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Session 04: The Blondes

2024/1/25
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Jake:本期节目的核心在于探讨焦虑以及诚实的重要性,并通过嘉宾Kennedy和Brett的经历和观点,深入分析如何在人际关系中保持坦诚沟通。他分享了自己缓解焦虑的方式,例如清洁,并认为与朋友相处能带来快乐。 Kennedy:分享了自己第一次接受心理治疗的经历,并坦诚地表达了自己对人际关系中诚实沟通的看法。她认为在新的关系中,坦诚沟通至关重要,并建议在面对冲突时,要勇敢地表达自己的感受和想法,而不是回避问题。 Brett:分享了自己在人际关系中保持诚实的经验,并强调诚实是维系良好关系的关键。她认为,即使面对尴尬或不愉快的局面,坦诚沟通也能帮助解决问题,并促进彼此之间的理解和信任。她还分享了自己在处理友情破裂和恋爱关系中的经验,并建议在面对困境时,要保持冷静和理性,并寻求朋友的支持和帮助。 Kennedy:在节目中,她分享了自己处理友情破裂和恋爱关系中的经验,并强调诚实沟通的重要性。她认为,在面对朋友和前男友的不当行为时,应该立即采取行动,例如直接指出、收集证据等。她还建议,在面对背叛时,应该采取反击措施,例如进行抹黑行动,以维护自身的权益。 Brett:在节目中,她分享了自己在人际关系中保持诚实的经验,并强调诚实是维系良好关系的关键。她认为,即使面对尴尬或不愉快的局面,坦诚沟通也能帮助解决问题,并促进彼此之间的理解和信任。她还建议,在新的关系中,坦诚沟通至关重要,并建议在面对冲突时,要勇敢地表达自己的感受和想法,而不是回避问题。 Jake:在节目中,他引导嘉宾分享各自的观点和经验,并对嘉宾提出的问题进行分析和解答。他强调了诚实沟通的重要性,并建议在面对人际关系中的问题时,要保持冷静和理性,并寻求朋友的支持和帮助。他总结了本期节目的核心观点,即诚实是维系良好人际关系的关键。

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Hello, pussies, and welcome back to Therapist, where we give you quality care from unqualified experts such as myself. Honestly, maybe I'm at a loss for words because I was indeed very anxious today. And one could attribute that to the fact that I did decide to smoke at 2 p.m., which probably wasn't the best idea. Now, if you're going to say, okay, well, what were you anxious about? I will tell you, well, everything. And...

Oh, also, also, sorry, I'm ADD, so my thoughts are all over the place, but I apologize now if this intro seems a bit messy and mishmash because my friend called me yesterday and said, wow, I just listened to your podcast and it really felt like you weren't really talking about anything at all. But actually, if you really listen, I'm talking to... Oh, my friend is calling me. I'm recording my podcast. Do you want to say hi? Hi, pussies. Yeah.

Okay, I'll call you back right after. We have to debrief tomorrow. Okay, I love you. I'm calling you after. Love you, bye. Me and Sophia have a shoot together tomorrow. And sorry, I was just like scratching my balls. So...

So Fia and I have a shoot together tomorrow and we were like so fucking pumped. We were like, oh my God. Also like let's bookmark what I was talking about right before that call. Was it that it was, my ideas were messy, whatever. It obviously wasn't important enough to remember. So her calls at her call times at 7am and mine's at 3pm, which just seems outrageous to be honest with you. And we, I was going to wake her up with coffee and it was going to be a whole day. But yeah, that's like a stark, like eight hour difference.

You know what? I'm going to start these sessions by telling you if my day was tense up or tense down. And today, my day was tense half chub, okay? Because while there were moments of absolute greatness, there was also moments like when I woke up and found out I missed my workout of...

Real darkness. But I found a really cool coping mechanism today. And you might say, well, Jake, what is that coping mechanism? Cleaning. And I didn't really do it for the first 24 years of my life. But you may ask, wow, Jake, why haven't you cleaned for 24 years? Great question. The answer is because I have really bad OCD, so it takes me a longer time to do things.

