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And just like that, we're back with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl, Jess Hilarious. What I be doing? I be fixing mess, y'all. And Taylor is not here today because she'd be out because she pregnant. So she don't feel good all the time. And but she is OK. She is OK. I checked on my baby mama. Y'all, that's my baby mama or whatever. I know I've been in the media, you know, for a while.
Wildin' out. No pun intended. But yes, wildin' out. And I've done some things that wasn't the most professional. Actually, it was mostly unprofessional. And I just want to apologize to my fans and the people that do love me. Because it definitely, from where you're sitting, it looked as if it was a crash out, you know, on my end. And...
I just want to take the time to apologize to my supporters, my fans and everything, you know, my followers who do, you know, who have grown with me. Um, y'all seen me since day one and yeah, getting online and, um, to express your feelings. That is something that I used to do way back when. And, um,
While I did mean what I said and, you know, my argument was valid and points I had was valid, you know, I went about it the wrong way. It shouldn't have been done that way and in that manner. Nobody is making me say this. Nobody is saying.
you know, on my back about, you know, cleaning up what I did publicly. I, this is just a letter of apology to the people who support me. And that is you guys that listen to me every Wednesday and who has been with me on this podcast journey since the pandemic. You know, that's when I started this part, this podcast. And, um,
You know, I love the success that it has bought me. I love the connections, you know, the resources that it has bought me. It has opened me up to, you know, doing things that I never thought that I would be doing. And I literally appreciate, I appreciate you guys. I love you. And I do sincerely mean that with everything in me, I do appreciate you. And I am sorry about how I handled that.
um handled that situation a few weeks ago but we're gonna jump straight in um period we have something written this is not a voice note I'm so sick of y'all asses not sending me voice notes all right I'm sick of that I think y'all really should start doing that again y'all know I'd be sick of reading y'all shit and not that I can't read y'all can't write so that's the thing that's where this shit comes in that's where the difficulty comes in
But I'm going to be struggling because this is, it's a good story. However, this girl struggle writing this shit. All right, here we go. Hey, Jess, I'll main. Lord, see what I'm saying? I think she's saying I'll remain anonymous. Well, good, because I've been saying people's names since season one. So.
I listen to your podcast daily, catching up from previous episodes, but I need some advice. I'm 28 years old from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I'm currently talking to this guy. We'll call him D. In his words, we took a break. And over the past two-ish months, he expressed he's not ready.
in the right mental space for a relationship. Now I'm reading slow because it's a bunch of grammatical errors in this, but I am definitely trying to get to the end of this story. So I'm reading slow so I can kind of piece it together. All right, so a switch recently went off in my head and I'm like, well, let me begin to move on because I'm not waiting on no nigga. I wasn't even certain we'd get back together.
Within the past week, he all of a sudden expressed loving me and wanting to be back together and work on us. But now I'm hesitant. He needs to work on his communication skills slash does drink frequent at night. So he basically, well, he's not an alcoholic. I wouldn't say because you didn't say that. You said he just drinks a lot at night, which makes him sometimes act like a dick. I was honest with him that during this quote unquote break, he
I have been texting people because he also said he may or may not venture out too. Hmm. So I started doing me, but now he's trying to flip the script and act like a victim because he's now mad that I have niggas on my line. Like I'm not her. Laugh my ass off. This is what she wrote. It's like he wanted me to act like a sad puppy while we weren't together. My thing is, if you want to be back, show me and show me why I shouldn't entertain these other niggas. Hmm.
Like why would I cut people off if you're not even applying pressure to show me why we should be back together in the first place? He wants me to cut them off, but I also said he needs to show me he values and appreciates me. Like I have no problem with cutting them off because I'm not dating them. However, I don't want to be disappointed again. So you don't want to put your eggs and all your eggs in one basket. I understand because you've done that before and you've been betrayed by this gentleman and I understand that. I got you. I got you. So
She also added this. I do want to add, I do love him. Oh, so you may make that clear at first, big head. And she said, he claims he'll put in the effort. And if I don't think he is, I can drop him. But should I even give it a try again? Hmm. Okay. Hold up, hold up. I know this shit getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
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Well, reading that was a struggle within itself because, girl, proofread before y'all hit send to me. Damn it. But it seems like, you know, if it wasn't for you coming back telling me you do love him, if you didn't add that part, I would have told you, girl, move the fuck on. No, I mean, because you want him to take you on.
