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Just like that, we're back on the air. Welcome back to yet another Calfly Reckless episode with your girl, Jess Hilarious. We got Taylor in the building. Say hi, Taylor. Hi. Y'all say hi to Taylor. Okay. That's my baby mama. She in here. And she's going to be helping me fix the mess. We're going to jump straight into it. Again, we have no voice notes and I get why, but I already see this person can't spell. So bear with me. All right. All right.

Hey, girly. So I'm conflicted. I've been cool with these two guys since we were in diapers. Damn near. But as we grew older, I started to realize one of them developed feelings for me. Oh, my God. I was talking some shit like that before. Let's say his name is Jake. I wasn't going to turn him down nor agree because we're friends first. I didn't want to mess up the friendship. So once the other boy found out, I'm going to say his name is AJ. So once AJ found out his man's like me, all hell broke loose.

The friendship dynamic was no more. Now they both just try to prove who's better for me. But it's quite annoying because I don't want either one of them. What? So the other one. I know. I'm almost to the point of confusion as well. So she has two friends that she grew up with. Yes. Basically since in diapers. They've been cool as fuck. But she said one of them started developing feelings for her.

There's one of them, though. I know, but now she's talking about the second one, developing feelings as well. Because both of them now are trying to see who can win her over. Like, they're in competition to get her. But she did say that she didn't want to mess up the friendship with Jake. So she didn't want to turn him down or agree to start dealing with him. So she just, like...

Kind of didn't do anything yet. We got to finish, but I mean, it's kind of a little weird. Yeah, like she said, I'm going to take it from a few lines up. She said, now they both try to prove who's better for me. Yeah, so both of them like your ass, dummy.

And it's quite annoying because I don't want neither one of them. Okay, okay. I valued our friendship way more than anything. Now, don't get me wrong. I did like AJ when we were younger, but it's like he's like a brother now. And how would I even be able to do that, you know? Then Jake just fell back once he realized I wasn't budging. Then he randomly texted me for a date. I'm not going to lie. I actually replied and accepted. Da fuck? You just said. Girl.

Then he flaked girls. So that confused me. They just playing games. Oh, my gosh. I don't know. I'm just here to ask. Should I choose one or just try to keep them both in a friend zone or just cut both of them off? It's hard to tell when your friends start to like you. And I just don't know what to do. And I don't want to lose them. OK, so you don't want to lose them, but it's annoying that they like you.

You don't like neither one of them, but you did like one when you were younger, but you didn't want to fuck up the friendship. And that was when you were younger. So now you get fast forward. You get older. You don't like neither one of them, but you accepted a fucking date. Right. That one of them asked you out on. I think. Weird.

Well, they're just trying to see. I don't know. I think what guys from, in a sense, what I learned, I think they try to see if they can. How long they were friends for? She says since they've been in diapers damn near both of them. She's been friends with both of them. Like all three of them are friends. And she's been. Well, you know what? She actually didn't say whether AJ and Jake were close. She's just been both of their friends. So I don't know.

Hey, girly, I'm so conflicted. I've been cool with these two guys since we were in diapers damn near. But as we grew older, I started to realize one of them developed feelings for me. Let's say his name is Jake. I wasn't going to turn him down or agree. Yeah, she didn't say whether Jake and AJ were friends. Like all three of them were like collectively friends together as a group. She's just friends with both of them. What if, I mean, I don't know. I just feel like.

Depending on the circumstance, guys are going to try it. Absolutely. Especially if you're attractive. But then he turned her down. I don't know. And she said he flaked. So what's she asking? She wants to know whether she should try with the other guy now? No. I want to know, should I keep them both in a friend zone or just cut both of them off? It's hard as hell when your friends start to like you. I just don't know what to do and I don't want to lose them.

Yeah, so you keep them in the friend zone, boo. Yeah, that's it. But I think you owe both of them a conversation. You know, especially if you're writing... You're to the point where you're writing me about this. I think you should have a conversation with the both of them. Sit down with AJ. You sit down with Jake. Sit down with Jake first because he's the one that came on to you first and you actually didn't tell him yay or nay. You know, you just decided to go on a date with Jake... I mean, with AJ and AJ flaked on you. So...

You said at one point they were in competition to see who can get you first, like who can prove themselves, I guess, to be the best for you. I feel like...

You need to sit down with Jake and say, yo, we've been friends since diapers and shit. I don't want to mess up anything. When you first told me that you did like me and you, you know, we realized that you had developed feelings for me. I didn't know what to tell you. I didn't want to say yes. I didn't want to say no. I love you. We, we, you know, I've grown to know who you are. I know you inside and out. We're friends. We're really, really good friends. I just don't want to risk the entirety of our friendship.

