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E943 Ask Nick - My Baby Daddy Tried To Hook Up With My Sister

2025/6/2
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Josephine: 我在新关系中感到幸福,但总是忍不住将它与过去的有毒关系进行比较,这让我感到困扰。我对现在的伴侣很好,但我会因为他小酌而感到不安,因为我的前任有酗酒问题。除了饮酒问题,我还会因为一些小事而陷入比较的漩涡,比如他是否善于表达情感。理智的时候我知道这些比较对他不公平,但我总是害怕事情会变糟,所以总是处于保护模式。我不想总是那么不耐烦,因为我通常是一个很友善的人,但我男朋友知道我爱他,但我有时会不耐烦,这让他难过。我需要如何平衡谈论未来和避免给关系带来压力? Nick Viall: 你不是在怀念前男友,而是在担心现在的完美关系会变成糟糕的过去。过去的经历能让你成长,你要看到你现在的男友和你前男友的区别,他能意识到朋友的问题,而且不会受他们影响。你担心的是一个担心朋友的男人,而不是他会被朋友带坏。你永远无法阻止或保证心碎,年轻时我们认为心碎是成长的一部分,但年纪大了就不这么想了。控制你能控制的,不要试图过度控制你不能控制的。每天都选择和这个人在一起,并为这段关系尽最大努力。在30多岁的时候,对关系有明确的意图是可以的,但不要过度push时间线。你要接受他还有很多生活要经历,你要允许你的伴侣帮助你,推动你。你的恐惧可能来自于你认为你比他更了解情况。你需要感激你所拥有的,你要学会适应和恢复。

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Our first caller wants to know how she can stop  comparing her great current relationship to a toxic old one? Our second caller’s boyfriend thinks women's suffrage was a mistake. And, our third caller is wondering if it’s time to cut her deadbeat baby daddy out of her life for good? “The reality that you're gonna have to face is that you will never be able to prevent or guarantee heartbreak." Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff every Monday starting October 21st! Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpodhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896) https://open.spotify.com/show/4NWA8LBk15l2u5tNQqDcOO?si=c03a23d537f94735)

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  Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (00:13) - Caller One (50:40) - Caller Two (01:25:16) - Caller Three Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @justinkaphillips @dereklanerussell