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And just like that, we're back with yet another Carefully Reckless episode. It's your girl, Jess Hilarious, and I got my best friend in the studio with me today. Y'all know her, Sheena Weena. That mic is not on. All right, well, cut on one that I can talk into. Okay, so she's here being a hoe, as y'all can hear. She always got a problem with me. Um...

So we're going, I'm going to ask how to weigh in on some of these people mess as well. Cause I don't, I'm not going to say sometimes I be needing help, but I am. You definitely need help. First of all. Okay. Well, some, I can always use a second perspective. How about that? I don't need help, but I can use a second perspective. So yeah, here we go. Now, this is a story that came from somebody who wrote it. We were not sent in a voice memo. And like I said, y'all, that is the easiest way to get your story played.

Okay. If you get your story out there, you can send me a voice memo. And I know that voice memos only record up to a minute on social media, but please, I don't give a fuck. Send it, please. Because a lot of y'all be typing these long as run on sentences and I cannot differentiate punctuations. I can't do it. All right. So please send your voice note. All right. I'm about to read.

Hey, so I could fuck this man life up. Damn. Hold on. This. Okay. Oh, shit. Hey, so I could fuck this man's life up, but I know outing someone is wrong. But let me tell you what is going on. Anyway, last year I started working at my high school, right? And there was this guy that I worked with. We were all in the same group, but we didn't interact outside of that.

At first, after a while, we started flirting and he would get handsy, touchy-feely sometimes. Okay. And so prom comes around and at prom, he asked me to dance. So we did. A week passed and I was invited to a birthday party and he was there with his girlfriend and she was pregnant. Okay. So that's, that's all he said. He never said anything else. And the reason why I'm saying he is because he's visually a guy. I can see it on his, um,

Okay. And like you said, outing someone is never okay unless it heavily depends on your defense. You know what I'm saying? Like, and I'm using that in like a way. So like, like proof, like, no, I'm not out. No, it was completely consensual. Okay.

You know that you are interested in guys. I don't know if the women in your life knows about this, but yeah, you're interested in guys and I didn't want to be the one to out show ass, but yeah, because you're not about to play with me. You're not about to act like this is not what you love. Just everybody just live in their fucking truth. Who said that? Who? You said they love it? Huh? Who said they love it? No, I said just live in your fucking truth. I thought you said this is obviously what you love.

Oh, yeah, it got to be what he loved. He was touchy-feely, hands-on. Yeah, behind the scenes. He probably liked it. Oh, he loves it. I think that he loves it. I think there is a deeper love for this. Okay. Okay, so he didn't really leave a lot of meat on the bone. All right, so you said you worked at your high school.

So you, so are you still in high school? Because listen, I, when I was in high school, I ended up working at my high school just as an intern. So I don't know if you...

If you're attending the school, now you look young, but that's not to say that you're not an adult. You just, you know, you black and you know, most of the time that don't be cracking. So you just could probably look like you've been sipping from a pool of youth for a long time. But and then give me more context on the guy. Like, was he a teacher? Like, is he a lot older than you? I mean, because there it could be.

Several of the reasons why he's hiding, I guess, having any type of affair with you or whatever. It could be because you are younger. I'm not going to say underage, but...

underage. I mean, I don't want to say underage. It could be that that could be a reason as well. It could be also because, yeah, you are a guy and he doesn't want to be outed just yet. Or I don't know if he has plans on coming out as bisexual or whatever, because obviously he likes women, too. We're not just going to just say, oh, he's gay. He's obviously bisexual.

And then obviously y'all run in some of the same circles because how you get invited to a birthday party that you see him and his girlfriend at him and his pregnant girlfriend at. Honestly, I don't think you should go to his girlfriend or any of that. I think you should sit and have a conversation with him and then tell me what triggered you to be upset. What triggered you to be upset? Is it the fact that you thought he was gay?

And he's not, he's bisexual. Is it the fact that you started liking him a lot and you want, you want the feelings to be reciprocated, but he's in a relationship and you later found out like, what is really the relationship? What is the relationship? Like, cause you said you guys were just flirty. Yeah. We need more information. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah, like, how long y'all knew each other? Are y'all just friends? Are y'all friends of a friend? Yeah. Do you know the girlfriend and you just happen to meet him? Yeah. Does the girlfriend, does the pregnant girlfriend go to the school too? Does she work at the school? Is the school still open? Like...

