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Welcome back to more uh, crazy read IT stories. Uh, you have been here before we reread IT stories and we react to, we freak out, we go what and then that's IT today. My guests are noa and caught me and a the theme today is h siblings, and both of you have siblings. S right? But no, you have three brothers.

I, I, two brothers. I am the third brothers.

That's right.

Add another one. I, I think there's only two.

Okay, you two brothers.

and i'm an absolute harder of siblings, of siblings.

I I have two older brothers, but there's so much older that they are my brothers, but there almost more like I I looked up to them growing up. There wasn't like sibling rivalry because I was so much Younger than them. What's the age of treating you in the older a 1 years seven and then eight years and then， yeah, no, there.

There's no drama. You never really like that.

My top, get back. You are in my top right now. They're great. I mean, they are both smelly and ugly and stupid. One of, I know, I know, I know one of my brothers watches all of our videos and so so yeah, you're smelly.

What a smelly.

sweet heart. Do any your siblings watch going .

to see this? I don't know if started watching this show, but they, my dad .

watches everything .

OK seems some stuff the they've watching someone they were in right, which was an episode to put in my mouth where I .

made them try strong ming, three hands.

some guys eating fish. You, so it's like two and a.

And also for people who don't know this, you and all your brothers were born on valentine's day.

born on valentine day.

Different years.

Three of you, yeah, yeah. I was born at eleven fifty five at night.

wow. You like.

I must keep .

IT going. Yes, yes.

yes. All right. Well, let's get into this. Let's see some other sibling stories here. First one, am I the assets for getting gifts for my sister's dogs and not her child?

There all right, um this is was posed on M, I, the assets, and also ended up on M, I, the devil, not surprise. I've always been in very clear to all my family members that I don't like children. They're loud and annoying, and personally, I can't stand them.

I do, however, adore dogs with all my heart. That also has been made clear to them. Recently, my sister had a child. Recently my sister had a child. And although I spent time with IT, i'm sort.

you do not dehumanize .

I I did not read that wrong. Although I spent time with IT, my opinions on children remained unchanged. For the first time since the childbirth, my sister invited family over for dinner.

Usually when this happens, I bring some gifts for the pubs. Nothing big, just some toys or treats something. This time, though, I I brought over some gifts for them for some reason, this made my sister very angry. He went off on me and started yelling about how I don't care about my knee ce and love the dogs more than her.

I applied that I should have been pretty obvious this made the situation worse, and SHE screamed at me about being a bad sister for not contributing towards the child's growth, and that i've offered to care for their puppies every chance I get. But i've never come even, never even come to visit their child since the birth. That pissed me off.

And I ended up saying some pretty mean things, basically, just because SHE and her husband couldn't keep IT in their pants, i'm not going to change my values in my life. Since then, he stopped talking to me and has told my mother that until I apologize, SHE will continue ignore ing me, the rest of my family think, thinks I was being an assessor, barely looking at the child. Even though they've known since I was like ten that I dislike children, I figured to hate myself.

What had to them? I don't know if I was in the wrong in this one. I didn't even say anything bad about the child. I was just pathetic tour. But maybe he felt bad because he thought I hated her child, or maybe since SHE and I were very close, SHE expected me to pull more weight. I've behaved like this to other children too, but I don't know why SHE expected her to be special or different.

We used to be really close, and I want to go back to things, but I also don't want to pretend that I care about a child just because I came out of her. There's an edit. No one else has had brought anything either since I was supposed to be an informal will get together.

I always bring something for the puppies. So I did this time as well, but this time IT pissed her off. And yes, calling her and IT was an assem move. I accept that I was still a bit mad .

when I wrote this .

is I know people who are like, oh, I I like kids, like what I and that's fine to be they're loud and smelly and stuff and i'm whatever but he seems like he like, this is weird. It's like that's here. You also are not respecting and caring about your sister yeah in this like you don't have to I think it's weird. I do think it's weird, but even if you're like, I don't like kids, at least be like over my sister this means so much to her yeah this is her child.

right? Also that that child is not going to be a child forever and it's not just some random child that you don't know. It's your sisters like literal linkage that you're going to be around for your entire life as long as you want to be around those dogs for like that. So like you, you're like viewing a child is not even a human being like I B and being emotional she's Christ like but this is a person yeah like and call me up since the childbirth as if I was like the titanic thinking.

yes since yeah and keep .

you in your and then yeah okay now you hate sex too.

You do not like you're so boring. I got invisible.

do you not even like ice cream either? Yeah, yeah.

There are so many level. This like, i'm not even going to look at this baby like like what the fuck man like I get if you're like, oh, I don't want a baby, sit. I'm sorry, I want to change diapers. I am not comfortable with that stuff, but to actively like make this choice of, like i'm not going to acknowledge .

your kid and that kids gonna messed up because that sounds like sister shows up a lot and is just what is once the kid turns eighteen, you're just like, oh, hey, i'm the so .

and so nice to meet you.

That kid is not gonna want a relationship with with this person either yeah.

yeah. What are your motivations? You don't care about your sister. You don't care about the little baby.

The baby at least has a dire on when they .

shit everywhere. 找 着 了， coming out your .

mouth .

josh's on the great I thought .

he was bulbs .

bullshit or maybe .

she's eating the dog so he likes the .

dog yeah you don't know um some comments here。 You're the assets hating children isn't a personality. Trade someone else.

You're the assets we get IT. You're so unique. Just shot for your needs and nephews.

Is that that hard? Get a grip, someone. I said, man, i'm about as child free as they come.

But at least I can acknowledge that children are people. Yeah, this is next level. weird. I've never judged someone for saying they don't like kids and are wanting and kids are even being like if I have the choice, i'm not going to be around kids. I'm like, fine, but this is weird.

Like, I think I do think it's a little weird when anybody hates something or doesn't like, I don't like cats, I don't like dogs, I don't like kids. I don't like like cause it's like, but you requite you're generalizing and I want to sometimes I want to understand.

Like, okay, so when you picture this thing that you're saying you don't like, what are you picturing is happening and what are they doing? What are they look like to you? And like not every kid or child or a dog or cat is like that. And so it's just like a weird way to limit your own thinking.

And I get with like dogs and cats. People feel fear like i'm scared of dogs. I don't like dogs scare me but with with .

kids and I get and like a pull complete visual dislike for well.

for her though, it's this complete apathy and that's almost weird for me it's like it's different. She's I have this weird phobia. I have this whatever like I said, if like kids are loud and whatever that that's a lot for me but her just like complete dismissal yeah this is something different to me. And it's just strange .

how I thought you were supposed to be cool when I was twelve, which is I don't like anything that you like.

I just, I still the funniest thing to me is her. The funniest thing is, like, everyone knows that since I was ten, I dislike children. Like.

yeah like what, just like what happened .

do yeah but that follows IT up with, and everyone knows about .

my adoration of puppies or like everyone .

knows about this year s hay babies, but love puppy yeah yeah.