If this doesn't work out. Because some friends actually do that. They come on to their friends and they actually start dating and they realize that this shit is not what they thought it would be. And then now they can't even go back to being friends because they've already explored more intimately what a relationship would be like. I think they should keep it as...

I think they should keep it as friends. Yeah. Cause she didn't have feelings. You tell AJ the same thing. She said she used to like one of them when they were younger, when they were all younger, but then they grew up. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. Like this, it's too many people out here. It's too many men out here to try to choose between two really good friends. And then also good friends are very, very hard to come by. Um, so I think if there were, if there were,

If there wasn't anything going on, like anything wrong with the friendship at all, don't fuck it up by trying to fuck with each other. Also, at the same time, I know she's enjoying that attention, that both of them are basically competing for her love. Because what woman wouldn't like that? I mean, she did say it's annoying, but she also didn't put a fucking stop to it either. And tell either one of them, look, I don't want either one of y'all. This is crazy. We've been friends for a long time. I've been y'all homegirl. You know what I'm saying? Let's just keep it at that.

AJ, I did like you when I was younger. I know you probably know that, but we were younger. We're grown now. I don't know how old they are, but if y'all are adults, we're adults. We're young adults. No, it's too many fish in the sea. I just don't want to fuck our friendship up. All three of us have a great friendship. I don't want to fuck it up, period. And that's point blank.

I need to know the story. This is boring. Crazy. Because girl, why you come on and answer your question. Answer your own goddamn question. Now we got a commercial. And if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm a beat your ass. Listen, have you ever looked around at your crew and thought, man, these are my people. The ones who turn the smallest moments into memories. You'll be talking about for years. The folks who show up when you need them and make your life so much better.

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No. All right, good. That's fine. That's fine. Because we got another one. Okay. Hey, Jess, let me tell you about my baby daddy. So he got his new little girlfriend. Okay, cool. I have no problem with that. But our seven-year-old daughter does. And that's to get me started when he brought the girlfriend around my daughter without even asking me how I would feel about it.

Which is a big no-no for me, but that's a story for another day. My daughter isn't comfortable with her yet, or just not even comfortable with the fact that her father is seeing someone else, so I suggested we give her time. He agreed, then proceeds to do it again, and lied knowing that my daughter has to come back home to me and tell me.

Of course, we had arguments about it, but he just feels he can do what he want and come to find out it's two different women. OK, Neo. Jess, I don't want to keep her from seeing her father, but it comes to a point, especially when it has to do with my child and her comfortability. I have I haven't let her over there in two weeks, but she asked about him.

I'm just not sure how I should go about this. I know this is a lot, but do you have any suggestions? Oh, my...

Uh-huh. Now... What does his... What does... You said that the baby dad agreed? The baby daddy agreed, I guess, to, you know, she said... So why hasn't he... The fact that her father isn't... Is seeing someone else. Like, the daughter has a problem with that. So I suggest that we give her time. And he agreed. But then... Yeah, but then proceeds to do it again. And then he lied. Like, you know, because...

He knows that the daughter, I mean, the daughter is going to go back and tell the mom everything that happened at the dad's house. Anyway, she's seven years old. And the mom honestly probably asks her, like, what's going on? You know what I mean? Like, she sounds like she's already exposed to a lot anyway. Has the daughter told him?

Has the daughter told him what? She felt. I don't think the daughter told the mom. I mean, told the dad. I think the daughter tells the mom. And then the mom then goes to the dad like, yo, look, this is a problem. I want to know how long they've been broken up, though, because honestly, let me say, yeah, she doesn't say how long they've been broken up. She just says it's our baby daddy and he got a new little girlfriend.

But listen, I'm a woman. And then, you know, I read I read into contacts and she say he got a new little girlfriend. That tells me that there is some type of intimidation or jealousy there. Or they may whether they have been broken up long or a shorter period, short period of time. She's not past her baby daddy.

I get that. I get that she's not fully moved on from him. And he probably is not either. He probably makes passes at the baby mom. But before we get there, if y'all are not together, he certainly can do what he wants to do. I understand the concerns for your child's safety, the concerns for exposing too many women too quickly to your daughter. She is only seven. I understand that.

However, you kept baby girl away from him for two weeks and you said that she asked about her dad. Why not have her dad come to your house? Why not just say, look, can you just not have them around? Can you just take her out somewhere? Like take the daughter out? I don't, you know, you can still, there are still ways that she can be around her father without being around those women. And, you know, keeping her away from him for two weeks is,

As you can see, that hurts the daughter. That doesn't hurt Hugh. It doesn't hurt, you know, the dad as much as it hurts the daughter. I think the daughter should say something, you know?