Was this years ago? Was it yesterday? Yes. I need to know, sir. So you need to come back. I mean, because I... And I really want to know what the relationship is between you two. I mean, it's just a little fling, it seems like. And it just seems like if you're telling me to advise you off of the little bit that you gave me, it just seems like you are upset that...

He's in a relationship at all. It could have been he could have been in a relationship with another guy. He wasn't in a relationship. Right. Did you find out that he was in a relationship at this party? Right. Yeah. What's the. Right. And that's what happened. That's it. We need more. Yeah, we need more. But I can't give you any any advice. And I don't want to try to keep giving you advice. And then I get further and further away from what the story actually is.

is like the backstory and all and all the details that's supposed to go along with it. You even started another sentence and never finished it. You said right after you said a week passed and I was invited to a birthday party and he was there with his girlfriend and she was pregnant. Then the last sentence say, I know the

And then it stopped. Like, the nigga walked in and caught you typing. And he was like, oh, I need to hurry up and send. So I need to know. I have to ask you, what made you go with this story if it was incomplete? Well, that's what happens. That's why I don't read the stories until I'm reading them. Oh, yeah. I don't. Damn. You know what?

I will never, ever have you back on this show again trying to help me assist people. Because if you don't know... I'm trying to help, too. But I need some information. I know. We need some information. We stopped at the. That's it. Yeah. He said, I know the. That's it. That was it, y'all. Come on. Get back with us. Get back with us. Now we got a commercial. And if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm going to beat your ass. Listen.

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Yeah, we ain't got none of those. Listen, most of the time, y'all need to tell my best friend, Shayna, tell her, most of the time, people don't like sending voice memos because the people that they be talking about, no, people that they be talking about be knowing their voice. And they be like, hold up, we must be suggesting. Well, Shayna, come in and change your voice. Right. Hello. This is Mary Kate from. Yo, Shayna said, how about you change your motherfucking voice? Hello. This is Mama from down the block.

Coming to you with another story? Can you help me, baby? Exactly. Oh, my God. Y'all got to disguise your voices. Sometimes you got to get creative. Yeah, because y'all leaving too much meat off these bones writing these stories, man. Like, look, this one right here. Let's see what this one gets. How do you do? Shut up. It's a...

It say, how do I stand up for myself and not do as I'm told? So it said, I move back from my parents now. I regret it. Oh, shit.

He said that June 9th. Okay, so at June 9th, this person said, how do I stand up for myself and not do as I'm told? And then came back September 25th and said, I moved back to my parents. Now I regret that choice and I now feel like their happiness is my responsibility. If I were to tell them that I want to leave, dad would freak out and treat me like a kid and mom would be mad too. I used to be a positive person with a smile always on my face. Now it's too much effort to smile. That's it. Okay.

So go ahead. Help them. Shit. What did they help with, baby? They moved back and they regret it. How do they stand up for themselves and not do as they told by their parents?

It had nothing to do with June. I believe it did. Yes. It had something to do with it. Yeah, it did. The first three months ago. Yeah. Maybe this is more clarity. Maybe. Listen. Okay. So when he sent it in June, I felt like he was saying like he was outside of his parents house because maybe they was trying to make him come back. All

He said, how do I stand up for myself when I do as I'm told? He probably jumped out there, jumped off the porch, and he's not telling us how old he is, too. He's talking like he just jumped off the porch. He's just a fresh adult, like 21 maybe, or maybe not even 21. And three months later, he probably is back now at his parents' house because, like he said, I moved back with my parents now. I regret that choice, and I feel like their happiness is my responsibility. I feel like you may just be a little brat if

If I'm saying it right. If not, you got to update me and leave more meat on the bone. How do you feel responsible for your parents' happiness? Why? Because they wanted you back home? Are they happier now that you're home? Were you getting into some trouble? How old are you? Did you move around some motherfuckers? Did you move out with some motherfuckers that's not good for your influence? You know? Why wasn't they happy? Yeah. And you even said that you used to be a positive person who kept a smile on their face. Now it's too much effort to smile because you had to move back in with your parents.

