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Hello my friends and welcome back to another episode of the podcast.
Today we are talking about the Law of Assumption. So this episode is inspired by my Master the Law of Detachment episode, which I had filmed last year, and you guys loved it. You guys ate that episode up. So I thought, why not do a sequel to that episode, but instead of the Law of Detachment, today we are going to talk about how to master the Law of Assumption. So let's get started.
So in today's episode, we're talking what is the law of assumption, how to apply the law of assumption into your life, and how to really master what the law of assumption is in order to create transformation in your reality. So a very general brief explanation of the law of assumption is the law of assumption basically states that whatever you assume to be true and you persist to assume in your life,
that will eventually manifest in your reality. And the way that I view the law of assumption is it's directly correlated to the confirmation bias in psychology. The confirmation bias says that whatever you believe about yourself, about your surrounding, your mind will look for external confirmation to confirm that belief system in that reality.
And so that's kind of like the science behind the law of assumption is if you assume something to be true and you continuously assume it to be true in your life without the doubt, without the shame, without the limiting belief portion to it, then it will manifest because your mind will look for that reality, will look for those people, those experiences and those confirmation that corroborate and confirm the belief system that you already have.
And so the law of assumption basically suggests that our assumptions and our beliefs and our self-concept have a very big and significant impact on the events and the outcomes that occur in our lives. In more simple words, basically your thoughts and your feelings create reality.
So also I want to mention that when I say like your thoughts and feelings create reality, I'm not saying that every single time you have a negative thought that's going to manifest. But what you continuously think about and how you continuously feel and what vibration you tap into every single day will create your reality because that's where you're putting your energy and your focus. That's where you're assuming your time and energy.
This is why when you tap into the law of assumption and you start being a little bit delulue and assuming that you already have what you desire, then those things start appearing in your life much faster because you are no longer blocking your own manifestations. What happens is for a lot of us is we feel very detached from the things we want to call into our lives, from the version of ourselves that we want to become. There's a very big gap.
And the law of assumption really helps us close and merge that gap. Now, how do we do that? It's by assuming and really living in the end of who we already want to be, of the reality we want to live in.
So for instance, when I started the podcast and I started creating content online, I had no community. I was starting completely from scratch. I had no idea what I was doing, but I knew I had some mission. I knew I had a purpose and I knew that this is a passion that I wanted to pursue and help other people along the way.
And at first I had a lot of limiting beliefs. I had this big fear of being seen, this big fear of being judged and criticizing, a fear of failure. And all of those fears and limiting beliefs really, really held me back. And it wasn't until I started doing Joe Dispenza's quantum leap meditations. I had a phase a couple years ago when I would do those meditations every single morning and I started to really tap into the version of myself that already lives in the end, that's already assumed to have the things that she desires.
And so I started to feel like the type of woman who is successful. I started to assume that people love my content, that people love watching my videos, that people love listening to me and what I have to say, that people are attracted to my wisdom, that people want to share my podcast, they want to share my videos, they want to tune in, they want to follow me. And I started assuming those things even when I did not have tangible evidence.
Now, that is the key here with laws of assumption is you have to be delusional because at first when you have these beliefs and you start having these assumptions, you're not going to see confirmation in your 3D reality.
But the 3D reality does not matter. The circumstances do not matter because everything in your life is you pushed out. Your whole life, the way I see life at least, is like this is just like a big game and everyone in your life and every situation is reflecting something about yourself like
Life is just about coming home to yourself and again and again, no matter what relationship you're in, no matter what's your career path, how many friends you have, at the end of the day, it's the relationship with you and you that's continuously being pushed out and mirrored in your external reality. And the thing is, law of assumption is so powerful because it allows you to take your power back from the circumstances of your life.
Because honestly, it is just as delusional to believe in the worst case scenario, to not have any self-compassion for yourself, to not believe that you're worthy of anything, to be pessimistic, to always believe in the negative case scenario. That's just as delusional as believing that you are worthy, as believing that good things are coming your way, as believing that you are meant to evolve into that higher version of yourself.
Both of those assumptions are delusional. And so the law of assumption allows you to decide what you want to start assuming about yourself. It really comes back to self-concept. And if you want to learn more about it, I'm actually hosting a self-concept live masterclass that is coming up super soon in March. I will leave all the info in the episode notes. It is live. Spots are limited. And if you want to get your tickets, you can join in the episode notes because it's going to be
And we're going to talk a lot more about the law of assumption there. But really, when it comes to the law of assumption, self-concept plays a very crucial role when it comes to manifesting your desires.
Now, if you don't know what self-concept is, self-concept is all about your beliefs. It's your thoughts about yourself. It's basically your perceptions about your own identity. And so by reconstructing and rewriting the narrative of your identity, then you will start noticing that your reality is reflecting something else to you. So I think a really important thing when it comes to the law of assumption is I want to come back to the idea of the 3D.
Because this is where so many people get stuck, including a past version of myself. Or whenever sometimes I feel certain blocks of me trying to manifest something into my life and it's not coming into fruition, then I always come back and look at the 3D.