Yes, I will say, like, listen, I I like kids, but I don't want to random White cheeto hand getting put in my face everyone again, like I I can understand that, but like to completely acknowledges it's because if it's just like some rain, could you don't know you don't have to look any which way or act any which way, but it's your family. It's an extension of your sister. You love your sister and your sister is raising this child to like you know like I don't know you know she's not communicating .

that he doesn't understand like the the social necessity for her to be involved in its life. SHE actually is like describing the stained for IT. It's not like he doesn't like that she's not responsible for something as to pitch in or that she's expected to show up. No, he actually doesn't like IT like them the baby like right that's so weird. No.

her slipping up and writing IT and this is like extremely telling and anyone who can dehumanize any other person to that level I just I don't like you like I think there's I think there's a lot you need to work on yeah if you're going to refer to human being is IT now, man, yes, that's crazy.

Especially when you're supposed .

to care about ea, your family member like, come on, a baby, a baby who's done nothing to you yeah, like he admits there's this baby is never done anything. No be difference like this .

baby tried to murder me. Yeah.

baby had got and tried to shoot. Um, alright, I got peace. But IT was two.

Next story, am I the assets for leaving a family gathering due to my parents always, always complimenting my brother? This one, I believe this, this is, this is some real sibling drama, alright, my brother has had a lot of time for hobby in recent years, something he spent a lot of time on his cooking. Now he is a really good cook.

Uh, he and his husband have a decent sized house. So a lot of our routine family dinners are held at their place. My brother volunteers to cook most of time when he does without fail.

As soon as our parents come through the door or we do, it's always smells really good here. Doesn't IT damn, you were making me hungry from the street or things along those lines. And they keep saying such things throughout our time there.

At first I didn't think one where another about IT, but we're going on well over two years of this happening. They never give components. If I or are other siblings have them over, they didn't say anything about the mirrors my brother and his wife painted on their walls, very big and hard to miss until they pointed right at them and asked about IT.

And all our parents said I was, oh, that's nice. Our sister is always making bath bombs and candles for her home business, so her place always smells nice to and they don't say anything about that or encourage her. They just don't give any compliments or acknowledge anything about us, our hobbies or our homes.

But they go overboard with our brother. It's not like they neglected him as a kid, and it's some attempt to make up for IT. They gave us all pretty a equal attention and support growing up this last time, having dinner at my brother's south, I was telling my family about how excited I was for my fiancee a to be starting his dream job.

My siblings were happy for him, but our parents didn't say anything and went right back to seeing their praises of the second coming of coronary jesus. And now he should start a food truck. I was pretty done at that, instead of being there in an irritated mood, I waited a few minutes and acted like I had gotten a text from a friend how to go, said my eyes and I love you and left.

A little while later, my mom called us what was wrong because my family had noticed my phone screen was dark when I pulled IT out they did by the text. I told her I just didn't have IT in me to sit through another dinner where they forget they have three other, other children with things going on in their lives. They'd like some acknowledged for i've been at odds with a bit with my parents and then telling me i'm being a mature my siblings found out why we're currently fighting and our brother and his wife are in agreement with me and said theyve been getting tired of IT too.

I've apologized to my brother but not my parents. So I like the assad um interesting. So the issue isn't that they're complimenting when it's the lack there of any other acknowledged and IT also .

seems like they get compliments of a very small thing and large events don't get compliment still. So it's not just the lack of compliments, but also it's like, why would you compliment the peace and not the fact that about peace today.

I would say at the beginning, I like, i'll come on like parents whole personality is like, smells good.

I was floated into the kitchen like but IT is is is the lack of acknowledging the other siblings in anyway and like that sounds like those siblings are actually making conscious efforts to try and get that same appreciation and acknowledged and that's that's rough I mean, coming from a lot of siblings who all have different um life situations, I sometimes feel a weird amount of guilt for like the success that I have. It's no different from other siblings success in my family but like. And I think it's i've worth thing with compliments too. We're like if i'm getting compliments in any scenario, I feel uncomfortable because I don't want anybody to feel uh like jealous or I just don't. Does that make sense?

Yeah you don't want others to feel less than because you're .

probably but like a probably .

lot of siblings deal with just the like you oh like comparing yeah like we shouldn't be compared. I think .

that something .

that I I never dealt with with my brothers, that's what I mean. Simple rivalry because there's so much older than me that I never compared myself in that regards of like a competition and IT doesn't sounds like they are trying to compete with their brother as much .

as they just like, hey me too theyd .

of the parents and not mad of the brother um which is which is good and glad they're not blame on the on the brother yes something I I did wonder and they he they do acknowledge IT here and edit I was curious because they acknowledge like that their brother and his husband I was like maybe this is the parents they're uncomfortable like they were like they they're overcompensate more like something or they don't know what how to .

talk oh Michael graca h .

this food is so good um and so they wrote to answer the topic that keeps coming up. My brother has been out for sixteen years. This isn't response to him just coming out.

They have always been very, very supportive of him. But I can understand people assuming that first so this that's all news for for the parents at sixteen years ago. Um I think I also would get tired of just every dinner at this place for two years of just the entire night.

The conversation is this food is just so good. Love this food. Wow, food about thing. yeah.

But IT would also, I would break my heart if I were the brother who was cooking and found out that all these siblings are feeling heart because I am the one being completed and acknowledge, so much like that, IT breaks my heart like the idea of that. Yeah.

i'm also curious, the compliment is cooking, but to the compliment IT, does he get an is an imbaLance of him getting compliments in every other regard to two or is IT just his cooking? I mean.

I feel like a lot of things, especially cuts with siblings and parents. It's also like, it's also like internal perception. So like even if the rest of his life in every measurable way is somehow worse or like you should be getting more praise the fact that he is able to cook in its delicious, that's enough for the parents to be proud of them.

So like it's still know like a parent to their child, you could be proud them for a million reasons, but just the fact that they are and communicated is enough. So it's I think the parents obviously need to be told what they're doing wrong, that they need to do Better. But also it's they might not know. And like as the child, like he obviously wants the praise.

but I don't think the parents are like IT seems like they are believe ous.

So this op tried to leave the party just to remove himself with the situation, which I think from the situation which I think is very mature, and not trying to make IT about the problem. Then the op was called out on IT and doubt. And then the parents didn't even like acknowledge why, or i'm so sorry you feel that way because that's what matters.

