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Welcome to Can't Believe Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. 🎵
And just like that, we back on the air. Welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless with your girl, Jess Hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again in here. It's the ratings for me. I know, it's the ratings. Look, Charlamagne Tha God then told me he like you on here. He don't know you. He ain't gonna like you until he know you. Now, when he meets you, it's a different story. It's gonna be different. But he, I don't know. He gonna love me though. He gonna be a little blown.
back by your low ass personality and shit. She little. Okay, so she's four seven with a six nines personality. So whatever. Okay, so now like the last two episodes, Bria has always known what we were going to talk about, but I decided to switch it up on her today and not let her know what we talking about. I told her I want her to go into the subject completely blind because I
I feel like she fucked up last night. I'm in for a rude awakening. You are in for a rude awakening, honey. And listen, let me tell you this. You're my friend. I'm going to do it. You know what I'm saying? Because most of our friends, when our friends fuck up, and like players do, we got to get them back on track. We can't just throw you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing. But I'm going to let you know you fucked up last night. Okay, so anyway, this is story time for y'all, okay?
Last night we went out to a rooftop party in Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit. I'm talking about one of the most littest rooftop parties you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay. And my friend is very extra. She's very short. And you know, a lot of people who are short have these, you know, big man, big woman complexes. And she definitely showed that last night. Okay. You are totally fine.
at the rooftop party. There was an after party that you took me to. She got lit. I did take you to it. Yes, you did. I took you to it. I wanted to see a special somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me. I roll with her. So she felt like she was in charge. Let's just start there. Oh, okay. We get there. We get put in a section. Put up nice too. I'm talking about it was lit. Okay. I'm listening. I looked around. I did not see who I wanted to see.
So I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I said to her, listen, I'm not going to be here too much longer if Shnurr Shnurr ain't in here. Right? So, no, that's his name, Shnurr Shnurr. If Shnurr Shnurr not in here, I'm not going to be here. That's not what you said. What did I say? You said, I don't see. So let's go.
I did not say that. That's what you said. I did not say that. I said, I'm not going to be here. I'm not going to be here too much longer if I don't see schnock schnock. And he was like, all right, Priya, let's go. But you had to go to the bathroom. You said, are you okay to sit here? And I said, yeah, I'm good. I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure? I said, okay. He was like, do you need me to take your purse? I said, no. Now, she's very protective of me. Y'all, this is something y'all should know. And I do understand that. Everywhere we go, this girl is...
my little ass bodyguard in midget form. So it's like, okay, cool. That's my girl. But all right, I get it. She goes to the bathroom. She comes back. She ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up. What's going on? He said he was real young. No, no. So then, come out of nowhere, right? Yeah.
He didn't come in the way though. Yeah, no. Shmeesh, shmeesh. Came out of nowhere and was like... Oh, okay. Yo, we were there two seconds, yo. So you leave it? Two seconds off. And I said, what are you talking about? Like, I didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I thought that like maybe somebody was getting put out of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch. I'm talking about...
Security was big as fuck Big as shit And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much Because he was trying to impress you So you went downstairs After you told me that she was going to the bathroom You went downstairs and you was like Hey look she ready to go So it is what it is And she needs security to exit Cause I'm too short I imagine those were your words And he came up 15 minutes later I'll give you this one
No, don't give me nothing. I'm going to give you this one. No, don't give me shit. I'm going to give you this one. Seriously? You caught me by surprise with this. I'm going to give you this one. Oh, you trying me. You caught me by surprise with this. Okay, what'd I say? What'd I say? Oh, no, you know, got me. You said you were ready to go because you did not see. Shnurr, shnurr. Whatever. But the thing about it is I never said I was ready to go. I said, look, I'm going to fucking leave if shnurr, shnurr. All right, well, I was being proactive. You can't knock that out.
I get it. Listen, no, no, no. Okay, cool. No, cut it the fuck out now. I didn't say that you were wrong. I just feel like you should have told me like, look, I got security coming up here. We ready to get the fuck out of here. That's it. Put me on point.
You came back from the bathroom, aka downstairs, letting niggas know I was ready to go and didn't tell me shit. So you was just like, all right, cool, whatever, whatever. I mean, not police. Basically, his big ass walked up like Shaq, like, yo, you ready to go? And I was like...
