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And I'm back with another Catholic Reckless episode. It's your girl, Just Hilarious. And listen, I got my sister back. I told y'all she was coming back. Say what's up. I'm here again, y'all. All right. So listen, she didn't know that I was going to do this, but I usually do story time. And then I ask y'all questions and, you know, I get y'all feedback and all that shit. But we're going to jump straight into this right here. I ain't even let her know what the topic is. One day, like my sister was dating this guy, right?
Everything was cool. He got close with my niece, my nephew. And the reason why I say niece, I have two nieces, but nobody ever gets close to the middle baby. My middle baby is Zoe. She's two herself. She don't fuck with nobody but herself. And that's what it is. He got close to my youngest niece. She's very impressionable. She reminds me of myself and Rudy Huxtable. So baby Nugget is very, just, oh my God, just a kid that you want to be around. Bubbly and clingy.
Yes, like lovey and clingy. Yes. So she actually was really, really like close with him. Like she was cool. And he was coming around a lot, doing everything right. I'm talking about this nigga was like doing house chores. He still had a job and everything. But he would like come over to my sister's house and like take care of the house, put the kids down and everything. Right. Oh, we talk about.
Yeah. Yeah. I'm straight going to put it out there like this. Because, yeah, since we know for putting each other out there like that. Yeah. Okay. So...
So one particular day, they were dealing with each other for like months. You know, like this was like four, five months, maybe. Yeah. And one particular day, like I got close with him, too. Like I started calling him brother. You know how it is when your sister dates or your brother dates you. You adopt the person that they're fucking with. You know what I mean? So I was calling him, bro. He had called me one day. He was like, yo, I have something serious to tell you.
And I'm like, yo, what's up? You good? You know? And he was like, yeah, like, it's not regular. So you need to call me when you... And I was out somewhere. And so I was... He was like, you'll call me when you're away. I'm like, yo. And you know what that is, bitch. When I feel like somebody got some tea like that, like, you can't tell me wherever I'm at. I need to be sitting down and all that shit. I'm going to leave wherever I'm at. I don't give a fuck. Well, I was with, like, a nigga too or something. He had some money, child. But I said, okay, here's some tea. So I went in the house and I called him. And...
Before that, he text you. Remember, he had text you because you told him you was busy. Yeah. And he was like, just text me or something. Yeah, but he was like, I can't text you. And I told him to call me and I was out. So he was like, nah, this ain't nothing that I can, you know what I mean? So I went home and I called him and I was like, yo, what's up? He was like, I'm going to call you when I get off. I'm like, damn, I could have stayed with the niggas. So he ended up calling me later and shit. And he was like, yo.
So I don't know why I feel this way. I don't know why I'm even this way. But like I have like feelings for niggas like I and I'm like. No, he said he has a urge. A urge. Okay. For niggas.
Yes. Okay. Every once in a while. That's what he said. Yeah. So. But he texted, remember? No, he didn't text it. Right. No. Yes, he did. Because he had the screenshots. Oh, shit. All right. Well, then maybe now. Now, I'm sorry, y'all. This is like a good. You had the screenshot. How many years ago? This was like years and years ago. Yeah, that was back in 2017.
Okay, all right, all right, my bad. So this was five years ago, y'all, so I'm sorry. You definitely had the screenshots, because remember, he was like, oh, she made them up. And you was like, I don't even fucking feel like it. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm too lazy to do some shit like that. I'm like, yeah, I don't fucking make up screenshots. Now, I might make a fake page and harass you, motherfucker, but I ain't going to make up no fucking screenshots now. I didn't even know how to do that back then or whatever. So his ass had admitted to me that he was bisexual. You know, he said, I just have these feelings for men, but not just any men.
I have a thing, like a fetish for trannies. And I'm like, what? He said, yeah, like I'm attracted to trans. And then your dumb ass was like, so like you like the ones that had the surgery or the ones that still got the dicks? Well, yes. So that means, yeah, are you attracted to transsexuals or transgenders, my motherfucker? You know what I'm saying? He was like, he said, this nigga going to say,
If they had the surgery, I might as well just be with a woman. Yes. He was like, if they are transgender, yeah. Like if they had the surgery to have a pussy, then I might as well just be with a woman.
