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Hey y'all, what's up? It's your girl Jess Delores. Welcome back for another episode of Catholique Reckless. I got my brother sitting in with me today, my twin, my other half, my everything. Prince, say what's up, man. What's good? What's good? Y'all know if y'all see this motherfucker with me, he's with me. That's my mans. He's on my Instagram. He's on the road with me. He everywhere. He gonna listen in. Story time. All right. So look, y'all know I was dating Country Wayne. I want to say allegedly, but a nigga was dating a bitch.

was dating me and shit. And he ended up being married. Now, let me walk you through this. Now, Wayne liked me for quite some time. He was, I want to say chasing me for two years. I don't like to say chasing, but that's what he was doing. And it was cool. You know, as a woman, you like attention, you know, from elsewhere. But I was in a relationship, so I never entertained him until I broke up with Chris. Shortly after I broke up with my ex, he popped up in West Palm Beach, Florida. Now, I had a show in the Improv.

He came

He popped up with his two brothers and he wooed me, you know, as they say. And, you know, I was not looking for love, but I was, you know, a little vulnerable after breaking up with my ex. And Wang looked good. You know, he looked good. He got his clowned out ways, but he looks good. And I allowed him to woo me or whatever. So after like a couple months, we made it official. We were on IG. Then we go on our first trip. He took me to Puerto Rico.

And there is where I found out that he had a wife. Now, why the fuck she didn't come out before this? We had already been together for like three months. And then she decides to come out and say, I didn't know anything about us getting a divorce. I'm still happily married to my husband, Dwayne Coley, which was some truth and then

was some lies as well because they in fact were in the middle of a divorce. But this nigga went as far as to even getting some woman that he had posed as a goddamn lawyer to call me to tell me that the divorce was final. Bitch, don't be over there laughing.

He got the woman to tell me, yes, in her most professional voice, that the fucking divorce was final, y'all. And I went with it. I believed him and shit. And then the wife, Gina, she started going to shade room with shit. Then she started talking to my sister about shit, but she never would call me. I sent her my number. She never would call me or nothing. Never, ever even talked to me in the DMs, right? Now, I'm saying all this to say, this man felt that

He didn't do anything wrong because he was not with her. Like he wasn't with her. Nigga, you're still married to her. And that brings me to my question. Does separation make it okay to cheat?

I think absolutely not because you are still legally fucking married. You know what I mean? And then they were living in the same fucking house. You know, sometimes she would go stay here, I imagine, and then he would be gone most of the time because we are comedians. We are on the road most of the time. He does stand up and shit. And then, you know, sometimes I guess he would be filming or what have you. So she would see him barely, you know, barely, but at the same time, you know, and then he would spend a lot of time with me. And let me tell you, this man was in Baltimore for like,

two months straight help me look for a house that he got for me like seriously moved me out of my other house and got me another so I'm like yo through all of this Gina you never came out and said anything anything that's when later she admitted okay we're in the middle of a divorce but until we are finally divorced that's still my husband and I could not argue with her anymore and she was right

I had to leave the nigga. Absolutely. Does separation make it okay to cheat in your opinion, bro? No, it does not. Yeah. Doesn't make it okay to cheat because a lot of times in separation situations, people often end up getting back together. Look at, look at, uh, look at Crystal and Neo. Yes. You know, they were in the process of filing a divorce for, you know, whatever the reasons was. Um,

And then quarantine brought them back together and they are happily married and living life like that part of their life never happened. Yes. So if you cheat and do things in between that time, you're only making it worse than what it already is. Yeah, you're right. And I remember I was watching something about Crystal and Neo and the problem that he said, Crystal never came on and said, you know what the problem was or whatever. But Neo, this nigga said, our demons didn't mesh. Neo.

