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2023/11/8
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Jess Hilarious: 本期节目讨论了两个朋友因为Instagram Reels的使用频率和沟通方式而产生的矛盾。一位朋友抱怨另一位朋友频繁发送Reels,让她感到厌烦,并因此要求对方停止。另一位朋友则认为这只是朋友之间的一种沟通方式,并没有恶意。最终,因为沟通不畅,两位朋友互相屏蔽,导致关系紧张。Jess Hilarious 作为节目主持人,试图帮助两位朋友解决问题,并分析了她们沟通中的问题,指出双方都没有承担责任,并且缺乏有效的沟通技巧。她建议双方应该坦诚沟通,互相理解,才能修复彼此的关系。 Best friend: 这位朋友认为频繁发送Instagram Reels只是朋友之间的一种沟通方式,并没有恶意。她认为对方应该学会忽略或者关闭通知,而不是直接要求她停止发送。她对对方抱怨自己发送太多Reels感到不满,并因此采取了屏蔽对方的举动。 Listener: 听众来信描述了朋友之间因为频繁发送Instagram reels而产生矛盾,情况越来越糟,希望得到帮助。

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And just like that, we're back with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl, Just Hilarious. What I be doing? I be fixing mess. And it is what it is. Okay. All right. And I'm here with my best friend again. So I saw a lot of comments. Y'all happy or when she on, the ratings is higher when she on because they love you. So say what's up. What's up. All right, y'all. So that's it. Say it better. I think you can do better than that. What's up?

Do a little bit better. One more for the one time. Say it for the people on the back, baby. What's up? What's up? What?

Guys now if I'd have said no say it for the gays in the back She'd have been standing screaming shouting and hanging from the roof. All right. All right So let me tell you something right now. We're not gonna do is talk about us. What? Talk about us the gays Oh y'all. Oh, okay. No us. Baby. I'm not gay Not not gay. I was but I am not now. Thanks. All right. Um, I mean it was cool but um I'm big straighty. All right. Look

We're going to jump straight in. We got a voice memo today. Y'all do not know how happy I am after reading them long ass, incomplete ass sentences that y'all be sending me. But I can't help it because I'm going to be juicy as shit. Okay, I know. I know. I be struggling to read over this motherfucker. You be struggling right with me. Oh, no, I don't. Listen, we ain't going to struggle today, though. This is an update. The first one I'm going to jump into. So she sent two paragraphs. Uh.

um commenting on the last week's episode and then she sent a voice memo so we can jump into our mess so I'm gonna read her comment first she said I'm listening to the bestie episode and I'm listening to y'all joke about these voice notes bruh and then sent a bunch of um middle finger emojis and said I sent some

But for real, the situation is worse now, and I'm even more lost on what to do or maybe what not to do. Fuck these incomplete stories. I would like some help, please. All right, I'm sorry. I'm always fussing about, I ain't got no voice notes, and y'all keep typing these long paragraphs. And meanwhile, our motherfucking ass is like, bitch, I sent voice notes, and you keep skipping over my shit. All right, so we're going to get into our story. Okay, okay. I'm trying to figure out if I ever got into our story before or not. I feel like I did.

And I feel like she missed that episode because I did this story before, but now she said some shit got worse. So we're going to jump into the new story. There we go.

So now...

Fast forward, fast forward, fast forward. Different situation. She sends a lot of reels, right? I got tired of people sending me reels. So I started demanding for people to stop sending me them goddamn reels. It's getting too much. Notifications is out the ass every morning.

Turn them off then, girl. Right.

So, yeah, I was like, bro, stop sending me so many reels. Like, it's at a point where I feel like I want to block you, and I really shouldn't have to. Like, why? I don't even watch these reels. We don't talk about them. We don't engage with them. Like, you just send them, and that's it. Just keep sending them. I don't even send you reels.

