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Life Has Been Lifing Lately

2023/7/12
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Sam Sanders:Sam 的母亲去世,促使他想要公开讨论悲伤这个话题,因为他意识到人们对悲伤的讨论不够充分。他分享了他母亲的生平,以及她去世后他如何通过投入工作来应对悲伤,但他计划在接下来的几周内放慢节奏。他还分享了在悲伤和失去的同时,也存在一些快乐的时刻,例如在葬礼上和医院里与家人分享的幽默故事。他认为悲伤是爱的一部分,人们不应该为悲伤而感到羞耻。 Saeed Jones:Saeed 分享了他对母亲去世的悲伤以及十年后的感受。他认为悲伤是一种持续的关系,随着时间的推移,对逝去亲人的记忆会发生变化。他反思了他母亲吸烟的行为,并意识到这可能是她应对压力的方式。他认为,随着年龄的增长,他对母亲的看法发生了变化,他开始把她看作一个完整的人,而不是仅仅是他母亲。他鼓励人们更多地谈论死亡和悲伤,并认为悲伤是爱的一部分。 Zach Stafford:Zach 分享了他最近经历的多次丧亲之痛,以及他与家人如何应对悲伤并重建家庭关系的思考。他建议人们在悲伤时要表达自己的感受,并分享他们的故事。他认为,人们应该不断地建立自己的家庭,并加强与所爱之人的关系。 Sam Sanders: Sam's mother passed away, prompting him to want to have an open discussion about grief, as he realized that people don't talk about grief enough. He shared his mother's life story, and how he coped with her death by throwing himself into work, but plans to slow down in the coming weeks. He also shared that amidst the sadness and loss, there were moments of joy, such as humorous stories shared with his family at the funeral and in the hospital. He believes that grief is a part of love, and people shouldn't be ashamed of grief. Saeed Jones: Saeed shared his grief over his mother's death and how he felt ten years later. He believes that grief is an ongoing relationship, and that memories of the deceased change over time. He reflected on his mother's smoking, and realized that it may have been her way of coping with stress. He believes that as he got older, his perspective on his mother changed, and he began to see her as a whole person, not just his mother. He encourages people to talk more about death and grief, and believes that grief is a part of love. Zach Stafford: Zach shared the multiple losses he experienced recently, and how he and his family coped with grief and rebuilt their family relationships. He advises people to express their feelings and share their stories when they are grieving. He believes that people should constantly build their own families and strengthen relationships with loved ones.

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The hosts discuss their recent time apart and the challenges of traveling together, setting the stage for a deeper conversation about grief.

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On this episode of Vibe Check, Sam, Saeed and Zach have an in depth, vulnerable discussion about grief, in light of recent life events. Plus, a few recommendations to help you keep your vibe right. 

We want to hear from you! Email us at [email protected]), and keep in touch with us on Instagram and Threads @samsanders), @theferocity), and @zachstaff). 


RECOMMENDATIONS: 

Sam: Is It Cake? (Netflix)

Saeed: The Long Goodbye by Meghan O’Rourke

Zach:  *A Year of Magical Thinking (2005) *by Joan Didion