You think so? Yeah. I mean, I think that the dad should step in and have a one on one with his daughter. I don't think the mom should have anything to do with it. I think he should also explain to her that sometimes mommies and daddies don't stay together. I know you probably want to see because baby girl probably want to see her mom and her dad together, which is something that she probably already saw. And now she's confused. There's not one.

There's not only this one new woman that my dad is introducing me to or that I'm seeing around my father, but there are two women. Okay. I honestly had reservation about it when they said Neo. When Neo baby mom was like, yo, you got these four women around my kids. Like you introduced them. And then, you know what I'm saying? Like, this is crazy. You have daughters and you have sons and you're letting them know that this is okay in life. Yeah. And Neo's so...

Don't get me started on you. Because, live how you want to live. It's just how he is going about it. It's just disappointing. All your songs were lies.

I know. And I still be jamming to him, bitch. I don't care. I know. It is crazy. He was saying, too, that he tells his kids, like, yeah, this one, you know, she'll take you to work. This one, she'll take you to school. Yeah, this one's gonna cook your breakfast. This one is gonna... It's like they have rules. But you're teaching... Yes. Because you have daughters. Ne-Yo has daughters and sons. He does. I think he just has sons. No, he has daughters, too, I believe. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

But, yeah, so, I mean, I'm with, I'm totally with keeping it real with your kids. Like, you shouldn't lie to your children. No, that's what, like, that's what black families have done up until now. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, back in the day, they always swept shit under the rug. They lied to their parents. You know, we were trying to, parents would make it seem like

Everything is great in the house. Yeah. And it's not, you know what I mean? Like even me growing up with two married parents, there's a lot of shit going on that I didn't find out about until I was an adult. And that was their way of protecting us, you know? And do I think they should have done it another way just for the sake of themselves, not being happy in a marriage that long with each other. You know what I mean? Yeah. I don't feel that you should sacrifice your happiness just so your kids can see that

A traditional family dynamic growing up. No, everything is not the normal. Everything is different for different families. I would absolutely prefer that my mom put her happiness before, you know, before, before ours, honestly, because kids are going to adapt. We were kids. We're going to adapt. You know what I'm saying? You don't have to live a lie.

Don't live a lie so long, you know, because then your life can pass you by. You know what I'm saying? Hold up, hold up. I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Have you ever looked around at your crew and thought, man, these are my people. The ones who turn the smallest moments into memories you'll be talking about for years. The folks who show up when you need them and make your life so much better.

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So grab one, crack it open, and toast to the people who make life worth celebrating. But don't wait. They won't be around forever. So grab one for everybody, pop the top, and keep the good vibes flowing. Next time you're making memories, don't miss your chance to share a Coke with all your favorite people.

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I have a special playlist that always gets me right. And with the Bose premium sound system, you too can vibe like you're at your own private concert. Plus with the 64 color personalized light option, you can set the mood any way you want. Be it romantic, chill, or in a straight up do not disturb mode.

Let the Nissan Murano be your oasis in a chaotic world. Because sometimes, the greatest rush isn't rushing at all. Drive an all-new Nissan Murano today. Panoramic moonroof, ambient lighting, bows, and massaging leather-appointed seats are optional features. Hey fam, if you're like me, you're thinking about how to level up in your career. Maybe you're fresh out of college, just started in your field, or even looking to switch things up and find your true calling.

Whatever stage you're in, remember that this is your time to grow, to learn, and to build something that lasts. State Farm understands that early career development is key to long-term success. They've been a steady presence in our communities, and they know that having the right support early on can make all the difference.

State Forum is there to help you make smart moves and to help you get the coverage you need. We all know the journey to success is a marathon, not a sprint. It's about staying focused, staying grounded, and making sure you're protected every step of the way. Let's build our careers with confidence, knowing that State Forum is there to support us, just like they've always been. Because like a good neighbor, State Forum is there. Find out more at stateforum.com.

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I was a kid. We didn't we would have adapted. You know what I'm saying? My dad was never a bad dad. He just wasn't a good husband. Yeah. You know, so that's just what it was. He was the greatest father I could have had ever. And we would have definitely adapted to them living separate or whatever. You know what I'm saying? But back to this shit.

What the fuck was the story about again? Because, girl, I'm like, the fuck? I guess she wants to know what she do when it comes to her baby dad. You would think I'm pregnant. Okay. Her baby dad. Yes, okay. That's all I want to keep her from saying, her father. But it comes to a point, especially when it has to do with my child and her comfortability. Yes, but I do want you to update me on this. Because I want to know, did you move on from your baby daddy yet? You know what I mean? I feel like you haven't. I feel like there is...

