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Put People Pleasing In The Past

2025/1/19
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Shannon Bream: 我发现自己与Jinger Duggar Volo的经历有很多共鸣。我意识到,过去我常常为了获得他人的认可而努力,这实际上源于我内心深处的不安全感。我开始反思,我所做的那些看似善良和友好的行为,有多少是真正出于对他人的爱和关怀,又有多少是为了满足自己被喜欢的需求。我逐渐明白,真正的服务应该是不求回报的,是出于对他人的爱,而不是为了换取他人的赞赏或认可。这种认知上的转变帮助我更加清晰地认识到,我应该如何平衡服务他人和保持自我,以及如何在人际关系中建立更健康和真诚的连接。 Jinger Duggar Volo: 我在成长过程中,常常感到需要在人际关系中扮演一个取悦者的角色。我发现自己很难拒绝别人,总是试图让每个人都满意,即使这意味着牺牲自己的需求和感受。我意识到,这种行为实际上源于我对冲突的恐惧和对被拒绝的担忧。我开始反思,为什么我如此渴望得到他人的认可,以及这种渴望对我的人际关系和自我认知产生了怎样的影响。我逐渐明白,真正的爱和接纳是不需要通过取悦他人来获得的,我应该更加关注自己的内心需求,学会设定界限,并勇敢地表达自己的真实想法和感受。

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This segment promotes Liberty University, highlighting its various educational programs and offering a waived application fee for listeners of the podcast.
  • Liberty University offers K-12 online academy to doctoral programs.
  • Listeners get their application fee waived by applying at liberty.edu/Shannon.
  • It's a Christian education institution.

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When we put too much time into trying to please others, it's easy to lose sight of our own true purpose.

 

NYT best-selling author Jinger Duggar Vuolo shares how she let go of seeking approval from other people, and how it allowed her to instead deepen her relationship with God. In her new book, People Pleaser, Jinger discusses the importance of seeing God as a Heavenly Father, and explains that we don't need to be perfect in order to have His unconditional love.

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