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Second Cup: Try something bucket list adjacent

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Laura:我总是鼓励大家制定梦想和目标清单。我知道很多人在制定愿望清单时,乐趣中会夹杂着一些挫败感,因为清单上的很多事情在短期内很难实现。比如,你可能想去泰国旅行,或者徒步阿巴拉契亚山道,或者在卡内基音乐厅唱歌。但这些事情都不容易在短期内实现。我自己的愿望清单上一直有演唱巴赫的B小调弥撒,但要安排一场大型合唱作品与管弦乐队的演出并不容易。不过,我可以先去听B小调弥撒的演出,这能让我熟悉这部作品,虽然我没有亲自演唱,但我体验了弥撒,这是一种与愿望清单相邻的体验。 如果短期内无法实现去泰国的目标,可以尝试去泰国餐厅吃饭,或者观看一部以泰国为背景的电影或纪录片,或者从图书馆借阅一些关于泰国的摄影集。这虽然不是去泰国旅行,但也是与泰国相邻的体验。我认为这并不是妥协,而是帮助你更好地期待和实现目标。如果某件事真的是你的人生目标,你总有一天会实现的。在此期间,你做得越多,当你实现目标时就会越兴奋。通过与愿望清单相关的活动,你可能会更了解自己和你的梦想。比如,如果你的愿望清单上有徒步阿巴拉契亚山道,可以尝试在未来一两年内徒步其中两三天,看看情况如何。也许你会更兴奋,或者你可能会意识到这并不像你想象的那么美好。 与愿望清单相关的活动可以帮助你了解自己喜欢什么和不喜欢什么。我们都希望生活中能有一些小冒险,而与大冒险相关的活动可以成为很棒的小冒险,因为其中可能包含真正吸引你的元素。即使在日常生活中,你也可以体验到大冒险的感觉。所以,制定一份愿望清单,然后寻找与愿望清单相邻的小冒险,这会让你的生活更有趣,并可能增加你对未来冒险的期待。或者你会明白你真正喜欢哪些大冒险,哪些不喜欢。

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Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to try something bucket list adjacent. If you have big dreams that are hard to pull off in the near term, you can keep yourself dreaming by doing things that are related. These little adventures can be fun and are worth prioritizing over other things. So long-time listeners know that I am always encouraging people to make lists of dreams and goals.

I also know that when many people construct their bucket lists, the fun can be tinged with some frustration. After all, you might like to visit Thailand or hike the Appalachian Trail or sing in Carnegie Hall or something along those lines. But most of those are not easy to pull off in the near term. I, for instance, keep putting on my bucket list that I want to sing in a performance of Bach's B Minor Mass.

But while you can buy a plane ticket somewhere you would like to go, it is a little harder to arrange for the performance of a large-scale choral work with an orchestra. I have gotten close a few times, like when the choir I regularly sing with was scheduled to perform the B minor Mass in the spring of 2020, but you can guess what happened with that. Anyway, I am hoping to sing the Mass at some point, but in the meantime,

Choirs and orchestras do perform the B minor Mass from time to time, and if those performances happen within two hours or so of my house, I can get a ticket and go. I went to one performance a few weeks before this episode aired, and it was a great way to stay familiar with the piece as I followed along in my score. I wasn't singing it myself, but I was experiencing the Mass. It was bucket list adjacent.

Maybe you, too, have goals that are hard to pull off in the near term. You'd like to visit Thailand, but the travel budget isn't there. Or you have little kids and don't relish the idea of taking them on a 12-hour flight. But if you are planning to go out for a date night dinner with your partner at some point, maybe you could go to a Thai restaurant, if there's one within an hour or so of your house. You could stream a movie or documentary set in Thailand that night. And check out some photo books about Thailand from your library.

It's not going to Thailand, for sure. But it's Thailand adjacent. I don't think this is settling, really. It's more about helping with the anticipation. If something is truly a life goal, you may be able to pull it off at some point. And the more you can do in the meantime, the more excited you will be when it happens. You might learn more about yourself and your dream, too. For instance, perhaps you've put Hike the Appalachian Trail on your bucket list.

Well, it is a long trail going through lots of states, but that means you could definitely hike two to three days of it at some point in the next year or two. Try it out. See how it goes. Talk to some through hikers if you meet them on the way. Maybe you will get more excited, or maybe you will realize as it is rainy and you are hiking on some really muddy and rocky terrain that this isn't as great as you thought it would be.

And so you won't need to waste energy thinking about this bucket list item that you no longer want to have on your bucket list. Who knows how it will all turn out? What I do know is that doing things that are bucket list adjacent can help you learn what you like and what you don't like. And we all want to have little adventures in our lives from time to time. Things that are pieces of big adventures can make excellent small adventures because there are probably elements

that are really appealing to you. You can get some of the feeling of the big adventure, even as you are just living your normal life. So make a bucket list. And then look for little adventures that are bucket list adjacent. You will make life more interesting and maybe boost anticipation for future adventures. Or you'll come to see which big adventures you'd truly enjoy and which you wouldn't. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening. And here's to making the most

of our time.

Thanks so much. I look forward to staying in touch. Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartRadio. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. ♪

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