off the market again, but you want him to show you. And if he hadn't already shown you, you know what I'm saying? Then I feel like, no, that's, it's pointless to wait for him to do that. Um, I think it's interesting that he chose to show you that he loves you and he wants you back after you moved on. And sometimes that works, but sometimes it's too fucking late. Cause you shouldn't let a woman get to that point where she feels like, you know,
She needs to go talk to somebody else. And this girl got a roster of dudes, she said. Now, there's no one guy that the guy is trying to take her back from. She's talking to more than one guy. It's plural, you know.
I feel like you shouldn't have to do that. You should not have to take that off of anyone. But I do feel like both of y'all, you know, play a lot of games. You know what I'm saying? Because now it's just you were chasing him, but now he's chasing you and you got somebody else. And then, you know, you have other people, other contenders that you are trying to see. You know what I'm saying? You're trying to...
It's like you ain't even really interested in the other niggas. You just really trying to get up under his skin. You get what I'm saying? And then that that becomes a toxic game because, say, he does take you away from the guys. You know what I mean? Just to prove a point, because you're dealing with these guys to prove a point. You know what I mean? You're not really dealing with other guys or talking to other guys to explore things.
other shit and to, you know, really, really date or, you know, pursue any of them that you're talking to. You're doing this to get back at the guy. You're doing this with the motive of seeing if he will while you're doing this with high hopes that he will come back and get you, you know, put his money where his mouth is, because you don't believe that
He's changed, you know, but in hindsight, you're still kind of living your life for him, living your love life for him. You know what I mean? It still goes back to him some type of way. So it's not fair to the other guys that you're talking to, you know what I'm saying? Because you don't plan to be with them anyway. So it was just a host of games being played. And I, that's when I feel like the toxic comes in. So I think you should do work on yourself. I don't think you should try to get back with this gentleman. Although you, you know, you say you do love him. Um,
I feel like you, this is, that ship has sailed and it's done. And then you got to think about it, baby. You only 28. You're only 28. You know, now I know that ain't young, young, young, but you know, you still got a whole lot of life ahead of you and a world out there. You know what I'm saying? It's somebody that will treat you right. And you got to go through these things, you know, to grow into the woman that you are going to be because you,
Who you are right now, you will not be in five years. And who you are in five years, you will not be in 10. You understand what I'm saying? So all of this is setting you up for a great relationship. Because when I was in my 20s, baby, I was doing all types of ripping and running. Okay. You know what I mean? I was doing it and doing it well. But, you know, and that's how I ended up with my fiance. Now, you know, you're supposed to date, supposed to do that. But I don't think you should put so much energy into other guys, right?
to get another guy back. You get what I'm saying? Girl, you young, you vibrant, you from Pittsburgh. You know what I'm saying? A lot of people may not think it's shit to do that, but it's shit to do in Pittsburgh. I think you got, you know what I'm saying? I think you should, you should date, but not date to get back at him. You know, date for yourself. Date for yourself.
Break those chains, set yourself free, and date for yourself. Keep me updated, though, baby girl. Do not go back. Do not go back, because better believe he's still doing him. You didn't tell me how old he was, but something tells me that he's young as well. You know, just like you. So...
So you're going to be putting yourself through this shit, girl. But it is also a part of dating, a part of dating. You have to go through trial and error in relationships, you know, to get to that happy place. You know, so I totally understand. If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. The first two months of 2025 have been quite a year.
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Taylor just came in here, y'all. Taylor, say hey. Say hey to the people. Hola. All right. Now, you're not Spanish. Relax. Now, I said say hey to the people. I don't know what you're trying to give. Because, you know... This is about the deportation. What are you trying to prove? We're just talking about some damn hola. You should feel comfortable with it now. Oh, first of all...