be, you know, straight, all the way straight and just fuck with a girl. And I'm telling y'all with this dumb girl, she gonna say, so like, what you do with the dick? Yeah, like, what do you do? You know, and so I'm trying to get it, you know, and then mind you, this is five years ago. I was not as mature as I am now and shit. And I, you know, and I'm just like, yo, I mean, I just couldn't believe what I was hearing. I'm like, yo, my sister's boyfriend is telling me that he,
is attracted to men as well as my sister and I'm just like yo okay so after we got past all that you know the hoopla of it all I was like okay are you going to tell her and he was like hell yeah yo but I just had to tell you first I'm like okay well what the fuck made you tell me and not your girlfriend first you know he was just like what the fuck you mean that bitch should kill me and listen
This ain't only five years later of maturity for me. This is five years of woosah for her too because my sister Varshae, she used to be very temperamental. She was like, you know what I mean? It is what it is. Dr. Jackal and Mr. Hyde, honey. That's who she... Yes, yes. She definitely...
Calm down. Was a diagnosed schizophrenic. Bitch. Oh, not schizophrenic. Bipolar. Bipolar. All right, my bad, my bad. Only two people lived in there. My bad. I thought it was a bunch. But, you know, because I know her more than anybody. And I swear it's more than two. But, you know, she was a diagnosed bipolar patient. And she would show these, you know, certain triggers would get her going. And he was afraid to tell her. And, of course, rightfully so, I do understand. So I was like, yo, calm down.
I'm going to give you some time to tell her. Cause he was just like, yo, I want to tell her, but I'm not going to tell her like tonight. I'm like, well, nigga, you need to fucking tell her. Cause you just told her little sister. And my loyalty is to her. And also this ain't just saying, this ain't no regular shit. You feel me? Like,
are you having sex with these you know men and he's like yeah I you asked him about protection and all that I had to I'm like yo because you are having sex with my sister you're in an active a sexually active relationship with my sister nigga this ain't no stranger and like I don't know her through you nigga I know you through her so she's most important to me you know and so
He was honest about everything. He was like, yes, I do have sex with men. And I'm like, okay, when's the last time?
And he was like, like he started a little bit like I mean, like he stopped a little bit. He paused and he didn't want to tell me. But he it was more recent than the fuck it should have been. Right. You know, and it was in the earlier stages of him dating my sister. And he was telling me like he's basically like since he like really, really got official and realized that he fell in love with my sister that he's tried to fight these urges off.
Remember he said he did research and it's like men all around the world that deal with the same thing. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm just like, listen, yeah, we know that, but I'm responsible for my sister. That's it. You know what I'm saying? You're not all the men around the world. You're one man that's dealing with, you know, this problem or, you know, and it was a problem for him because that's, that's why. And the reason why it was a problem for me is because you're not giving her a choice.
You know, you knew you had these feelings for men. You knew. And although coming out is not an easy process, you're still being selfish. Like, you're still being selfish, you know, in all ways. I don't give a fuck. You're being selfish. Because she has the right to know that she's fucking a guy who fucks guys. So...
He was like, yo, just give me like a day. I said, all right, that means you're going to tell her tomorrow, right? And he was like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I'm going to tell her when I get off tomorrow or whatever. Can you be there? I'm like, hell yeah. He was like, yeah, because I know she's going to start swinging. She's going to go the fuck off. She's going to go crazy. Please. So next day came. Now imagine...
me as a little sister like i talk to this girl every fucking day i'm with her all day every day and it's like um so now i feel bad because i'm hiding something like but i'm not really hiding i'm waiting for this nigga to do what the fuck he said he was gonna do this nigga gets off work i'm calling him to see what the fuck going on he ain't answering i call my sister hey yo is yo there
She like, no, he ain't come over yet. I ain't really talk to him today. Oh, why? So you're chickening out now. Pretty much. And so I kept blowing his fucking phone up. I say, yo, and I finally text him. I say, yo, I'm ready to tell him. That's when he called me back. He was like, yo, this shit is not easy. I need for you to understand. You know, this shit is not easy. Can I tell her tomorrow? What did I let him know? I told him that I told you that he was like, no, nigga.
Like, no, like you said. Yeah, I was going to say, I don't remember if I gave him another day, but I definitely gave him that one day when he asked me the first time. But it's like, nah, yo, I don't know what the fuck going on. So I told her. First of all, you begged me not to go off like, yo, please do not go off on this nigga because he is scared. He is scared of you. Like, do not go off on him. I'm like.