Or at least that's what I've told people. And then that just makes me inherently lazy. So I haven't really been able to clean. But I'm really grateful that today I discovered that cleaning was actually something I could do. Maybe it would even benefit from some music as well. But, you know, that's for another day. Yeah, so my day was half chubb.

I have a shoot tomorrow. God, I just love talking about myself, don't I? I guess my takeaway from today's was that girls is great and cleaning helps anxiety. And I shouldn't smoke until like 6 p.m., I'm thinking.

Anywho, well, let's talk about our guests today. Last week, we had the brunettes on, Julia and Peyton. But today, we have a different fucking beast, okay? And that is the blondes. Without further ado, I'd like to introduce my girls, my blondes, my sporty, sporty gals, Kennedy and Brett. Say hi, Brett. Hi. Hey.

Kennedy, say hi, Ken. Hi. Welcome to Therapus. Thank you. Thank you for having me. Thank you for having us on. Oh my God, of course. You know, you guys are blonding all over the place. You know, I would actually argue that they are the two in our friend group that have the least anxiety. I would agree. Yeah, this is actually my first time in therapy. Really? What? Yeah. Should I not say that? No, of course you can say that. Speak your truth. It is my first time in therapy. Thanks, doctor. Oh my God.

Oh my God. You've never been in therapy? I haven't. When was the first time you ever did therapy? I first did therapy my freshman year of high school. For the first time ever. I was put in therapy as like a seven-year-old. That's okay. Okay. Well, you know, since it's your first time in therapy, I'll ask you first and then you, Brett. But actually, I'll ask the both of you at the same time. How was your guys' days today? How are you feeling? Are you tense up? Are you tense down? What's up?

Well, I'd say I'm pretty tense up. I'm excited to be here. What did I have for lunch? It was good. What did you have for lunch? I had sweet green for lunch. Yum. Yum. A little bit of a headache after? No. Wow. Maybe I get too much dressing. Maybe. My favorite thing to mix is... Go ahead. One time in college, Jake had a fucking sweet green that smelled like a bowl of pasta somehow. Oh, yeah, because it was white rice and crisps. No, it literally...

It felt like an Italian restaurant. I'm like, how is that a salad? There is no way. When I get salads, I get sides of rice and put the rice in the salad. I mean, it's a thing now to get like crispy rice salads and whatever. It was like, it was white rice. Okay, got it. In the salad and I mix it up. Got it. And it smelled like pasta. Oh my God. You know what? Back to your day.

Back to my day. Yeah, had lunch and then came here. Were you like thinking, oh my God, I'm so excited for this all day? Literally all day. Okay, well, Brett, how was your day? I mean, most of it I spent with you. Yeah, I was about to say, I feel like you're knowing, but my day was pretty good. I had therapy for the first time in three weeks this morning. Yay. I had therapy today too. Good job, girls. Good job.

And it was good. When I spend that much time off therapy, I never really know where to start. Totally. And there was a lot to cover. Right. Let me tell you. Yeah. Because it was just T-gives. T-gives. And then I was home for a week and, you know, just like life happens. Life happens.

We went to Air One. We did go to Air One. The hot bar sucked today. Really? I got a smoothie. She got a smoothie. We ran into an old friend. Menchup. We ran into an old friend. You know, sometimes I hate running into people, but we ran into someone today that I was so down to like see and catch up with. And I was like, what a blessing it was to run into you. Love. And that's the best. Yeah. When you like, you are like talking and you're like, oh my God, I'm not wanting to kill myself right now.

right now that I ran into. 100%. And that was how it was. And I was like, wait, I'm like looking forward to catching up with you. Like actually on top of this run in, let's make plans. Yeah. That's rare. That is rare. We meant it. Usually I say that, sometimes I don't mean it. A lot of the time. I don't mean it most of the time. Yeah. And when you run into someone, it's like. My ass is always like, let's get lunch. Yeah. And I get lunch. With everyone.