Neal, what the fuck are you talking about? What in the political shit? Sir! Like, just always saying some shit to make them sound like... Our demons wouldn't hold hands. Like, sir, they're demons. That's not what they do. Anyway, like, what the fuck? Who meshes demons, bro? The horns have to connect, not hands hold. Yo, the nigga was... He was dead ass. He said this shit hella times in hella interviews. But I'm glad to see they're back together.

Absolutely. Absolutely.

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Now y'all know this segment is where I cater to my fans. Now I asked about this situation. I had a lot of people write me. I'm just going to read a few off that I picked. Danny from Birmingham says Alabama. Yes. Birmingham, Alabama. She said, I am married to my kid's father. We are currently separated during our separation. He stepped out and now he has a baby on the way, but we're still living together and has decided to work it out.

I can't get that off my mind, though. That's a really tough pill to swallow. So are you going to work it out, Danny? That is a hard pill to swallow. Like I just said, they were separated. Y'all weren't divorced. Now, I feel if you have an agreement with your husband or your wife, if we're married and we tell each other, we come together and we have a talk and you say, look, while we separate it, we go on date. I feel like that's the only way.

If both parties agree, you know what I mean? Because he still stepped out on you, Danny. He stepped out on you and he made a baby. That ain't even stepping out. Like, you're imparted in somebody else completely. I know that's right, T. I don't even know what imparted mean. What the hell is that?

And yo, this nigga don't come on my shit trying to fucking outdo me with the words. Yo said, this nigga imparted. Yo dropped some legacy in somebody else and he still lives with his wife. Like, bro, no. And they have children. You know what I mean? And then imagine what he has to go home and tell his children if this girl keeps his baby. Now, it ain't no telling what kind of fucking girl she is if she crazy enough to keep it just because she is being spiteful. You know, because like you said, with those situations...

People normally get back together. Absolutely. But the nigga always, if not just majority of the time, guys always have this thing where they...

They like to butter a bitch up. They get what they want. And he may have told her that he would leave his wife. Absolutely. May have told her that. Absolutely. And she might keep the baby out of spite or she might just get rid of it if she's fucking smart. Because this woman here, the wife, is telling me that they're trying to work it out. So obviously he wants to be forgiven and he don't want to be with the girl. But I still wouldn't trust this nigga because now you have another baby mother outside of me that you're going to have to deal with.

for 18 years plus I hate when people just stop at 18 years that baby gonna be your baby forever forever forever now you can cut off all ties with the mother at 18 but as long as the child is here it's gonna be connected to the mother and the father so it ultimately connects y'all you know what I mean so you have to deal with this woman whether you like it or not

Danny, I wouldn't be able to trust it. I would run for the motherfucking hills. I just, I can't. Prince, what you think? What you want to tell him? Because she still has feelings for him. I think that if they still having sex, she should use a condom because he probably just out here raw dogging everybody. Period.

And that might not even be the only bitch out here that's pregnant by your husband, Danny. I'm sure it's not. You know, I'm sure it's not. It's just the only one that spoke out. And then separation always ain't easy because they have things together. But get out, Danny. Go somewhere else. Alabama is pretty big, so you can...

Ali, bye-bye your way right on out that door. You'll say, m'bye. M'bye. Okay. Now, I don't have like the background of them and how long y'all been married, but you know, if you feel like it's worth it and you believe in God, if it's God's will, he'll bring y'all back together, pray through it. But me,

telling you from, you know, woman to woman as a woman, that's a no good situation. I've seen a lot of situations like this and they don't turn out pretty. So that brings me to my next one. So now we got seven from Utah. People won't think we making this shit up. Seven from Utah. Okay, seven. Bitch.

Been in a relationship for four years. Been suspected he was cheating. Went through his phone and he's been creeping with another guy. What is her husband's name? Let me make sure. First of all, first of all, hey yo, shut up Prince.

She said, I definitely wanted to kill him at first, but honestly, I feel sorry for him because he still is in denial. I would like to move on with him as friends and help him live in his truth, but he is denying it and still is trying to fix it with me. I ain't fucking with it.