No Cause then Schnurr Schnurr walked up It seemed like he walked up With them niggas right Schnurr Schnurr walked up On security and all Schnurr Schnurr was with him Baby it wasn't no joke I was like dang I shouldn't have said nothing First of all I shouldn't have minded my business The world Schnurr Schnurr was right It was just that she should have said Look
friend I told security to come up because you told me that you might not be here you told me you wanted to go you told me that you know Snurr Snurr ain't here and yeah so he ended up coming I think Snurr Snurr was already there but he's trying to yeah I think he was in the cut yeah a little bit what you think he was doing because I felt like he was already there now now that I'm thinking about it because I didn't know this was going to be a thing let's talk about it so now I'm thinking about it I'm thinking he was already there and then saw security coming up to get you and was came out the blue like
Oh, I'm here. And it was like, it's too late. It was like a thing. Bitch, it'll never be too late for schnurr schnurr. I mean, it was never too late. That's my guy. I mean, it's my guy. But I'm just saying, that's just the way it happened. And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive, but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that you were not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this could have all been killed if you was like, look,
I called. Ain't nothing happening. Whatever, whatever, and whatever. We going to be on our way out. And now they'll be like, oh, all right, all right, all right, cool. But like, I didn't tell them where to go right now. Communication is key with friends, so I had to communicate better. I'm sorry, I had people buying me drinks and everything, motherfucker. I was not ready. No, we didn't. You didn't need no. I know.
I know I didn't need no more drinks. I know I was pretty fucked up last night. It was time to go. No, it wasn't time to go. I told you that I might not be there no more. You was like, all right, it's time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah. But it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe in that place. I just was like, where is Shner Shner? That's all. And Shner Shner showed up. He did. And once he did, what did I do?
You set your ass right there. I stayed my ass right there. You set right there. And that's just what... Hey, yo, he was like, you set your ass down. No, for real. I stayed my ass right there. And then listen. And I told you it was my fault. Okay, but look, we not even talking. This is not even that part. The part of it was when you kept telling...
that nigga to sit down like you was the principal or something. I was trying to tell him that the matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying to say. That's not what you were trying to tell him. I was trying to say that. You were actually pleading your case and you were just like, I was pleading. I definitely pleaded my case. I know. Because I didn't want to think that you was, you did anything. I said, I called for security because you said to me that.
they you didn't see him and you were ready to exit period that's what i got out the deal but did not say okay well i read between the lines wrong okay so look that's what you did you represent your lines you're my friend that's what friends do they look out for other friends and they may read signals a little wrong sometimes but whatever that's just what it was that's just what it was we can't change last night
You know what I'm saying? But that's why I wanted to tell you and keep that shit just as real as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh, no, no, no, no, no. A friend will hear my mouth. And I'm hearing it now. Girl, I'm telling you, she kept... Yes, you was like, sit down. Sit down right here and talk to her. First of all, Miss Trench Bull, we not...
- Girl. - Oh, ain't no mess. - You a mess. - You was like, first of all-- - I'ma give you this. - You wasn't here. So we had, I'm like, no, the fuck, she not talking to my man like that. Like, what's going on with you? - Not shnurrsh, shnurrsh. - Yeah, shnurrsh, shnurrsh. And you knew.
So I was like, okay, all right, I got this. And I could see he was giving you that look like, look, little girl. Because listen, y'all have to understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look, little mama, you better get it together because I ain't fucking around with no little one telling me what to do. I ain't fucking around with no big one telling me what to do. He was in my level, right?
Oh, he was like, you know, what security care out here? He said, wait a minute. No, I would never have you put out. But no, I was just like, wait a minute. What the hell is going on here? This little girl talking to me like this. Then you handle makeup on last night, girl. You really look like a little kid. Girl.
You wouldn't even let me put my makeup on. You wouldn't even let me put that makeup on. Yeah, because you wouldn't let me put it on. Well, I took two hours to get ready and you decided to get ready when I was walking to the car. So that's on you. You decided to get ready while a bitch was walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay. I give you a pass. So this topic would be friends overstepping their boundaries in their friends' relationships. Now you have to imagine the shoe on the other foot because if I called your nigga a her-her, you would be like, um...
