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Jess Hilarious: 讲述了一位朋友五年来隐瞒自己与男友的三角恋关系的经历,表达了对朋友行为的震惊和不解,并分析了这种关系对女性自我价值和尊严的损害。她认为,五年来容忍男友同时与另一个女性交往,是对自身价值和尊严的贬低,也是对自身情感的极大伤害。她还表达了作为朋友的受伤,因为朋友隐瞒了真相。此外,她还分析了这段关系从一开始就存在的问题,因为男友已经有其他女性,并且在交往过程中,男友的行为依然存在问题,即使在另一位女性怀孕后,朋友依然选择继续这段关系。最后,她总结了五年后,朋友和男友依然维持着这种复杂的关系,并提出了疑问,这种关系究竟是什么。 Shay: 对朋友五年来容忍男友脚踏两条船的行为表示震惊,但也能理解,因为当事人可能已经习惯了这种状态。她认为,明知男友脚踏两条船,却依然选择继续这段关系,这是一种难以理解的行为。她无法理解这种行为,并分享了自己曾经经历过的类似情况,她的前男友在与她交往的同时,与其他女性约会。她讲述了自己发现前男友出轨后,如何与前男友的情人对质,以及前男友为了隐瞒真相所编造的谎言。最后,她表达了自己对这种多角关系的看法,认为这是一种病态行为,并分享了自己对爱情和婚姻的看法。 Jess Hilarious: 分享了她自己曾经经历过的类似情况,她的前男友在与她交往的同时,与其他女性约会。她讲述了自己发现前男友出轨后,如何与前男友的情人对质,以及前男友为了隐瞒真相所编造的谎言。她还讲述了与前男友分手后,又遇到一个在社交媒体上公开秀恩爱,却私下联系她的男人,以及她如何处理这件事。最后,她表达了自己对这种多角关系的看法,认为这是一种病态行为,并分享了自己对爱情和婚姻的看法。

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A friend shares her experience of being in a relationship where her partner has another girlfriend, and they've been in this arrangement for five years. She discusses the emotional toll and the lack of respect from her partner.

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Oh shit, we back on the air. Welcome back to yet another Cappily Reckless episode with your girl, Jess Hilarious. Alright, now grab your tea, grab your halls, grab everything you need to listen because it's story time. So I was talking to a friend of mine, right? And she was telling me that she's been in a relationship for about five years or whatever. Now I know of this, but I did not know this. She's been in like a relationship where she is allowing the guy to have another girlfriend.

Girlfriend, basically. So he can't choose between the two. And this has been this way for five fucking years. Okay. Now I've known this girl for over five years and I did not know. I met the nigga and everything. Did not know that...

She was the other woman. Well, both of them are other women. You know what I'm saying? Because he's in a relationship with both of them. And it's so crazy because it's five years strong. How the fuck do you allow someone to play with you and toy with your heart for five years? You're letting him one devalue who you are as a woman. You're letting him do that. He's stripping you of your dignity. Actually, you don't want it to yourself, bitch, but whatever. You know what I'm saying? And then.

Two, you're giving him power over you. You didn't make him choose you. You're giving him an ultimatum that he's never going to take serious because you've stayed with him for five years. Now that hurts my feelings as her friend because she kept this shit from me for a long time. But the guy damn near lives with her. He has his own place, but he's with her all the time. Every time I talk to her or whatever, whatever. So her admitting this to me

you know, over a drink, I was just like, damn bitch, you've been wanting to tell somebody that for a long time, haven't you? You know, and not a lot of people know, of course, but this is how it started. She told me when she first met him, he was already dealing with somebody. They weren't together, but he was fucking with somebody. Okay. So she started messing with him.

And everything was the same. They actually hit it off strong. You know what I'm saying? Everything was good. You know, they started dating and everything. He had never left this girl alone. He actually started getting a little bit more involved with the other girl as well. And to top it off, he was just getting out of a fucking divorce. Let's just start there.

