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Bethenny Frankel 认为在真人秀节目中公开分享私人短信是一种严重的隐私侵犯,是不道德的,甚至应该是非法的。她认为这超出了节目的范围,是对个人情感的严重侵犯,并且与在节目重聚时使用短信作为证据来澄清事实是完全不同的情况。她强调,在对方情绪脆弱时公开其私人短信是不可接受的,并且她本人从未在节目中公开过他人的完整短信。她还指出,公开分享私人短信是不公平的,如同在比赛结束后攻击对方。她认为,Kyle 的短信内容与节目无关,公开分享是错误的。她并不责怪 Dorit 公开短信,因为这是真人秀节目的性质使然,但她强调了真人秀节目环境的压力以及这种压力对参与者心理健康的影响。她认为,不能责怪在压力下做出行为的人。

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Bethenny discusses the ethical implications of airing personal texts on reality TV, particularly focusing on a text from Kyle to Dorit that was shared on RHOBH.

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Answer your listener questions and more. The more is punch each other. Listen to the Amber and Lacey, Lacey and Amber show on Will Ferrell's Big Money Players Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Just listen, okay? Or Lacey gets it. Do it. Oh my God. I didn't have the full understanding because I hadn't seen the episode and I've only seen what is on social media about Kyle's text to Dorit.

But Kyle sent a long, heartfelt, emotional, guttural text to Dorit, and Dorit chose to air it on the show. And the production company and the network allowed that. Like, what a personal violation. Like, that is not something I have to ask anybody if it's okay. It's crazy. There's just, I can't imagine a universe where you would feel like

Is this Big Brother? Like, this is The Handmaid's Tale. I mean, what else could it possibly be? You're on a show and you're working on the show. Then you're off the show and you're texting. Like, does everybody have to hand over all of their personal thoughts too? It's your actions and it's the things you say when you're on camera. But it's the things you say when you're off camera too. That's insanity. Like, that is such a violation of

And anyone who doesn't understand that is wrong. And I never say that. If you don't understand that that's a crazy violation and should be illegal, that is wrong. Wow. Imagine like watching television and being like, oh my God. Because you're like, what else have I texted Doreen in the years that we've known each other? I mean, good God.

I could tell you this with great certainty. Luann, Ramona, Jill, Alex, Kelly, like, I don't know if I've ever texted Kelly Bentimone, but like to share a personal text. I mean, I have texts with Andy Cohen for years. I would never share them. Text with Kelly Ripa. I have texts with people that I've worked with that I can't stand in the past. I would never air a personal text.

Like, or an instant, you know, an Instagram message. Like, that's where the line is. You know, you do everything above board. Like, we're in the ring and whatever happens in there is you're in the ring. But like, you don't like smack someone in the back of the head as you're walking out. Like, it's not fair fighting. What the fuck? And Kyle's not going to air Dorit's messages because that's two wrongs make a right. And that's not going to make her feel any better. It's just so unethical from every single person. And

Does anyone not understand that like this is insane? I mean, it's crazy. That's I don't know why that hit like on the back of the head. Like, are you fucking kidding me? That's crazy. If I thought my personal texts. Oh, my God. That is horrendous. And Kyle is a favorite there. And that's how they treat their favorite children. That's what happens to the favorite child in the family.

Imagine what happens to the least favorite children in the family. So I need to make the distinction between them on reunions airing a text that someone shows when there's a discrepancy. So I'm like, you called me a whore. No, I didn't. Yes, I did. Here's the text. You called me a whore. That is very different than just whoring.

unilaterally deciding to air a text when someone is so emotionally vulnerable and just saying that they're at their lowest point. Like that could send someone over the edge emotionally. That's very different. And maybe, listen, I came up at the time when there were no texts, there were no receipts. That started later. And I believe I called Dennis on camera to prove a point.

And I believe that Carol and I were having a dispute and we showed Andy texts, but I don't

believe we read entire texts ever. I've never read an entire text of someone else's. I feel like that's private or an Instagram message. So that is very different. You can't say, Kyle texting someone heartfelt that doesn't incriminate anyone, that doesn't settle any argument, that has nothing to do with anything else really that's necessary or relevant. It wasn't like someone else said that

Kyle killed somebody and then Dorit was like, here's the evidence. She killed somebody or she didn't. Like it was literally, hi, we're friends. I'm sorry. I'm vulnerable. I'm at a low point. And that was aired. So if you don't see that that's different, then you're just clueless.

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I don't think he knew how big it would be, how big the life I was given and live is.