Like I ain't gonna go off I ain't gonna go off So he finally And you thought it was another bitch the whole time You thought I was ready to tell you something about fucking with another bitch But then you sitting there saying that So the maturity in me had to kick in And I had to be like alright you know what
I can't go off on this nigga because I need to, I need to make sure his health is good. Yeah. That right there. And then him saying that he wasn't, you know, fully protected himself. He did admit, he did admit because I did ask him my bad y'all. So I asked him, I say, yo, um, now if you just had sex with a guy two or three months ago, did you use protection? And he was like,
that's when I knew I was like alright well no he said sometimes he do sometimes he don't yeah he did tell me sometimes he use it sometimes he don't but he did admit that he did not use protection with that last dude and so I'm like yo what the fuck that's what had me upset so that's why he was like yo I'ma tell I promise I'ma tell her I just need you to be there so now back fast forward
I told my sister what the fuck was happening. She had to collect herself. She really did. Like it was that, that day. I will never forget that day. That day was so heart wrenching for her because all the things that are going through her mind, um,
Are just tearing her apart because it's like, yo, oh, my God, like she couldn't breathe when I told her like it was just like, yo. And then imagine having to tell your loved ones some shit like that, you know. So, of course, she started blowing up his phone, sending him messages and shit. And he already knew that I told her by then.
So, of course, this nigga calls me from another phone like, yo, you fucking told her. Like, remember, he asked me some type of way. He was like, yo, you told her already or something like that. And I was like, yeah, you didn't. Yeah, you didn't. And you were fucking ignoring me. Like, what the fuck you mean? I told you I would have to tell her. You could have told your little sister, motherfucker. You told her little sister, your girlfriend's little sister.
So just imagine the pressure I was feeling, the position I was put in. And yeah, that's how the fuck that shit went. I had to collect myself before I actually got to like really reach out, reach out to him. And when I reached out to him, I was just like, hey, my sister told me, you know, what you talked to her about.
I ain't trying to argue. I ain't trying to fuss. Yeah. I want to come pick you up from work when you get off work in the morning. Yeah. I want us to go to the clinic. Yeah. When is the last time you've been tested? I want to see some results. I want us to go get tested together. Even if something is going on with me.
I won't know, but at least I can see what your results is. And I'm going to continue to get myself tested, you know, periodically because that's how it works. You know, it just doesn't show up. It don't show it. That shit just won't show up sometime. Yeah. Yeah.
He agreed. He agreed to go and get tested with me the next morning because he worked overnight. He worked overnight shift. And he agreed to go with me. So I go to his job because I knew what time he got off work because I've been dealing with him for a few months. I went to his job. I'm sitting out there in the parking lot. I see people walking out. I'm like, well, maybe he ain't, you know, he ain't come out yet. So I saw a familiar face, one of his coworkers that I've given a ride to before. And I'm like, hey,
Such and such. Is he still in there? Oh, he left last night. He said he had an emergency. I'm like, don't worry. Wow. Okay. So I call his phone. Go straight to voicemail. I'm blocked. I go on Facebook. I'm blocked. I go on Instagram. I'm blocked.
I'm black. Yep. I'm like, all right. So I made a page and it's the first time I ever made just a page. That was the shit I was famous for doing. She like, I mean, and granted, I wouldn't say it was a fake page. I just made a page real quick just so I could reach out to him. And I told him like, Hey, like what's, what's up? Like where you at? Like you, I feel like you're trying to duck me out.
He just like, just leave me alone. I'm like, leave you alone, nigga. Motherfucker, what? We got obligations. Like, we got to go to the clinic so we can see what's going on. Like, now you're scaring me. Yeah. Because I feel like you're trying to hide something. Yeah. Like, what the fuck is going on with you? Is this something that you know about you that you don't want me to know about you? Like, what the fuck is going on? So I'm like, look.
He like, leave me the fuck alone. Leave me the fuck alone. I'm like, look, if you don't say something, like, I'm going to put you out there. Like, now you're playing with me. Like, I came at you calm. I came at you very civilized. Yeah. I came at you like an adult when I really wanted to go off. I was so shocked.
and how you handled it because like even though I told him that I wanted to be there for when he told you I really didn't because like honestly she would have fucked both of us up you understand what I'm saying so like I really wanted to like yeah well she knew for 24 hours like what bitch you know what I mean so that's
why I say yo like all he would have said like I know a bitch I would have got nigga so I was like really scared to fucking be there as well that's why I was like shit I'm glad I got to tell it because like nah she would have never fucking forgave me for knowing and just not saying anything hold up hold up I know this shit getting good but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial if you love me you'll listen
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But yeah, go ahead. Yeah. So you said, nigga. So he was like, leave me alone, basically. Like, he obviously did not want to see what the fuck was going on with him if he already didn't know what was going on with him. Yeah. So I started reaching out to bitches that I knew that he done fucked in the past. Period. I'm like, hey, you know this nigga be fucking niggas? Mm-hmm.