And yeah, to be called immature is so unfair. And I hope that the parent, the parent should look look in word and trying to understand why it's like that. It's like oh of their foods like cool but now be conscious that your siblings, that your other children want your attention like um .

we also comments here honestly, you wouldn't be the assets for leaving a family gathering like that good on you for suppressing your emotions. I probably would have gotten a rather heated people shouldn't always expect praise, but you should expect your other kids to get irritated when you only give one of them any praise, not the assets. So I said not the assets they asked you told them you didn't make a scene, you didn't make a fuss. But then now calling you immature for an answer to a question they asked, seems they don't like that you'll have caught on um yeah that does suck because as a parent, if I found out one of my children was like, hey, i'm feeling on logic back oh, shit and like, yeah, like, of course, you know that that probably hurt worse than the initial thing of IT all.

Do they say if that if this is like a common occurrence .

in their life.

or is that like a recent they said, it's like every time the .

family they were Younger said, growing up, that I was all pretty equable that just IT just seems like in the recent years. yeah. So there is another day here.

Info, was this brother always the golden child, or did this start as a campaign to support he's coming out? No, they were prety good about giving us all equal attention and avoids showing favorite tisa. My brother has been after a very long time, and they were supported from the start.

This only started in the last few years after he'd been married for a good while. So this just a recent occurrence. I just think the parents might be a oblivious, but I don't like that they responded that way. Yeah, respond here. Anyway, weird. Yeah.

the way I would have tried if I, if I was in the the kids scene, the ones that weren't feeling, acknowledge, I probably want to make a joke about IT like, make like, well, you know, this is the favor, whatever. But maybe that early would have been helpful either.

I don't know if the parents would catch on.

they just seem oblivious. Do you mind me asking just because you have so many siblings, like with me, my siblings, I obviously there's a large enough age gap to where I never felt like there's ever any competition, but not even competition, but from like we never felt fab favoritism enough the gift to share but with so many people does feel like these teams sometimes oh my gosh.

when there's lots of siblings, IT feels like you're in high school. Your whole life like IT is constant. It's it's like people talk and and break off, and people have fights and stuff. So I can almost feel like click y not always in a bad way, like everyone s got their siblings that they kind like stick with, you know, two peas in ipod.

But yeah, I think this makes me, this makes me think about because whatever I go and visit my dad, they ask you about smash and like they they wanted know about small h and then I and I start getting very self conscious because it's like the only thing that's being talked about, and that's not what all I want to talk about. I work twelve our days. I want to go and talk about hot to talks or something yeah, you know.

i'm a good hot dog.

Calm and and and I do worry because like it's a lot of like I love my dad and I love that he loves watching my content and free might be watching this um but like you know I understand that small shoes like a very specific job like he literally gets to see what I do all the time and he's like a fan of all of you guys and like so um I feel like I my job and is like kinder like this brothers cooking but I don't think I don't know. My siblings have never had like an issue, so I don't know.

My siblings are all pretty much my brothers is luckily and my brother is very, very successful. But I this similar thing, we're like you. I come to visit family and I like mr. Hollywood here and I said, cereal that has been set to my face and I just, I never thought a while, my god. But luckily, both my brothers just do not care like they are both such. They're so comfortable and confident themselves that I was not yeah thing and when we all hang out just the three of us where we don't really talk about work, where is like, yes, whatever just three guide yeah i'm .

glad that I doesn't like the sibling to have any witness between them because it's like I I feel like competition should be thrown out the window sometimes he was like a, you're doing your mister hollywood well, i've seen you shit yourself.

Yes, I don't think .

they will all .

see me dead. Wow, they have, they have. All right, you will see you again. Just you. yes. All right. Sorry, my god.

am I the .

last hole for telling my sister not to eat in her car because IT grows me out? what? All right? This is a fifteen year old girl, a, i'm fifteen, learning how to drive in my r whose one thousand in her car.

My sister, I have very different standards of cleanliness. Her room is always messy. SHE has no problem where reweaving clothes SHE sleeping with her dog, uh, SHE doesn't wash her face and SHE only washed her hair like once or twice a week.

I knew SHE eats in her car because her booster seat thing had sessions seeds in the holes. And I simply see fast food. And I sometimes see fast food rappers in a car, but I can just take off the booster thing and ignore IT.

I got home the other day, and he was eating in her car, and there was food everywhere. IT was disgusting. When SHE came inside, I told her to stop eating in her car, which that grows me out.

SHE said, it's not my cars and not my choice, but I told her I drive IT almost every day. SHE told me SHE has twenty five minutes to eat and get to work after class, and her work is fifteen months s away from her school, so she's going to eat wherever he wants. And if I have a problem with that, I can buy my own car.

I told her I can't work if I can't drive. And he said that's not her problem. SHE hasn't been letting me drive her car because apparently it's disgusting and she's been kind of bitchy to me. So I wanted to know if I was the ashok for telling you're not to eaten in her car that's so that yeah that that story that's real that's really funny you know I see it's on mi the actually got repost on mi the devil, but honestly put on mi di devil has had .

like lower double .

to double that that that is just two teenagers who are related to each other interacting. Sir, that's an episode of welcome in the middle like that, like that. A real I understand .

her being frustrating because he needs to get to work, but it's if it's literally like legally not her .

car like no yeah I but I I and no other circumstances with friends or any other person would you ever say that but I I believe siblings would say you do stop eating in your car. It's gross.

Also, we haven't seen that. Look, my car used to be very, very growth and I accept IT. But even in the days and I was trashed like I can't iggy, she's eating and .

it's a whole 哎呀哎呀， 哎呀哎呀。 In their car， it's probably a nightmare. But like, you want to you? My, yeah no, it's I just don't know why. Like I don't know when I was a teenager, any time I gotten to any car like me and my brothers and my friends, I was a nightmare like power, awful yeah and but you just kind of like, I don't IT wasn't until I was like twenty five that I stepped to do a car of one of my peers. Anyone that where the car didn't smell like mcDonald .

cars just smell like mcDonald's when you dona like conspicious, it's your advertising just getting just get .

up yeah when you're teenager and you get your first car and you even when you're like in college, you have a car like it's going to be missed up .

yeah we mess up also who designed a car would liked up with free slot. You know, don't talk about there's a perfect crack for Price. Why do we need the first lot? You could just connect the peace.

I .

don't.

And you touch IT and still oil.

And how did did any of your siblings teach you how to drive? Or did you teach any? Did you teach any of your siblings how to drive?

No, my dad taught me okay .

in a new new. Yes.

similar though I did drive my brother's car, there's the first car drove IT was a wonderful car, a two thousand and seven bmw three twenty eight boy IT was incredible. Two days I didn't pay a dollar for IT. I gotta drive IT. He put a big sub in the back of IT.

He IT was his baby a sub fer not well.

there might have been one as well. And he was in seattle, a completely different state, enjoying his life. And I took that car, he drove me to school, he drove me to work, and I total IT. I total that car. And that was the worst feeling in my entire life, because you think, god, we were alive and safe.

But.

but did you eat in IT all the time?

Dare you too? I had siblings to shared cars in those first two years of driving, and that's so tough.