So I was sending her, like, I like spiritual stuff and her and I talk about a bunch of different things. And so, like, there's this one lady that I would like send her a horoscope from. We're also, I also have the same, she is a Pisces and Pisces is in my birth chart. So, yeah, like I had sent her a couple of things. So I went to the page to see if she had like looked at it and the messages came up weird. So I asked her, hey, did you want to follow me? Yeah.

And she was like, no, I am blocked you. I mean, I blocked you. And I was like, why? She says to prevent you from getting reels. Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. You made that shit a big deal. Her sending you reels when all you got to do is look at them or not look at them. You ain't got to open them and look at them, boo. You know what I mean? Cut the motherfucking notifications off. If you're trying to save your battery or if it's just plain and simple and simply annoying to you, you don't got to open them up, boo.

So, I mean, it was petty for her to block you, but that was just her being petty because you made a petty argument of you not wanting reels being sent to you. Me and my best friend, we send reels all day. All day. And never talk about them. We just send them. That's how we communicate. That's what it is. And so, yeah. So now, um,

So then I laughed at it and I was like, that's mad petty. Like all you had to do was just stop clicking my name. And I felt the way more so because like you just blocked and didn't say nothing. Mind you, I'm the type of person that I will definitely block and say something.

Yeah. Yeah. Hmm.

And so, and I'm not even gonna say that's now, but like, you know, definitely around that time. So I did block her because I didn't know how to tell her nicely and I would have just been rude and I know that I can hit way below the belt. I'll go to hell with Mars insults. So I didn't want to like do that because I do love her. I just didn't like what she was saying. Then why you gotta go to hell though? That's how it be sometimes. For your friend. Oh, shit. I wish the fuck you would go to hell on me, bitch. And you already knew what's going on.

Baby, I go to hell with you every time. Yeah, you do. We do. We be hella bad. But yeah, I look, you see how you just said all you had to do was stop

clicking my name why did you have to block me and then don't say nothing at least if you're gonna block me be woman enough to tell me what's going on like all right you complaining about the reels i'm blocking you but just like you said all she had to do was not click your name that's all you had to do was not click her name when you see she's sending these childish ass reels or these annoying if she already told her that she don't want them sent you know she don't like them okay don't send it yeah

I'm going to send what you sent me. I have to click it to know that you sent it to me. Yeah. I mean, well, she complaining about her sending her reels constantly. I don't look at them. I don't. So stop. Like, don't send them to me. But she sends her shit and she expects her to open it and look at it.

Because she's spiritual. But because what she's sending is spiritual. Okay, but did the girl say she didn't like the spiritual post? No, she just didn't like that she said she made a big deal of her sending her reels. Friends do it all day. Girl, I don't give a damn. If she told her that she don't like the damn reels, don't send the reels. Now, the moment that she say I don't like the spiritual readings...

Then this friend can't get upset. Then you don't send it either. Then she can't get upset. You don't send it. That's right. Because I already voiced to you and communicated with you what I don't like. Now let's go.

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I also have had to work on my delivery. So, you know, just like the time that we wasn't talking and stuff, like I was just going through my life and then just realizing like, okay, well, I didn't want to have a relationship with her. I just don't really know how to tell her why we stopped talking because how do you tell somebody something like that? So anyways, and she did end up hitting me up. I did end up telling her and then we had a whole conversation. And so now this is where we are.

So, yeah. So I told her, like, bro, like, why you can't just not send me reels? Like, why is this so hard? She was like, oh, well, thank you for your understanding. Um,

Or something like that. And so I was like, and I really didn't want to argue. I was like, all right, cool. I copy. Pretty much copy. All right. Thank you. I appreciate you. Mind you, when I asked a couple people to stop sending me reels, no, I told them. I told them to stop sending me reels. I said, thank you. I love you. Because I wasn't trying to be malicious. It's just like, I never asked for all of this stuff. Like, I really didn't. And every time I did ask, she kept blowing it off. So I was like, all right, now I got to get...