The thing is, so many of us like to hold on to the old story of the 3D. We like to be overly attached to the current circumstance, to the current stories, and so we're never able to move forward and advance into a different version of ourselves because we've made the current reality our identity.
Throw out the old story. This is time for you to revise the old stories in your head. Whenever you are trying to manifest something, I'm going to share with you a really powerful modality and technique that you can do. Grab your journal and split the paper into two sides. And on the left side, write down old story. That's what you title it. And on the right side, you write new story slash coming soon.
And on the left side of the old story, you write down all the old narratives you have about yourself, about who you are, about your identity, about how you should behave, about what you're worthy of, da-da-da. And in the new story, you be Delulu and you write down all the new things and all the new identity that you want to call into yourself. So, for instance...
If you are someone right now who wants to manifest new friends into your life, you want to call in your soul friendships, these amazing other women into your life, but you're stuck in this old loop of how other women were snakes and they hurt you and there was drama and you weren't loved and you were a people pleaser and you were walked all over and da da da and all the old story of why you're lonely and why you're a victim and why you're not worthy of having true female friends and da da da and
And you write that whole narrative down of the old you, of the old story. And then on the right side, what you would write is the new story of how you're constantly meeting new women that are amazing, that are supportive, that can clap for you, that inspire you. You're constantly magnetizing and attracting the right women. You're constantly a friend magnet and you write that new story. And you can do this for every single aspect of your life, whether it's money, a relationship, your career, traveling,
even your health, like all these things, you change the story when you rewrite the narrative, then the narrative no longer controls you. So you can step into a new identity through your assumptions about your self-concept. There is a very famous quote that says, if you assume your desires and you live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.
And that is truth. So when you change your conception and your perception of yourself, you will automatically change the world in which you live in and you will automatically change your reality. And this is why when it comes to the law of assumption, your self-concept and your opinion on yourself is the most important point of view in your life because you are so much more powerful than you think and your assumptions mold and shape the reality that you create for yourself.
Everything in your life right now that is unwanted and any person in your life or situation that isn't aligned with the person you want to become is simply an echo of an old belief system that you have about yourself that you're giving it a lot of your power through your assumptions. And this is why when you change the story in your head about yourself and your life, then you also start to attract different results.
So whatever it is you're trying to manifest and call into your life, you have to start thinking of it as if it's already happened. You are living in the end. You're not seeing it as an outsider. It's time for today's Lucky Land Horoscope with Victoria Cash.
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want to think about your reality as if it's something really, really far away, something outside of you, something that doesn't belong to you or worthy for you. You still have to put in your mind and the knowledge and in the knowing and in the wisdom that you can have absolutely everything that you desire. You can absolutely have everything that you dream of. You can have absolutely everything that you deem yourself worthy of because life is a
book and baby you are the author okay no one else has the power to dictate your life except you and that is why your assumptions about yourself are the most powerful who the fuck cares what other people think about you their assumptions have zero power over your life unless you grant them the power and that's something that you have to realize is so we are so quick to give our power away to everyone around us and we don't realize that when we give our power away we are taking away our own magic
For instance, I want to give you guys a really good simple example of this. I have reprogrammed my self-concept and my assumptions about myself to be someone that is truly radiant. I choose to believe about myself and assume that I am someone that when you meet me, my energy is magnetic, my energy is radiant, I am glowing, I am beautiful, and no matter where I go, other people around me recognize that.
And three years ago, this was not a version of me. Three years ago, I was insecure. I was lazy. I was hiding from the world. I was physically sick and I never felt beautiful. I always felt like I had to hide from everyone and no one else recognized my light because I had not recognized my own light through my assumptions.
And since I made that shift about how I view myself and I literally walk around, I send myself kisses in the mirror. If I'm standing in the elevator, ask my friends. I will literally look in the elevator mirror and tell myself I love myself. I compliment myself whenever I go out. I allow myself to feel good because I know that I am worthy of my own love and I know that my assumptions about myself are pushed out.
And ever since I made those changes in my life, people recognize that. When other people meet me in my life, they compliment me on my energy. They compliment me that I make them feel good and I make them feel safe and my skin is glowing and I have a beautiful smile and my eyes and everything and all of these things, like it's
I'm no different than you. Do you know what I mean? Like this was not me three years ago, but I have changed my self-concept and my assumptions about myself. So people are now mirroring it back to me. They are projecting it back to me because that's how I see myself. So whatever it is that you want to make a shift in your life, whether it is the way you view yourself or it's something you want to manifest, then you have to realize that it starts with you and your assumptions.
about yourself. Your brain can't tell the difference between imagination and reality. And that is why the words you tell yourself, the beliefs you have about yourself, the assumptions you make inside your head, your mind does not know the difference. It thinks it's reality, even though if it's not true in the 3D,
It thinks it's reality. And that is why if you talk negatively about yourself all the time, if you have these negative assumptions and you're very pessimistic, then that becomes your reality. But that is also why if you start changing and shifting your assumptions about yourself, then your mind will also shift it because it will start feeling like it's true and then your reality will reflect back.