At least he was divorced though. Hence country Wayne. Damn. But yeah, he was already divorced. You know what I'm saying? So as you can see, shit already don't work out with this nigga, but he's a good guy. He's a great fucking guy basically. So she found out about the girl because he told her, he actually like came clean and told her like,

Eight months in when they were almost like together for a year. He was like, yo, it's this other girl that I have. I can't like just leave her alone because I do love her. But I want you and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And she is pregnant. Oh, boom. So the girl was pregnant.

Okay. She told him she was not getting rid of the baby. He didn't want the baby, but he can't make her get an abortion. Couldn't make her get an abortion. So he kept the child. She had the child. And here is my friend still his fucking girlfriend. And here is the now baby mother still his girlfriend. Sad.

Second year and she tells him, I can't do this anymore. You have been playing games with me since day one or whatever. You told me about the bitch. Yeah, you came clean. But now you need to fucking choose. Now, he did tell her he was going to choose. You're so right. I love you. I don't want to be with her. We just got this child. We got to raise together. Blah, blah, blah. She's like, yo, I get it. But you still sleeping with her like you fucking love her. Like and I can't I can't do this anymore.

I don't know what the fuck happened after that, but fast forward to now, to the nowadays days, she and he and she is still together. So they might as well just fucking live together. Has that shit ever happened to you? I have my sister here again. Shay, say what's up. What's going on, good people? Yeah, where the hoes at? Listen, I'm going to tell you.

That story, like, rocked my fucking world. Yo, I was so upset with her. Like, yo, what the fuck do you mean? Five years this nigga has not chosen? He has been having his cake and eating it too. But honestly, you can't even be mad at her because I know you've also been in situations. When your mind is so wrapped up in a situation, that's all you know. You can't remove yourself from a situation until...

Like your blinders are really taken off and you're ready to really leave the situation. But to share a man, you understand? And then you're knowingly sure. It's one thing to get cheated on. Nigga hid that shit for five years or for however long he hid it because he hid it for eight months. I believe he only told her because the girl was pregnant and she was not getting rid of the baby. So to...

To share him? In her mind, girl, she probably honestly blocked out the other female. Knowing that she still existed, but she probably just blocked out anyway. Yeah. I just, I don't, I don't, I don't understand it. Like, have you ever been in a situation like that? So, I've never been in a situation like that, but...

You know of a situation, one of the situations that I've been in. One of my baby fathers, whom we will not name. You remember what happened. Girl, yes, honey. Listen, he was big, big, big fucking cheating anyway. And that's why I don't understand. How do guys have enough time in a day? He was really, really into you. Y'all was together, my nigga. And then I seen him and

In a fucking restaurant sitting with a bitch. And now we all know Baltimore City is so goddamn small. Now listen, I be fucking, yeah, this is small to more, nigga. I swear, I seen it. And I don't even know how I say this shit, yo, because I wasn't even going in that store. I was going to the barbershop right next to the motherfucking. No, no, that's not what happened. You were sitting in the car. You took a picture and was like, I noticed this nigga. I noticed how he walked.

He was walking, holding the bitch hand. And they went into the restaurant. And you was like, I'm about to go in there. I'm like, go in there, go in there. I ain't had no car at the time. I'm sitting there trying to borrow somebody's car. Trying to get a fucking zip code. I wish it was Uber. We wasn't even Uber back then. No, it was still Uber. We weren't using that shit. Yeah, we wasn't using it. We had hacks. We had friends that had cars. This was like six, seven years ago. I don't think it was Uber shit. No, it was. That shit existed.

Well, you wasn't using it then. Fuck it. I don't think white people was using that shit. Yeah, yeah. That shit first came out. It was like, no, we don't trust niggas. Right. We got real hex killing and kidnapping motherfuckers. We ain't ready to start using no app. Pick us up. All right. Anyway, yeah. So I called her sitting in the car and I'm like, yo, I see this nigga. I know I see you before. He up here with a bitch. She was like, oh, I said, I'm ready to go in here and say something. She was like, all right, yeah. Go in there. Go in there. Fucking say something, bitch. Yeah. So I hit the door. As soon as I opened the door to the motherfucking little, little petty ass restaurant he was in, because it was like a pizzeria next door in a shopping center with like, oh,

a fucking rainbow, a fucking subway. Like you took this bitch here. Hold up. Like, do you remember you went in there and was like, yeah, I'm about to go say something. I'm excuse me. Can I get two chicken wings?