Because my baby a little Mexican. Hey, y'all, you stupid. But no, girl. Okay, so this was the story about... Okay, so a woman had called up to Breakfast Club, you know, for me to fix some mess. And she was saying that her baby father was saying, going around saying that he knows me because, you know, her baby daddy is from Baltimore. She's from Baltimore as well. But...
He's some producer in Atlanta now, whatever. Now they got together. He said he didn't want kids. She knew she always wanted kids. They end up getting pregnant. She got an abortion because he said he didn't want the child. He they broke up. He manipulated her by saying, you
you know, things like, why would you even get rid of the baby? Why would you, you know what I mean? And she was like, nigga, you didn't want kids. You made that very clear. Why the fuck are we playing games? So they broke up, then got back together. He said he was ready to have kids. Now, if it happens, it happens. And we going, we going, we going to, uh, we're not going to do the abortion this time. I I'm ready. She ended up getting pregnant. Results were the same. I don't want the kid. Right. But she had this baby. She said she got rid of the baby. The first baby. No problem. No issues. She was actually cool with doing it.
She said she was cool with doing it. The nigga, the second time around, after they got together, she get pregnant. She not having an abortion this time. She's getting the baby. She's having the baby. She had the baby. This nigga's out of there. He don't do nothing for the baby girl. Nothing at all. And then he busts her window.
She didn't tell me why, but he bust her window. So he want to be Jasmine Sullivan. Yes. Now he want to be Jasmine Sullivan. But yes, pretty much he would like to be Jasmine. Like, but yes, girl. So she's all she wants, she said, is for him to take care of his child. Now,
What I asked her on the show was this, right? I said, this is your fault. Yeah. It's her fault. That's just, there's no way to cut it, slice it, look at it and nothing like that. This shit is her fault because you allow this nigga to tell you, listen, listen, y'all my bad. I got to tell Taylor this. He told her the first time I would rather die than be a parent.
I don't want any kids. Damn. Yes. Yikes. I would rather die. If he's showing your card, his cards, first time with a girl. You know what I'm saying? Like... No, you let that nigga die. You know what I mean? Why did you fall, like... And then even you saying, like, you know, I'm ready this time. If it happens, it happens. Like...
Are y'all going to be intentional with it? I don't know. And then even with him, though, don't say you don't want to. Don't say you want you don't want to have kids and you're not protecting. You're not protecting yourself. But but, you know, this could have all been solved if she had not gone back. Yeah, maybe the moment a man tells you. Yes. A man tells you.
I would rather die than be a parent, than have a baby. That's somebody who's never getting any of my eggs. I don't give a fuck. You're not ever even entering me raw. You're not going... I don't even want to fuck you. I'm not even attracted to you. Now, that's your preference. But the severity of how you feel about it. I would rather die. Okay, cool. So...
You let him manipulate a person who said that to you the first time around. And you got an abortion, you know. Right. You let him shoot the club up and get you pregnant again. You let him blind you or love bomb you so much the second time around that you forgot that he said he would rather die than be a parent. Yeah. And you had the baby. And now you're surprised. Now you're calling up to the breakfast club to me, asking me what the fuck you should do.
What the fuck you should have been dead? Yes. You left him the first time. You should have stayed gone. So he hasn't seen the child or anything? Nope. He won't do anything for the baby girl. Not at all. But you run around this motherfucker telling people, you know me. Nigga, you don't know me. His name is Spud McKenzie. I kept saying Stud McKenzie. I was broadcasting from somewhere else. I was in Atlanta. So I really couldn't hear her clearly. I thought she said Stud McKenzie.
that's why I was like oh it makes sense he bust the window like a bitch okay you know studs are still women at the end of the day you know I don't care how long the locks are how flat the chest is honey how long the dildo is I'm telling you yes that's some bitch shit he busted your window that's crazy crazy yeah but you run around talking about you know me
Don't say you know me. I'm going to define a nigga and blast him so bad. Although it is her fault, he need to take some fucking accountability too because yeah, nigga, you shot the club up. You're having raw sex like a result of that is not...