Okay, yeah. With everyone. You get lunch with everyone. I'm making, yes, but like I- You're going on walks, you're getting lunch. You have plans. You have characters. I have, yes, I have characters, I have plans, but like I sometimes don't want to, but then I have to because I'm the one who made the plans. Right. No one to blame but yourself. So how would you rate your day? Well, did you even finish your day? No, continue. We want to air one. What else did I do? I don't know. Hung out. I don't really know. I had a meeting.

She was reheating her soup from last night. Yes, I mean. She's a hard working woman. She's a hard working woman. Pure re-ed. You take that meeting. I took it. You took it and that was a long meeting. It was a long meeting. Hey, let me ask you something. Camera's on or off? Camera was off. Yeah. Camera's off because most of the people in the meeting were in person at our headquarters back in Chicago and I'm here. The headquarters. So you know

Camera's going to be off. You were going to be like on some sort of screen. You didn't need that. I didn't need that. No. You needed your soup from last night. Yes. Yeah. So I ate that and then I did a little bit more work. I went on like five walks. One thing about Brett is she's walking. I'm walking. Always. Did you even rate your day on a 10 scale? I didn't rate it on a 10 scale. Okay, so you first, Brett. Go ahead. On a 10s up, 10s down, 10s half chub, what's your vibe? I would say...

My day was like six My day was like six tenths Out of eight I think Okay right So are they up Oh that's pretty high Tenths or half chub Yeah I think we all have that feeling today Half chub Agreed Yours were half chub too Yeah I was like rushed Getting out of the house Can I just say like I'm not even just saying this for the pod But I'm really enjoying our time so far Me too And I'm really having a great time with you girls Me too

The blonde show up. Well, I don't know if you guys know this, but well, actually, you obviously know this because I talked to five people, two of which being you. The crux of this show is really the tell me what's wrongs, which started on my Instagram stories and I've brought to the therapist's home office. Oh, my God. Also, I totally forgot to show you guys something. Like, do you see where my mind goes? It goes everywhere, everywhere, everywhere, all at once.

Okay, Louise, will you please bring me her? Who is that? So I was cleaning out. I was cleaning out. Okay, so this podcast takes place in the back house of our home. And I was cleaning out this room to make the studio. And I found a painting in the wall. No way. You found that here from a different tenant? And Yasmin. From Old Tenant? Yes. Yes.

Oh, why am I so freaked out? You would be like, Jake, throw that out. Louise actually told me to quote shred it.

I think I can't because that's how hauntings start. And so... You want to be haunted? Maybe we can name her as Pussies, okay? So why don't you... Look at me, a little incentive. Why don't you comment on this video and tell me what you think her name should be? She has a rip here, if that matters. On the back it says, and Yasmin. And...

This is terrifying. She's absolutely terrifying. This is terrifying. I can't believe you found this here and you have yet to dispose. I'm not disposing. Okay. She'll haunt me. She's staying. We already think this house is haunted. Oh, for the audio listeners, I was just holding up a photo or actually a drawing of someone

And she has brown hairs and really long eyelashes. And it was made by a girl named Yasmin. And I found it inside the walls of my home. And we want to throw it out, but we are worried that it will haunt us. Yeah. Okay. So let's get into the tell me what's wrong. Okay. Let's do it. As a reminder, always pussies, go to passthatpuss.com and click tell me what's wrong. And well, tell me what's wrong. Names are encouraged, but not required. Love you, pussies. Now, tell me what's wrong. Yay. I'm still trying to see if that one sticks. Oh.

Oh, okay. My ex-boyfriend is hitting up one of my friends in class. I see him texting her all the way through our 2.5 or two and a half hour lecture. Is she responding? It sounds like she's responding. Obviously she's responding. Your ex-best friend. No. No, ex-boyfriend texting friend. Well, Kennedy's saying it's now her ex-best friend. Yeah. Yeah, it's ex-best friend now. I'm not cool with that. That's foul. That's really, really, really upsetting. I would definitely, it sounds like she hasn't confronted the situation yet. Call your friend out immediately. Immediately.