Yo, what is the motherfucker? Is she sending you porn or some spirituals? The rituals? What the hell is she sending you there? Because that shit is tainting your spirit. You do not like it. Lord. Yeah, all right. Now I got to actually get... I don't even know how to... I just got to put my foot down on it. Like, now it's just seeming like a joke.

And I'm really not here for it. I actually found out that my aunt blocked me too, which I just feel, in my opinion, is weird. I get that everybody, you know, like does things in their own way and stuff like that. But it's just like, you just really don't have to click my name. Like, in my opinion, it's just my opinion. Now, moving on. We haven't talked since then.

since that time when I asked her. Now, the next day, her and I was working an event or maybe like the day after. Her and I was working an event, like a wedding and stuff. And so we're in the car and I'm not the type of person that if you don't talk about something, we're not about to be that cool until we talk about this shit. So I got in the car. She said, hello. I said, what's up?

I put my headphones in because I started watching some videos and stuff like that. And she wasn't saying anything to me. Lord child, I hope they wasn't reels you was watching. Because I know you would have blew up in that car. So to my knowledge, she wasn't talking to me. And she didn't like tap me or anything like that to like make me like turn to her or acknowledge her or something. I'm just in my phone at this point. So, and I'm not really thinking anything of it. So now...

We get to the place. We're taking out, like, the equipment that we need. And she drops something. Now, the best friend of me, I wanted to make more fun of her. But I was just like, bro, why didn't you just wait? Mind you, this is like a cloud machine. I don't think you've ever seen a cloud machine. Or if you have, it's heavy. Like, it's a case that come with it and everything. So she tried to pick that up out of the trunk of a van and put it on the floor. Why? She's just about my size. Why?

Yeah, Yatsu was supposed to talk. Yeah.

Both of y'all assume. So then we're in the spot.

Yeah, y'all two was trying to figure out each other's temperature. Y'all can't communicate mentally.

Like, you know, unless y'all got some weird Dr. Strange shit going on, you know what I mean? Y'all both was trying to figure out each other's temperature. Whether you say, whether you admit it or not, you know, that's just how it is. Y'all both was quiet because y'all didn't know what the other one was on. Y'all just know, from your understanding, you was blocked. So you assumed that she had an attitude with you and she assumed you had an attitude because you ain't say shit. You put the headphones in, head down, and then she dropped the clown machine and you left.

You know what I mean? So...

That's why you talk it out. And I was like, hey, so do you have a problem with me? Like, you don't want to be friends anymore or what's going on? Because I'm truly lost. Like, you were clearly bothered and you accusing me of having an attitude and stuff when you're the one that dropped this machine and you banging on the thing and everything and talking to me mad aggressive. Now, mind you, I'm the one to first step up and start trying to fight in my technically because I'm a pretty straightforward person. So there's no reason for me...

or us to be sitting here like having animosity and nobody says anything so but but why step up and try to fight so really and truly is more so like really to ask you the same question i asked you from the first time really with like a friend how how um

How do you maneuver with this type of situation? Like, I don't have a problem with her. I would like to be her friend. But at the same time... Oh, I'm sorry. I'm leaving out a part. So when I texted her, she did text me back, but...

She was basically like, oh, well, if you were my best friend, you knew that you didn't have to say anything. Or like, if you're supposed to be my best friend, why did you say anything? It was so unnecessary. And you had an attitude the whole time and you wasn't talking to me and stuff. And so then I texted her some long messages and stuff. Right. But like, really, Julie, like for me. Oh, and then after the messages, she said, oh, I don't have the capacity to go deeper right now.

And I said, okay. Yeah, no, what the fuck was in the messages? What the fuck? Just super duper long messages. What was going on? Because you did just admit that you would be the first to step up and fight because niggas is quiet and you like me. You trying to hit him with the you trying to get active and shit on your sister. Basically. Now we got a commercial and if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm a beat your ass. Listen.

