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How to Have Uncomfortable Conversations, ft. Noah Tishby and Emmanuel Acho

2024/9/5
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Noah Tishby: 本书旨在提供进行不舒服对话的蓝图,其出发点是Emmanuel注意到反犹太主义的抬头。作者认为,当今社会缺乏建设性对话,许多对话只是为了表达观点而非真正沟通。建立在友谊和相互尊重的基础上,才能进行建设性的对话。在进行严肃话题讨论之前,应首先建立友谊和信任,这样即使出现紧张关系也能更好地处理。个人应对创伤反应的能力是一种重要的技能,在与他人沟通时,应努力避免被触发。 Emmanuel Acho: 建立在友谊和相互尊重的基础上,才能进行建设性的对话。在进行严肃话题讨论之前,应首先建立友谊和信任,这样即使出现紧张关系也能更好地处理。当今社会许多对话缺乏爱和友谊的意图,反而更注重自我标榜和引发负面情绪。建立深厚的信任关系,可以消除对对方动机的怀疑。区分种族主义、种族不敏感和种族无知,并强调在意识到他人创伤后承担责任的重要性。避免将创伤经历进行比较,而是应该关注理解和共处。重新审视犹太人在种族身份上的定位,有助于促进与黑人社群的理解。避免使用压迫者和被压迫者的二元对立视角来理解世界,这不利于促进不同社群之间的理解。犹太人需要承认其在某些方面的特权,并继续为其他社群的权益而努力。犹太人和黑人与美国的关联性不同,这影响了他们对自身痛苦的理解。犹太人和黑人与美国的经历不同,这导致了他们对自身痛苦和社会问题的理解差异。 Sami Sage: 探讨了创伤反应的责任归属问题,尤其是在信任度不同的关系中。

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Sami sits down with co-authors Emmanuel Acho & Noa Tishby to talk about their book, Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew. Acho speaks about how his friendship with Tishby developed, and how that friendship allowed them to have constructive conversations with each other about race. Their conversation also highlights the struggles of the Jewish and Black communities and the importance of unity in fighting against oppression.

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