Immediately. Absolutely immediately. But you know what I would do before that? I would let it happen one more time and I would take photos. I would sit behind her on purpose and take photos as proof and be like, I see it. Here are photos of it. And also talk to the boy before because boys are quickly easier to fold or whoever her ex may be. Boys are easier to fold. So your friend will deny and lie until she dies. Yeah. So if you get him and photos, confront.

You're golden. You're golden. I mean, you're in an unfortunate situation, but you're golden. That's really upsetting, first of all. Second of all, you got to take this into your hands and absolutely come out on top. Yeah, you have to come out on top now. You kind of have to smear a little bit too. You have to smear. Have to smear, I was about to say. That's healing. You know what? Smear. Smear. Smear. Smear.

If you don't know what a smear campaign is, like I said in the last episode, watch Scandal, focus on Kerry Washington, and watch Gossip Girl, focus on Blair Waldorf, okay? They'll teach you everything you need to know. She needs to smear. You have to smear. Because fuck that. Fuck that. Yeah. Your friend's foul and your ex-boyfriend's even fouler. Agreed.

And agreed about going to the guy first. He has nothing to lose. Right. He'll fold. He'll be like, oh yeah. Yeah. I did that. He'll want to upset you. I was about to say, he's going to want to be like, yeah. Yeah. And? Yeah. And then so, oh my God, I'd be so toxic. I'd record the conversation. Brilliant. Whoa. I would. That's insane. So I'd be like, you cannot even attempt to deny this. I have photos and recordings.

It's almost more upsetting, though, to, like, lose a friend. Like, friendship breakups are so much harder than boyfriend breakups. Like, it's tough. I've never had a boyfriend breakup. I've had friendship breakups, and they haunt me. They're fucking gnarly. They are some of the worst pain imaginable. Yeah. Like, oh, my God. You share so much. Like, in friendship. The feeling of also just, like, not... You know when they end because you're, like...

They're not knowing like what they won't tell you what's up, but they're obviously, you know what I mean? And you're like, what is happening? Like that was the story of my life in middle school and high school. Like it was just like constant, like,

You know? Yeah. You know what I saw on TikTok though? I saw that I think would help anyone going through a friendship breakup. Listen to the song Now That We Don't Talk by Taylor Swift, but as if it's about a friendship breakup. Wow. Right? I told my mom, she said that it's for the best. Like friendship breakup. Right? Right? Yeah. Remind myself the more I gave, you'd want me less. Because a lot of people relate that to toxic friends. Oh my God, I'm going to throw up.

The more you give and the more you're like, I want you to like me. I want you to be my best friend, whatever. The more they're like, fuck you. And the meaner they are and the worse they are. Right. I have chills. Right. Wow. You're welcome. I'm not even just saying this like for dramatic effect like that.

That hits. Right? I think everyone can learn from it. Yeah. Yes. Just in every life situation. Yes. Relationships in general. If you are sending that someone, it's just not giving you. It doesn't. It's maybe. And you know, I think this is where I go wrong. I always think it's about me. Maybe it's not even about you. But the more you push and the more they're just going to not want anything to do with you. Exactly. Wow. Okay. Wow.

That was an insane prescription. Yeah. So prescribe now that we don't talk and a smear campaign. And this girl is good to go. And your friend sucks. You're good to go. Yeah. You're golden. Like make sure like you have a few of your other girls like on your side. Yeah, for sure. That's part of the smear. Yeah. Of course. You're bringing you're bringing the girls on your side. Yeah. The girlies are behind. Some may say it's toxic. Others may say it's smart. We go with the latter. And that's just fine with us.

P, next. This one's crazy. My coworker got so drunk, she shit on the bathroom floor at a work party and she doesn't remember and no one has the heart to tell her. There's no, she doesn't remember. So actually you guys, it's so funny. We just got that question because our senior year of college and Brett's birthday party, it's always the first week of school. That was Brett's birthday. Oh, I miss college. So much. Fuck. Fuck.

So Brett's birthday was always the first week of school and we had a party. We had a party. The senior year one was probably my favorite. The pregame is happening and there's like 30 people in the house, right? Like it's not 500 and it's not even 100. It's not even 50. Brett storms out of her bathroom, freaking out. Someone actually took a shit on the floor of her bathroom.