Okay. Now this is kind of different. I kind of like her disposition. I like it. That's a hard pill to swallow to find out that your man is cheating on you with a man creeping with men and shit, you know? Damn. But she seems like the bigger person. She seems like she really want to help this nigga live in his fucking truth. She want to help him come out and ultimately be his friend, you know? And that's a strong motherfucking woman. I...

Is she cheating too? She has to be. She is too okay with this. But we often see a lot of women marry gay men. So did you not see these signs in the beginning? Yeah, yeah, that is true. Did you not see these signs? Because it ain't something that just went to sleep and woke up and he was like...

I'm gonna go have sex with a man and cheat on my wife. Like, nah, this shit is deeper than that. Yeah. You know? Now, they're not married. They're in a relationship. Okay. But like you said, and for four years, so they may as well be married. But he can't marry her because he is not attracted to her. So at this point, she's an arm piece and, you know, that's just what it is. Yes. She was his cover up and eventually, you know, and his arm piece. And she's talking to me like she knew this though. You know what I'm saying? I wonder if he's a pastor. Yeah.

You know what? You know what? I hate it. I hate you.

Is he a pastor from Utah? Come back and email us and let us know if he a pastor. Because my brother, he say he think he know him. He might know who that is because that happens a lot here. So we need to see. But, you know, our jokes aside, Seven, no, for real, man. I think that's very, very big of you to, you know, try to help him come forth and, you know, live in his truth. But baby, if he's not ready, he's not going to do it. You know what I'm saying? And you can't.

It's not one of those cases where you say you can't help somebody that don't want to be helped. He doesn't feel like he needs to be helped. He just needs help.

his own time. It's everything happens with time and he'll be comfortable enough to come out whenever he, whenever he's ready, you know, but what he can't do is keep hurting women. He cannot keep dating women if that's not what he wants. Now he can be bisexual too. She didn't give me much clarity on that. She didn't tell me that. She just said that she had been suspecting he was cheating and that he was creeping with a nigga. She found out. Okay, well,

Like I said, he'll come out on his own time. You know, that's not something you can force someone to do, but it is absolutely wrong of him if he's not bisexual to keep

dating women or to keep dating you and shit like that you at least have to be honest with this person enough to tell them look I like men and women you know what I mean or whatever you know so honesty is key in a lot of this shit the last one I'm gonna read is from Shira from West Baltimore it says hey bitch yeah she definitely from Baltimore not hey bitch absolutely hey bitch stupid

Dumbass nigga. Are you a simpleton? Yes. She said, hey bitch, my nigga won't post me. This bitch from Baltimore for real bitch, not my nigga. My nigga won't post me. Yeah, she definitely, something going on. Hey bitch, my nigga won't post me so I know he's cheating or he's hiding me from his ex-wife who he claims he doesn't want back. Little do he know, I called her myself

And she told me that he told her I am the FedEx delivery driver in his neighborhood. Well, do you really work for FedEx? Because I've been waiting on this goddamn package for two weeks and I need my shit. Fuck the FedEx. Do she work for USPS? I don't know about no motherfucking FedEx, but I know USPS was backed on up, bitch. I don't even give a fuck about no fucking problems. Where my shit?

I don't care. No, because I think I know this bitch. You probably do. Yeah, Shira from West Baltimore. Yeah, I think I know this bitch. And no, she don't work for FedEx. She worked at Olive Garden as a bartender. Her ass. Yeah. But Shira, baby, if he ain't going to post you...

It depends on the type of nigga he is. You got, you know, two types of niggas. Well, more than two types. But in this case, you got the type that won't post you because he likes to keep his business separate from his personal. Absolutely. And most people...

on Instagram these days they have business pages business accounts and shit and I know that a lot of y'all listening like bitch please every time a nigga say I want to buy my businesses because he's hiding yeah that's not every time though not every time there are really guys out here who have businesses that he like that they like to keep separate from their personal lives absolutely and then you got the other type of nigga who won't post you because he is hiding absolutely

You know, and he don't want to post one bitch and lose all the rest of his bitches or not even lose them because bitches don't leave these days. Bitches get mad. They vent on social media, tell all your business, and then they end up right back with you later once everything calmed back down and shit. So you got those two types of niggas. You have to decide which one he is, Shara, because you know him, we don't.

