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32. Speech That Empowers: How to Encourage Growth and Resilience in a Younger Audience

2021/4/22
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Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques
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Julie Lythcott-Haims: 成年期是介于童年和死亡之间的一个阶段，在这个阶段，你不再依赖他人来规划、安排、解决和处理生活中的事情，你拥有自由和独立，但也需要自己去解决问题。父母在孩子成长的过程中，应该逐渐将责任转移给孩子，这不仅不是一件坏事，反而是一件非常有益的事情。通过给予孩子责任，父母实际上是在表达对孩子的信任，这对于孩子的健康成长至关重要。在与孩子沟通的过程中，父母应该保持富有同情心、情绪稳定、乐观积极的态度，但同时也要保持一定的“心理距离”，避免过度干涉孩子的生活。父母应该像对待侄子侄女或朋友的孩子一样对待自己的孩子，关心他们，但不要过度干涉他们的生活。年轻人不应该害怕尝试，即使不知道结果如何，也应该开始行动，在行动中学习和成长。“足够好”就足够好了，不要给自己过多的压力，允许自己犯错，在前进中学习。“不要和陌生人说话”是一个过于笼统的规则，应该教孩子如何辨别危险的陌生人和友好的陌生人，并鼓励他们与他人交流。孩子们需要在童年时期就练习与他人沟通，这样才能在成年后更好地应对各种人际关系挑战。最好的沟通建议是：停止使用幻灯片，因为幻灯片会分散听众的注意力，阻碍人与人之间的有效沟通。成功的沟通的关键在于让听众感受到被尊重、被帮助和被关心。 Matt Abrahams: 作为主持人，Matt Abrahams 主要负责引导话题，提出问题，并对 Julie Lythcott-Haims 的观点进行总结和回应，推动访谈的进行。他积极参与讨论，并表达了自己的观点和感受，例如他认同 Julie Lythcott-Haims 关于沟通技巧和心理距离的观点，并表示这些观点对自身也有帮助。他同时也表达了对 Julie Lythcott-Haims 沟通技巧的赞赏，并认为其沟通方式值得学习。

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Julie Lythcott-Haims defines 'adulting' as the phase of life between childhood and death where one is not dependent on others to manage life, and discusses the challenges of transitioning from complete parental responsibility to allowing the child to become independent.

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“Communication is such a delicate dance and kids need to emerge from childhood having practiced,” says Julie Lythcott-Haims, former associate vice provost of undergraduate education Stanford University. 

In this episode of *Think Fast, Talk Smart, *lecturer and podcast host Matt Abrahams sits down with Lythcott-Haims to discuss her new book, *Your Turn: How to be an Adult, *and ideas on how to communicate with young people so they feel empowered to take on the various (and often intimidating) duties of adulthood. 

“Responsibility isn’t a bad thing,” she says. “Responsibility is actually an amazing thing. And I think we have to do a better job of narrating that truth.”

Think Fast, Talk Smart) is a podcast produced by Stanford Graduate School of Business. Each episode provides concrete, easy-to-implement tools and techniques to help you hone and enhance your communication skills.

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