There is shit on my bathroom floor. My bath mat is like stuck to the floor because there's shits on the floor. No, the story. No. Oh my God. No, you guys put my big girl pants on and I take my bath mat. The side that isn't covered in shit. The side that isn't covered in shit. I'm holding it above my head and walking through townhouse to throw out my bath mat in the middle of March.

party because someone shit on my floor. Yeah, so maybe have the heart to tell your co-worker that she shit on the floor. How do you even do that? I don't know. If we knew who did it, I think she would probably want to know. I do think I know who did it though. Jake was trying to do something.

What? Her trying to avoid saying we knew who it was. I mean, she shat on the floor. She did shit on the... My question is... I mean, we can cut this part out, but she exited the bathroom as I was going in, and I'm pretty sure if it wasn't her, she would say, hey, there's shit on your floor. Okay. So my thing is, I would actually think, I think you should have the heart to tell your coworker, because I, from a selfish point of view, am actually interested how one...

does shit on the floor of the bathroom during a party when they're too drunk i get that it happens i would like to know how me too so yeah she must know because this is an underlying drinking problem not to diagnose here well she's shitting on the floor of her work christmas party you whoever's the closest with her yeah i i have a theory though i have a feeling that she knows and she's just acting like she doesn't know because she's too fucking embarrassed right i i

That embarrassment would be so lethal. I would have to address it. How can you deny that? I guess she's not even denying. She's just not talking about it. She doesn't know that people know it's her. Maybe. There are so many variables, but I do agree. You got to tell her. And you got to write back in and tell us what she says. Yeah. Tell us. Okay. You know what? Use code word shit on floor and tell me how the story concludes because I am so curious.

This guy I've been talking to and hooking up with for months asked me to be his girlfriend last night. Yay. I said yes. And this morning, I think he forgot. What? How do you forget? He was drunk. He was drunk. And he was like, be my girlfriend. And like, it didn't. And she doesn't know if he forgot or not. So she's feeling awkward probably being like, hey, do you remember what you said last night? Oh, God. Fuck. Kennedy, has this happened to you before? Sorry. I'm sorry to assume. No, no, no.

No, this hasn't happened to me before, but like I would definitely bring it up. I think an open, honest conversation about relationships, especially when they're new are valid. It's like new territory for both of you. So just bring it up and be like, what's what's going on? Like, are we dating? Like you said this last night, Brett is about to give you some very advice and you might be like, oh, my God, who would take that? She would.

And she would do it. What do you mean? Because you're so honest in your relationships. Well, I was about to say that. Brett is like unusually honest. Yeah, I think. Like, Brett, like, it's to her testament, okay? But for the average listener, look, we're probably not going to be like, hey, I heard what you said last night. But in a case, you know what? Brett, I'm going to let you have the floor. Brett, take it away. Okay, well, I was just going to echo what Ken said and say to definitely bring it up. Because, like, then you're just in this weird gray area. And.

and you don't know what you are. - And you're gonna get mad at him for stuff. - And I have a small anecdote with my current boyfriend, the night we became exclusive, there was this like whole big story of things that happened that night. - I'm sick, is it what I'm thinking of? - It was like the thing. I don't wanna get, I don't know if we should get into the full story. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no. - Anyway, we established that we were exclusive and then I was like freaking out over something else that had previously happened.

a call and I'm like Max like I just want you to know like I'm like so happy we're exclusive like I really like you like I didn't want him to like be like upset with me. Honesty is fucking key. Agreed. But I think in this girl's case you say hey I just want to talk to you and it's going to be hard and it's going to be fucking awkward. It's going to be awkward.

You just got to be like, hey, you asked me to be your girlfriend last night. Yeah. Frame it like that. Yeah. You asked me to be your girlfriend. Agreed. Put it back on them. If you don't mean it, we can stick to what we were. If that's fine with you. Yeah. I get you were drunk because that's what it seemed like. Yeah.