I definitely wanted some chicken. Like not two chicken wings before you go confront. They was really good. Like who the fuck orders two chicken wings before they go confront somebody? Bitch when I walked in there I walked in there that fucking fried chicken smell smacked right in my face like bitch you better come get some of us before you go over here and fight. So I was like alright cool. I walked up to her before I even got up that yo the nigga seen me got up and went to the bathroom.

Like, I really wish I would have went in the fucking bathroom like, ha ha, I see you. You know what I'm saying? But I couldn't. So I walked up to her. But that is so dumb because you saw me. You know I'm your baby mother, little sister. Like, you know I'm your girl, little sister. And you fucking try me now. You know I'm that type of bitch that'll put your ass on blast. And you already know that I'm a teller or I already got her on the phone.

And you were on the phone. She was on the phone with me. So I walked up to her. This nigga went to bed for me. I was like, excuse me, you mess with him? You know, because he shall remain nameless. I'm like, you mess with him? She was like...

Why? And I was like, oh, because that's my sister's boyfriend. Like, that's my sister's man. Oh, my sister pregnant. She looked like a fucking truck was coming. She like a daring headlight, but she did not know. Like a truck was right here. She ain't say shit. Ain't say not a damn thing. So I'm sitting there like, yeah, I just want, I just thought you should know that. Went over there, pick my wings up and kept on going. This nigga comes back out the bathroom. And then I know, cause I sat back in my car. I went to sit back in my car.

I want to see how long it's going to be in the bathroom. And the wings were already made. They're not like made to order. They was already right there. So I picked up my wings and I got the fuck out of there. You know what I'm saying? This nigga came. Oh, he had to be at the door waiting to see when I left. Cause how was you in the bathroom that long? Even though it wasn't like the people or something. Yeah. It was like a fast exchange, but it's like, yo, how the fuck you really stay? You come out as soon as I get in my car. Like you're watching me from the bathroom. Obviously.

And I sat there for like a good little 15 minutes or whatever, still on the phone or whatever. My sister, bitch, you was trying to get, you remember you called somebody to take you up there. You was like, no, meet me up here. Like, can you run me up? My best friend, my best friend got a, rented a zip car. She rented a zip car and,

Came and got my ass. Nigga, you was trying to get everybody, get a way up there. And I'm like, yo, and by the time you got up there, they was gone and shit. But yo, I made sure, I'm like, oh, I said something. I said something, yo. So that was a situation very similar. So you didn't even really get into the whole little nitty gritty of it. What? So when I reached out to his family to let his family know that I was pregnant, they like, oh, you're pregnant too? Yeah.

Right. I'm like, that's how you found out about shorty being pregnant. I was like, too. Like, wait, what? Yeah. So I'm like, okay. Like, okay. So now it made, it made sense because when I found out I was pregnant, I told him about it. He wanted me to get an abortion. He actually offered me, he offered to buy me a pair of Uggs in exchange to get the abortion.

What? Yes. I ain't never saw you there. What the fuck? No, bitch. Yes. He was like, pick a pair of Uggs and send me the link. I'm a bomb, but you got to get the abortion first. What the...

Shay. Oh my God. It is so many bitches that'll be like, all right, I'm gonna get the eggs. Like what? And get rid of the baby. That is, that is fucked up. Okay. So how did it end? When did, bitch, I know they on the edge of their seats right now. When did you meet her? When did you see her? Like, when did you ever, did you guys ever find out about each other? I never got to meet the other woman. Actually? Never. I have never met the other woman. So she's under the impression that I'm just some,

ghetto ass bitch and I caused a lot of trouble. And ain't no telling who was first. You don't know who he was dealing with first. So I mean. You or her. So she was a person from his past. Okay. But they had just broken up right before I met him when I was a teenager. So she was actually with him prior to me getting with him in the long long time ago's days. Okay. We all were young as shit. Very young. Okay. But then when I found out about her I confronted him about it and

he lied when I confronted him about, um, about you seeing him. He said, Oh, that was my cousin. Who him? His big ass. He got a big ass cousin that looked just like him. They walk just like him and everything. And his bed and his cousin, he had to run to the goddamn bathroom just as soon as I came in here. No, no, not, he said the girl was his cousin. Oh, what? What?

