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They Have To Be This Way

2025/3/12
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Daily Stoic Podcast: 我们生活中常常会遇到一些令人不快的人,他们可能会粗鲁无礼,制造麻烦,甚至说出伤人的话。这些人的存在是无法避免的,他们可能无法改变自己的行为。与其为此感到沮丧或生气,不如尝试接纳他们的存在。不要把他们的行为个人化,不要让他们的言行影响到你的情绪。专注于自身,努力成为更好的人,这才是我们能够控制的。与其试图改变他们,不如专注于如何与他们相处,如何避免被他们的负面情绪所影响。记住,我们有能力选择自己的反应,我们不必成为和他们一样的人。我们应该学会宽容,学会理解,学会在与这些人的相处中保持内心的平静和积极。 Daily Stoic Podcast: 接受现实,有些人就是那样的人,他们无法改变,我们也无法改变他们。与其对抗,不如尝试理解。试着站在他们的角度思考,或许能帮助我们更好地理解他们的行为,从而减少负面情绪。重要的是,我们要专注于自身,提升自我修养,成为更好的自己。我们应该学习如何与各种各样的人相处,如何应对生活中遇到的挑战。不要让那些令人不快的人影响到我们的生活,我们要保持积极乐观的心态,专注于自身成长。

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to The Daily Stoic early and ad-free right now. Just join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Welcome to The Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a Stoic-inspired meditation designed to help you find strength and insight and wisdom into everyday life.

Each one of these episodes is based on the 2,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women to help you learn from them, to follow in their example, and to start your day off with a little dose of courage and discipline and justice and wisdom. For more, visit dailystoic.com. They have to be this way.

It was rude. The whole experience was exhausting. It could have been so much simpler, but it wasn't, was it? And with them, the people we've all met, it just never is. They make things complicated. They say things that are hurtful. They are totally oblivious to what they impose on others. The Stoics dealt with these folks because these folks have always been with us. A world without them is impossible.

And for them, being anything different than they are is impossible too. The sooner we accept this, the better. The sooner we stop taking it personally, the less it will surprise you and the less it will hurt. This is the job they have been given in this life, to be that kind of person, at least in this moment. And our job, it's to understand that, to not let it get to us, to put up with them.

to work around them, to not be like that, because we don't have to be. We are lucky in that way. If you like The Daily Stoic and thanks for listening, you can listen early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Prime members can listen ad-free on Amazon Music. And before you go, would you tell us about yourself by filling out a short survey on wondery.com slash survey.