Let me tell you something, baby. I wish I could move back in with my motherfucking parents. I'd be in there with a cane and a top hat. Listen.

entertaining the fuck out of them. Hey, y'all. You already know. I'm back again. I'm responsible for your happiness. I'm back again. Yes. You know, like, I want y'all young people to not grow up so fast. Stop trying to grow up so fast. And I know it's being shoved in y'all goddamn face that to grow up fast, to do this and do that. It ain't no joke. But it seems like you got two great loving parents who are just probably overwhelmingly

Possessive. Yeah. You know, and they are protective. And you just want to be out there. You know what I'm saying? You want to do what you want to do. You want to do what you want to do. And I've been in your shoes before. I always want to do what I want to do. Yep. So that's the reason that we can actually speak from experience. Okay? Yeah, but...

I say slow it down, take your time. If they need your help, help them out. Help them out. We only get one set. Yeah, one set. And he got both. Yeah. You're lucky. His dad would freak out. And I love this. If I were to tell them that I want to leave, my dad would freak out and my mom would be mad too. Man. Damn, they love you, baby. Yeah, they not locking you up in the basement, fucking making you make Abercrombie and Fitch hoodies.

For three cents. Hello? They don't have you. Okay. For how much? For three cents. And then putting it in the stores and charging $38. And you're not making no money. And now you're eating bologna sandwiches with no bologna. He get it. And no bread. He get it. Yeah. You want those parents? All right. You ever seen the movie My? Yes. Remember? Calm down.

Okay. All right. Well, well, oh no, that's too much to read right there. No, no, we can't. This is my job. How are you going to tell me that you ain't even reading any fucking way? Oh my bad. All right. Come on. All right. Here we go. Next story. Y'all hold up. Hold up. I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.

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Hey Jess, I definitely need some help with fixing my mess. So in the beginning of the year, I had a falling out with one of my best friends. I feel like, period, yeah, and don't ever play with me. I feel like on my end, it was a lot of moments that led up to it though. We know how life works. Long story short, I was going through a really depressing time in my life and I was genuinely up against the wall. However, my best friend was in high spirits with what was going on in her life.

I was never bitter or a hater about anything happening with her because I only ever wanted to see her win. Now, prior to us falling out, anytime we would get into disagreements, she would always bring up how she didn't know if she wanted to continue to be my friend simply off of me not agreeing with her view. So I would end up just saying, okay, to whatever point she had,

Just to end the debate, then it will go to a point where me saying, OK, wasn't good enough and that I needed to speak my piece or I will resent her and our friendship. So then I would say how I felt. And that's it. Girl, these people don't believe in me. Nothing else is like, OK, all right. All right. Well, sometimes that's how I just fix my mess code. Sometimes people give me the beginning.

In the middle and don't even, they be like, fuck then, child. You make up the rest. But, you know, some type of way, they be wanting advice. All right. Well, we know how best friends are. Actually, I have my best friend here with me now. We have fallen out and we have fought. I've beat her ass. Hello. How you doing? All right. Start over from the top. Okay.

We all know we have videos out where I have physically beat Shayna and we already know what's going on. So we're not going to say, act like I don't got the hands. But, you know, sometimes it's going to be warranted. You know, best friends will fight. Regular friends will fight. You know what I'm saying? But like you said, we know how life works. And sometimes when...

Two friends are in different places of their lives. Yeah, they do tend to either separate or they tend to help each other and they still stay the same way. You know, it's just that you're living your life and she's living hers. I'll let Sheena speak on it if she feels differently from what I'm about to say. But I don't, I'm not, I'm really unclear on what exactly the issue is. Like, are you like,

Should y'all go your separate ways or what? Although I can agree that I don't like the way I can agree with you. I don't like the way she handles you with communication, if that is to be true, what you said about her. But it's like, what are they not friends anymore? Is she saying is she asking us? It's not like she probably want.

from her friend. She probably not getting the same attention. That she gives. Because, right. And, uh... What is it that the girl does? Yeah, she said that she... When she doesn't agree with... No, no, no. I'm talking about, um...

You said they had like two different lifestyles? Yeah, that's what she said. She said, long story short, I was going through a really rough, depressing time in my life and I was genuinely up against the wall. However, my best friend was high in spirits with what was going on in her life. And she was never bitter or a hater about anything because she only ever wanted to see her best friend win. But prior to them falling out, any disagreements that they started having, she would always bring up how she didn't know if she wanted to continue to be her friend simply off of her not agreeing with her views.