She ain't answer me like no goddamn cousin. Any cousin would have been like, girl, that's my cousin. Like, she would have just told me that. Girl, bye. Nigga, bye. Please. That is crazy. So, I mean, long story short, going forward, we both have children. Won't say the age. Yeah, of course. But we both have children. Our children recently just met. I still have yet to meet this young lady.

And they're not too far apart. The kids. Yeah. Because y'all were pregnant at the same fucking time. Right. So he was living a double life. But the difference between this story and story time was they knew about each other. So I think that's worse. Shay. So that's so much worse. But he told, you know, the story that he told her was. Hold up. Hold up. I know this shit getting good. But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.

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Niggas is so fucking trifling. They just make up any fucking thing. Well, on that note, story time, that story is a little better because the nigga was up front. He did. He came out and then she knew about her and then he knew and then she knew about her. No, it would be no secrets. Everything is out on the fucking table. The only thing is I just can't let somebody run free with my heart like that knowing that they got somebody else's heart as

as well like like at this point they may as well all move together but you know people do it all the time what is it the uh polygamist yeah yeah the polygamy you know people and that's what i wanted to ask her i'm like yo like no well i did kind of ask i'm like are you okay with that like this is like an arrangement like for five years you have a three-way relationship you know and she's like no it ain't that then what the fuck is it because you're telling me that you know this shit and you're okay

With this, but she's like, I'm not okay with it. That's what I'm saying. I just recently told him, yo, she said, I'm at a point now where it's like,

You need to choose me or you're done. But you're still in the same boat because. Do they have any children? You're telling. No. No kids. I don't think she wants any. But no children. You know. And he has other children as well. Not by that girl. Just, you know, children from previous relationships. Nigga, I'm telling you. That must be like the best dick that anybody that never been blessed with in life. Oh, shit.

It's ridiculous. Seriously. Must be colder than dope. Real shit. Y'all remember Love & Hip Hop. You remember, well, have you ever watched, you know, Love & Hip Hop New York when Peter Gunz, Amina, and Tara was, even if you, because y'all know you're not a TV person. Yeah, I mean, they lived in the same building. Yes, you've seen that shit online. Now listen,

Peter wasn't truthful at first, but once they found out about each other and everything, and once they, you know, knew like, okay, this is who we dealing with. And okay, this is a, yeah. Okay. You know, cause he married Amina and he just kept giving Tara kids, but he wouldn't leave. Neither one of them. Yeah. My sister wife, it was like they were in a competition to,

To try to see who could win him. Because there was a scene where Tara was like, yes, I sat on his dick every night when I want to. I will say, Peter, come fuck my pussy. And he would come and he did. Didn't you, Peter? And Peter was sitting there looking like, bitch, why the fuck you won't say that shit? On national TV. On national TV. He was so mad she put him out there. So they were in competition. Like, yo, y'all are competing in...

For this penis. You know, they were like getting back. Like it was like every year, every year a new one was pregnant. Like Amina was pregnant. Then Tara. Yup. Then Tara got pregnant. Then Amina got pregnant. Then Tara. And it's like, yo, y'all are really, y'all know about each other, but y'all trying to see who can win him or trying to see if, and it became a three-way situation.

That is so fucking... Yeah, I just, I can't. I can't. And I get, you know, people are into that. There are people who are into that. I just can't do it for my sanity. That's not... I can't either. I want my own nigga. Yeah. I want my own nigga. Like, I just don't understand. Like, it's one thing if you don't know. But when you know, I feel like...

