Tobi initially felt a sense of safety and security, but he quickly faced an identity crisis as he no longer had a defined role or purpose after stepping away from the company he built.
Tobi started with multiple jobs making $30,000 to $40,000 a year after high school, then grew his income to $150,000 in his first year as a personal trainer, and eventually reached $10 million in revenue within three years.
Tobi's identity was deeply tied to his role as the founder and CEO of Sweat. When the company was sold and he stepped away, he no longer had a clear sense of self, leading to a significant identity crisis.
After selling Sweat, Tobi woke up on an inflatable mattress, went to his favorite cafe for breakfast, and felt lonely and uncertain about his next steps. This period was challenging and lasted for about three to six months.
Tobi spent months meditating, journaling, and reflecting on what mattered to him. He also began consulting and advising other founders, which he found fulfilling and helped him redefine his purpose.
Tobi suggests that founders should understand that their business will survive even if they're not constantly micromanaging it. He compares it to parenting, where the first child is treated with extreme care, but subsequent children are handled more casually.
Tobi realized that having more money didn't necessarily lead to greater happiness. He found that his level of normalcy just adjusted, and the importance of happiness didn't come from material possessions but from personal fulfillment.
Tobi doesn't place much value on material possessions. He bought a new house but didn't spend any of the deal money on extravagant items. He still uses practical items like a $300 Samsonite suitcase over more expensive alternatives.
In this POWerful Moment from Episode #42), Tobi shares the ups and downs of his journey from building a successful business to navigating life after a massive exit. He talks about the unexpected challenges that came with financial success and how it reshaped his perspective on work and life. Tune in for an honest conversation about growth, purpose, and the lessons that come with finding balance after big wins.
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