And they like, what? I'm like, look, I don't know what, you know, but I'm telling you this because, you know, I want you to get checked because I'm going to go get checked. And y'all was dealing with him before I was dealing with him. So like, when y'all get checked, let me know what y'all paper say. Because I'm new to this. Y'all done been there. Like, I need to know. Like, he playing.
It became a whole situation where he was like, oh, they lying, they lying, they lying. And I met him in a Facebook group, right? And remember the guy that ran the Facebook group? Well, a couple of the guys that ran a Facebook group was like, well, Shorty says she got receipts. Talk about you. Shorty says she got receipts. They gonna go live going through her phone. We went live. Bitch, what? Going through your motherfucking phone. Give us live.
And see, this is his number right here. Bop, bop, bop, bop, bop.
This is his number. He said right here. Sometimes I get the urge to blah, blah, blah. And then you touched on the fact that the transgender that used to do your hair. Yes. She real awesome hairstylist and everything like that. And he was in her damn DM. And she's very popular. People fucking know her.
and it's crazy because I actually and I just I had a whole flashback of while him and I would land in my bed one day and I'm like yo look at this person right here I showed him um Lucy Papers and I was like I was like look at this person and he was like damn she looked good I was just like um yeah you know um you know she she was born a boy he was like what
I can't even tell. I was like, I know she look good as shit. But whole time, he already been following Lucy. Right. Been following Lucy. Been had a thing for Lucy. Try to act like he don't know. Try to act like he ain't know. And Lucy is a bad bitch, y'all. Just for y'all to know. You know, who Baltimore's on. Like, Lucy is definitely a bad bitch. He already knew who she was. He knew who she was. And come to find out, he was following, he had a vast selection of trans people.
uh what is it trans transgender it means that they had this uh surgery so i mean so so is it considered i mean because you know it's real specific with trans woman and trans man so which would it be trans woman because you're trying to transition to a woman it would be a trans woman okay and so that's when you first caught on to it so after he told you what he told you then i realized that he was following a lot of
Trans women. Trans women. Oh, all right. So that made you think back. You started thinking back to a lot of shit. And remember that fucking time? You had told me, you was like, oh my God, that explains why he be moaning. He be like, eh, shame.
Vaughn Shay. He was moaning her name. Like, yo wanted his dick sucked from the bag. Like, I ain't saying that's gay, but yeah, he wanted me to suck his dick from the bag. And his butt was a little hurt and it like tickled my nose. I almost sneezed at his ass. Oh my God. And that probably would have felt real good to him, sneezing in his ass. You know that gust of wind, bitch. The chump!
I was like, oh shit bitch, what the fuck was that? Booty hole tickle. You know what I mean? That shit probably would have been feeling good until it was going in his hole. Don't go sneezing in assholes. We were going through the phone. And then we were...
fucking quote unquote monsters to everyone. They felt like we were being internet bullies. Like we were being internet bullies. Like I'm not being an internet bully. We are not being internet bullies. I tried to reconcile with this man. I tried to get him to, I came to him calmly, calm, cool and collect. I came to him calm, cool and collect.
and I just wanted to just get checked out yeah he did not want to get checked out like are you scared like at this point like now nigga I have to put you out there yeah and and he kept telling people I was lying so that made me go in I'm like oh no fuck no you know and like I said y'all keep in mind this is five years ago I was way less mature I was like hitting for the
belt nigga I mean hitting below the belt because this nigga was like really acting like he hadn't just told me that and I'm like yo this shit don't even gotta be like this you motherfucker why would you do that like he had my sister fighting behind this shit and everything he literally I'm sitting at this little uh little restaurant bar lounge that you know was like like a neighborhood cheers or whatever right I'm sitting there I had these two girls walk up on me like hey your name Varshae and I'm like
Got a chicken wing in my face between my fingers. Like you was fucking it up too. I didn't get a chance to fuck it up. Damn. That was the first wing. And they walked up on me when I had the first fucking wing in my hand. I'm like between my fingers, you know, I love the drumsticks. I had a little drumstick in my hand. Like, you know, and I'm like, yeah, you know,
That's my name. Like, I'm looking at them, not sizing them up, but just looking at them like, do I know y'all? Do I know these girls? Like, these faces were totally unfamiliar. Like, the one girl was like, yeah, I would drag you, but I like coming here. I was like, well, I like coming here too. We can go in the parking lot. Oh, no.