You're just being a dumbass, essentially. Now, let me go back to try to clean that up. Some people are okay with that, but they don't have a relationship with this person. They might just like what they can do for them sexually. And it's just a sexual thing. But to actually sit there and fall in love with somebody and to be in love with somebody, that, I don't get it. I don't understand. That right there is when I feel like it is a sickness. Yeah. You talking about for the guy or for the woman? Yeah.

either or yeah because peter has said like i i love you and i love you i love you both like it like my friends man he loves them both like he cannot choose like and it's i think it's gone on for so long where they allowed it without even knowing that they have allowed it they just they're acclimated to the situation is this for five years that is a lifestyle yeah that is a lifestyle that's not just a situation the situationship

you cheating or whatever that is a lifestyle this is how all of them clearly are used to living like alright I'm gonna be with this bitch on this day and I'm gonna be with her on that day you understand right yeah I understand okay I'll see you tomorrow or I'll see you later cause I'm gonna be with her this time blah blah blah that's when I feel like

What is the word I'm looking for? Narcissistic. It is narcissistic. The biggest narcissist of all reality TV. And I've ever even seen in real life as fucking Stevie J. Well, he used to be. He's not anymore. Thank God. Faith changed his fucking life. And he's happily married now to her. What?

Yeah. They ain't married no more? I know they married. I was going to say, shit, damn. But no. Well, I guarantee you he ain't doing all that shit to Faith. I don't know. He was just blatantly disrespectful to Mimi and Jocelyn. Like, I believe he made Jocelyn the main bitch she is. You know what I'm saying? Or she was, but shit. You know, I just. And then he fucked Mimi up.

Bad. Not physically. You know, I don't want to bite anything here. But you know, I feel like maybe in his mind, he felt as though he could do that to them because they weren't anybody.

If that makes sense. Yeah. Faith had a name way before. Yeah. He was even. And they were friends. They were actually homies over the years. You know, I mean, but still faith is that's Faith Evans. Yeah. That's that's Biggie X. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like that's that's faith. She's somebody. She's a legend. She's very like everybody. Everybody knows Faith Evans. Like you somebody say Jocelyn Hernandez. They can be like.

Some people may be like, do it like it's my birthday. Right, baby. Now that's what they'll say. But, you know, no, for sure. I do get it. She, you know, could never hold a torch to faith. And I, you know, I understand. I'm sorry. I'm just being real. But yeah, I do understand it. However, she is beautiful. She's glowed up and she she has made a better person.

of herself. You know what I'm saying? And look, she didn't even got a baby out of the nigga, Stevie. You know what I'm saying? And which her man and her, he takes care of the baby. You know, the man that she's with now, she seems very fucking happy with him. I still don't know the nigga name. But yeah, she feels. She got somebody? Yeah, she has somebody. Oh,

He does the TV show with her and everything. Like, no, for sure. But you had a lot of fucking situations with guys. Like, that was like funny to me. I swear to God, like a lot of situations. So the one before I had children, when I had my first little apartment, I

You remember my first little apartment with no furniture? Yeah. I literally had a futon and a TV stand. The guy that I used to date, who also shall remain nameless. Homeboy was living with me and still dealing with his ex. I found out about his ex. I can't remember how I found out. I feel like somebody told me, but I can't remember. That was so long ago. I can't remember exactly how. But found out about...

homegirl. This was back in the MySpace days. So that's how long ago that was. I hit her up on MySpace. Talked to her and we was like, oh yeah, so...

Girl, we gonna set him up. So he get off work. He gonna get a ride home. I ain't gonna go pick him up. Come here. I'ma pack all this shit up. Girl, we gonna play Irreplaceable by Beyonce. So y'all was some fucking clowns. Just want to let you know. Not trying to redo the boy is mine. Like, what the fuck? I hope he look like Macau Pfeiffer, bitch. Hold up. Girl, he look like a motherfucking pipe. Ew. Go in. So.

you know, he comes in or whatever and I'm like, oh, you know, I ran your bath water or whatever and, you know, I'm going to put some music on for you. So I had one of my other homegirls in there ready to put the little CD player on. Next thing you know, he is to the left, to the left and she comes out the bedroom and me and her practice this little routine. We did this little to the left, to the left, everything you own. Y'all made up a fucking dance? We did. Everything you own in a box,

the left. Bitch, not Tia and Tamera. The box of stuff that I actually had was on the right of us, not on the left. Like some clowns. But it's whatever because... Y'all said the box was on the right. He knew what the fuck was going on. And he looked like he saw a motherfucking ghost. He looked like Casper came out and was like, hey! No, are you serious? Yes, he was like, how the fuck

Did these bitches... Exactly. Conspire. Yes, definitely. So she did some little extra shit, took something out the box and threw it off the balcony and broke it. And he ended up calling his homeboy like, yeah, they set me up. Like, come get me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Oh, shit. Then to come to find out a week later, he's staying with the bitch. What she really did was she did all this, that phony shit with me because she really just wanted me to break up with him so she could get him back. Yeah.