A baby. Right. Or STDs or, you know, anything. Yeah, I would say, was he even fit for it? Like, what? Who knows? She didn't even say infidelity was one of the problems. She didn't say he was ever a cheater or anything. I don't understand that, though. It was the kid thing. I know someone that, not the same thing, but why are you dating someone if you really want to have kids? Yeah. And he's literally. Who don't, yeah. That doesn't make sense. And he told you no. You think, girls, you guys got to stop acting like y'all can change.
You gotta stop acting like you will be the one to change the guy. And then now you're calling up here and talking about you don't want your daughter all the time. You want a break from your child. Well, look, that's the result of dealing with a fuck nigga. That's the result of letting your guard down. That's the result of being fucking stupid. I'm sorry. That's stupid. I can't believe he said that to you and then you went back and got pregnant by him, boo. That's why I told her I kept that shit a hundred with her. Like, nah. Nah. When that nigga told you he'd rather die than be a parent,
You just killed the baby for him. Yeah. No, you let that nigga die this time. Yeah. No, no, no, no, no. Yeah. You're not. Wait, I'm sorry. You go to fuck it. I,
I just want to know, too, why are you just spilling in her like that? Mm-hmm. Like, that doesn't make no sense. Like, you think a form of contraception, you know, a contraceptive is... Was she on birth control at all or anything? Abortion? She didn't even mention birth control. No, she wasn't on no goddamn birth control, and he knew that she wasn't. Nah, niggas just don't give a fuck.
about abortions. They don't... It's not their body. A lot of niggas said to say they don't give a fuck. A lot of men don't have to carry that guilt in their mind that they just...
you know, killed a baby. You know what I mean? They just got rid of a baby. They have no idea what women have to go through laying there, going back and forth in your mind because, you know what I mean? You really don't want to get rid of the baby or maybe you do, but this is going, this is wear and tear on your body, on your uterus. Like, I know women who's had...
who have had abortions and can't have kids no more because of abortions. Yeah. You get what I'm saying? Like, the fuck? You know what I mean? So...
Guys don't care about that unless they had to go through some shit like that. They don't care. You know, I'm not saying every man because no, every man is not like that. But there are a percentage of guys who does not get a fuck. And it does not affect them mentally. It does not. And they don't understand how it affects women.
In multiple ways. So, I, in my opinion, I think... I mean, it's kind of unfortunate, but she just, like... Yeah, now this is your result. That baby girl that you got to do it all for. Yeah, she should. She called her bitch Spud McKenzie. Reginald something. Reginald McKenzie is his name. If you could catch, like, does she still... Is she still...
In contact with him, though? Or does he... She knows his number. He just don't do nothing for the baby. Okay. And she said he's going around telling everybody she won't let me see my daughter and shit like that. What the fuck? Yeah, very much a clown. Very much a clown. Yo. That's what I'm like. You know what I'm talking about? That's what I'm like. You know, that's...
Please don't tell nobody you fucking know me, sweetheart. But it sounds like... Well, I don't know what happened with the DDG situation, but, like, you saw now. Oh, my God. That's crazy. I know. I know. But see... He's trashing. Oh, that girl. Yeah, I know, right? And it's the thing. So, did you see when... All right, so going back. The DDG.
DDG dropped the fucking song right about Halle and then she won't let me see my son and then also what I felt like it wasn't all about Halo because in the in the song he also made it very clear that he wasn't fucking with no bitches
And it was about him. It was about, you know, like... Yeah. Her, she can move on if she want, but I know she not. And, like, I know you not moving on. Like, you know what I'm saying? Probably so. Like, stop acting tough or whatever. You know what I'm saying? Like, my nigga, this ain't all about Halo. This is about Hailey. Yeah. Because it seems so. Because even him, like, him throwing away, like, yeah, she kicked me out the house or... We're not together. You don't fucking live with me. Yeah, that's what...
I remember she was like, she was discussing it and she was like, um...
How y'all not together no more? Like, why do you think she still wants to be in your presence? Like what? You're not going to be in my house with the baby. It's OK. Like, no. And then her and the baby just came down with RSV. I think the baby had it first and then he probably gave it to Hallie. And you have to quarantine, you know, so it was just them being sick in the house. And he was, I guess, you know, upset at that because he just wanted to take care of his baby while he was sick. But yeah.