Not to mention, who wants to post their relationship status on social media? Because see, the problem is that every individual falls short of something. So the problem is that as soon as you post your relationship, because nobody's perfect. So as soon as you post this kissing picture of you and your niggas

or whatever the case it may be, somebody has a story in a DM of how fucked up this person is or what this person did to them or how they reacted or this, that, and the third. But don't tell what caused this because there's a reaction to every action. You get what I'm saying? So social media has ruined it. I mean, I done been in multiple relationships. I'm in a new relationship every two weeks. But I ain't posting a motherfucker. Me too. You know what I mean? Like, yeah, see, that's what we do. It's okay. Aquarius season was good. It's coming up. But yeah, you know what I mean? Like, you can't. For sure. Yeah.

Hoes. But no. You got. The real shit though yo. You know what I mean. But you just. I don't think that you should post. Your relationship. Or who you dealing with. On social media. Period. Yeah. A happy life. Yeah. Is a private life. Yes. And it's not let you hide anything. You know what you do in the comfort. The comfort of your bedroom. Your home. Is between you and that person. And that person. You don't gotta post it. You don't gotta post it.

honestly can't live through social media social media will ruin your fucking life and that's exactly what everybody does it's like people get together for the image of it just to see how many comments they'll get on it absolutely let's pose like this y'all could yo they could have just seriously got finished cheating on each other or arguing about something or he could have burnt her because he got an std from somebody else but they're going to get on social media and paint this perfect picture absolutely you know what i mean like social it's like a

imagery. It's an imagery. And I can't stand that shit. And then not to mention, Sheryl from West Baltimore, you said you called the ex-wife yourself and she told you that he told her that you were a delivery driver in the neighborhood. Baby girl in my deepest B. Simone voice. Mm-hmm.

What in the fuck did you think? Even just hearing that. It's the audacity to call his ex-wife though, like skills. Yeah, yeah, you did that. And then you like, you climbed up the tree and the motherfucker shook that bitch and you fell back down because you cannot...

Do that. That's out of line. That's overstepping your boundaries. Absolutely. You never call my ex-wife and then you found out something new. Now, you never told me. See, people, they only leave like a bit of the story. I want to know what the fuck she said to this nigga. Oh, so you told your wife that I was the, I wouldn't have said shit. That would have been the last time he saw me and the last time she ever heard from me.

Because obviously he's still fucking with his ex-wife. Absolutely. You know, she's an ex, but she was his ex-wife. They shared a lot of history together. For him to even be talking about his new thing with his old thing. Absolutely. And that thing being a wife.

So, Shara, I'm just saying, baby, I don't know. Maybe you need to date around some more in West Baltimore or some shit because this guy don't seem like he's into you much. And get the packages delivered, baby. Yeah, and I think you need to just state it yourself because if you calling people exes and shit, you got some insecurities within yourself. Yes, and it's a lot of toxicity going on there. I like that word. That was a T-I word. Yeah, well, you know, toxicity. That was my first word. You know, that's the first word I ever said when I was, you know, little. So, you know.

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That brings us to current events. Now, listen, for me, there are a lot of celebrities that have gotten caught cheating on their significant others that I want to speak on briefly. Lil Baby and Jada. Every so often there is something in the media. There is a woman that comes forth about, you know, sleeping with Lil Baby and shit like that. Now, it's a rumor now.

that he has contracts with these women and he pays them. Yeah. And I don't know if the contract is, you know, that of a NDA or whatever, but they not supposed to say shit. And every time one comes forth, everybody bashes Jada because she still stays. That poses this question. Yeah.