Wow. The dick was not all that. But, I mean, he was all out for y'all to make up routines and do TikToks and shit. Like, what? Yes. Would you do that now? Hell no. Fuck these niggas. Like, I mean, like, honestly...

At the age that I am now, I have a very short tolerance for men. What age are you? I'm 35. Okay. I'm 35 and I really... I just want them to know. I know. Well, I know you know. Okay. When I tell you, I can't even... Sometimes I can't even get through a week of talking to a guy.

wow look i recently just had a guy in my dm right yeah guy in my dm yeah i'm like oh you know he was okay looking yeah you know like after you know at my age being 35 i'm just like you know it's not all about looks and whatever whatever so i was like all right i was like he's okay you know girl he's like i'm told in light skin whatever but whatever so you know he's talking to me he's like oh you know i work um

I work for DC Metro and I do this and I do that. I'm like, oh, OK, you know, you got a good job. And then he's like, what's your cash app? I want to send you some money. And I'm like, wait, I don't even I don't even know you. Yeah. You know, I ain't never been no no money hungry bitch. Right. To sit there and be like, oh, just like just getting what I can get out of somebody. I've never been that type of person. Right. So I'm going on his page. I'm like, his page is so naked. This is naked. Right.

like three or four posts i'm like let me go to the tag photos to see you know if anything's here i go to the tag photos see a whole bunch of pictures of the children and stuff like that and i'm like oh you know oh these got to be his kids they look like him uh-huh boom i'm like oh who pages this it's the baby mother's page oh shit but not only was she the baby mother she was the girlfriend

the current girlfriend she had this man plastered this is on a wednesday i'm on the page she just posted him on monday for man crush monday like she had a plastered all over the page so i said something to him i was just like i forgot what her name was but i was like hey i was like i don't know why you all up in my dms but i'm i'm sure such and such wasn't like that the block me

Straight block me. Because you found out about the girl. Yeah. So then I reached out to the girl. I was like, look, I said, you know, you seem like a beautiful young lady. You got this man all over your page. You're praising him. Yeah. Like, I'm coming to you because I don't know how many other people...

DMs and shit he jumping in but like maybe you should like chill on posting him because he's making you look like a fucking fool you know so she read the shit and ain't say nothing and then she made a post and was like loving me for me and

out all the haters. Like, girl. What the fuck? So you sold her that and let her tell him some bogus ass lie and she was right back with him. Girl went in, was looking through the videos and stuff. This nigga ain't even had no front teeth. Phew, bitch. You dodged a big bald mouth bullet. The fuck?

What the fuck? Not two bald spots in the front of his mouth. Ew. He got a nerve to be cheating. Some people just don't have no business cheating at all. You don't have no teeth. Like, what the fuck? You need to be with the one who loves you because nobody else is going to love you. You don't have no fucking teeth.

That's crazy. But there are a lot of people here I see that don't have teeth. Like, very much so. So you're not okay with being the other woman. Absolutely not. I think it's safe to say because you have done a lot of crazy shit. Like, remember you said that nigga called on fire and shit? And then, yeah, that was like real shit. Oh my God. Why would you say that in here? Oh shit. Who got locked up for that shit? Nobody. Oh. Well, it's fine. It's Cavity Records. They don't know who we talking about. And just like that, we gonna end it. Listen, tune in every Wednesday.

Say bye Shay. See y'all. This girl's trying to get niggas caught up. Locked up next week. I plead the fifth. I didn't do anything like that. I love y'all just like y'all love me. And in my best deep pan voice. Peace.

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