But don't be like, are we dating or what? Like say like you asked me to be your girlfriend. Agreed. And I know that you were drunk. So I just wanted to discuss. Yeah. Agreed. And make sure you establish like how you're feeling about it first. Yeah. Like if that makes sense. Okay. So what are we prescribing? Honesty. Honesty. And a good convo. Honesty. Let's prescribe honesty and let's prescribe love.

Yeah. Honesty. Honesty and embracing the awkwardness. Yeah. Totally. Absolutely. My boyfriend called me a whore. Okay. Ew. What's fucked up about me is like, I would think that's like kinky and cute. Well, like in sex or like- No specification. Or like yelling at you like you fucking whore. Sounds like that. That's horrible. That's disgusting. That's awful. That's deal breaker. Yeah. I think that's a deal breaker. I think that is such a disgusting thing to call someone in sex.

In an aggressive way. Yeah. If that is your sex kink, all power to you. Do whatever the fuck you want. To call someone that, like, actually aggressively, I think is so cruel. And it just shows that he doesn't, like, hold you in that high of... What's the word I'm looking for? Of regard. If he's calling you a whore in a rude way. Also, when you resort to name-calling in a fight, especially with people you really care about, like...

They he's lost it. So like it's only going to get worse. It's only going to get worse. And it's not cool. OK, I'm prescribing a breakup. Same. Same. Same here. Boyfriend sounds like he fucking sucks. Yeah. Look in the mirror and know you're beautiful. Hi, Jake. I go to Syracuse and I think the sky is really hot. I met him through my friend. Let's call her Jane.

Jane has kissed this guy and took him to our date night. Ooh, girl, murky territory. Jane is no longer interested in him, okay, and is talking to someone else. Our other friend, let's call her Sarah, also thinks this guy is hot. Oh, this just sounds like a nightmare. She kissed him the other night, but they didn't have sex. Jane told us that he has a rep for having insane kinky sex.

And I'm kind of curious and want to find out. Same with Sarah. Jane doesn't care if Sarah or I hook up with him, but I know if Sarah does first, then I definitely can. Sarah is way flirtier than I am, so she'll probably be able to first. What should I do?

Holy shit. This is so college. I'm obsessed. First of all, obsessed that he's like known for having kinky sex. Why is that? Everything. Everything. I am obsessed. This guy sounds hot as fuck. He's giving like the main character. And like also like no guys are like known for that in college. Yeah, wow. I'm like actually like sweating like I have butterflies. Wow. He's not a PQ. He's a PK. Prom king of college. He is a prom king. Well, he is a fucking prom king. And he's like an underrated prom king. Yeah.

Yeah. Wait, okay. So she is very angry. So Jane doesn't care, right? Jane's like, Jane, by the way, is a great fucking friend. Jane, I know that's not your real name. You're fucking amazing. Most girls are. Yeah. Okay, so Sarah's way flirtier than her. You literally, you definitely can if Sarah does first. That makes sense. Agreed. Because Sarah's going to be like, it's him. Yeah, yeah. Agreed. It's kind of whoever gets there first. It is. It's whoever gets there first. But how would you recommend she gets there first?

She's got to turn it up a notch. Yeah, you have to turn it up a notch. And I feel like Sarah definitely overpowers the room. So she's going to go up to this guy. You need to be sneaky about it. And you'll get him. And you know what? It's all fair game. But actually, Sarah did kiss him the other night. Oh, yeah. I'm forgetting about that detail. Oh, I don't know. It sounds like you kind of are knowing that Sarah might be mad at you either way. Yeah. It sounds like she's kind of knowing Sarah's going to get there first. And she just has a place up to that. Just having a hard time. Okay. Okay.

However, that doesn't mean the race is over. The race is not over. Let's just say that. There is still room for potential. Okay, what should we prescribe her? I'm going to prescribe something kind of random. Okay, go. A Victoria's Secret push-up bra. Yes. Tell me more.