back the rest and you start seeing external shifts occurring. So this is how you're going to start using the law of assumption to make positive, amazing, impactful, transformative changes in your life. The first step is you're going to start identifying your current assumptions about yourself. This step involves introspection. This is the time where you start recognizing the current assumptions that you have about yourself, about the people around you, about your world. Are these assumptions real?
part of who you want to become or are they hindering your growth? So this is really important. This is something that you can do through journaling, through just sitting and meditating, through having like an actual verbal conversation with yourself and asking yourself, what are my dominant assumptions about myself and the life that I live right now? The second step is you're going to start challenging your limiting assumptions.
So you're going to start asking yourself, why are you holding to certain assumptions or beliefs in your life? And are these assumptions based off of truth? Or are they based off of trauma or fear or from something in the past that you want to protect yourself from? So when you start disrupting these assumptions and breaking free from them, from their chains, and you start putting in new challenges for them. For instance, for a really long time in my life,
I had this deep limiting belief that told me it's not okay to be vulnerable because if you're vulnerable, people are going to walk all over you. They're going to make fun of you. They're not going to take you seriously. And that being vulnerability means that I am weak.
And this limiting belief actually stemmed from something that happened to me in childhood where I was vulnerable as a child. I had a certain situation happen to me where I was exposed. I felt very vulnerable. I was made fun of. I was bullied. And so as a child, I started developing this subconscious limiting belief about myself and
that I should never be vulnerable again because that means that people can make me feel bad about myself and that vulnerability equals weakness. And so for a very long time, I walked around having this very big chain around my heart that told me,
I should never be vulnerable. I should be cold. I should always have this protective side to me. I should never fully open up because that means I will get hurt. And that limiting belief actually blocked me from attracting so much good into my life, so much abundance, so much love because I was always closed up. I wasn't fully open. And it wasn't until I started using the law of assumption and I started challenging that limiting belief and healing the old version of myself. Can you guys hear the birds outside my window, by the way? Because
as I'm talking about this childhood situation a bunch of birds just like landed on my window and they're staring into my window right now confirmation from the universe but anyways where I was going with this is it wasn't until I started really challenging my current beliefs and current assumptions about myself and I started developing a new identity for myself an identity where it's totally safe for me to be vulnerable because now as an adult I am a strong and powerful woman and I can protect
myself and I can guard my heart and I can make decisions that feel good for me and I don't have to, you know, be closed off. I don't have to be cold. I don't have to push people away. I can be vulnerable and I can be open while also upholding my boundaries and my standards and my values.
And I started really saying these new stories for myself and these new assumptions of it is safe for me to be me. It is safe for me to be vulnerable, to be open. And that makes me strong, not weak until this assumption in this story became the dominant narrative about myself and my identity. Neville Goddard said, dare to believe in the reality of your assumption and watch the world play its part relative to its fulfillment.
And that means that when you start shifting and assuming the feelings of the wishes fulfilled in your life of how you want to live, of the vivid reality you want to create for yourself, and you have that imagination and you start aligning with those assumptions, then you actually start seeing the world and everything around you start aligning with that consciousness because...
that is where your energy is at. That is where your dominant vibration is. So I want to share with you one last law of assumption technique that I love to do that you can start implementing into your life if you really want to start seeing shifts in your reality and in your manifestations.
So we talked about in the beginning of the episode about creating that list of like the old story and the new story. And so what I really do to bring that old story out and the new story in is I use the concept of teleporting in visualization. So what I do is before waking up or before I go to bed, I get into a meditative state.
And I imagine the current version of myself, who I am now, the old story, standing in front of like this beautiful portal in the middle of the galaxy. And I recognize, I'm looking at it all in third person, and I recognize the old me. I recognize the traits that I have. I recognize the identity, the experience, the emotions. And I see her standing in front of the portal.
And then inside the portal, I see like a big glaring white light. And in that energy, I fill up the portal with everything I want to become, with all the abundance, the love, the energy, the new identity I want to create for myself. And I fill up that portal. And I really see that portal and I like say the words as I'm filling up the portal in my head.
And when I'm ready, I step through the portal and I go from point A to point B. And I keep visualizing myself really teleporting into that new me until it's actually happened, until it's actually a dominant place in my reality.
So I really suggest you try this out because it's a really powerful visualization technique that really helps you tap into the feeling and the self-concept, which are integral parts of the law of assumption. And I want to share with you one last quote to end off this episode with some inspiration and also just remind you, by the way, again, if you are interested in coming to my live self-concept masterclass, where we're really going to get into all
these topics and it's going to be so good then check out the link in the episode notes you can get all the info about it you can claim your spot it's going to be amazing and so transformational and the quote to end today's episode is you are already that which you desire to be and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you do not see it beautiful souls thank you so much for joining me in today's episode as always i will talk to you next week bye