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04. 人到中年,发现友情最浪漫

2024/10/10
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我的普通女友

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菜菜:我和粽子从一起做脱口秀开始相识,到现在我们已经成为非常亲密的朋友,甚至住在一起。我们的友谊经历了很多阶段,从最初的互相帮助,到如今互相陪伴,互相支持。我们之间有很多坦诚的交流,也有一些矛盾和冲突,但这些都让我们更加了解彼此,也让我们的友谊更加牢固。虽然有时我会担心我们的友谊会因为生活中的变故而改变,但我相信只要我们彼此珍惜,这段友谊就能一直持续下去。我们之间有很多共同的回忆,也有一些只有我们才能理解的默契。我会一直珍惜这份友谊,并努力维护它。 我欣赏粽子身上很多优点,比如她很善良,很真诚,也很会照顾人。她总是能在我需要的时候给予我帮助和支持,让我感到很温暖。虽然我们性格上有很多不同,但这些不同反而让我们互相补充,让我们的友谊更加丰富多彩。 我们之间也有一些矛盾和冲突,比如我曾经因为她发错消息而生气,但她并没有察觉到我的情绪。这让我意识到,我们都需要学习更好地表达自己的感受,才能更好地维护这段友谊。 虽然我们的友谊很珍贵,但我仍然会担心它会因为各种原因而改变。我会尽力维护这段友谊,并努力让它一直持续下去。 粽子:我和菜菜从一起做脱口秀开始相识,我们经历了从陌生到熟悉,从朋友到室友的转变。在相处的过程中,我们互相影响,互相成长。我们之间有很多坦诚的交流,也有一些矛盾和冲突,但这些都让我们更加了解彼此,也让我们的友谊更加牢固。 菜菜是一个很善良,很真诚,也很会照顾人的人。她总是能在我需要的时候给予我帮助和支持,让我感到很温暖。虽然我们性格上有很多不同,但这些不同反而让我们互相补充,让我们的友谊更加丰富多彩。 我们之间也有一些矛盾和冲突,比如我曾经因为她发错消息而生气,但她并没有察觉到我的情绪。这让我意识到,我们都需要学习更好地表达自己的感受,才能更好地维护这段友谊。 虽然我们的友谊很珍贵,但我仍然会担心它会因为各种原因而改变。我会尽力维护这段友谊,并努力让它一直持续下去。 我曾经担心菜菜会交到更好的朋友,但我后来意识到,没有比她更好的朋友了。我们的友谊是独一无二的,我会一直珍惜它。

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How did Cai Cai and Zong Zi first meet?

Cai Cai and Zong Zi first met while performing at an open mic event for stand-up comedy. They have known each other for about four years and initially bonded over their shared interest in comedy.

What was Zong Zi's first impression of Cai Cai?

Zong Zi initially thought Cai Cai didn't stand out much but remembered her outfit vividly, describing it as resembling a character from 'Chibi Maruko-chan.'

Why did Cai Cai and Zong Zi decide to become roommates?

They decided to become roommates because they found it inconvenient to constantly message or call each other when they lived apart. Living together in Shanghai made it easier for them to spend time together and support each other.

How did Zong Zi describe their relationship dynamics?

Zong Zi described their relationship as being each other's 'PR team,' where they help each other craft messages and handle social interactions, especially when dealing with unfamiliar people or situations.

What impact did their participation in a comedy show have on their friendship?

Their participation in a comedy show brought them closer as they supported each other through the challenges and anxieties of the competition. Zong Zi even prayed for Cai Cai's success during the show, highlighting their deep bond.

How do Cai Cai and Zong Zi view their friendship in comparison to romantic relationships?

They believe that friendship can be just as meaningful as romantic relationships, if not more so. Cai Cai expressed a desire for all her female friends to remain unmarried, reflecting her value of deep, platonic connections over romantic ones.

What changes did Zong Zi notice in herself after living with Cai Cai?

Zong Zi became more open to expressing affection, such as calling people 'baby,' which she initially found too sentimental. She also started enjoying activities like sunbathing and eating vegetables, which she previously avoided.

How do Cai Cai and Zong Zi handle conflicts in their friendship?

They address conflicts immediately, with Zong Zi often pressing Cai Cai to express her feelings right away. This approach helps them resolve issues quickly and maintain a strong, honest relationship.

What is one of the most memorable moments in their friendship?

One memorable moment was when they rushed to catch the last subway train after a performance, laughing and acting like children as they made it through the closing doors. This moment symbolized their playful and carefree bond.

How do Cai Cai and Zong Zi define their relationship?

They define their relationship as a mix of friendship, partnership, and even familial love. They often joke about being like each other's mothers, emphasizing their deep care and support for one another.

Chapters
两位脱口秀演员菜菜和粽子分享了她们四年前在开放麦上相识的故事,以及从朋友到朝夕相处室友的转变。她们回忆了初次见面的印象,以及一些让彼此生气或开心的瞬间,展现了她们友谊的独特之处。
  • 在开放麦上相识
  • 从朋友变成室友
  • 互相影响

Shownotes Transcript

这期播客是由@友空聊聊制作,菜菜邀请了室友粽子一起录制。

这也是我们第一次从旁观者的角度收听我们如何阐述友谊。录制的过程中我们回忆了这段友谊的开篇和插曲,分享了许多私密的,真实的感受,有种把日记读给大家听的感觉。没想到最后的成品还挺可爱的。播客上线之后,我们坐在一起静静听完了,觉得莫名治愈。

所以想邀请朋友们一起听,想到被大家听到有点开心又有点害羞,感觉很奇妙。

00:30

友谊开始的故事

02:30

菜菜让粽子生气的时刻

04:15

你的焦虑让渡给了我,你的肉麻也让渡给了我

05:00

从朋友到朝夕相处的室友

07:07

我们就是彼此的公关团队

10:30

经历节目选拔后,两人处境不同的影响

12:10

粽子:我是最希望你赢的那个人

14:31

评价对方的脱口秀表演

16:51

喜剧伙伴,只剩伙伴

19:31

怎么定义彼此的关系

22:03

菜菜:我有时候觉得我是贾宝玉,希望所有女孩子都不结婚

25:29

在彼此身上看到自己的影子

32:53

成为室友后的危机时刻

34:29

菜菜:你会担心我交到更好的朋友吗

38:48

专属两人之间的直接表达

42:48

幼稚的快乐vs成熟的顾虑

祝大家收听愉快,也希望可以在评论区听到你和你的好友的故事。