Just to really, like, give you that confidence boost to, like, the girls are out. Yeah, the bombshell. Maybe in, like, a fun, like, red. I don't know. Yeah. And just wear it and feel confident. Right. I'm going to prescribe John Tucker Must Die. Because in John Tucker Must Die, all these girls are dating John Tucker. And then they find out that everyone's dating him. This guy kind of sounds like he's a little bit of a womanizer. Right. And...

All the girls end up banding together, which I think is a nice message. Even if that's not what happens, I think it's a little bit of a nice message and it'll help you focus on the fact that no matter what happens with this guy and his kinky sex and whatnot, your friendships are way more important. I do agree with that. Honestly, this guy, he could be great. He could be life-changing, but like,

Ride or die for the girls sometimes. Sarah, yeah, go. I was just going to say, like, in high school, I thought this guy was really hot. And, like, my friend definitely knew. But you know what? She got there first. And you know what? She's still one of my good friends. Like, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay. That's close. Yeah. And I was just like, oh, annoying. But.

but like, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna lose the friendship over it. And I'm just gonna go after someone else and that I did. Period. Okay, so we prescribe John Tucker Must Die and a bombshell Victoria's Secret Push-Up Bra. This guy who I have a crush on keeps looking at me. All my friends say he's not interested, but he literally stares at me. No, stop.

He sounds like a freak. No, you sound like me. Like, oh, he's obsessed with me. And everyone's like, no, he's not. But you know what, girl? You know what I've learned from hanging out with gay men recently is that they make shit happen. Someone might not. Just like guys in general. Someone might not be interested at first. So even if he's not interested and you're interested, maybe make it happen. But that's really scary because I get scared to do that too because I feel like it takes a lot of confidence and like,

pizazz but like I I think I think if you believe he's into you and you're into him then fuck your friends and see if see what see what he's about there's a way to like put out a feeler that isn't like going up and trying to like make out with his face like just like just like go start a conversation like see if it's flirty and like don't listen to your friends if you feel like there's a vibe that's mean there might be a vibe yeah I don't like that me either

But maybe they're just trying to save her too. That's true. Okay, well maybe your friends are just trying to save you. I'm going to prescribe. What am I going to prescribe? Stop and stare by the fray. I was literally about to say that. Stop and stare. Stop and stare. I think I'm moving, but I don't know, don't know where.

Stop and stare by the fray. That's prescription number one. Prescription number two is going to be clueless because Alicia Silverstone doesn't think her stepbrothers into her, like kind of like not really, or like maybe she's into him. I'm kind of, I haven't seen the movie.

And, but you know what? One of them makes it happen. Yeah. And people are like, what? But it happens and they get together. One of life's biggest mysteries is like how two people are attracted to each other before like anything happens. So just like. Wow, Kennedy. So true. It is. I, it keeps me up at night. I'm like, wait, how did he know I liked him? I'm sick. I'm sick. Right. But then, but then something happens and then.

So true. And then it's like, you know, when it tumbles, things keep growing and happening. Yeah. I was going to say Ross and Rachel from Friends. Oh, great one, Brad. Yes. Great one. Watch the first season of Friends if you haven't already. And if you have, just rewatch. Like, I think it's the last episode of the first season. When is the first time that they kiss? Oh, great television. You know what? Now that we're done with the tell me what's wrongs, what did we learn today, girls?

So much. We've been on such a journey. Okay. We learned that you can shit yourself when you're blocked out. We did learn that. And not know how or why or remember. And that's important to ask.

Ask what? Why? Like, because the person was like, should we confront her about it? One of you should. Yes. Honesty. Honesty. Honesty. Honesty. Honesty. Learn honesty. Biggest takeaway from today is honesty is everything. Yeah. That applied to everything. That was the through thread. Yeah. Honesty is fucking everything. And I think we're pretty honest girls. Agreed. Agree. You have to be honest. Oh my God. Communication's key.

Oh my God, your session's up, girl. Thank you so much for coming in. As always, go to passthatpuss.com and tell me what's wrong. Brett and Kennedy, thank you for being here. I love you, pussies. Hi, pussies. Put your tents up. Put your tents up, tents up. More cookies.