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Money for Couples — ft. Ramit Sethi

2025/1/9
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通过积极的储蓄和房地产投资,实现早期退休并成为财务独立运动的领袖。
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Scott: 我认为酒精类股票将会遭受重创,因为消费者越来越关注健康,年轻人饮酒量下降,以及一些知名播客对酒精的负面评价。我认为Vail Resorts拒绝满足滑雪巡逻队的加薪要求,这是一个糟糕的决策。滑雪胜地的价格过高,使得中产阶级家庭难以负担。滑雪行业的寡头垄断导致价格过高。应该关注美国中产阶级的权利,并通过反垄断等措施降低物价。扎克伯格任命达纳·怀特为董事会成员是出于政治目的,而非商业考虑。Meta公司将股东利益置于其他利益之上,这反映了公司治理的缺陷。扎克伯格对美国社会造成了巨大损害,而我们缺乏相应的监管措施。我给我的孩子一张“绿灯信用卡”,并与他们坦诚地讨论金钱问题。美国房地产协会(NAR)将购房描绘成成年礼,这是一种误导。在过去,购房是强制储蓄和积累财富的一种方式,但现在情况已经改变。我选择租房而不是买房,并将节省下来的钱用于投资。我认为美国婚礼的平均花费3.5万美元过高,人们应该理性对待婚礼支出。我父亲不善于理财,而我则走向另一个极端,变得非常慷慨。 Ramit Sethi: 夫妻之间关于金钱的争吵通常与住房、汽车等大额支出以及缺乏共同的财富目标有关,而非琐碎的小额消费。讨论性别与金钱的关系并非性别歧视,而是必要的。金钱与权力密切相关,这在收入较低的伴侣身上表现得尤为明显。在美式文化中,可量化的事物被认为更有价值,这导致一些伴侣对“贡献”的定义过于狭隘。许多男性将自身价值等同于“养家糊口”,这在女性收入高于男性的伴侣关系中尤为突出。夫妻之间关于金钱的沟通至关重要,但大多数夫妻很少进行实质性的金钱对话。大多数夫妻一生中只进行过四次关于金钱的实质性对话,这很不寻常且功能失调。在约会初期,通过自然而然的方式,例如一起旅行,来讨论金钱问题。在讨论金钱时,不要让伴侣主导财务条款,要自信并主动提出话题。不愿意谈论金钱是最大的危险信号。过早地谈论金钱不会导致大多数情侣分手。应该在约会初期开始询问并倾听,并在关系发展到关键节点时,例如一起旅行或计划同居时,讨论金钱问题。夫妻应该拥有共同的银行账户,这有助于提高财务管理效率和夫妻关系。大多数夫妻不擅长管理资金,导致财务混乱和不一致。建议夫妻将所有资金存入共同账户,支付共同开支和投资,然后各自保留一定金额用于个人消费。夫妻的未来是共同的,应该将更多资金用于共同的消费,而不是个人的消费。即使一方没有收入,也应该保留个人消费资金。夫妻应该根据自身情况制定独特的财务安排,只要公平合理即可。慷慨很重要,但夫妻之间应该根据自身情况制定独特的财务安排。应该为婚礼提前储蓄,并根据自身经济状况决定婚礼规模。婚礼支出不应超过经济承受能力,但如果经济允许,可以举办一场盛大的婚礼。规划重大开支时,要考虑潜在的额外费用,并设置合理的预算。夫妻应该与孩子一起讨论金钱问题,培养孩子正确的金钱观。许多家庭不与孩子讨论金钱问题,或者总是告诉孩子“我们买不起”,这会对孩子产生负面影响。应该从小就与孩子讨论金钱问题,并赋予他们一定的经济责任。自动投资股票市场是积累财富的最佳方式。人们对金钱存在许多错误观念,例如认为股票市场是赌博。我选择租房而不是买房,并将节省下来的钱用于投资。租房并不意味着失败,人们可以通过多种方式积累财富。婚前协议对某些人来说是有益的,尤其是在拥有大量资产的情况下。大多数人不需要婚前协议,因为他们是在婚后才积累财富的。我和妻子在签订婚前协议时,因为对金钱的看法不同而产生了冲突。我们咨询了婚姻治疗师,这帮助我们理解了彼此对金钱的不同看法。我和妻子对金钱的看法不同:我关注增长,而她关注安全。在讨论金钱时,应该先谈论感受,然后再谈论数字。在进行月度财务会议时,应该以赞美开始,先谈论感受,然后再谈论数字。卡特总统的1979年演讲具有前瞻性,他指出了美国社会对金钱的崇拜。卡特总统是一个伟大的前总统,也是年轻人的榜样。卡特总统为年轻人树立了良好的榜样,展现了奉献、慷慨和服务精神。

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Key Insights

What is the ultimate financial red flag for couples according to Ramit Sethi?

The ultimate financial red flag for couples is when one or both partners are unwilling to talk about money. Open communication is essential for financial alignment and a healthy relationship.

Why does Ramit Sethi recommend joint bank accounts for couples?

Joint bank accounts foster teamwork, reduce financial fights, and simplify money management. Combining finances aligns couples with a shared vision and ensures transparency in handling expenses and investments.

What are the two biggest expenses couples often overspend on, according to Ramit Sethi?

Couples often overspend on housing and cars. These are the two largest expenses that can strain finances if not properly managed or calculated for affordability.

How does Ramit Sethi suggest couples handle financial disparities in income?

Ramit recommends combining all income into a joint account and then allocating a portion to individual accounts for personal spending. This ensures both partners feel financially secure and aligned, regardless of income differences.

What is Ramit Sethi's view on prenups?

Prenups are beneficial for individuals with significant premarital assets, such as investments, property, or businesses. They provide clarity and protection in case of unforeseen circumstances but are unnecessary for most couples.

How does Ramit Sethi advise couples to approach financial conversations early in a relationship?

Ramit suggests starting financial conversations naturally during pivotal moments, such as planning a trip or moving in together. It’s important to approach these discussions with curiosity and openness rather than immediately diving into detailed financial planning.

What does Ramit Sethi recommend for couples planning a wedding?

Couples should save for their wedding early, set a realistic budget, and double it to account for unexpected costs. If they can afford it, they should avoid going into debt and focus on creating a meaningful experience.

What is Ramit Sethi’s philosophy on renting versus buying a home?

Renting can be a financially sound choice, especially in high-cost areas. Ramit advises against the societal pressure to buy a home and instead suggests investing the money saved from renting to build wealth.

What does Ramit Sethi suggest for teaching kids about money?

Parents should involve children in financial decisions from a young age, such as planning family expenses or making purchases. This helps them develop a healthy relationship with money and understand its value.

How does Ramit Sethi describe the role of money in relationships?

Money is not just about numbers but also about emotions, power dynamics, and shared values. Couples should focus on aligning their financial goals and visions for a rich life rather than fixating on small, inconsequential expenses.

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  • Surgeon General's report links alcohol to 100,000 cancer cases annually in the US
  • Alcohol stocks have dropped significantly
  • Young people are drinking less than previous generations

Shownotes Transcript

Scott and Ed open the show by discussing the Surgeon General’s report linking alcohol and cancer, the ongoing ski patrol strike at Park City Resort, and Meta’s new board members. Then Ramit Sethi, bestselling author of “I Will Teach You to Be Rich” and the brand new book, “Money For Couples,” joins the show to discuss how couples should navigate their finances. He explains what he thinks is the ultimate financial red flag, and why he believes couples should have joint bank accounts. Ramit also breaks down how much couples should spend on weddings – and reveals what he thinks about prenups. 

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