Oh, Lord. She was a big bitch. I wasn't that small. Bitch, why would you walk up to me and be like, I would, like, drag you, but I, like, I'm here. Bitch, so why the fuck is you even over here saying anything to me, bitch? Like, I guess she was trying to be intimidating. I don't know. Yeah, I wanted to let you know she there, and... Like, I guess trying to scare me, but I'm just like, look, we can go...
I was like little bad baby. Catch me outside. There you go. So we went outside and like I said, she was big and I wasn't that small. And that shit was like a fucking, I swear it looked like a fucking sumo wrestling match or something. Because it really wasn't even a fight. It was like, I hit her a few times and I guess she was trying to hit me. I don't know. She was drunk. I wasn't. It was just a mess. And then I'm sitting there.
trying to figure out, like, why is all of this happening? Like, at the same time, I'm doing all this. Like, wait, why the fuck is this even going on? Why is this going on? Come to find out, it was him that sent her because he was hiding out at her house. Yeah, but remember he had fucking said that shit. Oh, I didn't know that he was hiding out at her fucking house, but remember he was like, um...
Them bitches lying. They fucking lying. They don't know people get killed for that type of shit. That's why I'm going to have my cousin slap the shit out of him. Oh, yeah. He was saying he going to put money on your head. And you was like, nigga, what money? You don't even have no fucking money. That's the thing. All my fucking kids and shit. Bitch don't have no motherfucking money. Child support. Child support.
Child, I'm talking about he was mad. He said we got him put out of his house. He was living with one of his homeboys and shit. We kept coming over there like, no, yo, you need to go to the doctors. And the fucking cousin was like, yo, look, you got to get the fuck out. All this fucking drama, yo. You got to go. I don't know what you got going on. Nigga saying you gay and shit. Like, I don't really even care if you gay or not. You just got a lot of drama. I want you out. So...
He would go online and say little shit or, you know, he would have other people saying shit for him. And I'm telling you, I'm like, yo, like where you cannot win an internet battle, right?
not with me not five years ago not now you can't you just it's not a clapback you just can't do that shit especially if you lying like right and i got receipts like you can't like a motherfucker you cannot do that like yo it don't even got i kept saying it like you don't even gotta be like they didn't even have to be like this like you fucking lied you just didn't you know so all that shit happened
And then this nigga ends up married today. He is married. Ain't that crazy? He married this girl I went to school, high school with. And I asked one of my friends, I'm like, yo, he married such and such. Like, you think I should say something? He was like, I think you just need to mind your fucking business. Because you already went through enough shit with that situation. And I was just like...
I'm glad you told me that. I feel like that's the best advice you ever gave me because I felt like me and her aren't close or nothing like that, but we spoke. We weren't in the same class. She was in a class under me and we spoke and we used to be, you know, social media friends and stuff like that. And I felt like we were, you know, cool enough where I could tell her something like that. But
You know, like, my friend that I asked if I should tell her, they was just like, you know, she may think you hatin' or may think you lyin' or may think you tryna be messy or whatever. Yeah. So, I was just like, yeah, I'm glad you said to leave it alone. Because you don't know, you know, y'all not friends, y'all not close. So, she could just think that, you know, because the first thing she's gonna do is show him. Right. And he's gonna tell her what he want. Mm-hmm.
You know what I mean? So, and then nine times out of ten, somebody already told them. And that was a big, that was big. That was a big situation. But then I feel like also, like if you weren't in that, even though it was big, it was big in the circle that it was big. It wasn't big like all over. Like it didn't go, yeah, it wasn't viral or anything like that. Now, if you was as big as you were back then now, that shit would have been...
Yeah. Oh, yeah. You saying if I was as big as I am now back then. Yeah, back then. Oh, yeah. Because I don't even think Tara had recognized you yet. Because that's when stuff really started taking off for you. When Tara... Tara from Love & Hip Hop. Yeah, when she had reposted...
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And that's when shit was just like, when BET was like, oh shit, this girl. First started doing Just With The Mess. Yeah, and I was only doing it on the reality show. I was doing Just With The Mess on reality TV, not all stars. On everything. Yeah, not on everything. It was mainly just literally off of Love & Hip Hop. Yep, yep. I started doing Just With The Mess just on Love & Hip Hop. Okay, yeah. So, yeah, damn. So if you can...
give anybody any type of advice or, you know, drop a gem to women based off that experience you had. Sissy's DL niggas is everywhere. Yo, yo, I hate you. Yo, Sissy's DL niggas is everywhere. But I don't even have any advice for the women. I have advice for the men. Yeah.