Why you say that just to her? And I'd be like, no, I was talking to her because like, you know what I'm saying? So yeah, we got snurr, snurr and her, her. So yeah, that's what we not doing. Okay. I would never. I love this episode, friend. Yeah. I would never try to play. I love it. Okay. I would never try to play her out of position. Period. You know, even if when it comes to you, I got you, but I don't make decisions for you. Like if I was making all the decisions for you, he would be like, wait a minute. I'm dating you.
Her, not you. I'm dating Bria. I'm not dating you. And I do understand because at the end of the day, I sat on Shnurr Shnurr's dick last night.
Keep that on record. All right. So whatever. But no, no, no. He's not upset with you. But he did express to me like, what was her problem? Like, I never see her. And he sees you, you know, out. Not too often, but like he sees you. And he's like, look. FaceTime him. She literally never. I'm sorry. You said what? He be FaceTiming you? Because this would be not doing. I said FaceTime him. What?
So I can add all that to him. I would never in my fucking life. No, no, fuck it. When it's over. I would never. The fact of the matter is you shot me with this one right here. You got me, friend. I'm going to give you this one. Yeah. You got me. All right, you just got to get me next week. Either way, we got some more. We got some more. I got something for you. We got some more topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm going to beat your ass. Listen.
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Now listen, so the first half was about overstepping your boundaries in your friends' relationships or your friends' situationships. Now the second one is about friends, period. Now listen, so if you had a friend that...
one day brought you around another friend and introduced you two, if you started hanging with that friend because you two got so cool without the other friend. The original friend. The original friend who even was the reason that you two came together or even was introduced to one another. How does that affect the friendship between you and their original friend? So being on both sides of the fences? Yeah.
It can destroy some stuff. Okay. I have introduced people to other individuals and they have done things to me or we have had to fallen out, but they have stayed connected with my other friends and then we're still friends. So it's like a thing, but it's like a disappointing thing because it's like, how are you still friends with my friend? It's a thing. So it can be a very hurtful thing too at the end of the day. Being on the other side of the other fence,
you was introduced to a friend from another friend and you and the other friend gets the vibing and it's a vibe. Like I'm into vibes, period. So when a vibe comes my way, I try to, you know, I try to embrace a vibe because I don't like negative energy. Absolutely. So I just like, oh, why are we doing this? Except last night.
But go heat. We're doing this. We're doing that. Like, it's my type of vibe. Like, I just always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy, if that makes sense. And so I just go where the vibe is taking me because I know where I want to go. So that is a thing. It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity. Like, if you are genuine...
and you are the type of bitch that I can go with anywhere, it's a fucking vibe. It's a whole vibe. Like I said, for me, I told my listeners this shit last week. Like, I haven't known you for very, very long, but I met you through one of our mutual friends, and you are...
very genuine you make me laugh and all I do is make other people laugh for a living I do that I have to do that whether I want to or not if I have a show eight o'clock tomorrow I can't postpone the show because I'm going through some shit I gotta go you know I'm saying unless there is a family emergency uh death or you know COVID or whatever can stop that not too many things can stop that though you know what I'm saying TV opportunity okay cool but I
I have to go out there with that hat on all the time. I have to go out there with that face on all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh. That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes me laugh so much. I love it. You, you make me laugh. Like, I'm getting this laughter in my life now. Not saying I had, like, a hard life or anything, but, you know. I love it. It's very...
trying when you have to make everybody else laugh and you don't find much funny. There's not too many people of your caliber who would allow people even in their space to make them laugh. Some people have motives in what they're doing. They want to be around you because of who you are. That's my laugh. And you've seen that.
You know what I'm saying? That's the last thing I want to do. I just try to be who I am. And the fact that I can be who I am around you and that's still a vibe for you and we can still do stuff. And then you can still correct me when I'm wrong. I can say like, yes, that was wrong. Or you can come to me for advice. Even the short period of time that we've been friends, it matters. That's a vibe. You know what I'm saying? We don't always got to go out and do stuff. We can do stuff in the house. We watch...
