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Jordyn: 本期节目讨论了一夜情、盒子理论以及如何利用Instagram寻找约会对象。她分享了自己对一夜情的看法，以及她如何看待人们对她在TikTok上发布内容的误解。她还解释了Tinks的盒子理论，并表达了她对该理论的看法。她认为，人们对关系的期待会影响他们对约会对象的看法，而不仅仅是发生关系的时间。她还分享了自己在约会中的一些经验，以及她对追求的看法。她认为，追求应该双方共同努力，而不是单方面付出。
Alana: Alana在节目中与Jordyn和Rudy一起讨论了约会相关的话题，包括一夜情、盒子理论以及如何利用Instagram寻找约会对象。她分享了自己对这些话题的看法，并与其他两位嘉宾进行了深入的探讨。她还分享了自己在约会中的一些经验，以及她对追求的看法。
Rudy: Rudy在节目中分享了他对约会和关系的看法。他不同意盒子理论，认为人们对关系有不同的期待，这会影响他们对约会对象的看法。他认为，一夜情不会影响他是否愿意与对方再次约会。他采取随遇而安的态度，没有太多期望或规则。他认为，追求应该双方共同努力，而不是单方面付出。他还分享了自己在约会中的一些经验，以及他对Instagram作为约会工具的看法。
Jordyn: I don't like them, but everyone on TikTok was getting the notion that I do like them. And that's why I don't get any guys because I give it up too easy. So the comments were horrible. They were like, Jesus, they were slut shaming like crazy. So I then went out there to say, it doesn't matter when you give it up because of the box theory. So pretty much, I'm just trying to figure out... So I have a theory. Men are trash. The end. Okay, so pretty much what Tinks is saying is that when a guy first meets a girl, he puts you in a box. That box can be like one night stand, girlfriend box, whatever. I am not looking for a committed relationship, so I'm putting myself into a box of not wanting that. And I don't think any guy I would meet would change that right now for me. You know what I mean? So a lot of the times maybe there's like girls out there that I've I've been involved with that are like, why is it like, why is the need text me? But I'm I'm of the belief that if you want to talk to me, like I'm kind of like a female in that way, traditionally, where it's like I feel like I need to be pursued equally. The pursuit, I feel like needs to be like 50 50 in my mind. I think it's because it's probably comforting. Like it's one of those things where you're like, oh, well, you know what? Like it's the box theory. I can, you know, there's nothing I can do and then whatever. Like I think that that sort of, there's comfort in like... some other entity where it's like oh the box theory exists like it wasn't me it wasn't me you know what i mean yeah and i think too like for me example like you meet all these guys and nothing's clicking and they aren't texting you back and you're just like oh it's because i was in the wrong box yeah you're right it's a total comfort thing yes exactly that is a way to deflect like like personal responsibility about the way you treat people If you were public and I could stalk you, I would DM you back. But I'm not going to DM a private person back. Yeah, private does make it tough. Go public, please. Go public. Replying to the story is the best option, but not always available. And then in that case, you can just make like a comment about like one of their photos or something. You can reply and be like, this is whatever. It's almost like Snapchatting everyone without the pressure of it being weird. You know what I mean? I find it wild that people still post Snapchat stories. No, Snapchat stories, that's weird. Yeah, I don't even use Snapchat. I'm going to... Find somebody. I don't know who yet. You're going to launch? I think so. You're going to punch in the nuclear codes and put up a missile? I think the Instagram tips. That was big. Instagram tips, Fox Theory. Yeah. We went over timing. Yeah. So it's perfect.
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Discusses whether a one-night stand can impact the perception of a potential relationship, with differing views on the impact of timing and initial encounters.
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