That's that's to be hard. I never shared cars in my brother so much than me, so, but I remember my brother's car, this old dasha, and this was forever go. So remember, he had, like the roof cds on the light near the music was like, just in same, like I knew, like I would get in the car.

IT was like that. He was like that. Anyways, we have a comments here.

You're the assets. It's her car. Why can't SHE eaten IT? Because IT grows you out. That's fine. Don't use your car.

Then what about mom? Dad's car? Who is driving with you anyway in illinois, your ninety old sister is not illegal. Instructor, ah, wow, people catch on. Uh, op said, mom and dad don't want me to drive their cars. My sister drives with me um said, you're the asso it's her car and like SHE explained, she's working in school and IT sounds like he has a small .

child SHE probably isn't exaggerations .

oh yeah .

yeah the boost of thing .

uh oh yeah yeah .

ah uh IT sounds like he is a small child SHE probably isn't exaggerating SHE says SHE gets twenty five minutes to eat here something SHE doesn't a kid SHE has a booster seat thing in the front seat because she's like four .

ten got a booter sea in two yellow pages.

This person is just .

living their life like they got their booster seat. They they got their semey ds. And they they just.

I love like, I love the disrespect at this age. I love IT because he's like four ten actually SHE just like he hates her sister in a way that I know is not permanent. And that's like funny to me. Like right now he just really hate did you never have .

a like a sibling phase where like your old disable thought you were just disgusting?

Oh, i'm sure of the time I was the Youngest, but mean, my midday brother there was like a three year pocket where we hated each other. Well, I would. So you know we wouldn't be mean like we never heard each other but you know your brothers so there's things I would say I hate you. I wish you were there like that yeah because you would like, you know bullying me a little and like you push me don't like six and I don't get IT I want to be your friend and knew you call me the b word. I like, why to .

call me the b were bot home yeah oh my d so body. All right. Next story, am I the assets for pulling out of planning my sister's wedding, causing her to lose her venue?

H, no.

嗯， brother, okay. As a wedding planner who has been in the industry for many years now, there's a thirty one year old man. My party amongst close friends and family is being able to guess how long my clients marriages will last with pretty alarming accuracy.

If you ask anyone in the industry, there are specific indicators while working with a couple that allow us to be able to gauge compatibility. I can usually get down to in around a six months window of wind, photos of each other will disappear from socials. This is not me taking joy in the crashing and burning of relationships.

Working in this career field can actually leave you feeling jaded about relationships in general, which is why i'm reluctant to work for friends and family. The specific stress wedding planning puts on some people, couples can bring out the worst in them that you don't see in everyday life. My sister is getting married early next year and practically beg me to plan for her.

Despite my stance on client I know personally, I finally gave in, and we began the process back in march last week, al, we were meeting and finalizing a few things he asked me about the party trick I mentioned, SHE said, since I had had been working with her in her financed for months now, I could give my prediction as to how long they were going to last. I and tried to move on. I thought he was joking, but he continued to press the issue after her continually bother me about this for at least fifteen minutes, and i'm trying to move on.

I do have work outside of my specific appointment with her that I needed to get to. I finally told her I thought they would last forever. SHE claimed he didn't believe me and wanted my real number, so I shrugged, told her the truth.

A year, a year and a half. SHE was livid. I felt incredibly uncomfortable with the whole ordeal as well, with how little SHE respect my boundaries and what is supposed to be a professional setting, and just tried to usher her out of my office.

Instead, SHE began ranting about my own marriage and said, SHE gives us until the end of the year before we break up, and accused me of being a home record. SHE finally left, and I emailed her saying I would no longer be involved in planning. I gave the contact information for all the vendors we were working with but told her the venue would no longer be available as they only book to people they have existing relationships with.

And my involvement was necessary. I have had to break up with clients before, but this felt particular rough. SHE has now told her parents that I am purposefully sabotaging her, her wedding, and that I was unforgivably rude to her when he just asked a play for question. I feel, I feel very silly for letting a person disrespect my boundaries over and over again, something I typically wouldn't tolerate. But now wondering if i'm in the wrong, uh.

oh my god. Uh, yeah.

We need an update in the year and half yeah .

or probably longer because .

I don't know win .

this weet despite they're together for seventy months.

eighteen months. I do look, anytime someone pushes and pushes for information and and you were like, I want the honest answer, give me the honest answer and they give you the honor sensor, you have to just take that.

This, this O, P, avoided this at every measure. Like first was like, I don't know if I can help you with your wedding. It's tough with personal relationships.

Okay, fine. avoiding. Literally, bride was looking for a pocket reason.

The bride is insecure. So kay, i'm going in hot. Okay, okay, i'll pull back a year.

This bride needed to know so bad and wouldn't accept forever. You wanted to be upset. You wanted to be upset. Like if you if this if you're just trust your sister OK.

she's upset because .

I .

think he know exactly .

and then tried .

to make I then here you home .

record .

like what happened? No.

just just tell me for real. Come on, just give IT to me for real. Come on. Honestly.

I just I think maybe your genes, uh, maybe one is tough and extra cut than the other.

What's the first? We were doing the hypothetical about the marriages now, not about my jeans. That's fine.

It's quit anyways. 快点。 Oh, no, I that's insane. Uh, so there's not a verdict that I see here, but someone commented, everyone sucks here.

I think you should stop playing this party trick with anyone. Even if you're accurate, it's not a nice thing to say about people. You could have avoided this whole scene if you never played mental games with people's lives. Now of course, your sister is an aswell for pushing and pushing, but you should never have told the truth.

Um I agree, but also my reaction of that is when you work in any profession, I feel like you probably just get like gated and like i'm sure that like nurses and doctors have dark humor about something like you just in IT all the time, like you just get so used to that world I do but I also I do also agree to A T like, yeah, I mean, IT is disrespectful. IT is a weird thing to be yeah, only I would, only my advice to him would be like, only make those jokes with like other people in your industry are also witnessing the same shit yeah, don't go around. Your sister know about this party train. And now IT is weird that she's getting married .

if he knows your party. I mean, that doesn't sound like op is going on telling people this thing. That sounds like it's just something amongst the planners in the the wedding, in the wedding wedding industry um but like if I were O P, I would have lied but Better like instead of saying a forever I like, oh, it's IT doesn't work with personal relationships because is a different gage .

complete true I would be accurate so bias I know you're partner too well, I know you guys from before we were .

planning this yeah, I IT doesn't work.

I say the vertical actually was not the the verdict, the verdict didn't do anything.

Yeah I don't think they are an assem, but they definitely only did this because I was their sister. Like, obviously, you would never, even if someone knew that you could do, you would never do that to run a client. Like, yeah, and obviously this is me just going for, but you OK you like like which he asked the second type, like.

A P, C. Like, okay, so there's .

ough their relationship.