Anything. We can do something else. How often? Like almost every day when I'm home. Period. So like I do understand that and the access to my place now is very limited. There are... I can count on...
not even two hands how many people know where I live now. And three of those people know because they have to know. That's family. That's my team. But you and baby. So it's just like, it's very different for me to expose everything coming from
who just had it out for me legally. Right, right. You know, and the previous past. Like, oh, I had a bitch put my address out online. That was different. Which is a big reason why I moved. But I just, I mean, seriously, like, when we're speaking on friends and, you know, meeting you through a mutual friend, like, like,
I don't even know what my first impression of you was. I don't even remember because I felt like we clicked. And, you know, we seen each other prior to meeting. You're just a mutual friend. We seen each other out, you know, basketball games, which is fine. Stuff like that. But it was like when we clicked, when we were like, when we was connecting, we clicked. It was like, it was a thing. It wasn't like a...
who's that? It wasn't the, it just, we just connected. I don't know if it was like a, you know, I know you went to the church. Absolutely. I'm very much spiritual. So I don't know if it was like, you know, I mean, at the end of the day, my prayer is always to, you know,
I want to be in a divine connection. Like I don't want no like relationships just because of who I am or because of who else, who somebody else is. I just want everything to be divine and locked up. If that makes sense. And that's, that's the only thing I want. I don't want to be around a wife because of what they got going on because what they got, I can have, and they can give me inspiration to get what they,
you know what i'm saying so it's never my thing to be around somebody because of what they have and all that stuff it's always been a motivational thing for me if that makes sense and so us being through a mutual friend who we love to death like you know what i'm saying and you know we and we still could fail meet your friend but i feel like it was a blessing from above if that makes sense yeah no it makes sense and even if it doesn't we can make it make sense to people because it makes sense to us so we just have to interpret it for them you know what i'm saying on the spiritual level
Maybe this was supposed to happen. You know what I'm saying? Because you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with things in my life. We talk all the time. We talk every day. We prophesy to one another. We give encouraging words to each other.
And a lot of things that I say to you, you feel from your heart, you know, and I say them from my heart. So I do want to tell you wholeheartedly, I love you. I love you too. But you fucked up last night. You know it is what it is. And look, you knew I was going to come back to that. I don't know why you sitting here looking like, oh, she like me. Yeah, I love you to death. I love you too, sir. That's what friends are for. But if you can correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back from that? Then that's on everything. That's a whole.
another level of friendship you know what I'm saying like some people think that when you do this like she said now I can't be cool with her oh no she came out her friend she no that's what friends are supposed to do we bounce this back like double times from what we what was going on you know and that's how we enlighten you've kind of taught me even in our relationship in our friendship you've kind of taught me that like no you can be friends after this like yeah after you go up we don't have to go two three five weeks without speaking like no you texted me the next day like
You good, friend? Yeah. All right, what you doing? Hi, baby. One of the students said, we really got to talk today. And he was like, okay, what's up? All right, cool. And then you went to sleep because we were so tired and shit. I was so tired. You woke up. I was like, all right, girl, we got to do this podcast, girl. We got to chill. You know what I'm saying? Get something to eat. Mission. Like, we didn't let nothing stop it because of what happened last night. And what are we going to do when we leave today? Bye, y'all. Probably go get some drinks and some crepes. You know what I'm saying? Bye, y'all. See you guys.
We're going to get some drinks and some goddamn crabs. And listen, that brings you to the end of the episode today. If I can give a word to any of my women, it can be, listen, if you fall out with a friend,
You can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch, she's in slept with your man. If she didn't call your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those are things you can't come back from. You know what I'm saying? Cause okay. I, my mom don't deserve that. I didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the fuck? I look like a lick and you know, certain things just, you, you just can't reconcile after, you know, but yeah,
If you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So I want to say that now. In the beginning of the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You got to check your friends. Like I checked my friend on the episode. I really did. I checked my baby and she got it right. It'll never happen again. But one thing she will always do is her best to protect me. And she cannot tell me that she's not going to do that.
You understand? Because that will just be too much unlike her. I got you, friend. So, shout out to LaBria Shannon on today for her third week in a row. Her third consecutive episode of Carefully Reckless with me, Jess Hilarion. What do you got to say? Don't surprise me next week. I promise I won't have to do this. You made my baby mad and he never gets mad at anybody. I saw V. I know. He has the most laid back personality ever.
I know. Okay. All right. Look, she's telling me to get off because she going to cuss this nigga the fuck out. She going to cuss me out. Throw this nigga when we get off of here. So make sure you tune in next week. Every Wednesday hump day. And in my best pan, boys. I love me. I love y'all. And y'all love me. And y'all love y'all. Peace.
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