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778. Shan Boodram on Seduction, Self-Confidence + Keeping Sparks Alive in Love

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Lindsay: 我认为Shan非常开放和脆弱,这为性与关系的世界留下了空间。她对性方面的事情非常自在,这使得我们能够更深入地探讨这些话题。 Krista: 我认为Shan非常开放和脆弱,这为性与关系的世界留下了空间。即使我作为她的朋友,也需要适应和她一起讨论性方面的事情,因为我来自俄亥俄州,仍然有点对性方面的事情感到不安。但是,她总是能用科学和研究来支持她的观点,这让我感到更加安心。而且,如果你不喜欢她所说的,你也会被她的美丽所吸引。 Shan Boodram: 我现在感觉自己正处于一个时代,处于自己的性、快乐和女性气质中,这是一种最令人陶醉的乐趣和感觉。我意识到,在约会中,我不再把对方看作是最终目标,而是把他们看作是人,并享受与他们互动的过程。现在能够与男性建立友谊关系,这也在很多方面帮助了我,让我感到更加自信,我可以做我自己,而且我是一个人,他们也是人。

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In this episode, Krista sits down with Shan Boodram, certified sex educator, sexologist, and host of the podcast Lovers by Shan, to explore seduction, intimacy, and self-confidence for modern women. Whether you’re single or coupled, Shan shares the secrets to embodying your most alluring, authentic self.

Curious about how to reignite chemistry in long-term relationships, or how to approach flirting without the cringe? Shan spills tips from her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal, on prioritizing pleasure, re-discovering desire after motherhood, and turning everyday moments into opportunities to connect.

You’ll learn exactly how to put this wisdom into practice, as Krista + Shan explore everything from confidence rituals to flirting at the gym, and why seduction is so much deeper than looks. This is your permission slip to embrace your feminine energy, love yourself deeper, and flirt with life!

We also talk about:

-How to balance confidence + vulnerability when flirting

-Reclaiming sexiness during + after motherhood

-Practical seduction tools inspired by Shan’s MasterClass

-Why “dating your partner” is relationship self-care

-Navigating imposter syndrome when building authentic connections

-How to use jewelry, rituals, and movement for sensual empowerment

-The surprising link between self-help books + real life intimacy

-Breaking through old stories about beauty as you age

-Playful ways to approach dating apps (and actually enjoy them!)

Resources

-Shan’s MasterClass: The Art of Sex Appeal)

-Website: http://loversbyshan.com)

-Instagram: @shanboodram)

-Get our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: http://bit.ly/Almost30Book). 

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