stay on/off the apps? How much do I share, when, and how? This week, Esther gets set up on a blind date of sorts with three people, all deeply invested in the world of modern dating, to talk through what it's like out there and how she can help them navigate IRL dates.

Topic: Dating & Romantic Consumerism

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