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So my thing is, is like, how is it that you had all of this to say when I asked you, you know, the thing, like this is now about to be a conversation. So what? Because I had so much more to say, like you can't go deeper into it now or whatever it is. I also feel like I don't really want to assume anybody's like feelings. So I didn't really like that part of it, but I'm still just like, yeah, what type of, like, I'm starting to feel like what type of best friend are you? You feel like you can't talk to me and we already had a whole falling out.

Yeah. Right.

If you can see this, I hope so because all these incomplete messages and stories is getting on my nerves like this is taking up whole episodes of nonsense.

And let me bring this up too. I am a person who, I'm sorry, I got to yell because I'm back on the work floor. I am a person who has always vividly dreamt, I don't know how else to explain it. If you've never heard of it, I ain't really too sure. It's just real life shit, okay? I had a dream with her and I that we basically were like talking to each other, but then

No words were coming out. And we were just like confused. I was like, what the fuck is she saying? She looking at me like, what the fuck is she saying? And I told her the dream. And now I don't know that what that would have really done or anything. But I just feel like that was spirit telling me that like, OK, y'all are going to have communication issues. But I feel like if we're opening up to like pay attention, maybe we could work through it. But she making me feel like I don't give a damn.

What you say about that, Sheena? I'm just saying it's like they're talking at each other and nobody's listening. That definitely seems symbolic for that. None of y'all listen. Neither one of y'all listen. And then we need, before I play this last note, because she's not finished. Well, let me play it. Hold on. Then I'll get it. Oh, and just play this for the people. People, all your notes.

what a complete story is. Stop wasting our time. If you have juicy story, give the whole damn tree shit. Give the whole story. Get on my damn nerves, shit. I know the fuck that's right. Ain't she a cutie? Look at her. She's so cute. Like a little Willow Smith looking mommy. She's so cute. Okay. All right. So look, let's get into this right here right now. In my opinion, I feel like

First of all, you two are best friends. You said she's like your sister. I can relate to that. My best friend is like my brother. Sheena. Okay, all right, never mind. She's like my sister. Okay, all right. We are brothers. We're happy and we're singing and we're colored. Give me your high five. No, sorry. All jokes to the left. Okay.

It sounds like no accountability is being taken on either part. Both of y'all got the same issue. Like Shayna said, if y'all constantly talking over each other and all of that shit, y'all not listening. And even when y'all not talking over each other, y'all are not trying to listen to each other. Y'all think y'all supposed to read each other's minds. Like, and that's not good. That actually happens in a lot of relationships now.

You feel like a person supposed to know. Know what's going on. Instead of communicating. Instead of just opening your mouth and saying it. That car ride shouldn't have been like that. And I'm like you to a certain extent where you said, okay, you don't feel like we can move forward until we hash out a situation that was already going on.

That should be the way things are, in my opinion as well. Because how are we even going to move forward if I still feel sour about some shit that we just went through and nobody's talking about it? And then I've also been on the other end of that too, that always feels like, all right, I can fall out with somebody and then don't say anything. And then, well, not even have a fallout. I have a disagreement. We don't talk about it. It depends on how heavy it is. Yeah, it depends on the situation and how severe the issue is.

But nobody is taking accountability. And then you, I also see, and just, you know, in that story, briefly, you're the type of person who thinks somebody's supposed to get over something when you want them to get over something. And your best friend thinks you're supposed to read her fucking mind. Yeah. She, like, she want to hash it out and y'all got to get over it. Be over it. When I get over it, I think she just really want to talk about it. Yeah.

Yeah. I think she really just want to deal with it in that moment. Yeah. And some people need time. Yeah, some people need time. That's basically what I mean. Like, she want to...

get it done right then and there. And... I mean, unresolved issues too, though. Yeah. I like that. Yeah. But it's like, everybody don't operate the same. Like, what if Shorty, the best friend, is like... Give her time, give her the space. Yeah. And revisit it. Right. And she a ticking time bomb too. She said, I wanted to start... I just like to fight. Like, all right, look, if we not get... She get frustrated quickly and easily with shit. Like, you wanted to fight a whole community because they was sending you reels. Mm-hmm.