Maybe, I don't know, I just feel like, because how she describes the girlfriend in the beginning, the new little girlfriend, is very telling. You know what I mean? It sounds, yeah, the new little girlfriend. And then she didn't even say little, she L-I-L.

yeah oh bitch yeah that was me all day well whenever back back back in the day when Rome had a new little bitch I would definitely sound like that you know what I mean rather like now it's more so like oh Rome's friend or Rome's girlfriend or you know he's in a relationship now you know whatever so I would I refer to Mariah as Rome's girlfriend when you were back back in the day did he bring you I never kept him over I never kept him from Ashton Ashton was bad as shit please get him

No, but I'm saying that you can have him around 10 bitches, please. He didn't care he was around other girls? No, you know why? Because Rome loves his children, has always loved his, even when it was just Ashton, like loved my son, loved his son. So I always trusted that Rome would never, ever put Ashton in harm's way intentionally. And then I was like over Rome very early in life.

Like my last time even looking at Rome in any type of way that would give me butterflies was Ashton was maybe what? Three months. Oh, wow. Yeah. Like our baby was young. And the last time we actually tried to get together, Ashton was two years.

And after 24 hours, I was like, oh, fuck no. So literally a day like and I was in a relationship with somebody and I left that nigga to try to make it work again because I wanted to see the traditional family dynamic. OK, I wanted to give it a chance. I'm like, OK, I want my family. He was saying the same shit. And I think it cheated on me. Oh, yeah. And in 24 hours.

And I was like, what the fuck? Girl, when I went to try to go get the nigga back and the nigga was like, oh, no, stay over there. I was like, no, I don't got a grace period. Like, the fuck? Girl! Mm-mm-mm.

So that's why I say, I'm like, no, no, no, no. You have to really, really move on and be past this shit. Because I honestly don't think she would give a fuck if she was past the baby daddy. Yeah. Honestly, yes. And especially if he's a good father. Yeah. If he's a good father. Do you think people that, like parents that do feel a type of way when they bring kids

another person in too soon. Like, it's just that they're feelings. Say that again? Like, do you think that they just have feelings towards their baby mom or baby dad when they want to bring around other people? Like, you've seen girls get upset with, like...

I don't want, like, don't bring my kid around every, every girl. Like, I don't know her and everything. Because I feel like I would have to meet the girl too, though. Oh, no, no, no. Absolutely. I feel like, I definitely feel like you would have to meet the person. Yeah. Um, I don't disagree with that at all. Especially if you're going to be around my child. I would love to know. And then so much shit is going on with people, with kids and shit these days. Um,

people are hurting kids that are even there. So, you know, stepfathers and stepdads are like hurting kids, killing kids, all types of shit. So absolutely. I definitely have to know who my child is going to be around. Um, but this is also another thing. Is this a serious relationship or is this just a one-off? You know what I mean? Would you feel that way if they're just flings?

I've been in that situation and yes, Rome has had thousands of flings. Because I would feel the type of way that you're just bringing girls in and out. I don't think I need to be have feelings for you for that. Yeah, yeah. I think in that case, don't

Why do they have to be around my child? If this is just somebody that you're talking to, why do you have to be around my child? If this is just somebody that... You know what I mean? If this is not a committed relationship... Now, when it gets committed and it gets serious, it's like, okay. I'm introducing you. I would love to meet this person. So then I know I want to be comfortable. I want to make sure when my child is absent, in my absence or anything, while you are around them,

Or, you know, you're with your dad. Is the girlfriend safe? Is the girlfriend cool? Does she have kids? The fuck? Does she know how to care for a child? But I think that should be a conversation with the parents first. Absolutely. Absolutely. I think this guy is just, he just got bitches. Yeah. You know, because she did say new little girlfriend. Or maybe he has a new little girlfriend. No, no. Maybe she is the one who made the girl the new little girlfriend. Yeah. Because I don't think he probably would if he didn't tell her, like, this my bitch. You know what I'm saying? Right. This my girlfriend. Right.

The little girl probably came back like, oh, dad, it was a girl, you know, and then came back like, oh, it was another girl. You know what I mean? Like, so this this may be just women that he is around that he talked to that do shit for him or whatever or just whatever. I don't agree that he's bringing them around his daughter if he's not going to be with them. Right. But you got to be able to just spend time with your child, just by yourself with your fucking child.

Like some niggas can't move without bitches. Weird. But we've come to get the end of another carefully reckless episode with your girl, Jess Hilarious. Say bye, Taylor. Bye. And we're going to get some updates on these people. I know it was a lot of boneless stories today, but it is what it is. I'll catch you next week. Peace.

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