I think he was like, oh, yeah, things come and go. But with me, it never came and went. Is she Donna Martin or a down-and-out divorcee? Is she living in Beverly Hills or a trailer park? In a town where the lines are blurred, Tori is finally going to clear the air in the podcast Misspelling. When a woman has nothing to lose, she has everything to gain. I just filed for divorce. Whoa, I said the words. Yeah.

That I've said like in my head for like 16 years. Wild. Listen to Miss Spelling on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Cheaters and Backstabbers. I'm Shadi Diaz. And I'm Kate Robards. And we are New York City stand-up comedians and best friends. And we love a good cheating and backstabbing story.

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Let's talk about the text that Dorit shared on the housewives. The press is saying that I'm blaming Dorit. I'm actually not blaming Dorit at all. Dorit is not at fault. Dorit is a housewife doing a housewife's job. Dorit is a soldier and she's a good housewife and she needs the job. She wants the job. She's good at the job. She's doing her job. There are no real deep

personal relationships possible on the housewives. It's affected siblings. It's affected sister-in-laws. It's affected cousins. It's affected friendships. We've seen best friends crumble. We've seen sisters go to war. That's a fact.

So Dorit is just doing her job. You cannot get mad at Dorit because you cannot get mad at anyone for what they're doing under duress. And that's why so many housewives have admittedly said that they take anti-anxiety medication, anti-depression medication, because the housewives is an alternate universe where people

It's heightened drinking, heightened stress, heightened nervous system, activation, traveling and not getting enough sleep, alcohol being everywhere, alcohol seeming like a good idea, drugs seeming like a good idea, falling off the wagon. All of these things are true. So Dorit is in a situation where she wants to get ratings. She's a housewife and she also has producers in her ear telling her it's a good idea. That happens all the time. I do not blame Dorit.

Also, we're dealing with a situation where this is a person sending a text who's under mental and emotional duress. She says it in the text. She says she's at an emotional low. So now she's at a vulnerable point. She's going through a bad divorce. It's affecting her emotional and mental well-being. And she's...

She's communicating that. That's different than a receipt at a reunion when someone says, you didn't say that. Someone says, I did say that. And then they provide a receipt. That's a very different circumstance. So don't get it twisted. I'm not blaming Dorit. Don't hate the player. Hate the game. So there are rumors that Watch What Happens Live and or Andy Cohen's tenure on that show will end soon because of this.

failed ratings. And that show has never really rated that high, but it's a flagship store to promote the Bravo product. So it's a great place to have a conversation about different Bravo shows that will definitely and always does result in pickup, which ends up promoting those shows. It's

Everyone can decide over 10 years later to criticize Andy because of that. And certainly he and I are not thick as thieves at the moment. But I will say that he's done a great job. Like, he really has had an incredible run from a show that in the very beginning was

Kathy Griffin didn't want to do because she was like, I've done The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson. I'm not doing Watch What Happens Live. And the show started with Danielle as its first guest. I used to be on in the beginning. And Oprah's been on, Cher's been on, Madonna's been on.

Pretty crazy guests on that show, but not just the guests. He's been charismatic, entertaining. He makes it look easy, and it's not easy. And just the grind of going in every single night and it being live and getting killed and criticized for different things. And it's been incredibly lucrative for him. And it's been a great, as I said, promotional tool and vehicle. But he's done great and had a good run. So it's never been a ratings darling, but that, you know,

Ratings are amazing and advertisers are all about the ratings, but that show has had a double and triple dip in that it's been a great promotional vehicle and it's been a coveted seat for women to come on and hawk their wares and promote the show. And it's been like a rite of passage. So many people have passed through there. So it's definitely been an iconic touchstone in entertainment for years.

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Meet the real woman behind the tabloid headlines in a personal podcast that delves into the life of the notorious Tori Spelling as she takes us through the ups and downs of her sometimes glamorous, sometimes chaotic life in marriage. I just filed for divorce. Whoa. I said the words that I've said like in my head for like 16 years.

Listen to Miss Spelling on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Cheaters and Backstabbers. I'm Shadi Diaz. And I'm Kate Robards. And we are New York City stand-up comedians and best friends. And we love a good cheating and backstabbing story.

So this is a series where our guests reveal their most shocking cheating stories. Join us as we learn how to avoid getting our hearts broken or our backs slashed. Listen to Cheaters and Backstabbers on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Curious about queer sexuality, cruising, and expanding your horizons? Hit play on the sex-positive and deeply entertaining podcast Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. Join hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson Rosso as they explore queer sex, cruising, relationships, and culture in the new iHeart podcast, Sniffy's Cruising Confessions.

Sniffy's Cruising Confessions will broaden minds and help you pursue your true goals. You can listen to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions, sponsored by Gilead, now on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes every Thursday.