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Ask Uncut - Second Chances, A Cousin's Flirtatious Husband and Following Problematic Accounts

2025/2/9
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Brittany: 在过去的18个月里,我一直在寻找自我,这体现在我不断变化的发型上。我们可以打扮成不同版本的我,因为我经历过很多次精神崩溃,都表现在不同的发型上。虽然我们是在开玩笑,但我确实经历过这些。我差点剪了个刘海,但上次剪了之后,有人说我像乐高人。我和劳拉现在越来越像了,因为我们花太多时间在一起,开始同化对方的穿着和习惯。我可以戴个光头帽,因为我实际上不是秃头。我要扮演被取消版本的自己。我们有两个装满奇怪东西的服装箱,马特有很多假发和女装。 Laura: 我们可以打扮成不同版本的Brittany,因为她有很多不同的版本。她经历过很多次精神崩溃,都表现在不同的发型上。我们可以打扮成不同版本的Brittany,因为她有很多不同的版本。我们可以打扮成不同版本的Brittany,因为她有很多不同的版本。

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The hosts discuss the things they learned very late in life, including how chickens reproduce and that thunder is the sound of lightning. They also share listener submissions of things they learned too late.
  • Many people learn surprisingly basic facts about animals, geography, and weather very late in life.
  • Nursery rhymes often have dark origins and meanings.

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Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deepest, darkest dilemmas.Did you have a good 'theme' for your hens? We might all be going as the different versions of Britt. There are a few to choose from!We have spoken about Laura's revelation about how chickens reproduce for the past few weeks but today we list the ridiculous things that you didn't learn until far too late. 

Vibes and unsubscribes for the week:Britt - unsubscribing from fake real estate photosKeeshia - Prof G Markets Podcast)Laura - The brand - Kinga Csilla)

Then we get into your questions!

**DO I GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE BECAUSE SHE IS?**One of my closest friends has a toxic relationship with her toddler's father. He abandoned her around the time of the birth, and for the first year of the child's life. He has a drinking problem, has cheated, has said some really vile things and even got her pregnant again while having another girlfriend on the side. As you can imagine, I've been there for all of this, and stepped in during his absence a lot. I obvs hate his guts. After being away from him for some time and getting her life back together, he has come crawling back, and now they are back on and LIVING together. I physically cannot bring myself to support this, and I feel awful because I have distanced myself entirely for months. Am I being selfish, and should I give him another chance because she is? I haven't told her how I feel but my silence and absence I think would speak volumes - and hers does too. How to handle this?

**DO I TELL MY HUSBAND MY PAST DATING LIFE INCLUDED WOMEN?**My husband and I are happily married with kids. We’ve been together for about 8 years. He’s a pretty open guy generally speaking but we are from a conservative city so I do sometimes hear comments from him and his family to suggest otherwise. I listened to your episode yesterday about talking about your past relationships. My husband has never wanted to hear about my past relationships, nor share much about him. So here’s the thing… My past few years of relationships before we got together were with women (one of which I lived with). I have no issue with my sexuality but the years of not sharing these details with him have made this into a bigger deal in my head and I feel like if he found out now, it would be a bit of a shock to him. So my question is, should I tell my husband I like pussy or leave it?

COUSIN’S HUSBAND SAYS HE HAS FEELINGS FOR MEMy cousin “Shelly” and her husband “Dean” have been together for 14 years and have 3 kids. Recently, they’ve joked about separation and divorce. My husband and I also have kids and often catch up with them. Over the past few weeks, Dean started messaging me, saying Shelly didn’t want him to talk to me but he needed to tell me something in person. I ignored him at first, thinking it was strange, but he kept insisting. I assumed he’d found out something about my husband as our relationship has also been very rocky. Today, when we caught up, Dean told me he and Shelly were essentially separated but staying together for the kids. He said he’d been unhappy for years but felt happy and comfortable around me, repeatedly complimenting me and saying he likes being around me. It was clear he has feelings for me, so I tried to shut it down, reminding him that he and Shelly have been through a lot and we are family. Should I tell Shelly what happened? I don’t want her to think I’m betraying her or have ill intentions. I feel blindsided and thrown into their drama. Our family can be intense, and if this gets out, it’ll likely cause a huge mess. I don’t want to hurt my cousin.

MY FRIEND’S BOYFRIEND FOLLOWS PROBLEMATIC ACCOUNTSMy really good friend has this boyfriend who I have been a bit wary about because of some of his political views. He follows some far right, almost conspiracy level accounts that are hectically pro trump, and other dangerous men like Ben Shapiro etc. He also follows a LOT of onlyfans girl’s accounts. Here's where it also gets a little complex- my friend is Asian and has joked about perhaps her (white) boyfriend being with her only because she is Asian and wondering if he has "yellow fever" (a derogatory term for men who like to date Asian women because of the kink of submissive behaviour). All of the women were Asian creators on his follow list. My friend doesn't have instagram so she won’t check to see who he is following. Should I tell her about his instagram account or just stay out of it?

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