Do you let a nigga cheat on you because he's rich and you love the lifestyle? Are you okay with being publicly embarrassed? Are you okay with humiliation? Are you okay with decreasing your dignity? Are you okay with that? It's his millions.

Your Birkins, your big home, your Bentleys, your Farrar is the race. All that shit, all that designer shit is that lifestyle worth your heart? And, you know, as a woman, what you stand for, your pride and everything. Not to me, not to me. And I could be just different. You know what I'm saying? I've never been in her predicament. Jada has her own money. She's a moneymaker. You know, she she's a hustler. She's an entrepreneur, but she's not little baby.

Absolutely. You know what I mean? And her money don't make him. His money makes her. You know what I'm saying? It makes her. It betters her. And then they have a baby. She's in love with him. It's a lot of other factors. But families break up every day in regular life. Celebrities, it seems like a little bit harder. The infidelity, I feel when you're

a celebrity, I feel like they kind of want it overlooked because I got this money. I bought this shit for you because I remember Lil Baby tweeting, who goes harder for their girl than me? And I'm not just talking about financial gifts. I'm talking about in every way. I remember I put that in Just With The Mess and I named about 10 other niggas that immediately came to mind who goes harder for their girl. We're not saying you don't love her. You love her to death. You

You don't love any of these bitches, but that does not mean that you get a pass to cheat because you ain't going to love this bitch or you ain't going to buy her nothing or you ain't going to. Yeah, why step out on me? Jada's fucking beautiful. That's your son's mother. She's beautiful. Beauty ain't all to it, though. She cooks. She do TikToks. Not TikToks. She cleans. She takes care of his child. You know, all the new little, you know, millennial shit. They all do it. Why can't you just keep your shit at home? Because he gets bored.

Yeah. He gets bored. Okay. And the fun part about it is that he can go out here and do whatever he want to these, quote, skank ass bitches that he wouldn't do to his girl because he considers her wifey. Yeah.

You just never know why people move and do certain things. Because all everybody that's coming forward is either strippers, ex-strippers, bartenders, or whatever. These are people who... This is what they do for a living. So he can do super nasty shit with these people that he wouldn't even think about doing to Jada because...

He respects Jada. Yeah. You know, he loves Jada. Yeah. He don't love these bitches. That's why he has them signing NDAs or whatever the case, contractual joints. But they not even working because they telling on his ass still. Period. So, I mean, you know what I mean? What type of fucking consequence are they facing? Because they keep coming out. Not paying somebody $6,000 for them to tell on you. Yeah, basically. Giving away free money, that's a charity. Absolutely. It's so many starving kids that can have that money, baby. Shit.

There's so many other little babies out this motherfucker. You get that money too? Absolutely. Then we have DaBaby and Mimi. Now, Mimi has never come out and said, this nigga has cheated on me with Danny Lake.

She's never said that. So I'm not going to say that he cheated, but I believe he goes back and forth between the two because we see it on social media all the time and we have been seeing it for months now. Danny Lay cannot stop posting this nigga. When he's around Mimi, she don't post them, but you know they're there. You know they're around each other because they post in their stories, their locations. And leave it to Shade Room, leave it to Hollywood Unlocked, leave it to the Neighborhood Talk, leave it to Jasmine Brand and all them other people. They...

They gonna figure it out. They gonna figure that shit out. You know what I'm saying? So he goes back and forth. That is still infidelity. You know what I mean? Because although we never heard Mimi say, oh, he cheating on me. This is like a love triangle. It's like Tara, Amina, and Peter. And it makes me think, like, do they have an agreement that we don't know about or that's not publicized? Mm-hmm. Because that shit don't ever get messy. Mm-mm.

It don't never get too messy. It never goes over the top. So that agreement shit now that you just said, and I'm thinking about it as well, because bitches argue. Oh, yeah. Like Jada has went back and forth with most of every, most of all the bitches that didn't come out and said they fucked Lil Baby. And I wish she didn't do that.