I hope, let me send you some real secrets. She said what she said. She don't like them. I just feel like it's not that serious. It's not. And I can't tell you how to feel. Right. And that's why I said, no, let me, I can't tell you how to feel. No, I can't. However, your aunt blocked you. She's like, you got family members black. Well, shit. It's like, what the fuck? What are we on social media for? Right. To be able to share things, share how we feel about things, post things, you know, that's a part of

being on social media if you don't like social media get off of social media she didn't say that she said she don't like reels no that's why i said if if you yeah what is on social media pictures and reels shit you want to look at some pictures all right you pull out the photo albums that's what the fuck you do you get off the social media shit all right

No, no, it's a little bit of truth in that. But I do not want to discredit how you feel about anything. I'm not like trying to diminish your feelings at all. I just want you to realize that people are dying, Kim. And you better not go punch somebody in the face for sending, you know, fucking reals. Then we'll get mad at you on.

I didn't know that. And why is it a problem? Because that's what people do on social media, Pookie. But if she says she don't like it, don't send it. It is what it is. I don't care. I'm with you. I'm rocking with you. That's fine. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm with you. If I say don't do something, don't do it. Period. Cool.

But what about what you do? You know what I'm saying? Like, you don't have the best communication. What I do? I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to her. Yo, you don't have the best communication. I feel like y'all have the same situation. You and your best friend are kind of like dealing with the same thing. Y'all communication is not there. And you may say, no, Jess, I do communicate with her.

No, you're very demanding. You're very demanding. And that is totally fine because that's who you are. But then you turn around and be like, she's aggressive. Both of your asses are aggressive. Both of your asses need to go sit in the fucking corner and then come back and reconvene and talk and let each other talk.

do not cut each other off let her but tell her yeah tell her tell me how you feel you also have to tell her yo I can't read your mind I'm not trying to read your mind and and I like how you said that you are a vivid dreamer that is actually I kind of do like have empathy with that I do because I I used to dream vividly too

But, yeah, I do believe that there are deeper meanings to a lot of people's dreams than just surface. You know what I'm saying? So, like Shayna said, that's because y'all don't listen to each other. I can tell there's a lot of history and a lot of love. And I don't think you should not be a friend. Work on your fucking friendship. It is so hard. Yeah, 15 years. Yeah, 15 years, like, come on. We ain't throwing that away. No, we not. And I know some people grow apart and all that type of shit. But, no, you just say it through all of that. You called this girl your sister.

To me. So it's like, if she's talking about it to the extent that she still truly cares, she loves her, and they need to work on it. Yep. And you came, this is your second mess that Adam fixed with this girl. So there is something there. There is something there. And y'all just have to, y'all just have to work it out. That's all. But we've come to the end of another Can't Believe Reckless episode with your girl Jess Hilarious and my guy. Hello. And my guy.

I'm a baby. The mic went out. She ain't a weenie. Yeah. I'm sorry. Well, say something then, boy. Sorry. All right. Because don't play with me. I know who you talking to because I'm a girl. Now she want to be a girl. I'm a girl. All right, y'all. Well, we are in November. I need y'all to put on y'all coats, y'all scarves, y'all gloves. It is not the season where you need to try to be cute. I'm so mad. Libra season is over. Everybody is sick.

Everybody is sick. Everybody is sick. So I need for y'all to take your emergency, your vitamins, your airborne, your hot tea. Get all the home remedies you can. Everybody's sick. You coughing in the air. I cough one time. You round all them white people. And you know white people cough in their hands and they want to hug all over you and dab you up and shit. And I don't got time for that. So I'm in my deepest pain, boys. I'll see y'all next week. Peace. Peace.

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