Yeah, so that's like, if you don't agree with nothing I say, I'm like, look, I don't even know if you're really my friend or not. Like, friends will have fucking disagreements. Me and Sheena disagree all the time with things. Yeah, I don't agree with nothing Jess said, actually. Sweetie, come on now, baby. Stop fucking lying. Some stuff, but not everything. Wayne gets almost 15 years for no fucking reason. You already know him, right, in a lot of things that I say. Baby.

Sweetie. Yeah, but when you get to talking about people and they be about to bang you in your eyeballs. Oh, baby. Who steps up for me? Not you, because baby. That's right, baby. Because I'm going to be like, Jess, get up. You can't even fight anyway. Exactly. Get up, Jess. Get up. Right. I'm going to lend you a hand because I'm your friend. No, you're going to lend me a hand after the person who punched me walked away. You're not going to jump out there and stand ten toes down like a real bitch should. You're going to fucking help me out.

Did you say exactly? I said exactly. We gotta help this person with this mask. Oh my gosh. So, like I said. Alright, so I don't think it's grounds for termination. No. No.

I just think y'all need to talk though. Y'all need to have a heart to heart and let each other know how you really feel. Cause that was, that actually was a problem that, you know, Shayna had told me that she had with me. Like, yo, you don't communicate. You, you don't, you know, you just shut down, you zone out. And I,

I had to take that and see if it was what the fuck it was. Like, if I'm this person who always got something to say and I always can communicate about anything else, why can't I communicate with my best friend about our differences and get through it, you know? So she had to teach me that. She had to show me that. And then a lot of times, she would disagree. She don't agree. She ain't a yes man. She don't agree with everything I say. And okay, she don't agree with everything I say. And then sometimes...

she'll tell me, I'll tell her something, she won't agree with it and she'll make me see it from a different point of view and then I'll change how I feel about that thing. So communication actually really helps in a lot of ways with friendships. Or you can still view it the way that you view it with understanding of how I'm viewing it. Another perspective. Exactly.

So you don't have to necessarily change your way of thinking. Yeah. Just because somebody else views something differently. But sometimes that's how it has been. Like, you'll be like, well, just look at it this way or you think, you know. And it will, you know, give you a better point of view. Like, oh shit, maybe I did go off a little bit too much or maybe I shouldn't have looked at it. No, I did not go off. That fucking girl was trying to say. Yes, you did. And I was sitting right there looking at you like. Yeah, you were sitting there looking at me. What the fuck?

No, you was not fucking sitting up there looking at me like, what the fuck? All right, so let me tell y'all this real quick. Hopefully we helped you. What's her name? Oh, no, we can't say their names. Oh, sorry. What's their name? Like, we can't say. That's why nobody want to type in their fucking voice. I mean, nobody wants to know voice. They be like, we know our fucking. We're like, well, Brittany, why did you? Anyway, Brittany. So we just going to call you Brittany. Brittany, we hope we helped you. What's her name? Oh, my God.

And she get beat up by the best friend, Charlie. Like, Britney? Britney Simmons? Yo, no, basically, so I did Breakfast Club today and one of the topics was, you know, this is, Halloween was yesterday, the game had posted his daughter and he was saying, like, did we pretty much think that her costume was inappropriate? She had on a crop top and she had on a tight compression pants that the football players wear. She dressed up as her favorite, um,

football team cowboys or whatever right now she that's what it was given cheerleader but she had on like football compression pants so she looked cute by the way beautiful little girl she was 13 years old now she's 13 now like i explained crop tops i don't think are appropriate for certain teens pre-teens to be honest with you because some bodies develop quicker than others and you know she's a a fuller figured um younger teen and i felt like

While it's not her fault, she can't control how she grows. She can't control, you know, curves here, curves there and stuff popping out. I do think her parents could censor her clothing, you know, and that doesn't just go for her. That goes for everyone.

Any other teenager who develops quickly or just whatever, it's totally up to you. You know what I'm saying? And then Charlamagne was saying, like, I feel like if you don't have daughters, you can't have say in this. Yeah, you absolutely can. I'm raising my little sister. She's a fucking teenager. I was a teenager before. I was a young, young daughter. Now I'm an older daughter, but I was 13 before as well. Maybe he was always an older daughter.