The sister only had the audacity to, not the audacity, but like the boldness to ask. Like because because they are siblings. And with siblings, it's inevitable that people in within the family have opinions on each other's relationships. Like IT is like we people should still have boundaries but in families like opinions really be flowing I almost you .

know almost have been a Better thing for him to say is be like, well, unbiased and I can't because I don't like your husband yeah I don't like you're franca because that's that. Also, i'm curious what he thinks of her.

Fiona. yeah. Or we are like why? Like .

you're in .

half but exactly. Like, no, you like what is because I am having security or actually I think he's a really great guy. Like what are you seeing? Yeah, you know i'm uncover you're going to plane our wedding you didn't like in the whole time, like there's others security.

All right, next story. Am I the last hole for not wanting to die and cut my hair to keep up with the hateful and spiteful traditions of my older siblings? All right, hello this.

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This is quite the story. I'll start from the beginning. My mother has six kids and bet twenty two, uh, women sah twenty, your guy, lilly, national old girl, melanie, Stephanie, seven year old, uh, girl, twins and me, who's a sixteen year old girl.

Uh, my mother has never been a real parent to us. SHE popped up baby after baby, forcing my older siblings to take care of the next one. People even assumed that annabelle was my mother for a time, because you'd always been been seen grocery shopping, buying our uniforms and bringing this places.

My mother was busy enjoying her life. Our mother has cared about one and only one thing about us, our hair. SHE loves our beautiful blond hair.

Sh'd always step out of grocery money, but always brought us to the hair salons. Every time we d go to any sort of event. Sh'd spent a pretty penny on our hair.

And SHE would take Better care of our hair than our health animal started the tradition when he turned sixteen to spiders. Her mother SHE died. Her, her pink and cut IT all into a short bob.

My mother was absolutely horrified, one after the other. On every six teeth birthday, my siblings died and cut their blown beautiful hair. Despite her mother, i'm the only one left with my long blond hair.

It's done to my legs. And my mother adoors IT SHE always favored my hair the most because I was the lightest blood. And it's just like a doll hair SHE spent how hours brushing IT when I was a little girl.

So I wasn't very surprised when all my siblings came to me a day after my birthday, eager to bring me to a salon and cut all my hair off and diet, I told them I love my long hair and I love the color. They all got mad and told me that I needed to cut in diet, or at the very least, diet. Since my mother loved IT and they wanted to see her cry, SHE always cried when they cut their hair, I told them that I hated mom.

SHE was horrible and toxic, but it's my hair and I love IT. None of them are speaking to me. I understand their hateful nature and why they want me to cut IT. Maybe I just should, but I don't want, I don't know. Read IT M I asso yeah that's my onest y reaction to that is like I like I understand this whole .

situation but i'm on side.

Autonomy is the first of all.

I love the the relationship that the sisters have. It's sad that they want to see their mother cry um but get a way, scare your mom for a day.

See I they want .

and I get her perspective.

I do think IT is and maybe this is the due talking. I do think that you should just join the cover in like I mark yourself with your tribe and let IT be done.

I think this is that my thought though, I get you sixteen. SHE had seventeen old twin sisters. You know, cool.

You can retaliate against your mom by cutting and doing her. The real retaliation is when they're all eighteen and they never talk to their mom again. That's the real thing that's gna happen like, yes, and that's not even something that they have to do wild.

Just what seems like it's onna happen, you know, that's what happens to shady parents. They don't end up having relationships with their kids and one don't like that. That's the in inevitable consequence.

So she's acknowledges, like I hate mom too like i'm not on her side this is just my hair in my body and I just don't want to do that yeah let me live my life will also acknowledged that we all don't like this person, and in two years i'm probably going to move on. Is op the Youngest? yes.

okay. wow. So SHE just turned sixteen. And the tradition is on the sixteen birthday they do this, which I think is like, oh, that's a cool thing that the but I also fully respect her choice yes and for them to beg not talking to her because of you might come .

on ay yeah and like I understand like taking back your hair and taking ownership of your hair after years of like not having control over I love that for those sisters it's the mean spirit ess of like wanting to see the moon cry like I don't understand this mom could have been a horrible person but like I I can't help but see like the kindness in these siblings for one to see .

her cry but I just sounds like this mom really been awful .

in the to them all absolutely but it's like like like at least respect your sister you yes.

my mother .

winning your mom probably bombed every day that all of her daughters are on her american girl doll like I get the .

tradition of like and I respect that of like, hey, our mom SHE doesn't get to be the decider for us. SHE doesn't get have control over us and I respect that aspect of all and like we are taking IT on for ourselves but that to be for your own self and they're kind of they are becoming the mom and the situation of controlling her in the opposite direction.

It's like that's what mom's been doing to her this whole time, is controlling her and making her live a certain way and be a certain way and be neglectful. Now they're doing IT to her. It's like, no, the whole point is that you get to be your own person and and this shady person doesn't to tell you what to do yeah or .

I guess neglectful in this case but .

yeah 没 wanting to be unique。 But like with six siblings, how many colors are there? Okay, pink, purple, blue, orange, Green. What's next? Yellow.

blond. Get a little rent. yeah.

But literally like, no, cool.

I think, I think pink, i'm not sure.

Different colors.

all pink, but they all chap their hair off and died pink. I was .

like that the this tradition because who what family if I saw the girls .

walking on the street, I would simply cross .

the yeah like I think .

good yeah .

I am interrupting.

they're existing yeah they get .

up the car that you don't know how many .

there are if a car pulled up on the side, rock, maxi and five pink care bobs came out and I would run, okay.

there's some comments, not the assessments. Your hair and you like IT, if they want to do that hair, fine, they can do that. What they can do is tell you what to do with your hair yeah so when I said not the assets they're doing the same thing to you as your mom is determining your value in position in the family by your hair superficial and ridiculous? Someone else said not the assets, but your siblings are lock your door at night when you sleep now okay oh my god.

But I now I have noticed a trend, I think in life and stuff um and I noticed that sometimes yeah it's just something I noticed that people who hate their parents and just in general something the trades that we don't like about our parents, we end up repeating but we repeated in a different way and almost like trying to resist that like and it's like, yeah like that's why you got to do that work because. All these siblings, they think like we're never going to end up like our mom. We're not going to be like her and they're doing the exact same thing, but just in a different way.

So a different shade of the same behavior. All right. Okay, so this comes from a super that called siblings from hell. Oh, good. This a new one.

good. I don't think .

we got this one before. All right? My brother is a masjid ist and its infuriating.

Oh no.

Well, let's given. Let's let's hear out. Oh, so OK. But what the guys, okay, let let that brother from before cook.

Nobody said let him know.

We never said let him cook. okay? My mom was raised by A A ogonis tic grandfather, so he has always tried to hammer those same beliefs into her kids.

My sister and I think it's dumb and unfair, but my brother doesn't. Since he's the only boy, he gets everything easy. He doesn't cook, he refuses to cook.

