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Hey, I'm Nikki Boyer. Dying for Sex is all about stepping out of your comfort zone and exploring sex, desire, and self-discovery in a totally unfiltered way. It's the story of my best friend and I's journey to embrace our desires, try new things, and live without regrets.
It's fun, real, and all about finding freedom and being unapologetically you. So good, it inspired a TV show. I'm gonna play you a clip from the podcast now. So be sure to follow the series on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts. One of Molly's first dates was with a 20-something aspiring screenwriter. He had a Japanese car.
His name? Well, we're not using real names. People's privacy and all that. So let's call him, let's just call him, what was the name of the car? Toyota? Let's call him Toyota. So Toyota guy. So Toyota guy and I met at the local peasant, which was like this little bar really close to my house at the time. I love that bar. It's cute, right?
Molly and Toyota Guy started with small talk. He told her he just got back from Europe and he was making a short film. She told him she was recently divorced and loved living alone. You know, typical first date stuff. He was cute and like we would, you know, we were chatting and then things got a little handsy, you know, where there's like a hand brushes a hand kind of by mistake, but not really. And then on the leg and then the legs touch. So far so good, right? Yeah.
But how do you move from casual conversation to casual sex? And then it was like, you know, hey, well, you know, let's go home. I'm going to go home, but I'll walk you to your car first. You know. And where were you guys? Like, he was just parked on the street? Yeah, so he was parked in like the she-she neighborhood. Okay. So we walked up like past Ventura, like south a bit and then down one of those blocks and we got to his car. And? And it was kind of like, eh, why don't we just make out in your car? And I don't remember
I don't remember who offered it, but we just kind of like understood that we were just going to make out in his car. Okay. You know? So I feel like we started in the front seat, but it was just not comfortable enough. So we kind of tumbled into the backseat, like without leaving the car, we just kind of like rolled into the backseat.
And we were kissing, and I think my bra came off. Oh, wow. I'm pretty sure it did, yeah. Wait, it just came off? Like, just came off? On its own. That's amazing. I'm out of here. He's a magician. I don't want to do this anymore. So, yeah, so it came off, and then his dick came out, but I don't even remember...
I don't remember. I think I touched it, but the pinky, like, I don't really, but it was so fast. Like, it was all like, and it was one of those, like. What was he doing? Like, set the scene. Like, what was he doing? Like, he was on top of me. Okay. Writhing around. Okay. And it was one of those, like, straight out of, like, one of those movies where, like, all of a sudden, like, like, he was young, but he wasn't that young. He was in his 20s, but it was like, it was one of those, like, you knew something was going to happen. You know? Oh, my God.
And it was going to happen sooner than either of us was prepared for it to happen. Puberty? Yeah, it was a little like, and so he's like, because I think I touched it with a finger and that was too much. And he was like, and so all of a sudden his head is darting around and he's like looking around, looking around, trying to figure out like where he's going to come. Oh!
I don't want to come in the car or on his stuff or on his date. Like, and so like, you know, so what he does is he opens the back of the back door and he like, you know, jerks it into the, into the,
really nicely manicured lawn. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Oh. So, yeah. Let me get this straight. Yeah. So he was so aroused, but he had the ability to like not jizz on you, not jizz on the car. He opens the car door. Yeah. Jizzes everywhere.
on the lawn. Yeah. And then what? Like, like, do you just say, oh, is that good? Like, what do you say after that? I've never seen anybody open a car door in jizz. So it really wouldn't have mattered what I said because at that point his car alarm started going off really loud. No! Yeah. Yeah. So he's coming and the car alarm was like, whoo, in this like really posh neighborhood.
That neighborhood is straight out of the Brady Bunch. Traditional ranch-style houses, manicured lawns. You'd almost expect Mr. and Mrs. Brady to come running out in their bathrobes to see what the commotion was all about. Oh, my God. I would have given anything to have been walking my dog on that street that night. I know, I know, I know.
Molly was off and running. She had dates lined up for weeks. But I still had questions. Like, what was it like for Toyota Guy? What was he looking for? And what was the date with Molly like for him? What was it like to be on the other side of Molly's adventures and dating? ♪
I think we need to be like, hey, here's what's really going on. Will you be a guest on the podcast? I want to hear his version of the story and ask him questions. I would love that. And I'm sure it would be super embarrassing for me, but I don't care. Really, you don't? No, why? I love that. Of course, I never thought he'd talk to me, but then he actually responded. And after a few texts, I called him. But I had no idea if he was going to pick up.
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