See, this is why she always get punched in her fucking face now. Because she's trying to really play with me like I look older. And yeah, I do. So what? And always has. When you was two, remember that picture? Excuse me? Yeah, when I was two, I looked like I was six. And... No, I was just... Thank you. All right, yeah. I've never said that I didn't look older. So yeah, thank you. But all that matters now is I'm 31. I mean, I'm a hard 31, but bitch, I'm 31 nonetheless. So it is what it is. Now, this lady called up and she was like...

Josh, what we not going to do, we not going to sit here and make crop tops a thing. Because when I was younger, I had a small waist, a nice stomach. I had a six-pack, titties big, hips big, everything. And yeah, I wore crop tops to make myself feel good. Like, yeah, I felt good about my body. So...

My daughter, now she's young. She's in the same boat I'm in. She got the same body that I was blessed with at a very young age. And I feel like we shouldn't make her conscious about we shouldn't over-sexualize these kids and don't make crops, hops, or things leave that girl alone. Well, I had a problem with that. And listen, I'm okay with her disagreeing with me. I'm okay with that. And that's what, that's what,

That's life. That's life. You know, everybody's not going to agree with your opinion. And I totally respect her as a mother. Because to reach their own, you raise your daughter like that. The way you want. That's how you want to raise your child. But you're not going to tell me all these sexual things about yourself. Oh, my titty was big. My titties were big. My titty was big. I was going to say, bitch, just one titty was big? Yeah. She said, my titties was big. Small waist. Like, you know, ass was fat. Like, all that. Yeah.

This is all sexual talk, baby. And you're sitting here saying... At a... At a... How old? 13. 13. We're not going to make them feel bad about wearing crop tops because they are being overly sexual. That's overly sexualizing a kid. Everything you just uttered out of your motherfucking two lips about yourself when you was a fucking teenager was sexual. Over-sexualized. What?

What the fuck is big titties, big ass, and all that shit? What the fuck you talking about? Talking about my daughter wearing crop tops to feel good about her body. Why the fuck is your daughter wearing crop tops to feel good about her fucking body? Why you screaming? I'm sorry. What the fuck happened? I don't know. I felt like she was screaming at me, but she was from New York, so you know how the accent is. You screaming at your motherfucker up in here. I know I was screaming like a motherfucker. But yeah, like I just...

I went right back to screaming. All right, but no, y'all, like, I just felt like, why would she call up and say that? Like, don't say that. And what I don't get is when they be like, um, and everybody else, this day, everybody doing it. Yeah, what the fuck? Okay.

Okay. I come from a motherfucking household. Let me tell you, that's why I don't have no kids because my kid. Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's not why you don't have no kids, baby. You don't have no motherfucking kids because ain't nobody about to cuss, shoot that fucking club up. Thank you. But let me tell you. Hello. Yeah. But yeah, baby. If sexy Rick got pregnant before you, honey. Yeah. You don't got a chance in this fucking world. Nope. Not at all. Yeah. Damn. Baby.

like I said, I feel like to each their own. You raise your kid the way you raise your kid, but I was never one of those parents that was like, and never had a parent that was like, well, the other kids, and that's what the kids are wearing now. That's the fucking problem. That's how your kid falls into these fucking groups and falls into being a fucking follower and not a fucking leader and, you know, end up in the back of these motherfuckers.

fucking vans and end up in these fucking groups of kids that's going to go fuck off because, oh, they can do what their friends do. Everybody's doing it. It's okay.

What the fuck has gotten into everybody? Yeah, we don't hold these kids accountable like they did back in the day. No, they don't. Get your butt in the house with the lights came on. Yeah, everybody trying to be their motherfucking... Stay on these steps. Yeah, everybody trying to be their daughters' and sons' friends and shit. Yeah. I ain't never... Don't play that. Robin Moore has never, Kevin Moore has never, ever been those type of fucking parents. I just... And I'm not saying my parents are better than anybody else's, but we... You had structure. I just had structure. Yeah, yeah.

you know and that was it my parents were just serious about they were serious about everything and look how the fuck I turned out and don't fucking play with me thank you I already knew something was about to you was about to be like how you turn out how you turn out exactly a nut and on that note we're gonna end this episode y'all we've come to the conclusion

No, not the conclusion. See? I'll be throwing the fuck off when your ass is here. Yeah, we've come to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl Jess Hilarious who's been fixing mess. And the best friend, Sheena Weena. Sheena Weena! She gonna be here every day. She gonna be here every day, yo. What's good? And in my deepest pan voice, catch us next week. Peace!

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