He often walks up to me and my sister and access when we're going to cook because he's hungry. Then he gets angry when I get confused because I wasn't hungry and wasn't on planning on cooking anything. Then he throws a fit like a toddle and barrages you for our stupid you are for not cooking.

He has never washed dishes in his entire life. He didn't start washing his own laundry until he started college. And even then, when he's home, he refuses to wash them.

He's over for for summer vacation right now. And he did not wash his laundry for over a month. He started wearing other people's close because he has nothing to wear.

My mom eventually wash them for him. He gets on to me for being such a woman. The day before yesterday, my sister was being frustrating and created a huge mess in the kitchen.

I was complaining about IT, mainly mumbling to myself while I was cleaning IT. Then my brother told me that I needed to stop being such a woman. When I asked him what that meant, he pointed out that I was complaining about someone who wasn't in the room while I was cleaning.

He said I needed to take the two els because I was being stereotypical. He does this all the time, like if I wear a dress ever, even a casual sund dress, he'll get on to me for being too much like a woman. Bro, I amma woman, literally born female.

Why is that a bad thing when I act like a woman? What's the problem? I don't get IT. He also makes a lot of jokes about women. He had been watched the one nine hundred and ninety seven braza anima.

And I said, I didn't like the only girl main character coscia, because I felt like the author had never interacted with a woman before that's the character got yeah ah the character seems to have extreme mood swings. In one scene, he was telling a character about how much he hated him and tried to fight him. Then the next minute, SHE burst into tears, said he was jealous of the man.

And then SHE and the guy had sex plus casca. I love this. We're reading about bark right now. I was not actually this.

Plus coscia ended up fainting and having a fever because he was on her period, even though that is definitely not how that works. Anyway, I was like talk about mix signals. What just happened.

My mother just went off like, yeah like all women and insisted that all women are crazy with arranging bipolar disorder and no sense of control over their emotions. And with the period thing all he said had to say was so like he just brushed IT off because he couldn't have cared less, which I guess is fair. He refused to cook, refused to clean even his own messes.

Doesn't like IT. If I act girly and constantly makes jokes about women being too emotional, it's annoying. Wow, wow. Pressure catching strays in this one.

Yeah, yeah. That's morning.

Oh my g oh, oh my god.

It's hard to start talking about this one because we all are just so deep in this muck of like.

看 my take on this is like this is a also a weird type of massage in at times when she's like wearing addresses .

like you're being such a woman。 It's not just like because he's again, I don't know this person but to me that reads in Sally because he's not even like a confident, outgoing, like overly much. He he's actually like hiding in the shadows.

Yes, he's prick and he's reading more creature. Yes, it's a very but i'm very various for him. I think .

because my view on massage eny most of the time would be a guibourg set that a woman's not wearing address if it's like it's like a woman need to word dress yeah that's the type of the type of mind and then upset that she's doing things that austerity typical woman would do what you're writes that .

is like it's the same. He wants to control, you know, he wants these .

things yeah and well, I mean, I know it's like sometimes the men are uncomfortable around a woman because they are looking feminine and beautiful like they say weird shit like that yeah like, um this is really an unfortunate story my boob slagged closer to the ground .

hearing this story yeah, what .

deflated .

removed .

you .

from your lash file?

My nails are so short I losing everything .

is ah yeah so they don't give their ages in this but using some clues here, i'm assuming he's like teenager may be early .

yeah he went to call his in .

college OK okay yeah .

I will say like it's it's sad that is the mother that wasn't stealing this type of stuff because it's like I it's just so wild that this still happens but IT so does everywhere um but like he's going to he's going to have a really lonely life. He's going to have .

a really unfortunate but the people that this person abuses, the most of the people who love them the most. So it's it's obviously is am sure I I don't know the most abusive relationships sorry, like it's just so sad for the victim here because the victim loves their brother obviously because they still interact with even though there are a horrible person, they still spend time with them like they still like they matter to them in this person is is just a .

SHE might feel like he does not much of a choice though still like I mean, I do think that sounds like inevitably if he keeps this up, he like like other city fAiling members will end up alone. Yes, like he's going to end up people like this end up alone eventually because things you saying are so absurd. He is definitely online communities where they all just bounce off each other and say this shit because, you know, this stuff is crazy like these these are crazy sentences that he he's saying just so sexy is no respect for his siblings yeah, you know.

you made me think about just about the idea that is asking these people attempting to force them to like and clean on all these basic things that are like taking care of yourself, like he's attempting to force out of intimidation and abuse someone to take care of him like that. Such a weird behavior in order to get any level of love or attention like your steps to IT is like abuse like .

that just so dd, i've never even been, quite Frankly, he sounds like kind of noxious pig. But karma is a bitch. And if he keeps his behavior up, no woman with an ounce of self respect will give him a moment over time.

I would sincerely be shocked if any woman ever gives them a moment. right? Next story, am I the s all for feeling hatred towards my siblings? For using body soap, prentis is liquid to bathe. Wow, wow.

What a problem to have.

what? Um, okay. Uh, so, so really quick. We reformat out of this any time you hear the term liquid soap in the story that isn't edit from us to make IT easier to read.

Op, actually phrase that body sop prentis is liquid every single time. That's so that such a crazy detail. But all right, long story short, I, A twenty year old woman, am not on speaking terms with both.

My brother was twenty three and my sister thirty eight, due to a major conflict that occurred a month prior. We all live together in our parents house, and I am still the only student in the house, which means they are all working adults. We always use liquid body soap, but lately IT has finished and our mom is yet to buy one from the mall.

However, due to work, SHE couldn't immediately get one. Instead, SHE told us to use bar sop temporarily. That is, in storage, we do not like to use the bar soap as IT is not as good as the liquid body soup for bathing.

Recently, I noticed the smell that comes after my brother and sister take. Baas is very similar to the liquid body soap that we usually use yet. There isn't any kind of liquid bath sop in the bathroom.

I can tell this for sure, as I have a very strong sense of smell, so I am not a pervert, and I can certainly tell for sure that they have been secretly keeping a liquid bath soup and using IT for themselves. Selfishly, this is because my bro used to go crazy whenever the liquid body soap finishes, finishes and would lash out at us all. But recently he'd been very quiet and ratified.

I have texted my mom about this as he was busy with work, and I have asked her verbally when he would buy a liquid bath sop for the household. And I noticed the remorse when he told me that he had no time to buy IT, but SHE buy IT when he goes shopping. I am fine with that.

My problem is with my siblings for using a separate soap. Selfishly, I also have another brother who's twenty four, who also used the bar soap and doesn't know about them, are using a separate liquid soap. So I find their actions to be selfish and petty. They also talked to the others like my brother and mom except me friendly. So I I find this behavior as not only being selfish, but also a betrays towards other family members.