Do not take it upon yourself, guys. Yeah. I'm not knocking you. If you feel this way, if this is something that you like to do, so be it. Let your partner, let the woman you're dating, let whoever you're fucking with, male or female, let them know. Let it be their decision. Yeah.
If they want to deal with you and you like to do those things. If a motherfucker loves to have threesomes and they don't tell me this going into a relationship that they love to have threesomes, like, I don't like to do that shit. So I feel like that's something, like, you need to be up front with certain things. And that is one thing that you most definitely need to be up front with is your sexuality. Sexuality is a big thing.
piece that you need to be up front with when dealing with someone, when getting to know someone, dating, whatever. It is a very big piece, a very valuable piece that needs to be discussed. Now, if it would have been a thing where him and I started talking, he's just like, oh, you know, Shayne,
you know, every once in a while, I like to, I like to fuck with trains. I'd be like, okay, I ain't knocking you, but I don't want to deal with you because I'm not into that kind of thing. I got you. I wouldn't have knocked nothing. We could have been cool because he was a cool motherfucker all in all. He was a cool dude. He really was. He did. He had great things about him. He was really good with kids. He was cool. All the motherfucking kids he had, he should have been great with them. I know. And I am just remembering to this day that he had a bunch of kids. Yeah. And I think he got about, I think he about seven or eight now. Yeah.
Yeah, but he was always around yours. I know. We never seen his. Yeah, I seen his a couple times. Oh, damn. Not we. I never seen him. Yeah, it wasn't. I don't think I was really around his kids like that. Because when he was around his kids, you know how some people, like other baby mothers don't really want their kids around others. And I get it. I get it. So it was just like, yeah, I get it. But yeah, he definitely had a few. I actually, I saw him. Uh-huh.
probably like back in 2020 because he was, well not was, but he still lives next door to this guy that him and his wife live next door to this guy that I was dating.
what the fuck no so I he was taking the trash out one day and I'm walking up the steps and I look up and he looked down and saw me and he froze up like he saw a damn ghost I seen him at the fucking mall one day I seen him at Mondom and this was like like two years ago maybe something like that like maybe like two or three years ago yeah mine's is like about the same like 2020 because it's
be yeah yeah it's about to be 2022 so like yeah I seen him like 2019 or something like that like he was in the morning he like stopped like oh shit you know how like your whole body get hot yeah he froze like oh shit I know I ain't about to see this bitch I just waved at him I did too I was like
I was like, what's up, y'all? I was like, hey. I gave a little awkward white people smile to how they give to us when they uncomfortable. Yeah. And I'm like, all right, move out the way so I can walk up the steps and try to go to this nigga house and get some dick. That literally tight as shit. Real tight. All right, so did you tell the niggas?
He knew about it. Okay, so he knew about the situation. Yeah, he knew about it because he happened to see it in that circle. So that guy already knew about it. Yeah, yeah. And I was like, yo, you ain't tell me. He was like, yeah, I mean, shit. What you want me to say? Right, right. Ain't nothing that, you know, he could do and shit. And I'm pretty sure that he's not the only man that is battling, you know, his
you know, sexuality and, you know, demons that come with and the demons are not being able to, you know, live in your truth and be who you are and you're trying to fight it. And it's like, yo, like, no, that's when it becomes a demon. But if you, you're basically what she's saying is, so I can clear this up for y'all. We all try to cancel her again. She's not saying that homosexuality is a demon. She's just saying when you're trying to hide it is when it's,
Seems like it's a demon. Yeah. That's what she's trying to say. Like you're, you're, you're fighting yourself, you know, and that, and that's what spiritual warfare is. Like when you fight with yourself, you fight with like, you know who you are, you know, when it's much easier to just walk in your truth and be who you are, you know what I'm saying? And then it don't matter who the fuck accepts you, you know, and really don't like you, you're not supposed to be looking for acceptance by people anyway, right?
looking for validation from other people anyway. I know that it may seem like it'll make your life easier to be accepted, but honestly, who the fuck wants to fit in this fucked up ass world? So we're going to end it on that note. Say bye, sister. Peace out, y'all. And don't be judging my sister, but her name is Lady of Rage with an I on Instagram, just in case y'all want to ask us some more questions about that guy. Love you, boo. Love you too, girl. And every Wednesday, hump day, and in my best deep pan voice, peace.
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