Cai Cai and Zong Zi first met while performing at an open mic event for stand-up comedy. They have known each other for about four years and initially bonded over their shared interest in comedy.
Zong Zi initially thought Cai Cai didn't stand out much but remembered her outfit vividly, describing it as resembling a character from 'Chibi Maruko-chan.'
They decided to become roommates because they found it inconvenient to constantly message or call each other when they lived apart. Living together in Shanghai made it easier for them to spend time together and support each other.
Zong Zi described their relationship as being each other's 'PR team,' where they help each other craft messages and handle social interactions, especially when dealing with unfamiliar people or situations.
Their participation in a comedy show brought them closer as they supported each other through the challenges and anxieties of the competition. Zong Zi even prayed for Cai Cai's success during the show, highlighting their deep bond.
They believe that friendship can be just as meaningful as romantic relationships, if not more so. Cai Cai expressed a desire for all her female friends to remain unmarried, reflecting her value of deep, platonic connections over romantic ones.
Zong Zi became more open to expressing affection, such as calling people 'baby,' which she initially found too sentimental. She also started enjoying activities like sunbathing and eating vegetables, which she previously avoided.
They address conflicts immediately, with Zong Zi often pressing Cai Cai to express her feelings right away. This approach helps them resolve issues quickly and maintain a strong, honest relationship.
One memorable moment was when they rushed to catch the last subway train after a performance, laughing and acting like children as they made it through the closing doors. This moment symbolized their playful and carefree bond.
They define their relationship as a mix of friendship, partnership, and even familial love. They often joke about being like each other's mothers, emphasizing their deep care and support for one another.
这期播客是由@友空聊聊制作,菜菜邀请了室友粽子一起录制。
这也是我们第一次从旁观者的角度收听我们如何阐述友谊。录制的过程中我们回忆了这段友谊的开篇和插曲,分享了许多私密的,真实的感受,有种把日记读给大家听的感觉。没想到最后的成品还挺可爱的。播客上线之后,我们坐在一起静静听完了,觉得莫名治愈。
所以想邀请朋友们一起听,想到被大家听到有点开心又有点害羞,感觉很奇妙。
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友谊开始的故事
02:30
菜菜让粽子生气的时刻
04:15
你的焦虑让渡给了我,你的肉麻也让渡给了我
05:00
从朋友到朝夕相处的室友
07:07
我们就是彼此的公关团队
10:30
经历节目选拔后,两人处境不同的影响
12:10
粽子:我是最希望你赢的那个人
14:31
评价对方的脱口秀表演
16:51
喜剧伙伴,只剩伙伴
19:31
怎么定义彼此的关系
22:03
菜菜:我有时候觉得我是贾宝玉,希望所有女孩子都不结婚
25:29
在彼此身上看到自己的影子
32:53
成为室友后的危机时刻
34:29
菜菜:你会担心我交到更好的朋友吗
38:48
专属两人之间的直接表达
42:48
幼稚的快乐vs成熟的顾虑
祝大家收听愉快,也希望可以在评论区听到你和你的好友的故事。