Because it's like, you don't need to do that. You don't need to do that. You don't. Like if you check him in private, like she tweeted before, if you check him in private, he's checked. Fuck it. Don't go online and start fussing with these bitches. That's what they want.

They want to be in your shoes. They want your life. They want your life. You know? And that little bit of peace that he's giving them makes them feel entitled. Let them bitches talk. Because if y'all don't say shit, it'll go away. Baby, get on there saying shit too. Oh, this is like y'all lying. Y'all lying. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Just don't say nothing. Say nothing. Say nothing. And it'll go the fuck away. Guarantee. For instance, Terrence. When Terrence got in that motherfucking car accident, he was like,

We still don't know who the bitch was. He got into a car accident with, we don't know. It wasn't his girlfriend, but we don't know who was that nigga. Ain't never said nothing about nothing. He popped back on the screen. Time boat. Yeah. And this is the stars power party. Like not, he ain't say shit. He ain't entertain nothing about nothing. And it eventually went away. Shit. I keep bringing it up every now and then and just with the mess, but he won't say nothing about it. It will go away. That's what I'm saying.

That's how it is. You ignore shit and it gets smaller and smaller. Then we go to Cardi B in Offset. Now, this was more so in the past. We haven't heard anything about him cheating, you know, lately and for a long time. I honestly feel like he's changed at first.

He was like, little baby of this bitch. Offset. This nigga was like, little baby, this motherfucker. But I feel like he changed. I don't think he has. I think he has. It's just that she can't say nothing else about it because remember the last time he cheated, her comeback was, I went back because I'm a dumb bitch and I like dick. So at that point, even if he cheat on you again, what else can you say? Because now we don't want to hear it. Like we know you're going to go back to him. You're a dumb bitch and you like dick. You said it, not us. You know, so if he cheat, he cheat. Yeah.

Not if he cheaty cheat, but... Hey, yo, yeah, stop. Because that still, at the same time, that still won't stop the bitches from saying... Yeah, you're right. Oh, he did this, he did this. Yeah, bitch, what you gonna say? Whether she gonna come back with it or not. It's always a bitch who wants somebody to know that they fucked...

your nigga. Yeah. Or they fucked your husband or I'm fucking a celebrity. Fuck his wife. That's offset, bitch. I fucked him. Yep. That type of shit. Absolutely. Bitches just want people to know that. And that's, that's really, really fucking sad in hindsight when you think about it because it's just like, everybody want to be famous. That motherfucking, yeah, that fucking fame, that image, that, that shit. Social media. Yes, the industry used to be so motherfucking different. Way different. Oh, it's so sad now. But,

That brings us to the end of the fucking show. I just want to leave you with some positivity. Three things in your relationships. Please, please, please, please be upfront about everything. Yes. You never want to have your significant other in the dark, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your wife, whatever, your lover. You don't want to have them in a dark about anything. Do not hide your feelings. You can't do that. Whether you're feeling some type of way, whatever,

about this thing or that thing because that's how people go and look other places for other things when you start lacking whatever it is you're lacking in your relationship you don't have the balls to say it so you start cheating or you start going you know and some people cheat for no fucking reason but if you can help it these things could help you be upfront about everything do not hide your feelings and communicate always

Communicate always. Communication is key. Yes, yes, yes, yes. And I just want to add to that and have a peace of mind, even if that means being by yourself. Don't ever be with nobody for convenience because that shit is whack. And that's how shit bubble and it can become very toxic.

So we're going to leave y'all on a note today. Stay by to my brother, brother. Stay by to them. All right, fans. See y'all later. I ain't saying the B word today, but see y'all later. Love y'all. Thank you so very motherfucking much because we want them to come back next Wednesday. You know it. You know it. That's it for Carefully Reckless, y'all. And then my best Pam voice. Peace.

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