What up so I am harbor, so I am harboring more hatred towards them and they're carefree attitude they could have uh also gone to buy the soap from the mall as they are already earning money or even could have asked my mom for money if they needed IT. But no, they decided to buy and keep IT for themselves to use selfishly am I the as well for over thinking this? I feel that is so unfair yet I also feel that I am making a small thing, big, aka gas, lighting myself into thinking it's not a big thing. I need answers. Oh, oh.

good thing is I counted the maconi in your bow when we made macand cheese. And you get seven hundred and twenty four. I lay of six hundred and ninety eight. And I just think that's super here. I ever trained the whole of .

trail at a certain point. I in my head, I was reading this. The voice in my head was right. Yes, yes, this is a betrayal.

This is so real though, like, okay, so, it's very interesting this this soap culture that this family has developed。

Yeah.

generational soap and bathing culture. They bay, they only bey, and they use soap, common liquid.

they all share the same.

So but it's so real like when it's a big family in a house and there's a supply shortage. You harbor your own supply and you hide IT. And there are .

alliances formed.

Yes.

you do have. Yeah, I got some in the secret cabinet. You can use IT like that is for sure real.

And it's so funny. Like family culture for this stuff, work like this is an entire society with under one roof. And war is happening over soup, become a liquid.

So your suggestion is that in order to fight against the cabal of the liquid, so they need to form like like a hostess, sweet nation, and trade like snacks from the .

pantry .

for the d he is, talk to her twenty four old brother and he needs, like, look, check out I got the trunk of the car opens up just one bottle of hedden shoulders. Don't tell anyone about this. Use this one for your shoulder. So this is for your head and your shoulders.

This is just really what I would do is I would then go and I take all the toilet paper in the house, you know, if you actually want to play games, instead of just sitting down and being like, I am betrayed because you're clean and you smell like .

you like a see the game yes yes.

I also like I don't think bar soup is like worse than liquid.

So it's pretty convenient .

that feel different if you feel like a weird thing is after. But there's other really good this .

would be a revelation to her though. So I don't think he knows that he is. I don't know if he knows what it's does. I think someone was like you like SHE would be like way, way, way you get the .

bar wet first. I thought .

I don't undertake never understood. I only know how to use liquid.

She's a anty baath of no water.

And like i'm really.

This this is the beginning of a society like a lot of the flies to you.

I almost wonder if this one's fake, but because this ones in the same okay. So there's some comments. Uh, you're the assets.

Why is a group of grown adults waiting for their mother to buy soap for them rather than wine about your siblings? Maybe have some secret sop stash. Go buy soap.

Yes, someone else said a major conflict. Good freaking grief. Tell me you've had a sheltered life.

Without telling me you've had a sheltered life, i'm not going to say much you because i'm sure this board is going to eviscerate you but yeah you're the azel um yes so I this is a straighten this way I think it's fake or there's like a lot more to the story. She's twenty, her brothers twenty three and her sister's thirty eight. This is like a very interesting story.

Yeah, I will say that is a lot more common for people in the thirties to be living at home.

Yeah, I mean, a lot of cultures. And I also just think it's common today like a lot of people live with their parents and live in their parents house till in their thirties and even four years. And of that that is I don't question that for a second. I might just be in for my life in who I am. I might be a oblivious to just a lot of things here, like maybe people in the comments but like actually what's probably going on here is like .

what I see is definitely like interesting mom ferry energy works like expected that mom has to get the soap like that kind of makes me laugh as it's like, yeah, they are all adults like regardless of where they're living.

they can be. But that is possible.

like with the whole more thing and stop at something that could be very small town where like shopping centres aren't close by, gas stations might not have like an endless supply of convenience items. So the mall is where all these people who live in this town, how we have to go for their unnecessary possible. But yeah, that is very strange at this two year old, though, the only percent in school. So maybe they don't have a job and can't buy soap, but you could form alliance.

Yeah yeah. There needs to be alliance yeah. And also you're siblings like I get IT like, you know, my and I never fought much, but like you could physically a solter siblings and. So I just saying.

like guys, I was not out of the ordinary for siblings.

I get some doctors, just go in the room, dig around, find the yeah one of books and threatened, yeah I come on. We all know how to let get something out of someone when if you sibling, like my siblings.

could have easily got into my room under my bed and found my seeker pringle staff, yeah, but I would have ruined their lives in time.

Anyways, move on. Maybe we're get enough that on that one. More clearly, more clarity from the comments because I I am confused by that.

I everyone going to find this post.

say, please, we need enough. They are you okay? yeah. Where's the update on the comment?

I want the comments to give me clearly on what they think the situation is because I I am admitting I i'm confused by that .

they made me want this brand of soap like this must be the best soap in the world.

The here's our last one. This comes from our relationships I was proposed on, am I the devil? So, uh, twenty nine year old man, my brother, whose thirty one is marrying my high school sweet heart, whose a twenty year old woman and I refuse to attend the wedding, I I am excited.

I twenty nine .

year old man dated this girl vel, who twenty eight is a fake name when I was seventeen and he was sixteen, we were close. We swapped virginity, but I found we were incompatible. Around the time I turned eighteen, vel was understandably upset.

I told her he needed to let go, and I took her a year to move on. As time went on, I regretted breaking up with vw, but he was in a committed relationship with someone else by the time I realized I wanted her. About five years after breaking up with val, I found out he had unknowingly moved three blocks away from my house.

We hung g out a few times, and I walked her home from work. Since we also unknowingly work right across the street from each other, I took this as a sign that we were going to get back together. But val unfortunately told me that he no longer has the feelings that SHE did when we were in high school and that it's best to stay friends as we were.

I was sad, but I respected her decision. I ended up moving to a different stage shortly after that, a year later, my brother nick, thirty one, had asked me about my history with val. I was confused on how he would know her because they never met.

And nick was already out of high school. When valid, I met I sugar coated IT and said he was just a high school flying. Nick asked if he would bother me if he started to hang out with her, because at the time his best friend was just murdered and her long term relationship had just ended and they both wanted someone to fuck their feelings out with. I said I didn't care given .

the cirl chances.

Sorry, sorry. Yeah so many if was a lot of I .

said I didn't .

care given the circumstances and IT probably wouldn't last because they didn't have genuine feelings for each other. This was in twenty, twenty, and now in twenty twenty three, nick n. Valour planning their wedding.

Nick asked me to be his best man and I said no. He was confused. I told him he's marrying my high school sweet heart and there's no way I can stand at the alter and watch him marry her.

He threw in the fact that he asked me if he could date her before even doing anything. And I said I didn't care. And now all the sudden I do.

I told him I always cared. I just didn't think IT would last because he's such a dick. E, and she's the sweetest person you would ever meet.

IT was sucky situation, and they even started hooking up in the first place. And IT doesn't make sense that SHE shows him over me. He said that maybe I should have realized, ed, what I had before calling IT quits with vow.