Halle's like, yo, we gotta get better. Like, we're both in here sick. You're gonna catch it. Then you're gonna give it to people. Then you're gonna... Then we're gonna just be passing it back and forth to each other. Like, no, nigga. Let us get ourselves together. And then...
You can see him because because then a couple of days later, who's on a streaming? Who's on stream? What is what is that? Right. The big reveal. Oh, my son came back to me. That's just corny. Like, what the fuck? I'm going to have that much patience. And this is the thing. We also really still got to think because I said the same thing. We got to think about DDG's age, too, because they are. They are all still young. Let me see. How old is DDG? Hey, Siri, how old is DDG?
The answer I found is 16 years. Oh, no. She don't even know DDG. She said duck, duck, go. No. Oh, Lord. No. What is this young man's name? Hold on. DDG age. Okay.
Let's see. He's 27. Oh. Jesus Christ. I know, but, you know, a 27-year-old these days. Yeah, he's immature. He's young as fuck. You know what I mean? And, you know, when I was 27, I was immature. Not as immature as that, but I was, you know, he's still a kid. Well, not a kid, but he's still young-minded. Like, the fact she didn't even say nothing and then... She hasn't said anything. You know, Halle is not, you know, she doesn't appear to be, um...
internet person she doesn't live her life on the internet she probably cusses him the fuck out oh I already know she cusses him the fuck out and you know it's just it just gives like fucking clown it is because you're putting all of it on social media it's just wicked it's stupid but back to the girl though yeah ma'am you it's gay ma'am
I was going to say, you laid in your bed. Yeah, you made the bed, you have to lay in it. Make sure you try to get child support from him. He's saying he's this down to third, whatever, big time producer. I don't know about a motherfucking big time now. I'm just saying though, if he's saying what he is, go to the court. I mean, hopefully he appears in the court. Does it matter? What? I don't know. I think it used to be you had to like...
I forgot exactly how it was, how it worked. Because I never put Jerome on child support, so I've never gone through that. Because I would say, I don't know how, like, if he... Lord knows I wish I had. Shut up. I didn't. I'm sorry. What if he doesn't show up? Like...
I just don't know how they... Oh, no, it's ways to get a nigga on child support. It's ways. I think it's like a paternity test. You have to get a paternity test. I don't know if he... See, if he signed the birth certificate... Yeah, if he signed the birth certificate. But see, she didn't even let us know. She didn't tell me whether he was there or not when she had the baby. She didn't tell us if he signed the birth certificate. It was things that she didn't say. I think she was just more so calling to air him out. Which...
Which is like... I just thought about something, but I'm not going to say it. Oh my God. It's family stuff, but... Now I'm thinking like, why the fuck? Yeah. So they have to first establish paternity if he did not sign the birth certificate. Establish paternity, which he can be on a run from that for fucking ever. But I think there are ways now that are in effect where...
They can still get you or some type of shit because I know niggas on child support for kids. That's not even theirs. I know. And if it's that easy. Yeah. Yeah. But what you're saying? But I know a guy that always was saying that his baby mom like just takes money. Like, of course, just take money out of his account. Fuck no. For real. But he'd be lying. I don't know how. All of these. But.
Yeah, it is crazy. There's no advice to give her. Don't let this happen again. Don't let it happen again. That's what I did tell her. I'm like, come on now. You chose to lay down on your back again, spread your legs wide open, and when that nigga told you he was finna nut or you felt that dick stiffening and he already was coming, yeah, that's what happened. You should have got your ass up and went to go get a fucking plan B.
Right. Period. There's ways that this could have been prevented, but then that would be regretting your child. And that means your child wouldn't be here and you definitely don't want to regret your child. You just regretted your actions. But you can't regret your actions without regretting your child. It's a shame. So it's just one of those situations you got to deal with, love. And that is the end of this episode of Carefully Reckless, y'all. Y'all say bye to Taylor.
Okay. Now Taylor, you say bye. Bye. All right now. Catch you next week on Carefully Reckless. Peace. Carefully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
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