Henry VIII considered marrying Anne of Cleves to secure a political alliance with Cleves, a German state with an interest in religious reform, which could help protect England from potential threats from Catholic Spain and France.
Anne of Cleves' first meeting with Henry VIII was humiliating because Henry disguised himself and approached her, expecting her to recognize him and fall in love at first sight. However, Anne did not recognize him and largely ignored him, which did not go well with Henry.
Henry VIII went through with the marriage to Anne of Cleves because England needed the political alliance with Cleves, and breaking off the marriage at that point could have caused diplomatic issues and embarrassment.
The marriage between Henry VIII and Anne of Cleves failed to be consummated because Henry claimed he could not get an erection with Anne, and he also accused her of not being a virgin. Anne was naive about the expectations of a wedding night, which added to the misunderstanding.
Anne of Cleves agreed to the annulment of her marriage to Henry VIII because she knew the risks of defying the king, having seen what happened to his previous wives. She was promised a comfortable life with money, lands, and the title of the king's sister, which she accepted.
Anne of Cleves is often considered the smartest of Henry VIII's wives because she managed to survive her marriage to Henry without losing her head or status. She agreed to the annulment, received a comfortable settlement, and maintained good relations with Henry and his children.
Anne of Cleves gets a pretty raw deal in the history books.
She's often accused of being ugly, after Henry VIII claimed the painting he had made of her was overly flattering.
While their marriage was short-lived, is it time we give Anne of Cleves, who hailed from a small state in Germany, the props she deserves?
Just who was this woman who came from relative obscurity into the madness of the Tudor court, and came out one of life's winners?
In the fourth episode of our limited series, Secret Wives of the Six Wives, Kate is joined once again by Tudor export Nicola Tallis, to help us find out more about the woman who arguably played the game of being Henry's wife better than any of the five others.
This episode was edited and produced by Stuart Beckwith. The senior producer was Charlotte Long.
All music from Epidemic Sounds/All3 Media.
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