I guess he told vw what I said because he later message me saying that we were little kids when we dated and I needed to let you go. And it's weird that now i'm suddenly not okay with them together when it's been years since when I first started, I didn't argue with her. I just informed my family that I wouldn't be attending the wedding.

My mom stepped out. Almost my family are taking nick side, saying it's been well over ten years and I had the chance to speak up. All my Youngest twin siblings are on my side saying nick should respect browde i'm at a loss right now.

Am I being unreasonable, refusing to be apart, let alone attend the wedding? Should I just keep sound, let that happen? Um this.

He is a whole asshole.

He's an entire bottle. Some people really tell on themselves which just the way they are right the hoping out you know like.

yeah um i'm sorry, you're just not as cool as you thought. And come the rockstar and you weren't also on the packet ers。 Like what did you think your life was like? He just sounds like he's so upset that he was like, i'm doing great in life and i'm going to live and you know, we're not compatible anymore.

And then he left, and then he realized that what he thought was going to have was gona happen. He's like, the only time I was happy was when I was with, well, because he seemed to care about me even though I was an ash. Let's see what she's doing. Oh, she's with my brother.

You know, really quickly, something I wanted. Like the first indication that I didn't like this guy, we hung out a few times, and I walked her home from work. Since we also unknowingly worked right across the street from each other, I took this as a sign that we were going to get back together. And i'm like, what what then? Like you, just immediately you is a side.

What was the year gap from their dating to her moving nearby?

Uh, about five years after breaking up with, I found out shit on knowing they moved three blocks away .

from my house and then five more years 点 okay， i've just okay. I here's my main thing with this guy. I I feel he actually he doesn't .

have a phone like you.

Two instances to communicate with his brother, one, when he, when his brother first started dating her, and then two, when he's marrying her, there was like billions of hours and moments in time, or he could have texted rather be like, actually, yeah, this is how I feel yeah.

even in the two times he didn't actually say how he felt her. What the truth was, yeah.

also when he started regretting going away from her, he could have reached out at any point.

told her how he felt before he was ever involved.

Well, he did. He did. And he said he did he .

and then he accepted IT. So that should have been worth that. And yeah, he's only views her as an opportunity for him. He doesn't view her as a person and a friend.

And it's a trend that I noticed sometimes in these stories. And just the thing that happens in life when someone's dating someone IT whoever break IT was whatever but if if five years past that's a different person yeah that you don't get to just be like oh yes, we can pick up where we left off five years ago. It's like you're still seventeen in your .

mind right yeah because like we are different people when in in the team, especially late teens, you're potentially a completely different person in one year from the previous, the law has changed and SHE the the now Fiona is definitely right to be like we were kids. It's weird that you're fixated on this very juvenile of time in our lives like and you haven't moved on. Like you can't even you can't even go to to the wedding like if I if you were hurting and that hard broken, you had thousands of days where you could have said something yeah also i'm going .

to be honest like I just say IT is much harder for them then IT is for you just going to throw that out there. It's much harder for your brother and his wife to be like, yeah, that occurred but like we love each other and like it's not going to get in the way but like, that's gonna awkward. That is going to be there, but you would be, it's much weirder for them that IT is for you.

Like, you can just be happy in the moment. Like, he had to like, be like, oh yeah. Like, now I remember that you were like with my brother, but I was a long time. I like any level of weirdness is like like it's already gotten like they've communicated through IT like you you don't have to do anything.

You're shopping at the free food. He admitted that he was like, I sugar coated our relationship and just well, but I didn't think like.

and they didn't date for more than a year because they do seventeen. But when he turned out around the time turned out they broke up.

I know people like this where they just like really hanging onto things that are so light years away from who anybody is. Now, yeah, and it's like, you ve gotta move on.

I can understand the uncomfortable about of.

like a sibling. Has he not dated .

anybody else so that I don't know IT, I don't know.

It's been a long .

time I really sounds like this is just Peter jealous y like yes, it's probably is update. It's upsetting for him and and I get this of this was a person that at least his past couple years he's been like all man I really wished I was with this person. And now he has to see her happy in another ship. And he.

to the of his brother having, he was, yeah.

and so I get to that tough but got you ve gotta recognize that it's like, that is hard. That's a tough feeling. And I have no choice but to accept that and no voltmeter and be happy .

for my brother and happy yeah I just that feels like you're not treating this girl as a person because she's involved .

in this two .

SHE has say she's a trophy to him. He's the center of their story like he obviously .

is very selfish person.

There's a comment here you literally dump ed her and told him I was OK to go out with her and then someone else said, yeah, that was like eleven years ago man, it's still fresh and then someone said, you're telling me there's a chance someone i'll said, this is someone you dated for what a year over a decade ago do come on. L, well, I I agree, I can't relate to this story. Uh, I also don't have like that. My brother's are not in similar age where that was ever a thing like, but concern. So yeah.

but like when IT comes to, because I i've had instances where my sister OK do you know this guy that i'm potentially going to go on a date with. You gotto tell them everything you ve got to tell them, even if I didn't date the person's like, oh, here's what I know about him. This because it's like they're about a potential entire relationship.

You've tt a spill the tea. This is your family like you should anything. It's great when siblings can have that closest and be just .

super honest about IT like yeah um another thing in here there is no official broke de that everybody's broke de is so it's so weird .

like broke de you can't marry the love of your life.

Broke man, broke you. Happy, happy? yes. yeah.

So so favorite .

on this .

show I love when you're on.

This is also the only time ever heard procope used as like, no, that brothers broker was ever intended for siblings like the road code was like, but also, broker doesn't exist.

Yeah, I just think.

like you should open up.

You get love to come on.

come. He should take his brothers, your book open IT up, see who wrote hagg, call that number and get marry real quick. Get a baby before the other one.

A man will think you guys to be in here. This has been fun. Yeah.

this has been crazy. I love hearing a different families like sibling culture. It's because it's so different in every houses, but it's also very much the same. And it's just like homes and families are like this own bubble of like they have their own plan of reality ah and yeah I don't I feel seen IT.

Is that so true? The like plane of reality because some of these stories I like can get my head around them but i'm like, yeah but for them that's the that's their world they live in and that, no, it's so true. Only among siblings and family kind of pop knife exist, works like that.

fully Normal man. There is an entire inner, familiar and familiar economy, I can speak. There is an tire economy based on soap.

That's all I want to. That's so society, and really that's very real. Every single one of these families lives in a society. H.

E, all right. Um well.

think you guys, you're being here. yeah. Let us know what themes and subs we should cover in the comments below. Next saturday, AManda and Angela are going to be here. And it's, it's, it's all about cheating.

And I directed IT.

and corning directed IT, and kimi directed this one. And kimi directed this one.

And kim.

you directed. Next week, I directed .

the future and I am a hologram.

and you can marry, love your life.

All right, see you later by.